Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?
Q. I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and ...
A. 23 January 2008: Most people here are really helpful and i remember one of the things that bugged my mind when i was breaking up with my girfriend was whether she wasn't leaving me for the sex but i guess your ex is sick in da head.It also helped me alot talking my ... (read in full...)
What tolerance or threshold limit one should have on his/her past?
Q. I've recently got together with a girl who had quite a past. She has been very truthful and open about them. She's had 5 ex-boyfriends before we got together. I have no problem with that for sure as I have numerous past relationships myself. However ...
A. 16 January 2008: True to the word only time can tell and all you can do right now is have some faith in her coz if not you'll create unnecessary problems between you two.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
I want her back but what if this other guy is still in the picture? The jealousy is eating me up inside, I don't know what to do.
Q. Ok, well. I dated me ex for about 2 1/2 years. We had what i would call a "perfect relationship" we had our differences but we would never argue to a point where we were outwardly upset with eachother... ya know, nothing that a hug and kiss and ...
A. 16 January 2008: A question i'm usually embarassed to answer,i'll ask you.How much are you willing to sacrifice for this relationship? How much do you love her? How many times can you forgive her? What's your limit? When can you put your foot down and say enough is ... (read in full...)
Help with my girlfriend...has she got someone else because I feel really used here!
Q. Currently in a relationship for over a year now with my girlfriend, who's 17 and I'm 20. For the whole year we've always been in touch and haven't gone a day without talking to each other. However for the last couple of months, shes been acting kind ...
A. 15 January 2008: Well before you start suspecting your woman of cheating you need to know one thing.Women usually come into a relationship with more excitement,energy and expectation but over time feelings begin to change and automatically expectations about the ... (read in full...)
Help! I can't get it 'up' for her and I don't want to lose her!
Q. Hey. I am 17 years old. Recently, I have been with a very close friend of mine, whom I have known since pretty much the beginning of high school. She is one of my best friends, we hang out all the time, and we basically talk about everything with ...
A. 15 January 2008: Nervousness,anxiety,relaxation.Ya,if you put it that way but hey if your manhood doesn't wana work don't force it.You need to work on your emotional attachment first.Maybe it knows that what you are doing isn't so right! lol. Don't be freaked out if ... (read in full...)
He want's to suddenly slow it down! What happened?
Q. i have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months and i recently met his parents and a week later he tells me that he thinks we are moving too fast and he would like us to talk it slow. He didnt really say what he meant by that or how things should ...
A. 15 January 2008: Maybe he thinks you are already thinking marraige and usually men don't like being in a position they can't escape from.He means you need to act like girlfriend and boyfriend who've been dating for 3months.For some a formal meeting of parents is a ... (read in full...)
Want to lose my virginity but uncomfortable with the way I look.
Q. i will be turning 17 in a few months. I am still a vrigin and one of the select few in my school. I kinda want to lose my virginity but i am very uncomfortable with the way i look. I feel totally disgusted wen i look in the mirrors. My friends say i ...
A. 15 January 2008: Why in such a hurry to lose your virginity? Are you in a competition of losing virginity? I see,must be your friends and you think you are weird being a virgin.Well brace yourself coz it's sure gonna hurt and let's hope da same guy you wana do it ... (read in full...)
What tolerance or threshold limit one should have on his/her past?
Q. I've recently got together with a girl who had quite a past. She has been very truthful and open about them. She's had 5 ex-boyfriends before we got together. I have no problem with that for sure as I have numerous past relationships myself. However ...
A. 15 January 2008: WOW,that's really ALOT for me.I think it bores down to the question of how much you love her.If you love her that much you'll continue with her in the hope that you can live with her past and that she's changed for the better.If it's too much for ... (read in full...)
He's in love with her but still calls me! Why does he do this?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I have long ago broke up (like a month and a half ago)..well he now has a girlfriend and he says he's in love with her...but he has call and texted me for sex while they've been together...and now he has been texting me for the ...
A. 15 January 2008: It seems and i hope you've moved on but doesn't seem like the case with your ex.Put him in his place.Either you enjoy his persuing you or you are weird.Tell him to stop and threaten to eexpose him to his gf.Tell him what limits you can tolerate and ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling hurt and used after being rejected for a second time. How could he do this to me?
Q. Hi I’m 19 and I have liked this guy at work since August. He's really good looking and a bit full of himself. He looks good but his personality sucks. Let’s say his name is John. From the first day I saw him I liked him, I was really drawn to him. ...
A. 15 January 2008: I always ask why alot of you ladies think sleeping with a man will make him love you more.Just because you like him doesn't mean you should sleep with him.It's good that you've realised what you did was unnecessary now is the time for you to pick ... (read in full...)
I love her with all my heart but I don't know if I can trust her.
Q. ive ben with my girlfriend for a few months now. i know its not very long but we know we love eachother very much. things have been going fine up untill a few days ago. shes became alil distant and quite. she says its because of work and school ...
A. 15 January 2008: It's true what they say that love's blind.There's always something in you telling you something is wrong but you keep telling it to shut up.Mistake number one.Follow your insticts.I trusted my girlfriend with every breath i have until she started ... (read in full...)
I want her back but what if this other guy is still in the picture? The jealousy is eating me up inside, I don't know what to do.
Q. Ok, well. I dated me ex for about 2 1/2 years. We had what i would call a "perfect relationship" we had our differences but we would never argue to a point where we were outwardly upset with eachother... ya know, nothing that a hug and kiss and ...
A. 15 January 2008: O dear,i really feel for you.I'm going through a very similar experience,only that in my case,i'm da1 that asked her back.You really have to be careful coz when a lady behaves in such a way,the root of the problem is that she's questioning her ... (read in full...)
Could a guy have sex with someone and totally not remember it happening the next day?
Q. Could a guy have sex with someone and totally not remember it happening the next day? My friend and her boyfriend had just moved in together, and she had her "best friend" over 1 night and the best friend and the boyfriend had been drinking a ...
A. 15 January 2008: Wow,for your sake i wish i could say that you can't remember but the sad truth is that your brain stores it and you have no choice but to remeber.
Your friend's boyfriend lied and took advantage of her kindness.I really hope her pregnancy won't be a... (read in full...)
How do I let her know how I feel? She keeps giving me mixed signals
Q. well it goes like this,theres this female that i've known for about two to three months, and im very attracted to her, i love being around her, and when im not around her i think of her. now let me tell you that she's a tom boy but she's still a ...
A. 15 January 2008: I really don't know if the previous poster was replying to your question.I'll safely assume not coz i may suspect i don't understand your question at all.
There are no two ways about it.You'll need to talk to her.Set up a date.It shouldn'... (read in full...)
B/F lives 200 miles away! But the Ex is right here,!what should I do?
Q. I broke up with my BF of 3.5 years about 5 months ago. We had a great connection, great passion, good sense of humor. . . but along the way in our relationship I would catch him in several lies. About drinking, pieces of paper with other girls ...
A. 14 January 2008: Going by my own personal experience being in a long distant relationship is the last thing i can advise anyone.Sorry to say this but most women are weak hearted and tend to question their love for their long distance partner and are ALWAYS faced ... (read in full...)
I'm scared and confused to go further - but I want to...
Q. Hiya I'm 15 years old and I'm so confused, scared about doing things with guys... The furthest I've been is him just messing about down below but over the trousers if that makes sense? I like this guy and I want to go further with him but I'm scar...
A. 14 January 2008: In most things first times are always scary and give you cold feet but you just need to tell yourself that you can do it.It's like having an injection,da 1st time freaks you out but you learn to have less fear as time goes by.You really need to ... (read in full...)
She is my friend but I want more...
Q. Hi I'm a sixteen year old boy and there is this girl I really like. The thing is I think I have became too much of a friend, what should I do to make her feel the same way about me, as I feel about her?...
A. 14 January 2008: In life i've learnt that it's much more painful to keep something inside than to voice it out.I don't know how strong you are but i hate dying quietly.You gotta come up with a strategy of telling her how you feel.She needs to be comfortable around ... (read in full...)
I just cant say no! How can I learn to stand up for myself?
Q. Hiya. This sounds incrediably stupid but I just cannot say no to anyone, I really need help on how to do this. if someone asks you out, wants to go further than you do, how do I say no? I think Im just worried about being rude and/or hurting t...
A. 14 January 2008: The 1st step to solve such problems is to avoid situations that put you in such a position.If you know being alone with a guy will lead to other things that you won't be able to refuse don't go there.I think you need to start thinking about yourself ... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 14 January 2008: You really have to be careful now.It'll be basically be your own decision.You'll have to really sit down and talk with her and understand what she's saying.However,be careful coz you may be back to square one.From my own personal experience,i would ... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 14 January 2008: You really have to be careful now.It'll be basically be your own decision.You'll have to really sit down and talk with her and understand what she's saying.However,be careful coz you may be back to square one.From my own personal experience,i would ... (read in full...)
I found there is hope for us but I must leave her alone for some time, how do I stop thinking about her and how to stay happy even if things don't work out in the end?
Q. I had a relationship that I'm trying to get back. I found that there is hope for us and i'm willing to take the chance. I know I need to try and dissappear from her for a while so she might have the time to miss me basically. That aside, my problem ...
A. 11 January 2008: Believe it alsso makes me so sick.It seems women are becoming heartless by the day.Ladies bring up unnecesary complications in their lives.One thing i've learnt from experience is that when you truly love a lady,you might end up hurt.It's like women ... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem to believe that I love him. I feel like we're falling apart! Can you help?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 15 months. I feel like we're falling apart, and it's breaking my heart. We're desperately in love, but he takes everything so much to heart, and it's making me feel I can never do anything right. I'm blaming myself for every...
A. 11 January 2008: I know how you must be feeling when you think you're giving it your all and it just doesn't seem to impress your partner.I sense a bit of emotional blackmail,trying to make you look like the bad one.A more direct approach would be to confront him ... (read in full...)
Why two condoms???
Q. me and my boyfriend have decided it's time for us to have sex,the only problem is,he wants to wear two condoms for extra safety,but i have told him that they will rub together and brake but he won't listen,how do i make him listen to me? thanks...
A. 11 January 2008: It reaally amazes me that in this day and age there are some people who think like your dude.Tell him that he won't feel anything if he uses two and you won't feel anything too(that's if he's never tried it before).A more honest and mature approach ... (read in full...)
We had sex and he declares he likes me but does not want a relationship. How is this possible?
Q. So this guy had sex with me and says he likes me, but he doesn't want to have a relationship with me... somethings not right here. Is this possible?...
A. 11 January 2008: I always ask my friends in the western hemesphere,which comes 1st,love or sex? I see alot of such complaints from ladies.Is sex a tool to make someone love you? I have often asked how long is acceptable to wait before you can sleep with a new ... (read in full...)
Why did she need to keep this from me?
Q. My fiance and I have been in a relationship with each other for three years and only got engaged a while ago. Recently she confessed to me, out of the blues, that on one occasion two years ago, she had allowed a friend of hers to fondle her ...
A. 11 January 2008: i think da reason she never told you is because she knew you'd react in this same way,disappointed and probably upset with her.She wasn't sure how you were goin to take it and probably she's scared you would leave her.Look women look at such things ... (read in full...)
The 'space' my gf wants is doing my head in...how do I cope??
Q. My girlfriend 'needs space', 'a break'. Were not living together or see each other as often due to commitments. She can't cut down hers. There is no-one else apparently and so work and stress I guess is a factor. 'Space' can be days, weeks, mont...
A. 11 January 2008: For the 1st time i'll agree with Frank B Kermit though it's not always the case.I went through a similar experience and we are back together though i know she wouldn't have gone crazy if i started seeing sum1 else but i know that in such ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me and I forgave her, but I think that she still likes him more than me. What do you think?
Q. Hello! I have been with my girlfriend over a year now and we just had a relationship crisis. She cheated on me with some guy and told me about it. A know that she is sorry and would go back in time and not do it if she could and I love her very ...
A. 11 January 2008: Sometimes i feel i'm da only one in such situations.It amazes me the rate at which women cheat.In da past,the men were cheaters but now it's hard to know who cheats more.I also took back my girlfriend after she cheated on me and had to wait for 2 ... (read in full...)
Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?
Q. I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and ...
A. 11 January 2008: Welcome to the insecurities guys also have.Most guys at your age or even younger will tend to wonder if their manhood is da right size and try and compare with others.I'm guilty of that too.What's surprising is do you know what determines the right ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is overweighted and since I think we might start having sex soon I want to be prepared, what is the most comfortable positions for us regarding he is much heavier than me??
Q. This is a bit of a strange question but something I'm curious about. Started seeing a guy. He's not massively obese but he is overweight. I don't mind that though cos he's such a lovely guy and he makes me laugh loads. We've been getting closer ...
A. 11 January 2008: Hey i'm a guy who's also a bit on the heavier side and i must confess that missionary is not all that easy for both of us.I enjoy and usually insist on woman on top though she says it causes more pain but it's more comfortable for me.So in my ... (read in full...)
I'm bitter and angry, is this normal?
Q. Is it normal for me to become bitter and angry after being hurt by someone. And hurt others because of it. I have done things to others that i would never of done before, i have hurt others in my pain. And i always end up feeling worse because i ...
A. 11 January 2008: Life is a learning journey and all these experiences make you a better person only if you'll learn from them.You'll have to learn to adjust to circumstances as they come because not every person is the same and you can't treat everyone the same ... (read in full...)
Is my being a bit overweight affecting our sex life?
Q. I need tips for girl on top sex! My boyfriend and I have been having sex for almost a year and I really want to try to shake things up in the bedroom. I know he would enjoy some sex with me on top, as would I, but every time we try we can't seem ...
A. 11 January 2008: Good luck but just don't break any bones while you are at it!
lol... (read in full...)
Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?
Q. This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...
A. 11 January 2008: In certain cultures when a boy reaches puberty,he's taken into seclusion and taught how to be a man which includes dealing with women but i know they are few if any books that will give you such guidance and coaching.Like our friends in the east ... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 11 January 2008: It's good that you are thinking like that.Don't allow your life to come to a standstill because of one person.You are worth more than what you've been offered.Look for better opportunities.
Take care.... (read in full...)
Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?
Q. This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...
A. 10 January 2008: That's a very classic excuse.If not that she'll tell you she doesn't know why she did it meanwhile deep down her heart she knows why.These women at times are so complicated and it feels like a waste of time understanding them.Don't bother finding ... (read in full...)
He's married and I have a boyfriend but this guy keeps touching my bum!
Q. Um I have two questions actually so here goes: 1. This is a bit stupid to be honest but Im going to ask it anyway, im anaemic and when I smoke (because Im an idiot like that...) I get quite dizzy, are the two connected? 2. Theres this guy a...
A. 10 January 2008: Be serious and tell him again to quit it.It seems you don't wana admit that you enjoy it too.He'll end up seducing you though i usually think it's harder to seduce a woman unless she's da 1 seducing you.
Take care.... (read in full...)
She cannot feel pleasure if she gets very lubricated? How to give her an orgasm?
Q. i cant give my girlfriend an orgasm whats going on? During sex my girlfriend gets to wet and shes stop feeling me? help me please...
A. 10 January 2008: I used to experience da same problem with my girl and it almost tore us apart.I quickly learnt how to get into other positions that are more comfortable and touch other spots.I really do understand what you are saying and i don'y agree more foreplay ... (read in full...)
Help me understand her..Does she really like me?
Q. Me and my girlfriend we've been going out for a month now. She broke up with her x-boyfriend a month ago. And soon after the two of us got drunk and ended up in bed together. Nothing happened that night, after I started kissing her, she stopped ...
A. 10 January 2008: How old are you? It seems you really believe in blinded love.You knew she's still living with her ex and yet you persued her so why does it hurt you when she goes cook for him? They've been together for four years.Do you think she can just leave him ... (read in full...)
In love with my partner but equivalently attracted by an old friend what do I do now?
Q. i am 16 and im with my first serious bf, and have been for 5 months... i love him and he makes me happy. when we first started dating it was all flames and now its more ashes. Everytime i want to mention this to him i get scared and just keep it to ...
A. 10 January 2008: It seems your feelings for your boyfriend have changed and i agree with Laura1318 that if you've tried to reignite the fire but have failed it's better you go your seperate ways and move on.It seems you are more attracted to george but feel ... (read in full...)
I'm bitter and angry, is this normal?
Q. Is it normal for me to become bitter and angry after being hurt by someone. And hurt others because of it. I have done things to others that i would never of done before, i have hurt others in my pain. And i always end up feeling worse because i ...
A. 10 January 2008: When you are hurt there's a certain anger in you and you think the only way to relieve it is to vent out at others but part of growing up is learning how to control such feelings.So please start learning how to control yourself.Talk to someone you ... (read in full...)
One month of bliss to one month of destruction
Q. Hey everyone...need some help with this... I recently met someone about 2 months ago, we quickly started dating, things were wonderful. We saw each other almost everyday, exchanged emails all day at work, he sent me flowers, said I love you, met ...
A. 10 January 2008: Looking at your age range i assume you are age mates or he's older and i must say he's really acting immature.We all go through tough times in life but you don't push away the one you love because your family's broke.That's absurd.Quite alright we ... (read in full...)
I always hurt him and lie, but he's still here...I want us to be fixed.
Q. I have been with a wonderful guy for over a year now and have been living with him for about three months now. We have a wonderful realtionship. Well we did. There were a few times I lied to him. We broke up once for a day and then got back ...
A. 10 January 2008: You sound just like my girlfriend.I wish i could slap you on behalf of your boyfriend!
You really need to look at yourself and ask yourself honestly why you do those things.If it's because of something your boyfriend's not doing or doing better talk... (read in full...)
I slept with him and now he's avoiding me, what's gone wrong?
Q. hi, i'm a 20 yr old girl and i've recently met this guy who works at my gym. we went on 1 date on boxing day, which was great fun and a couple of days later i met his mum and stayed the night. we talk for hours and had a great time and I ended up ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hey don't hit on the guy so much.Some girls also lose interest if you don't sleep with with them after a while.Yes i also agree that sleeping with him might and probably has spoilt things between you.He must have been planning on taking things ... (read in full...)
Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?
Q. This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...
A. 10 January 2008: Man you were just too much into her.I sense that maybe she was looking for something less serious than what you were offering.No matter how well you click,you always need to asses her level of commitment.Others actually cheat on this from the ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get a boyfriend?
Q. I have never had a boyfriend. Last year i asked out a guy that i liked and he said no. Ever since i have not been able to talk with boys face to face. The guy that i liked a month ago (i liked him for about a year) found out that i liked him and we ...
A. 9 January 2008: It's because you are trying too hard.Give it time,you'll soon meet someone.I also used to feel as though i'll never have a girl coz they used to turn me down.Now i have a very beautiful girl who my friends even admire.With time everything will ... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 9 January 2008: It seems like women of the 21st century are becoming more heartless by the day.How can a man stop breaking hearts when his has been broken like this? I now understand and partly support those "hit and run" kind of men because they fear such things ... (read in full...)
Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?
Q. This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...
A. 9 January 2008: This is one of the more interesting questions i've ever seen on this site and was actually waiting to see other people's response.
I've been cheated on.Have you ever asked a lady why she cheated.Most of them will say they don't know why.Let me tell... (read in full...)
I found there is hope for us but I must leave her alone for some time, how do I stop thinking about her and how to stay happy even if things don't work out in the end?
Q. I had a relationship that I'm trying to get back. I found that there is hope for us and i'm willing to take the chance. I know I need to try and dissappear from her for a while so she might have the time to miss me basically. That aside, my problem ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hey man i feel your pain.I had just been going through a similar experience with my current girl until i decided toget back with her.It's either you tell her you also need your space and frequent calls are not doing you any good or you try and win ... (read in full...)
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