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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we get along great, I love him to bits. We've been through at lot together and we have such a great connection. This is a long distance relationship though and although it can be annoying I know it won't be like that forever. Recently I've started talking to this guy in my school, and we have been getting along really well. He seems really interested and I'm not gonna lie, I'm interested too. And that's the problem, I think I might be falling for this other guy. I'm so confused, am I just interested because of the attention I'm getting that I can't get from my long distance relationship, or do I actually like this guy. It's just that me and my boyfriend are so great, why am I falling for this guy? I don't know what to do.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (28 November 2007):
It seems you are having doubts about your ability to stay faithful and this guy presents an opportunity to confirm you can't.One thing i can tell you,being in a LD relationship myself,is that it's quite normal to fall for other people but what you do about it is what matters.If you truly love your boyfriend,stay away from the other guy.Minimise your contact with him and don't spend too much time with him.Looking at your age range,i guess being in a LD relationship is a big commitment for you and maybe you are not ready for a serious relationship,depending on your level of maturity and desires in life.I suggest you give it some time and see what happens.If you can't handle it,break it off with your boyfriend and eplore other options like the guy you like.
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 You need to decide if you can handle the long distance, or if you want someone who you can spend time with now. Sometimes we meet someone who is attractive and that we get along with very well, but that doesn't mean that you have to date him, maybe you should just be his friend for now until you decide about your boyfriend who lives away. First things first! Don't be a cheater!
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