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writes:Ok lets start with this i'm 18 I love my boyfriend but its so hard not to I mean everthings like perfect in every way. Is that wierd? Its like everything I do is right! Whats up with that? I know usually the questions are about them messing up and stuff but this one is nothing like that...When I screw up its like he thinks its cute and jus goes on without even thinking about it...just like a Stepford Boyfriend or something. I want some feeling in my relationship. Sometimes I just try do something wrong is that normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (29 November 2007):
How long have you been with him?I bet you haven't been together that long.He just wants you to be happy no matter what the cost.He doesn't wana lose you.Tell him to be himself and not treat you like mother theresa.Tell him you'd love to see him shout,get upset or even slap you when you do something wrong and assure him that his being upset won't make you leave him.Try shouting at him and see his reaction.I bet he would say a million sorrys.Tell him to treat you normal and not super normal.
All the best.
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 Everyone wants the perfect relationship and to me thats boring and i see you think the same.
It sounds as if your fella can see no wrong in you and maybe this is because he doesnt want ANYTHING to come between you that may result in him losing you, when what he is actually doing is driving you away by doing what he is doing.
Not only does a relationship consist of trust, love and friendship but is should have its fair share of disagreements resulting in make up sex just to keep that spark.
I think taht by delibratly trying to do somethng wrong and him just letting it pass by will result in you resenting him.
Sit him down adn explain yur feelings towards the matter and tell him that you are not happy with the way he just lets everything slip by.
Tell him that you are not going to leave him just becasue you had a fight ove who was suppose to do the washing up etc.
Hope this helps.
Peaches
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