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writes:This is the situation. I broke up with my ex almost 2 years ago after a 7 year relationship. I cheated on her and I know I was wrong for doing so. We had been together all that time without having sex and I felt the need for intamcy. Thats a long story. I left her alone after she said she wanted to work it out and I caught her with another guy and she said she wanted to be friends. I couldn't handle that so I left. Long story short. She saw me out with another female and flipped. Going on and on about how know one can love me like she can and how she is still crazy about me. She invited me over for a massage and of course like an idiot I went. We ended up having sex. My birthday came up the next week and we went out to a gathering with some of my friends. We held hands, kissed, laughed; all the things the a couple would do. So the next night we went out again and I tried to kiss her and she said, "We are friends with benefits but not all the time...". This pissed me off to know end. Why would she just leave me alone as I did her. I was moving on and she interrupted that to offer me the same thing I walked away from. What is her deal???
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (28 November 2007):
It seems your ex has issues.She wants to move on but doesn't want to let go of you and she's easily trapped you in her web.Stop seeing the girl,for crying out loud. For all we know,she might have an STI she wana share with you.I think you never understood the friends with benefits thing when she came back into your life. Stop complicating your life and move on and stop flirting with your ex. She's not coming back.Good luck.
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reader, KeRrI117  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 i would just stop the contact even as friends she is using you and no one deserves that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Well myabe she's having trouble moving on? It's hard to say. Asking her why she is trying to get with you might help. "We are friends with benefits but not all the time..." sounds pretty flimsy to me. If I were you I would ask her what she wants 'cause if she's just going to hang around and stress you out it'll hold you back from forming a romantic relationships...good luck.
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reader, jesselover313 +, writes (28 November 2007):
hey ok my advise would to ask her if she wants to be more than friends again
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