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writes:Why has my boyfriend of 6 years never committed to me and just enjoys visiting twice/three times a week? He's not soft, he has his own flat and life. I am really fed up with the set up even though I think I love him and want some happiness exitement in my life. Reply to this Question
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (28 November 2007):
 It really sounds as if he doesn't want to commit at all, and if you do then this is a problem, and you'd be better off finding someone who wants the same thing. Also, you said you THINK you love him, in my opinion, you shouldn't have to think about love, you just know.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (28 November 2007):
Sweety open your eyes and look at reality.The guy's quite happy with what you guys have and i strongly feel he has no plans for marraige in the near future.You have two options here.On the assumption that he loves you but not sure when to commit,tell him that you think your relationship should grow to another stage and see his reaction.Second option is more painful,on the assumption he has no plans for commitment,be strong and move on.Some men have a phobia to commitment,for you sake,i hope he's not one of them.All the best.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 He does not want to marry you. If he did, he would have made his move by now. If you want more commitment, FIND SOMEONE ELSE.
He is getting from you exactly what he wants. To only see you 2-3 times a week and not live or commit to you.
Break it off with him, and date someone else.
-Frank B Kermit
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