How long do guys normally last
Q. Once you get past all foreplay etc, once intercourse has started- how long is the avg time before a guy ejaculates??...
A. 7 December 2007: It really depends and i can promise you.you won't find a specific answer.But generally,if you rarely have sex or you are doing it for the 1st time,don't be surprised if you come much earlier than you expected but the more experience you gain the ... (read in full...)
Should I let him know how I feel or will this ruin our friendship?
Q. I have been friends with a guy for approximately 15 years, when we first met we did have a little thing going but he broke it off because he didn't want to get between me and the guy I was seeing. It ended we remained quite good friends, through ...
A. 7 December 2007: "Home is where the heart is".It seems like in all the 15yrs you've known him,you've done nothing but fall in love with each other and now those feelings you've suppressed for so long have finally started going over the brim.To be honest with ... (read in full...)
I made him choose between me and the dog and he picked the dog.
Q. My husband and i recently separated, mainly because i gave him an ultimatum, me or the dog. He did choose the dogs. I miss him desperately and would consider going back, but he says that no one is more or less important to him than his dogs. I sai...
A. 7 December 2007: Your hubby's really a nut case.How can anyone choose animals over your spouse.If you hadn't written,i'd laugh that such things could never happen.I see that your husband has an inferiority complex and takes comfort in the company of dogs.However,i ... (read in full...)
I told my best friend I loved her, things havent quite been the same since, are we drifting apart?
Q. please tell me !! well i had been in love with my best friend and i told her that i love her and her responce was like i am shocked and i only believe in friendship you are my sweetest friend and love is a very complex thing so please let this ...
A. 7 December 2007: Dude you need to understand that you gave the lady a bomb she never expected and she doesn't know what to do.Atleast she's honest in telling you that she can't answer the i love you question because she doesn't wana lie to you.From my experience ... (read in full...)
Gave up everything for boyfriend and now he doesn't want to be in a relationship.
Q. I, ve been with my partner 2 years, I gave up everything to move away with him. He is a lorry driver and works long hours he said he still loves me but not enough to be in the relationship right now. He said he doesnt want to be in a relationship ...
A. 6 December 2007: You have two options here.Either you wait for him till he's ready but there's always the risk of him changing his mind.Or you can cut your losses and look to future "profits".This guy isn't decided because he has no confidence and will make you ... (read in full...)
I am totally in love with my gf but last night I slept with another girl.
Q. Hi, I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 4 months and am absolutely in love with her. However, last night I kissed another girl and stayed the night in that girls bed but it wasn't really a one night stand, im feeling attracte...
A. 6 December 2007: Be careful with the words you use.If you are totally in love with your girlfriend,why did you kiss and end up in someone's else bed? I'm sure this experience has taught you that your love for your girlfriend's not that strong.Just break up with your ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love someone too much??
Q. I feel as if i'm truly in love with my boyfriend the only problem is that im going through love trauma. I fight and throw things when i can't see him. Is it harmful to love a person too much? It's like he got something over me, it's like he likes it...
A. 6 December 2007: Even men experience such and i once asked for help here.I sometimes feel as though i'm going crazy when i don't see my girl.You need to really control yourself because that;s the only solution.You gotta do other things as well such as listening to ... (read in full...)
She initiated everything but now I feel bad because she was a virgin.
Q. I was at one of my fraternity parties, and I met a girl on the dance floor. I was incredibly drunk, so I was super-friendly. We hit it off fast, and started making out. She pulled me into a darker room, and was throwing her leg up on me, and ...
A. 6 December 2007: Stop blaming yourself too much.She was drunk and seduced you.In my opinion,she knew exactly what she was doing.No drunk girl would put a condom on a penis properly.She really wanted to have sex with you,vigin or not.So don't feel bad.So what if ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he doesn't enjoy sex... could this cause problems when we're married?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for three years, and we've started having sex just this year. I was his first, and he's mine. We intend on getting married in 2-3 years... however, he recently told me that he does not enjoy sex. he says he gets phy...
A. 6 December 2007: It's really more psychological than physical and you'll be wasting your time thinking he finds you unattractive or that you can help him by employing some of those seduction techniques suggested by others.You need to talk to him more,your listening ... (read in full...)
Could a lady feel pain or bleed if she has already broken her hymen?
Q. hello i want to ask 2 questions 1. will a lady have pain and bleedindg if she already broke her hymen? 2. is she considerd a virgin if she has no pain and bleedin during her first sex? will her hubby consider her a virgin? thanks....
A. 6 December 2007: Most men once told that your are a virgin automotically have certain expectations and are suprised even sometimes suspicious if things turn out different.So therefore your man will need some education if you don't bleed and don't seem in pain as ... (read in full...)
Do I have a problem with sex?
Q. My Penis is too small. I have had only 1 partner and when see saw my penis she said "is That It" a week later she left me because my penis is to small. I worried that i cant please a women.....
A. 6 December 2007: I've been on self therapy when it comes to that issue because i used to think i had one of the smallest penises in the world.It seems alot of guys have a BIG problem of comparing their members to others' members forgetting that women's vaginas also ... (read in full...)
How long should I be with my gf before we sleep together?
Q. i'm kinda a fish outta water when it comes to relationships, being that iv only had one, ever! which im still in, im jus wondering how long should i be with my gf before we sleep together?...
A. 6 December 2007: My personal advise is to delay it as long as you can.Why? The older you grow the more confidence you gain and that area requires alot of confidence.The most important thing is to get your partner to love you and at your age she should be your best ... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my boyfriend, but I'm going to end it as I love him to much, should I tell this friend that I also love him even though we are going to stop seeing each other/
Q. I have been cheating on my boyfriend for four months with my male friend, who is also attached. I have been thinking of ending my relationship with my friend, even though my feelings for him are extremely strong, because ultimately I don't want ...
A. 6 December 2007: How does it feel to look into your boyfriend's eyes each time and remember the sex you had with your "bestfriend"? Do you really feel comfortable being with your boyfriend after having sex with your "friend"?I want to believe that if your "friend" ... (read in full...)
Is this a mixture of love and lust??
Q. I have always loved my male friend and I deeply care about him. We have known each other for 12 years!Then, one day and out of the blue, my feelings got stronger for him and I realised I was in love with him. So I feel real love because we have bee...
A. 5 December 2007: They say good friends make good lovers.You really can't keep ignoring it and it'll bother you each time you are with him.So just let it off your chest and let him know that you no longer see him as just a friend but more and would want to bring your ... (read in full...)
My ex is stalking me but the guy I dumped him for slept with my best friend!!
Q. Argh! I don't know what to do anymore. I think i'm losing it. I'm just completely depressed. I just dumped my boyfriend for this other guy as bitchy as it sounds. And he's like stalking me! The guy i dumped him for had sex with one of my best f...
A. 5 December 2007: Sweety,you are what we call a victim of circumstances and you need to learn to look to the future for better opportunities.Avoid the stalker and stay away from the cheater.I know how you feel and if you keep being close to the cheater,he'll leave ... (read in full...)
She won't do anything more than kiss me, now--is this relationship falling apart?
Q. Me and my Gf have been going out for 4 months now and we have always been very open with each other. We decided not to have sex, so we go very close to doing it, but not all the way...our relationship has been awesome until someone told her that ...
A. 5 December 2007: Dude i understand your pain.I also have to come up with a "master plan" to get some.But the truth of the matter's that if she's being sincere,you have a great girl on your hands.For such girls i belive they should start dating when they know they'll ... (read in full...)
I can't get that physical attraction back for him...will these feelings ever return?
Q. How can I get my love life back on track and how will I know that I really want to? This seems a daft question but my partner and I split up in February and after much discussion, decided to give our relationship another chance. Since then tho...
A. 5 December 2007: I personally don't support seperations like that,they always create a drift in most cases because you begin to question your love.Don't waste what you built all those 4yrs.Spend as much time as you can with him.Look at him as a good friend,if it ... (read in full...)
Wife took me off-guard by regaling to our friends..how she made some guy's toes curl with a BJ before she met me! This pissed me off..how do I deal with this?
Q. My wife and I were out drinking with some friends, and (don't ask why, because I don't know), her one female friend asked if all guys curl their toes when they have an orgasm. I'm assuming that her husband either does or doesn't and she was curious ...
A. 5 December 2007: Seems like you are young couple and i'm not really surprised by her utterances because she's still at a stage of bragging about her sex proewess but when you are married,the only bragging you should do is about you and your hubby.Tell her you didn't ... (read in full...)
We suddenly have problems with erectile dyfunction! I'm so frustrated sexually-I am thinking of leaving him! Advice?
Q. Over the past 9 or 10 months my boyfriend of 5 years and myself have encountered a new problem in our relationship. Prior to this, our sex life was very active and strong, we never had any problems with ED or anything like that. But for some reason, ...
A. 5 December 2007: YOU ARE HORNY!!!!
Do you really love him?After all those years together are you ready to throw in the towel.Love is not only about the good times but the bad as well.If you can stick with him through these times,i'm sure your love will grow more... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a married man, but I really want to have a normal relationship, but nobody matches up to this married man, should I pursue it or give him up for good?
Q. I am in love with a man who has a partner and 2 small children. I know he feels the same way and is very unhappy with his current partner and stays for the children, but I am not sure I can live with breaking up a family. However, I just cannot get ...
A. 5 December 2007: Imagine yourself in his wife's position.He's more likely to cheat on you.He may be sleeping with other ladies apart from you and i guess you wouldn't care much as long as you have "your share"? There are no two ways about it,what you are doing is ... (read in full...)
I love to flirt on chat rooms, and send naughty pictures, but its all harmless, my husband doesn't agree, should I dump him?
Q. Could anyone tell me on whether chatrooms are addictive? Am i being fair to carry on in these if my husband has caught me sending photos of my bits to lads? Its simply nothing but harmless flirting and fun,so I enjoy sex talk. Not only that but when ...
A. 5 December 2007: You are already addicted,my sweet woman and if i met you in a chat room i would give you a lesson that would make you run quickly back to your hubby.Don't ask me what lesson?
What's more important to you,your marraige or da chat room?Imagine if he a... (read in full...)
My wife says she has never masturbated, surely this cant be true or can it?
Q. i have asked my wife to masturbate when we are making love but she told me that she has never masturbated before and that it is not her thing i dont think she is telling me the truth do the question is do all women masturbate and lie about it...
A. 5 December 2007: My girlfriend is one of the women who don't musturbate and doesn't like to do it even while having sex,so there are women who don't.It's really upto you.If you really wana see her touch herself,why don't you touch her and if she feels good,next time ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex is still in the picture, how can I make my boyfriend understand how this is hurting me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. I love him very much and Iknow he loves me, but everytime his ex girlfriend calls I get really upset and annoyed. He doesn't understand howmuch it hurts me and says they are just friends. But I ...
A. 5 December 2007: Sometimes exs remain our good friends for some of us guys but knowing where to draw the line is important.Personally i would reduce my calls if i saw that my girlfriend's not happy.So there are two possibilities.Either you learn to accept they are ... (read in full...)
I thought he fancied me, his behaviour isn't the same!
Q. Hi There. Well, there's this guy, who I thought fancied me (he used to poke, hug and annoy me and tease). He doesn't really interact with me now, like the poking and teasing. The only thing that has changed was that I had my hair cut and it ma...
A. 4 December 2007: Just continue hanging out with him and you'll see his behaviour but i think probably he doesn't like your new hair style and feels uncomfortable being around you.Just give him some time and he'll back to normal.If he's avoiding you,let him be.You ... (read in full...)
My bf has started working away and I feel lonely and now I have slept with his friend. Please help.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for over a year and im in love with him. but recenlty he's started working away and i've felt lonely and slept with his freind - i feel really guilty and don't know what to do. Please help....
A. 3 December 2007: I think you've heard the common advise.TELL HIM.What you did is wrong and you should try and seek forgiveness and the 1st step is to inform your man of what you did.If you truly love him,tell him all and promise it will never happen again.If he ... (read in full...)
Do I just forget about him?
Q. Hey, I have a problem and I really need to get it off my chest. So here goes, I met this guy about a few months ago, but he lives quite far away so I've only seen him once, for the first three weeks or so after that we were talking and texting...
A. 3 December 2007: Let time decide for you.Don't be clingy,right but don't think too much aboout him.Easier said than done,i know.If you really are so into him,why don't you tell him how you feel.Tell him you would like to meet him personally and see him more but ... (read in full...)
I NEED to know...
Q. My ex-boyfriend moved away to university recently and since he's been there he's met this girl who's seemingly very keen on him - but he's always vague as to what he thinks about her, and "doesn't know what he wants." Last night they both got ve...
A. 3 December 2007: I'm just gonna add to the many responses telling you not to bother yourself with the details.Personally,i know that as a natural instict you'd want to know and that you feel jealous.It's really pointless for you to bother your mind about this.HE'S ... (read in full...)
Should I continue talking and getting closer?
Q. I've started becoming friends with my sister's friends, and one of her best friends and I have been hanging out a lot recently without her. Recently, we got drunk and we made out and he told me that he liked me and has been eyeing me for a while. ...
A. 3 December 2007: I also feel that your sister should not be left in the dark about this. As at now ask her what her feelings are about the possibility of you dating one of her friends. If at all things get serious between you two you can tell her that things are ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to be hurt again, I want so badly to trust him 100%.
Q. This has been bothering me for quite some time and I need some help with what to do. Back at the end of July I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex over his cell phone, and basically hiding this from me. He ended talking to her on his own ...
A. 3 December 2007: It seems that your man really loves you because i've been in a similar situation before and i love my girl so much that i don't even answer some of me ex's calls. Think of the good times ahead and not the bad times of the past. It seems you are ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to approach this situation?
Q. Hi there, A few weeks ago my guy mate and I were fooling around on my bed and ended up kissing. I'd never looked at him in that way before, but I got the feeling that he liked me. Since then we have made out on several occassions but only in priv...
A. 3 December 2007: One thing is for sure, he'll never be the friend he used to be because you've fallen in love with him. 1st thing is decide which is more important to you he's friendship or intimacy. If you feel fed up with being friends and crave for more, tell ... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can still be with her?
Q. Hi! I am 27, my ex-girlfriend is 24. We were together for 2 and a half years, one year we lived together and this past year was a long-distance relationship but we met on weekends. we broke up two months ago. Throughout the time I was with my girlf...
A. 3 December 2007: She forgave you the 1st time? Does that mean you continued doing again? If so then chances are slim. Naturally women are more forgiving than men and when she gives you a second chance you better use it wisely. If you never did it again i would ... (read in full...)
Can a dildo break your hymen??
Q. Is it possible to lose your hymen with a dildo? If so, how can you tell if you've lost it? This weekend was my first time using a dildo, and I bled. I'm not sure if I a) lost my hymen b) caused my cervix to bleed c) caused some other area in there ...
A. 3 December 2007: Well i've never used one before amd my girl doesn't use it but i'm guessing it's designed in the same way as a penis.It also seems like the thought of you losing your hymen disturbs you but i guess you need to wake up to the fact that you might have ... (read in full...)
Did I lose my virginity even if it only lasted for a few seconds??
Q. OK so I'm wondering if I am a virgin or not. I hooked up with a girl, and I was drunk so I had a hard time getting an erection, anyways I got it up for a few seconds, and so I put it inside of her and penetrated her, but only for a couple seconds ...
A. 3 December 2007: The minnute you penetrate her is the minute you lose your virinity.The mere fact the you penetrated her means you did have sex.Did you penetrate her and just lie together motionless,even for those few seconds? I seriously doubt.As others have also ... (read in full...)
We have decided to just let sex happen....but how do we initiate it??
Q. Hiya, Me and my gf have been going out for just over a year and have decided we are ready for sex. We are now both 17 and have decided not to plan it as it is more likely to make her nervous and start getting scared if she knows it will be happenin...
A. 3 December 2007: Of course you'll have to wait for the house to be empty or at night and just cuddle and kiss and go with the flow.Just a tip don't rush things.When you are sure she's ready to kiss then you can begin to kiss her and move step by step but take it ... (read in full...)
How do you deal with seeing your ex in another's company?
Q. I want my ex back so much its ruining my life. He's not interested but I still like him so much. Ive been asked out by alot of other boys in the past few weeks but I only want him. It hurts so much and whats worse is that it was my fault that we ...
A. 3 December 2007: Hey Rachel don't be quick to diss the brother man.The lady has already accepted fault.Read her question again.She realised that it was her fault.So in this case,it's her loss.No wonder she's still feeling bad. Well sweety it's good you've realised... (read in full...)
He complains I snoop on his phone but I have caught him cheating with two other women.
Q. Dear Cupids, Well this has not happened once but three times. I have been dating this guy for 7 months now, he seemed to be so much into me and the relationship has been great except for one thing that I snooped in his phone while we were 3 months d...
A. 3 December 2007: You are investing,into this relationship,more than he is and you are now seeing the effects of an unbalanced relationship.You've onyl been together less than a year and he's behaving like that? What more in the next 1year? He'll be coming with girls ... (read in full...)
What makes a man choose one women over another??
Q. As a woman, it may seem strange to pose this question, but here goes. Suppose a man is torn between two women, both of whom he likes and even loves and appreciates in different ways. What would make up his decision to go for one or the other? (...
A. 3 December 2007: It's a bit complicated than you think but i'll let you in from a man's perspective. Have you ever heard of "Never leave the 1 you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love". Most of the time men choose ... (read in full...)
I'm scared but I know I'm ready.
Q. I'm 17 years old and so is my boyfriend. I'm ready to have sex with him, i'm just nervous because i'm a virgin and he isn't. What if i'm bad and don't know what to do and what if it hurts? I'm scared i suppose but i know i'm ready....
A. 3 December 2007: It seems like you are really ready,heh? Most guys at that age are excited to sleep with a virgin and may get carried away. So before you get into the act tell him this is your 1st time and ask him to be extra careful but as a man who's been there, ... (read in full...)
Do people lie about reasons for rejection??
Q. Recently i was rejected by a girl from going on a date due to the fact she had a boyfriend. However, after some searching, i found that this was a lie. It really sucks that she lied and i was wondering if this happens often e.g guys get rejected and ...
A. 3 December 2007: Don't bother your brain about finding the reason.Sometimes girls have no clear reason for ending things apart from the fact that they no longer love you and they can't tell you directly.You need to be careful next time and not rush into an affair ... (read in full...)
My new bf can't get fully erect and I can't help but feel its my fault.
Q. Hi, I need advice! My new boyfriend invited me to his uncles wedding, we had a great time! Afterwards we headed to a hotel! We were going to have sex for the first time in our relationship, so we start making out and he starts removing my clothes,...
A. 1 December 2007: I faced a similar problem when i posted my 1st question here and i felt so embarassed and dejected but my girl comforted me in telling me that she didn't love me for sex and encouraged me that all will be ok and i can safely say that things are ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my future fiance I kissed another girl??
Q. I am doing long distance with my girlfriend for 2 years. I am about to propose to her and move in together, but for the next month we will still be apart. Last week, I kissed another girl. There was absolutely no emotional connection. Should I ...
A. 1 December 2007: I really think you should tell her and show that you are truly sorry.That way,chances of forgiveness are higher.Choose a place and time that both of you are relaxed and romantic.Don't tell her when you are arguing or upset with her.The bottom line ... (read in full...)
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