Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 29 May 2007: Its normal for you to be scared about having a baby, tell me a woman who wouldnt be.
Talk to your doctor of you bfs mum about this.
Your scared you dont know what to expect.
Lots of women go on to have many babies so just think it cant be that... (read in full...)
Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 28 May 2007: from what you have been writing it sounds to me that you are sure you want to have this baby. DOnt let anyone pressure you into giving the baby up for adoption or having an abortion. You know in your mind what you want, and your decision will be ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband I KNOW he's been cheating on me?
Q. I have just found out my husband is cheating on me. I have computer eveidence so I am sure. I hurt so much. How do i tell him i know the truth?...
A. 27 May 2007: Okay if you want to sort this out now - Id ring or txt him and ask him to come home - tell him you need to talk to him and that it cant wait.
Confront him with what you know and find out why he has been cheating on you.
are you prepared to walk ... (read in full...)
Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 27 May 2007: your mum and dad may well come round - they must be in shock, i doubt they were ready to hear there little girl was having a baby!
At least you have you boyfriend and his mums support.
Im sure you will get through this and make great parents.... (read in full...)
Why am I always so nervous when it comes to pleasing my guy sexually?
Q. dear cupid, I am going out with this guy and things have become serious and i think he wants to have sex. he knows i want to wait and he respects that but he does want me to pleasure him in other ways. i want to but i get so nervous when it ...
A. 27 May 2007: You are bound to feel nervous the first time you have sex with your boyfriend.
maybe your not quite ready to take things to the next level, spend more time getting to know one another and continue to take things slowly.
You will know in your own... (read in full...)
I'm in love with an unhappy married man!
Q. I'm in love with an unhappy married man and he wants to leave his wife but she is controlling his every mood. what should i do to help him get out of that and be with me were he want to be?...
A. 27 May 2007: If he is unhappy in his marriage then he needs to walk away from it. Why is he still with his wife if he is unhappy and would rather be with you - what is stopping him? He needs to tell his wife that it is over. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband I KNOW he's been cheating on me?
Q. I have just found out my husband is cheating on me. I have computer eveidence so I am sure. I hurt so much. How do i tell him i know the truth?...
A. 27 May 2007: Sit him down and talk to him, ask him how he feels about your relationship. Explain that you have been on your computer and that you think he is cheating on you - if you are certain that he is? Maybe you both need to spend more time together to... (read in full...)
I've realised my girlfriend is very spoilt and has gotten worse in the last few months.
Q. I've realised my girlfriend is very spoilt and has gotten worse in the last few months. She takes her mum for granted a lot and she constantly asks her to buy her presents. She asks me what I have gotten her for her birthdays and christmas before...
A. 27 May 2007: It sounds as though you girlfriend is used to getting what she wants, you shouldnt feel that you have to spend a lot of money on her. She must have been doted on by her parents to be acting like this. Dont feel obliged to get her what she wants, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to wear my bikini's all the time but assures me he's not gay!
Q. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23. He wears my bikinis all the time, and even says he wants to wear them in public. He also insists he's not gay, or a cross-dresser, and that wearing bikinis is right - and that men should do it. What should I d...
A. 27 May 2007: Ive never actually seen a guy in a bikini before! Try and talk about this find out why he feels the need to wear a bikini. He's saying he is not a cross dresser but it sounds like he might be even if he wont actually label himself as one. ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with her......
Q. hi i met a girl on msn, she lives about an hour away on train, ive met her loads now and i think ive fallen in love, problem is that i dont see her that often and the longer it goes on the more painful it is not seeing her, what should i do?...
A. 27 May 2007: Talk to her and she how she feels. can you talk to one another more on the phone? long distance love is always hard to cope with but if you talk to one another and make the effort im sure it can work. ... (read in full...)
My mother caught me masturbating and now I feel soooooo ashamed!
Q. am i normal? im extremely curious and i heard some girls in my class talking about masturbating so i decided to try it, i was in the shower one day and out of curiosity i layed on my back and let the water drip onto my 'area' and i pulled back the...
A. 27 May 2007: Dont be ashamed, i can see how awkward this situation is! I dont actually see you are doing anything wrong, of course your mum is bound to be shocked walking in on you she must feel embarassed as do you! Either talk to her about it - if you feel... (read in full...)
I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father.
Q. I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father. He's so unpredictable as well as his actions. I am tired of his threats, verbal abuse, etc. He just showed up at my place of employment harassing me about our ...
A. 27 May 2007: Im not to sure on where you stand on this but if your daughter is living with you then im pretty sure that you should be recieving the benefits not your ex. You do need the restraining order against him, if not to just protect you but also your chi... (read in full...)
Any ideas on what I could buy my boyfriend for his birthday next month?
Q. My bf's birthday is really soon but I have no clue what to get him. Ive never gotten a gift for a boy so some things would help....he likes magic but many people give him stuff and I dont want to follow what everyone else gives him. please help his...
A. 27 May 2007: Men! They are so hard to buy for arent they! Depending on how much you want to spend really; Calum best aftershave is very nice and is just under £20 in superdrug or how about a new t shirt? or a cd? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is forcing me to have sex with him and it's scaring me.
Q. I am 19 year old and I have a current partner who's 36. I really like him although he's kinda pushy a little bit sexually. I told him I wasn't realy ready to have sex with him, that I could do oral and other stuff instead but yesterday he really scar...
A. 27 May 2007: If you said no and he continued or continues to try or have sex with you then yes this is rape. get out now he sounds like a bully. if you are not ready for sex then he should respect that and wait until you are. ... (read in full...)
My dad and uncle have raped me! I'd be better off dead..........
Q. im in a despreate postion my uncle and dad are not good people they rape and beat me they are drunk all day long please dont laugh this is my last hope to talk to anyone im 15 now and was 12 the first time i slept in the woods alone so i did...
A. 27 May 2007: I know its scary but you have to go to the police about this. They can contact social services. You should not be going through this. im scared for you safety. Is there anyone that you can tell and talk to about this??? a teacher or a fri... (read in full...)
How do I hint to my ex's dad that I'm not interested?
Q. I am abit worried my ex's Dad fancies me and I am not sure what to do. My ex and I split nearly 6 months ago and contact with him has petered out; my ex wanted to stay in contact but I didn't since I don't think he treated me at all well. Anyway, ...
A. 27 May 2007: It may be completely innocent, he may feel he has no one to talk to and has therefore tried to talk to you. Perhaps its coming across in the wrong way - whether intentional or not. I think you should try to be a bit more to the point with him, m... (read in full...)
My hair is falling out in clumps! What is happening to me?
Q. I'm scared, im 19 and my hair's falling out. I have been under some emotional stress lately but that part of my life has some what calmed down but my hair just seems to be falling out more and more. Whenever I touch my hair it comes away in my hand ...
A. 27 May 2007: yes it could be stress. Do you colour you hair? i know colour damages the hair and can cause it to fall out. Talk to you doctor about it, prob is stress. ... (read in full...)
Now that he finally likes me back..I'm not sure if I like him anymore! any advice?
Q. i love this guy more than life, i even did a spell to keep him when i lost him to my best friend. i no right pathetic! but it seems to have worked now this guy really likes me and is asking me back out. But now im not sure if i still love him! ...
A. 27 May 2007: What the saying...we always want what we cant have....it makes the thing/person we cant have seem all the more attractive to us!
Then when we can have that person or thing we realise we dont want it as much as we thought!
Id take a bit of time ... (read in full...)
I have a feeling if I ask her out, she'll make up an excuse! What should I do?
Q. i want to ask this girl out to somewhere such as to the cinema. she's my friend and we talk often at school, she's a great friend as she listens to my problems. but we never actually meet outside of school, we've gone out twice when we all went wit...
A. 27 May 2007: find a film you both would really enjoy then just send her a txt asking if she would like to meet up with you over the holidays and see it.
If she turns you down just let it go over your head and stay friends with her.
at least you will know you... (read in full...)
My bf was on the phone with a friend for 3 hours and I'm worried! Will he dump me for her?
Q. this is a bit of a boy question but i really want some one to help me. i am going out with a boy. lets say he is called andy. and i have a best m8 lest say she is called jen. i have been going out with andy for about 4 months now but i am worried...
A. 27 May 2007: This could just be your friends way of making you think there is something going on when there isnt so that you will end it with him.
Do u know for a fact that he was on the phone to this 'friend' of yours for 3 hours?
talk to him, tell him that... (read in full...)
A confusing love triangle! What's a girl to do?
Q. hi everyone i like this boy in my class but his best friend likes me it is a bit of a love triangle but i dont like his best friend but now his best friend does not like me no more and i have no idea why and he doesnt know i like his best friend how ...
A. 27 May 2007: Okay! So the boy you like doesnt know you like him? and the guy who liked you doesnt no longer? ok so from what i can see the boy who no longer likes you has paved the way clear for you to ask the boy you like out! Go for it see what happens. ... (read in full...)
Tip needed..on how to cope with razor burn!
Q. I like to maintain my pubic hairs, but when I shave I always get razor burn. Any suggestions?...
A. 27 May 2007: other than suggesting waxing (painful i know!), or veet bikini kit (which i think is brilliant!) just use disposable razors and im sure you can get some moisturising cream to help soothe after shaving. ... (read in full...)
He's younger than me and my friends say I shouldn't date a schoolboy! Should I listen to them?
Q. Hi There. I'm in urgent need of help. Im 21 and I'm seeing a 16 year old. He acts much older and is such a nice guy. I really love him and want this to last. We made love and it felt amazing. I though I might be pregnant and he told me he'd stan...
A. 27 May 2007: if the genders were revesered then no one would be saying a thing about it! Dont worry about what your friends are thinking or saying maybe if they got to know him and see how mature he is for his age they might change their opinions. ... (read in full...)
15 and pregnant... how do I tell my mom?
Q. hi. i am 15 i have found out 3 weeks ago that i am pregnant i have onlii had sex twice and we have used protection both times but i have managed to get pregnant i have told my child studies teacher at school because she is realli easii to talk to ...
A. 27 May 2007: You have decided that you want to keep your baby, at least you know in your head what you want.
Talk to your mum and tell her about this. Dont let her pressurise you into doing anything you dont want to do though.
Explain you want to keep the... (read in full...)
We're going on a party camp out..and my bf wants to have sex with me! Should I let him?
Q. Hii. Well next friday I have a party and me, my boyfriend, my best girl friend and maybe her boyfriend and my best boy mate are planning to camp out. As we are typical teenagers we will obviously want booze and we want to have a good laugh. My boyfr...
A. 27 May 2007: i think you are still very young and you have plenty of time to be out there having sex.
dont rush into anything, this relationship sounds very on and off at the moment. take things slowly make sure that this boy is the one you want you first time... (read in full...)
First time sex with my bf hurt real bad! Was this normal?
Q. I am a 20 year old girl and me and my boyfriend tried to have sex yesterday for the first time (I was a virgin, he wasn't) and it really hurt and I had to tell him to stop. Now I feel bad that I had to stop him and I'm scared something is wrong with ...
A. 27 May 2007: Yes its normal. you were probably tense as well with it being your first time. Take your time slowly and make sure he is gentle with you. ... (read in full...)
I am literally crazy about her--how do I let her know how I feel?
Q. ok i'm kinda stuck. lets put you in the situation. if you really really really liked a girl and you would try and talk to her so much because it makes you happy. your dream is to go out with her but you cannot because it's not as easy! this girl i s...
A. 27 May 2007: You sound like you really like this girl.
Why dont you talk to her on the phone (if u find it easier than face to face). Just tell her that you really like her and find out if you could be more than friends. If she doesnt want to be more than... (read in full...)
I really like her...how do I get an invite to her birthday?
Q. there's this girl who i fancy. she's my friend. the problem is she doesnt know. it's her birthday in a few days. i want to be invited. if i'm not invited i just wont be able to take it. i know this may sound stupid and weak but it will kill me ...
A. 27 May 2007: If she doesn't invite you - try not to take it to heart - it might be she doesnt want a Big party and a lot of fuss.
Why dont u tell her that you really like her...if she feels the same then great and if not just be friends with her.
... (read in full...)
Found a small painful lump on my armpit. What could it be?
Q. hi ive recently been having a pain under my arm that started like 2 days ago and ive just found a lump in my armpit. its small but painful if i press it. what could this be? i cant get a doctors appointment before i go on holiday in 2 days time and ...
A. 27 May 2007: Go and see a doctor as soon as you can.
It might be harmless however its best to get it checked out as soon as you can.
put your mind at rest.
... (read in full...)
Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 27 May 2007: Okay - you really need to tell you parents. They are going to be upset/mad of course they will you are there little girl and this is going to be a great shock to them. But you can't go through this alone.
Go and see a doctor as well they can help... (read in full...)
I feel used! Had sex with me but wants to date other females! what's wrong with me?
Q. i have slept with one of my mates from uni four times and have fallen for him. i thought he liked me because all the signs were there but he kissed someone infront of me the other night and keeps saying things like "i could shag her" (about other ...
A. 27 May 2007: There is nothing wrong with you at all.
Maybe this guy sees you more as a mate than anything else.
Can you not talk to him - tell him you feel used?... (read in full...)
Should girls ask guys out on a date?
Q. Is it all right for a girl to ask a guy out, or is it only supposed to be the guys who do the asking?...
A. 27 May 2007: If we waited around to be asked out by a guy - we could be waiting a lifetime!
Times have changed and i think it is okay to ask a guy out now. :)
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Fallen out with another girl in college...
Q. Hi about 4 weeks ago I fell out with a girl in college. I told her how she made me feel because in truth I felt intimidated by her. She looks down at people and talks in big posh words. I thought it would be honest to tell her how I felt and how ...
A. 27 May 2007: This girl is the one who has the problem, she is being immature. I think she is mentally bullying you.
She must have real issues to be acting the way that she is.
If you can't move classes can you not talk to the tutor and explain that you are ... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't pay much attention to me anymore! What should I do?
Q. I feel so sad lately. Me and my girlfriend both still live with our parents, so we only see each other like every other weekend. She says she loves me and I love her too. But she doesn't french me anymore, and everytime she comes over she just ...
A. 27 May 2007: spend some time together without being near a computer or tv - have a talk about how you both feel and where you think your relationship is going. ... (read in full...)
Need advice for bristley pubes! Any tips?
Q. hi, A couple of months ago I shaved my pubes (I know stupid idea!) and now they have grown back horrible and stubbley. My boyfriend wants to touch me down there but im so embarrassed about my briskly pubes. Does anyone know how i can solv...
A. 26 May 2007: hiya either shaving every day - also i just found the brilliant product by veet its a bikini hair removal which carefully done works a treat!... (read in full...)
I'm 14, pregnant, beaten and kicked out of home by my mom!
Q. hey, i have a real problem.. im just 14 and i was with this guy for a year then i found out i was pregnant and after 3weeks i told him, he dumped me and said he hated me, 2months later i told my parents, my mom kicked me out so i live with my dad ...
A. 26 May 2007: You need to tell your dad what he has been doing to you, he could take it too far and hurt both you and the baby. Dont worry about him denying the fact that he is the father - a dna test can prove he is when the baby is born. His mother is probab... (read in full...)
I'm 18, virgin, and furious!
Q. Hi, I'm quite a pathetic case really. I'm 18 and still a virgin. Being a bloke its not something that i've admitted - I even spun my best mates off with bullshit stories about how i got layed. I hate myself for it. I don't understand why t...
A. 26 May 2007: It will be all the more special if its with the right girl.
Most guys do exactly as you are bragging about sexual conquests when they themselves are virgins.
there is nothing wrong with being a virgin and 18 is still very young.
dont be so keen t... (read in full...)
Is there still hope for me after I had sex with him on our first date?
Q. is there still hope for me?.. i made a stupid commen mistake and i had sex on the 1st date and made it easy for him. i really like this guy but i don't know what to do.. most days he will call me and usually it's very rare if he doesn't call lik...
A. 26 May 2007: arrange to go out and dont have sex, just see how things go.
get to know him better and let him get to know you.
Just do what feels right.
Dont keep rushing into the sexual side of the relationship
hope this helps... (read in full...)
She told my mate on msn she loved me--so why didn't she just tell me?
Q. Hiya there been a development i fill you in on the details, A few days ago my mate on msn said that he had spoken to my ex-girlfreind on msn and she told him that she loves me this was about 2 weeks ago, so why not tell me this,since them about...
A. 26 May 2007: perhaps she knew that by telling your mate that your mate would pass this on to you. it might have been her way of telling you how she feels.
If she was/is hoping to get back with you im sure she will make contact and you can both talk it over... (read in full...)
My gf's past much-older lover used her! It bother me, knowing that. How do Iet this go?
Q. After seeing each other for a week, I asked my girlfriend to tell me everything about her past, as did I. Turns out we were both molested as children, and felt out of place growing up. Then she told me about her sexual partners. Her first was 37, ...
A. 26 May 2007: This is in your girlfriends past, and she cant undo what has already happened.
Your probably fixating on this because she was your first, and you would have liked to have been hers.
Stop thinking about this try and let it go - or risk losing h... (read in full...)
Neighbor is wanting to call the police as his kid looked in our window, and saw us having sex! I think you should be able to do what you want in your own home! Any views?
Q. My neighbour has threatened to call the police as his 11 year old son saw my partner and I having sex in our living room. he also says it is illegal to walk around naked. The boy must have been in our back garden looking in the window so surley h...
A. 26 May 2007: Abby,
dont worry about this.
you were in the privacy of your own home and you hardly expect your neighbours kids to be in your garden, let alone looking through your windows!
Your neighbour sounds like the one who has the problem! his chi... (read in full...)
Im circumcised and have this odd bruise, 2 months later another appeared under the scar any advice ?
Q. hey im circumsised and within the last year something weird is happened on my forskin i got a odd probaly 1cm by 1cm brown dot on it (like a bruise) and so i left it thinking it was a bruise it didnt go away then like 2 months later i noticed ...
A. 26 May 2007: please go and see your doctor.
you do need to get this checked out.
Dont be embarassed thats what the docs are there for. ... (read in full...)
I feel like it may be "too soon" to love again...
Q. Four years ago I was engaged to be married to a woman who I thought loved me. A month before our wedding, she broke off our relationship, and cleaned me out, she stole money from me, took all my furniture and appliances, pretty much everything that ...
A. 26 May 2007: i agree with your girlfriend that you should cut all ties with your ex.
to do what she did to you shows she is cruel and greedy.
you sound like you love your new girlfriend, your ex probably destroyed your trust. Take things slow, forget about yo... (read in full...)
I get the feeling he's only using me for sex...
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 8weeks now and i get the impression he is only using me for sex he says he isnt but thats not the impression i am getting. he wakes me up touching me and everytime that we go out he always touches me in my private ...
A. 26 May 2007: Test this guy. IF he is using you for sex - is that really the kind of guy you want to be with?
8 weeks isnt a long time - tell him you want to slow things down get to know each other better without having sex all the time.
If he likes/lo... (read in full...)
Is there still hope for me after I had sex with him on our first date?
Q. is there still hope for me?.. i made a stupid commen mistake and i had sex on the 1st date and made it easy for him. i really like this guy but i don't know what to do.. most days he will call me and usually it's very rare if he doesn't call lik...
A. 26 May 2007: No i dont think its too late!
Ring him and ask him out - arrange to go for a meal and have a chat. See how things go without having sex.
he might really like you and feel exactly the same as you are!... (read in full...)
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