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i'm a girl. age 11, i have the sexiest boyfriend ever!!! he's been my boyfriend off and on for about 2 years going on 3. i like to try and help people with their relationship probloms, but mostly i need the help. my worst habbit is kracking my nuckles! i live in the United States (in Florida.)

Does this all sound like hes too good for me ?

Q.   ok i told my bf that he wuz too good for me cuz he wud do anything to make me happy he said that if it wud make me happy he wud let me cheat on him and he wud try not to say anything about it, he treats me so much better then i treat him but i don't ...

A.   10 June 2007: thanx and i do luv him!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

Q.   ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...

A.   3 June 2007: ok does anyone here think i shud get an abortion or give my child up 4 adoption when its born?... (read in full...)

Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

Q.   ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...

A.   29 May 2007: ok eyeswideopen wut is the least of my probloms sence u no everything?... (read in full...)

Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

Q.   ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...

A.   29 May 2007: stina, 4 weeks iz a month and wut i ment to type or say whatever wuz that i found out that me and my bf want a girl and he never told me wut sex he wanted the baby to be but if the baby iz a boy then thats ok too cuz my bf can have someone to go ... (read in full...)

Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

Q.   ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...

A.   29 May 2007: ok so im 4 weeks pregnant and i found out the baby iz a girl but im really scare about haveing the baby cuz i don't want a guy looking at me down there, what if the baby dies at birth, what if i die when the babys born cuz that happens to some ... (read in full...)

This is a question for the girls only!

Q.   GIRLS ONLY-NO GUYS READ THIS PLEZ!! OK is it normal for a girl my age to have a bushy/hairy pussy and bigger boobs then girls older then me. my bf told me that if his _____ gets bushy er whatever then hes somehow ganna sh...

A.   28 May 2007: thanx ya'll really helped i feel alot better. all of u is right everyone does develope faster then other girls. my friend she is 1 year older then me and me and my bf pick on her about being a boy cuz shes flat chested and when he picks on her she ... (read in full...)

Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

Q.   ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...

A.   28 May 2007: but to have an abortion thats just wrong it's killing human life and to think that if i give my baby up for adoption think about when the baby is around the age 9-10 or something around that and he/she asks "where/who is my mom" if he/she does get ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong at the age of 22 to have the desire to have a baby and get married?

Q.   Is it wrong at the age of 22 to have the desire to have a baby and get married? I'm not with anyone at the moment, and I know that I need to get a better job and a house, but the feeling has been overwhelming me lately, and I don't know if I'm wrong ...

A.   28 May 2007: its not wrong to want to get married or have a baby im mean ur an adult age 22 but i think u might need to find some 1 u really want to spend the rest of ur life with hope this helped... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and pregnant but don't know if I want this baby... I'm not ready to have kids yet.

Q.   Hey, so im 6 month pregnant and getting a ban on my ex for abusing me, i feel real bad as if IM in the wrong for him abusing me? but as many people said he was putting my baby in danger, im thinking about letting him come to the next scan with me ...

A.   28 May 2007: look u probley won't make a great mom nobodys perfect and inless ur ex has changed some how and wants to see, be apart of, and wants to help u and the babys life then u shud let him come to the next scan but to have an abortion or give it up thats ... (read in full...)

Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

Q.   ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...

A.   27 May 2007: ok im ganna stay at my bfs house and live with him, his mom, also his little sister. when we went to the doctor she said the baby wuz fine but im scare about being a parent. my bfs mom said she'll take as much time off from work as she can to help ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is trying to steal my bloke! I don't want to fall out with her so what do I do?

Q.   Hi! I really need some help with this, so I'm going to do my best to keep everything straight so you don't get confused...lol Ok, so I have this best friend, we've been friends since preschool, and we're both now 27. I'll just call her J. Ok, ...

A.   27 May 2007: she is soooooo NOT ur friend if she has sex with UR bf then she ain't ur friend and she might be jealus cuz ur bf is with u and not her and she might not like that a good-looking guy (i'm just guessing) is not with her!!... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is trying to steal my bloke! I don't want to fall out with her so what do I do?

Q.   Hi! I really need some help with this, so I'm going to do my best to keep everything straight so you don't get confused...lol Ok, so I have this best friend, we've been friends since preschool, and we're both now 27. I'll just call her J. Ok, ...

A.   27 May 2007: ok well it seems to me that she just wants u to stop talking to him and everything so she can find a way to talk to him cuz shes jealus of u and him she probley does like him and she doesn't want ya'll to go out (ya'll be bf/gf) cuz she likes him.... (read in full...)

Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

Q.   ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...

A.   27 May 2007: oh and my boyfriend, the only reason he didn't use protection wuz cuz he had all his condoms in his wallet and he had lost it at the creek over the week-end! thanx, i told my mom and dad so they kicked me out of the house, so i walked to my bo... (read in full...)

Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

Q.   ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...

A.   27 May 2007: ok but i don't want an abortion and i don't want to give the baby up 4 adoption when it comes-thats just wrong i don't care about the age its just wrong for people to do that but i no people that do that are just trying to do whats right! thanx... (read in full...)

I cheated on her. Should I come clean before we get married?

Q.   My fiancé and I have been together for about 13 months. 6 months ago we separated for a few days and I slept with three different woman trying to ease my suffering at the time. one of them was my ex who was always a worry of hers, one random stray ...

A.   26 May 2007: actually this might not help cuz im just like 11 yrz. old but i personally think that u shud tell her cuz if u don't then it will be a big secret and it will "hang over" u 4 like as long as u don't tell her but if u do tell her then don't be ... (read in full...)

Someone told my mom I was talking about sex - now my mom calls me deragatory names! Can she stop me from seeing my bf?

Q.   this might not be a relationship, sex, or love question, but i need some advice! I HATE MY MOTHER!!! Okay so i was talking to someone and an adult went and said we were talking about sex and then that person told my mom. Now my mom is all the time...

A.   23 May 2007: also i've been with him for 2 1/2 years going on 3 years. and i no ya'll r trying to help but i WON'T stop seeing my bf just cuz she said, i don't think she can do that-it's not right!!... (read in full...)

Someone told my mom I was talking about sex - now my mom calls me deragatory names! Can she stop me from seeing my bf?

Q.   this might not be a relationship, sex, or love question, but i need some advice! I HATE MY MOTHER!!! Okay so i was talking to someone and an adult went and said we were talking about sex and then that person told my mom. Now my mom is all the time...

A.   23 May 2007: my bf is 12 i'm 11 and i can't talk about personal stuff to any adults cuz it makes me feel so weird i just can't stand it!... (read in full...)

My bf is racist! Should I tell him about the boy on the bus that kissed my hand?

Q.   okay so im not racest but my boyfriend don't like black people that much cuz of how they act and he don't like whites and blacks going out cuz he don't think its right, me and him fought about that for about a week and i still don't care about white ...

A.   22 May 2007: but wut if he don't grow out of the racizim thing. ok i no it seems like he wants to "win me" but he said that he ain't ganna fight for me anymore!... (read in full...)

My bf is racist! Should I tell him about the boy on the bus that kissed my hand?

Q.   okay so im not racest but my boyfriend don't like black people that much cuz of how they act and he don't like whites and blacks going out cuz he don't think its right, me and him fought about that for about a week and i still don't care about white ...

A.   20 May 2007: ok but i love him and he loves me i'll bet you anything on that and to tell you the truth i can't keep nothing from him, i've never felt this way about anyone i've went out with i've always been able to lie too all the other guys-except him. Plez ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my cousin, should I tell her?

Q.   hello agony aunts i have had a crush for my cousin for more than 2 years now and they are not going away, my problem now is that i have been dreaming about her and she is also going around my head 24/7, is this normal, as i have asked once but g...

A.   17 March 2007: If you think she likes you now then ask her out but don't get your hopes up because if she does say no then you won't be that sad/depressed -Good Luck!!!... (read in full...)

My partner had an affair, we have 3 kids together and I just can't get over it, I feel his mom planned it all.

Q.   My boyfriend had an affair a year ago..We have just started our 9th yr together and have 3 beautiful children.To say i was shocked and devestated would be an understatement. The woman he was with was an ex..she stayed best buds with his mom. I never ...

A.   24 February 2007: you might eather want to tell him how you feel or if you really don't want to go out with him anymore then just dump him.... (read in full...)

I bled for 3 days after losing my virginity, is this normal?

Q.   well i am 17 and last week i lost my virginity to a guy i knew 2 days!! i dont regret it one bit! the problem is i bled for like 3 days straight and then started my periods 2 days later is this unusual?? also he cant make me cum.. he can play with...

A.   24 February 2007: to tell you the truth i have no clue if tthis is normal, you might want to talk to an adult maybe your mom or dad. you might need to go to a doctor or something... (read in full...)

Should I call him and just be single so I don't keep making him mad?

Q.   hey, again. i'm the one that loved my boyfriend but liked two other guys. well anyway theres this new kid at school and me and him flirt well today at luch i was sitting with my boyfriend and the new kid past our table and he smiled and shook hi...

A.   23 February 2007: i am 11 years old ... (read in full...)

My girlfirend is pregnant and I want to support her but the kid's not mines.

Q.   I'm Dateing a 16 year old and things r going from worse to worse when i met this girl start of febuary she was sexy smart and good looking everything went well first date went to the movies had a good time after the date we kissed on sunday...

A.   19 February 2007: You just need to get her to take a test to make sure that she's pregnant and if she is pregnant and you really care about her then tell her that you want to help her out and if she doesn't want to be your gfthen tell her you would like to be ... (read in full...)

My wife died..and I want to get close to her twin. Would my wife have wanted this?

Q.   my wife passed away i want to get close to her twin would my wife want us to be happy...

A.   17 February 2007: if you would be happy with her then i think that your wife that past would be happy.... (read in full...)

I believe I still love him, I'm just not IN love with him any more.

Q.   Do I still love him? My husband was in a severe depression for the last 5 years. Then last May I told him I wanted to separate and he promised he would change back to the man I married. He has been trying severely and doing everything I asked, ...

A.   17 February 2007: just tell him how you feel and tell him you want to seperate if he can't except that then oh well!... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my cousin, should I tell her?

Q.   hello agony aunts i have had a crush for my cousin for more than 2 years now and they are not going away, my problem now is that i have been dreaming about her and she is also going around my head 24/7, is this normal, as i have asked once but g...

A.   17 February 2007: no offence but why the hell do you have a CRUSH on your COUSIN? now look thats kinda nasty to like your cousin but if you really like her then go for it if she turns you down again then just try to find someone else to like or love for that matter.... (read in full...)

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