He sexually abused me and I can't get it out of my head.
Q. im 14, a year ago my boy friend sexualy abused me, he didnt have sex with me, he stalked me. sent me texts, asking me to do things, asking me to send pictures, he even sent me porn...of him. It was a monday and i had chemistry, he cornered me i...
A. 29 May 2007: Im always here if you want to talk to me, send me a private msg if you need me. ... (read in full...)
My wife says she loves me like a brother and it's tearing me apart.
Q. What is wrong with my wife? I love my wife very much. I love her as a person and adore her physically. I am very warm and affectionate to her. However, I do not feel that physical bond towards me. She says she loves me but so does more so like a b...
A. 29 May 2007: I think that having been together for 8 years (a long time) she has just got used to you being there for her and is now taking you for granted (although maybe unintentional).
You clearly still love your wife so try to help her re discover... (read in full...)
I asked her out and she said she'd tell me the next day. It this her way of politely saying no?
Q. i asked out this girl i really like to go catch a movie with me. she asked me questions about when i wanna go, and if we're goin alone etc. she said she'll tell me the next day coz she might be busy. i cant help think that's a excuse or nice ...
A. 29 May 2007: See if she replies to you, dont ask her again. She knows you like her now so the rest is up to her.
:)... (read in full...)
I've never had a boy like me so I don't know the signs, do you think he likes me?
Q. well there is this guy that i really admire!! he is really nice and funny and good looking. there is a local club that we go to. me and a few friends go in and have a chat and chill out. this guy is always in the club and he always sits alone. he ...
A. 29 May 2007: I think that this guy really likes you, it sounds like he is shy and lacks confidence.
Make the first move when he is looking at you wanting you to go over and chat - do it!
Good luck
xx... (read in full...)
Can you love someone as a friend?
Q. can you love someone as a friend???...
A. 29 May 2007: Yes you can love someone as a friend, i love all my friends!
Its not the same kind of love you would feel towards a boyfriend or girlfriend though its similar! more like you feel towards relatives. ... (read in full...)
He sexually abused me and I can't get it out of my head.
Q. im 14, a year ago my boy friend sexualy abused me, he didnt have sex with me, he stalked me. sent me texts, asking me to do things, asking me to send pictures, he even sent me porn...of him. It was a monday and i had chemistry, he cornered me i...
A. 29 May 2007: Well done for having the courage to talk about this.
I think that you need to tell you parents about this (if they dont already know), dont let the matter drop find the strength to deal with this.
He has wrecked you confidence but i am sure you ... (read in full...)
I'm so nervous about asking him out, any tips?
Q. Hello. I am 16 years old and I am female. I was hoping somebody here could offer me some advice. I have known a male friend for over 6 years now, and I want to ask him out. He asked me out when we were 13, but I didn't feel ready for a relatio...
A. 29 May 2007: You already know that he likes you - he has asked you out before.
Give him a call and ask him if he would like to go out somewhere with you.
Just tell him that when he asked you out before you were a lot younger and just didnt feel ready.
xxx... (read in full...)
Is my weight normal for my age and height?
Q. Hi I'm 14 and 5 foot 5 and weigh about between 9 and 10 stone throughout the day and 10 stone when ive just weighed myself now is this normal? but thats probably because its the end of the day and ive eaten more. I would like to loose weight i have ...
A. 29 May 2007: At 14 you dont need or want to be dieting, your weight sounds okay for your height and age to me.
I know that carbs can make you feel bloated, dont go doing any crazy diets just cut back on the amount of junk food you might eat. ... (read in full...)
His gift is too big for me, what can I do???
Q. My boyfriend just bought me a beautiful Gucci belt to go with a bag i recently bought... the only problem is that it's too big for me !! He doesn't have as much money s i do so i know he must have had to save for it. I don't want to hurt him by ...
A. 29 May 2007: can u not put another hole in the belt to make it go round better?
if not then you will have to just tell him as much as you love the belt its too big!
:D... (read in full...)
How can I make my girlfriend feel more confident about herself?
Q. me and my gf have been together for a year and 2months now. We have known each other all our lives and have always been close friends. We started having sex about 7 months now but when we do she will never take her bra off, sometimes she doesnt like ...
A. 29 May 2007: Just reassure her that she is beautiful and that you wouldnt change anything about her.
take it slow, try turning off the lights and build up to it gradually.
just take it slow and dont push her too much. ... (read in full...)
What can I do to ask my crush out? Should I take the initiative here or what?
Q. Ok my crush knows I like him and I think he hates me, my friends say he dosent but I dont know what to do. should i forget about him or see if he asks me out or whatever? ...
A. 29 May 2007: You could wait forever for him to ask you out.
I think you should get him on his own and tell him that you like him, at least he will know and you will no once and for all if he feels the same way. ... (read in full...)
Should the man have more rights than a woman in a relationship?
Q. is it fair when a guy gives him self more rights than a girl as to be more controlling or to give him self the privlige to do things that he would not allow his girlfriend to do?...
A. 29 May 2007: Maybe back in the olden days!
No you should both have equal rights. ... (read in full...)
How long after intercourse is it most accurate to use a pregnancy test?
Q. How long after intercourse is it most accurate to use a pregnancy test? and if abortion is an option... how long do u have to decide before it is too late?...
A. 28 May 2007: An abortion has to be done within the first 3 months after that it becomes illegal to abort the baby.
Every pregnancy test kit is different some are within the first 3 days (new ones) and some take a few weeks. Best to ask pharmasist for advi... (read in full...)
How can I get my wife to feel more sexually attracted to me?
Q. my wife has told me she does not feel sexualy attracted to me anymore how can we get over this?...
A. 28 May 2007: Maybe you both need to spend some quality time together, take her out like you did before you married and re discover the sexual spark.
Im sure you can work through this and be happy. ... (read in full...)
The guy I cared about is now married to someone else...
Q. The guy I cared about is now married to someone else, I knew that I was never going to marry him. I am linked to him on a professional basis and only contact him when absolutely necessary and that's by e-mail. The first time we saw each other face ...
A. 28 May 2007: i think he is trying to make a point that he is a married man, why he feels he needs to flaunt this in your face is beyond me.
He knows you liked him i think he is trying to be cruel. You need to move on forget about him and find your own happ... (read in full...)
He said ASKING him to make love to me is a turn off...
Q. I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. When I want to make love, I usually tell him in words. He tells me now that this is a turn off for him and that I should just start kissing him or something but the whole reason I don't do that is because ...
A. 28 May 2007: If he is rejecting you when you make a move non verbally then i think there is something not quite right here.
He is encouraging you to make a move rather than ask and then knocking you back when you do.
Maybe its time to move on. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never gets any "strange" phone calls, should I be worried?
Q. my b/f doesnt get any strange phone calls. Usually if his phone rings, i can tell who he is talking to. And he doesnt keep any girls names in his phone either. Should i possibly believe he is forwarding some calls to another number? He rarel...
A. 28 May 2007: I dont think you have anything to worry about, it seems a bit extreme that he would be doing this.
Have you been hurt in the past to make you think and feel like this?
I dont think you have to worry. ... (read in full...)
General Flirting or Interested?
Q. General Flirting or Interested? I am confused about a work colleague who is showing classic flirting signals which I am very flattered about as I am attracted to him. However, he is quite a flirty person in general so am I reading too much...
A. 28 May 2007: It sounds like he is interested in you, however he may be a flirt with everyone and simply be doing the same towards you.
Ask him if is likes you.... (read in full...)
I cheated on him and he dumped me, how can I stop loving him?
Q. Ok sorry if this is kinda long I cheated on my bf 10 months ago, and he dumped me as soon as i told him. we had been going out for 8 months and he was the love of my life! We had so many good memories and good times and things i know that both o...
A. 28 May 2007: You made a stupid mistake and you realised what you did was wrong, by telling him what happened shows you loved him because you couldnt lie to him.
Talk to him and tell him that what happened was a huge mistake and that you realised this befo... (read in full...)
Is there anything anyone can advise doing to get the spark back into our relationship and make us become closer?
Q. ive been dating my boyfrend over a year now, and at first everyhing was fine. we got on well, the sex was great and we always had a laugh. we were so close, with each other all of the time and seemed to trust each other loads. now everything has ...
A. 28 May 2007: If there are trust issues and he is unable to overcome them then there is little hope of your relationship working.
Perhaps you both need to talk things through, explain that you love him and that he can trust you - that you have no interest... (read in full...)
Cheating on my bulimic depressed wife! I want to move on but I miss my children! What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am stuck. I have a bulimic, depressed wife of 13 years and 4 kids under 12. I have wanted to leave her badly as I have become so frustrated over the years, but the kids and her need me. Now I have slipped into another relationship with a ...
A. 28 May 2007: Your wife needs help with her depression.
I can understand how tough this must be for you, your kids and your wife all need you.
Can you not try to make things work with your marriage?
There is no easy way to leave.
Try and talk things thro... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of this hair around my belly button?
Q. I have a hairy belly and I'm a girl. it's not extremely hairy, it's like every other girl, but because I'm Asian and have black hair you can see the hair. It looks really terrible. I love wearing short tops that show my belly but I can't because ...
A. 28 May 2007: Try veet hair removal gels they work brilliant on legs and underarms, or try using a razor and gently shave it ... (read in full...)
How do you pick yourself up after the rejection of being left for another woman?
Q. How do you pick yourself up after the rejection of being left for another woman when you actually havent done anything wrong but because the other woman is having his baby? Why do i feel like it was all my fault and i should have been a better ...
A. 28 May 2007: He was the one that was unfaithful, you are so much better off without someone who could do that to you.
Try to move on with your life, im sure you will meet someone new who will treat you better. ... (read in full...)
When I masturbate it's absolute agony, can any of the agony uncles help here?
Q. Hi guys. I have an embarrassing question coming up and i'm hoping some of the guys may be able to help me out. A little while ago, I wasn't able to pull my foreskin over the head of my penis while erect, then after research I found out that s...
A. 28 May 2007: Be gentle and it might not be so painful - and dont pull the skin up (why r u!).
... (read in full...)
How do you ask your boyfriend to use viagra or some other drug, without humiliating him?
Q. How do you ask your boyfriend to use viagra or some other drug, without humiliating him? My bf is the nicest, sweetest guy but his erection is not that hard, it just kinda flops back against his abdomen instead of 'standing to attention' (for want ...
A. 28 May 2007: Try telling him that you would love to experiment with viagra, make out a friend was telling you how good it was!
The only problem you might then have is he might feel he cant perform without popping a pill. ... (read in full...)
He said it's his work that's stopping him from seeing me so much but now he won't let me come round to his house. What's going on?
Q. Dear Cupid, me and my bf have been going out for two years, one year after we started dating he got promoted to the post of manager. since then he's just changed he doesn't come to see me anymore, and he just keeps making excuses ...
A. 28 May 2007: Forget about him and move on. He isnt worth your time. ... (read in full...)
We both have problems with the age difference but we can't seem to stay away from each other.
Q. Dear Cupid I am involoved with a 22 year old male, we 'gel' I am 45 He feels that it is morally wrong, while I think that at some point he will decide that I am to old for him.- we both have issues around our age, him in particular as he lives wi...
A. 28 May 2007: Its clear you both like one another - age is just a number.
Dont worry about what anyone else thinks, as long as you are both happy. ... (read in full...)
I'm confused, am I bi?
Q. I think im bisexual. How can I tell, I really fancy fit boys but I find girls really atractive. Im quite an art person and enjoy drawing naked people men and women.So am I bi? ...
A. 28 May 2007: Its natural at your age to be curious about your sexuality.
I think you could be bi sexual.
You have plenty of time though to work out what you want from life. ... (read in full...)
Why did he tell the person on his phone he was out with his mates when he was in with me?
Q. Im gay and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. Last night on the phone he told whoever rang him he was out with work mates and not me. He told me it was his mate who was out bowling. Now I'm wondering why he said that and ...
A. 28 May 2007: It could be his friends and family dont know he is gay, or perhaps he has a partner and is cheating on you both.
Tell him you have been together for a long time now and you would like to meet his family and friends?... (read in full...)
I am working with Female Bullies whom are 17 to 20 years older than I am
Q. Working with Female Bullies whom are 17 to 20 years older than I am; seriously, this is ridiculous! I have been working there for 15 years and about 2 years ago, this happened when I moved from one part of the warehouse to where these rude femal...
A. 28 May 2007: These women are bullying you and they need to be stopped. I strongly advise that you make a complaint to the manager where you work. Maybe your manager could arrange for you all to sit down and work through everything.
You cant work like this, th... (read in full...)
He's married and getting really serious about me, where do you see this going?
Q. i met a guy online i knew was married, all we used to do is chat now i have been to see him twice and we went too far now he wants me to meet him again. I was on holiday abroad recently and he was on the phone at least 3 times a day. i have seen ...
A. 28 May 2007: Unless he leaves his wife and kids dont get involved.
You dont want to be blamed for destroying his family.
I think you should cut off all contact with him, someone is going to get hurt.
If things with his wife come to an end then maybe th... (read in full...)
What's the best way to tell my boyfriend I don't want to be with him anymore?
Q. me and my boyfriend used to date a couple of years back and we have just recently got back together and he has changed too much, it was fine for the first two weeks of us getting together but now its all changed he always wants sex and i dont enjoy ...
A. 28 May 2007: Dont prolong this get it over with as soon as.
Tell him you think you are both in different places and that you dont want to be with him anymore.
be as nice as you can about it. ... (read in full...)
I love him more than my boyfriend but he's married but only for a visa, what do I do?
Q. i have been going out with a guy for about a year and a half now, suddenly an old friend of mine and i get back in contact but it turns out he is married and we fell in love with each other knowing we always had a special feeling from before.he told ...
A. 28 May 2007: End things with your boyfriend now and reduce the risk of hurting him more than need be.
You both sound like you love each other and have deep feelings. Ask him not to marry for a visa - he will be deported if officials find out this is not a genu... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but I have lost the rest of my pack so I have missed 2 pills. What should I do?
Q. I'm on the pill but I have lost the rest of my pack so I have missed 2 pills. What should I do?...
A. 28 May 2007: Go back to your doctor and ask for their advice.
I would recommend using other forms of protection though. ... (read in full...)
I don't feel comfortable having sex with my boyfriend because I'm so thin.
Q. Hi, I am 27 and weigh about 40. I am very thin but healthy but I dont feel comfortable when me and my boyfriend have sex.He says he enjoy himself but I cant stop thinking that he is lying. He just dont wanna hurt my feelings....
A. 28 May 2007: I dont think your boyfriend would tell you he enjoyed sex with you if he never, if he didnt he probably wouldnt say anything.
You sound insecure about your body. Maybe talking to your doctor about worrying about your weight could help.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and have completely lost my appetite. When do you think it will come back? Is this normal?
Q. Hi, I was amazed at the wonderful answers I got with the last question I posted so i'd really apprecciate any answers this time around as well. I've recently found out i'm roughly 7 weeks pregnant, I haven't been to the doctors yet but i've got an ...
A. 28 May 2007: I think you should ask your doctor about this.
I know when Katie price aka Jordan was pregnant with her last she had to force herself to eat.
Your body is in a different place and perhaps is struggling to adapt.
Talk to you doctor and as... (read in full...)
I don't know if I want to be with my husband any more, we're both moving in different directions.
Q. im a lil frustraded and i need help.ok me and my husband have been together since i was 16{now im 20} and hes the only man that ive ever trusted, hes my high school sweet heart my first and only love. We split up for about a year cause he joined ...
A. 28 May 2007: You both want completely different things, maybe try and explain your urge to travel with your family.
Time apart may help - either make or break you.
I think you both need to talk about your relationship and what you want out of it. ... (read in full...)
I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex girlfriend! What can I do?
Q. Just to recap on my earlier questions: I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do? He still wants to be friends...should I or shouldn't I? From these questions i have received many hel...
A. 28 May 2007: You deserve better, try to move on and find happiness with someone who deserves you.... (read in full...)
Do men ever look at college or high school girls in a sexual way?
Q. I'm wondering about something that only a man can answer, or maybe a really knowledgeable woman. I'm wondering what it's like for married men or even just older men to look at high school and college girls. Assuming these girls are attractive and ...
A. 28 May 2007: Yes they do check out younger girls.
My ex used to - i found it a bit weird but apparently every guy does it!... (read in full...)
Is he flirting with me or not?
Q. I'm pretty thick when it comes to deciphering if someone is flirting with me or not, so I'm asking for help here! There's this guy I know, and him pursuing a relationship with me would be a little ridiculous due to the circumstances we're both ...
A. 28 May 2007: i think he was flirting with u :D... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married man! Do I break up with my twice-as-old-as-me-boyfriend!?
Q. I am 20 years old. I have been with my 40 year old boyfriend for two years. About six months ago, I have met this 34 year old man and I fell I love with him. He's married. He is a friend o my family and so is his wife. They got two small kids ...
A. 28 May 2007: I cant see this married man will ever leave his wife for you.
Is he willing to tear his family apart and hurt so many people?
I think you should stop anything happening with you and this married bloke.
Concentrate on making your relationship... (read in full...)
I have a crush on him but he's scared of getting hurt!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have this crush on a boy in my class. I think he likes me too, because he stares at me, talks about me alot, etc., but the problem is, a year ago he broke up with this girl who was using him, and they had sex, which i guess was all ...
A. 28 May 2007: Get to know him better first - build up his trust - he may then feel he trusts you enough to date you.... (read in full...)
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