Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 29 May 2007: Its normal for you to be scared about having a baby, tell me a woman who wouldnt be.
Talk to your doctor of you bfs mum about this.
Your scared you dont know what to expect.
Lots of women go on to have many babies so just think it cant be that... (read in full...)
I have a crush on him but he's scared of getting hurt!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have this crush on a boy in my class. I think he likes me too, because he stares at me, talks about me alot, etc., but the problem is, a year ago he broke up with this girl who was using him, and they had sex, which i guess was all ...
A. 28 May 2007: Get to know him better first - build up his trust - he may then feel he trusts you enough to date you.... (read in full...)
I masturbate, thinking about... myself!
Q. Do you think it's weird to masterbate thinking about yourself? I can have an orgasm when I think about myself wearing sexy clothing - my boyfriend can't believe I'm not thinking about having sex when I masterbate - does anyone else think of other ...
A. 28 May 2007: I dont think its weird that you think about yourself whilst doing this.
Think about whatever you like - as long as you are satisfied and pleased after!
... (read in full...)
We're getting married, BUT he's on kinky sex dating sites and doesn't want me for sex!
Q. my boyfriend is wonderful but when I starded my relation with him i found that he was inside of a lot of kinky sex datings sites (he said it was part of his past)suddenly he has some strange behavoir (i am sure he doesnt have time for see anybody ...
A. 28 May 2007: Talk to him and make sure that it is the right decision for you to be getting married.
It could be a part of his past...but he should be 100% commited to you and not considering chatting or looking at other woman on the internet for whatever reas... (read in full...)
Do I try to keep the relationship we have now, or end it completely
Q. Do I try to keep the relationship we have now, or end it completely? Hello. I have written everyone before for some advise, and the responces were great in helping me out. It has to do with the same woman. For those of you that don't know, I wa...
A. 28 May 2007: She should have told you she was seeing someone else.
I think you should stop seeing her and move on best you can.
She cant just expect to click her fingers and for you to come running. You have feelings for her and she is walking all over the... (read in full...)
This is a question for the girls only!
Q. GIRLS ONLY-NO GUYS READ THIS PLEZ!! OK is it normal for a girl my age to have a bushy/hairy pussy and bigger boobs then girls older then me. my bf told me that if his _____ gets bushy er whatever then hes somehow ganna sh...
A. 28 May 2007: You are very young to be worrying about this sort of thing! Yes it is completely normal, feel lucky you have boobs, some girls dont develop much at all. :-)... (read in full...)
Why is he playing games with me?
Q. I am writing once again - so sorry for doing this... My partner and I are seperating after 6 years. He has promised me that he will see me ok (IE buy me out of our home, so i can put a deposit on another) The thing is, it is going to take ar...
A. 28 May 2007: Do you have anything to prove you have put money into this home? Im not 100% sure but i dont think you should move out. If you do you may loose some of what you are entitled to. I dont think you should trust that he will see you right money wise... (read in full...)
I am 18 and very attracted to a 36 year old man who I know is interested in me as well... is it crazy?
Q. I am 18 and very attracted to a 36 year old man who I know is interested in me as well... is it crazy? ...
A. 28 May 2007: A lot of younger women tend to go for the older man - they seem to be more mature and sure about themselves. Its not crazy and as long as you are both okay with the age gap then there isnt a problem. He probably is more sure of himself and read... (read in full...)
I worry in case I can't get and erection and it's ruining my social life!
Q. hi, this might sound like a weird post but i was just wondering if anyone knows where im coming from or could offer me some good advice. its a little embarrassing and i dont know quite how to put it with it making sense but i'll try. o.k. this...
A. 28 May 2007: Okay - i think you are nervous when it comes to having sex which is completely natural. Rather than one night stands get to know a girl - a one night stand is more complicated you dont know the girl for starters which makes it more nerve racking.... (read in full...)
Has he got this sort of body language wrong and the bloke is just being friendly.
Q. I asked my husband the other day that if a woman he knew winked at him what would he think and he said 'I would think she wants to know me more, she fancies me'. I asked him what he thought if a bloke winked at me and he said 'I would worry'. He ...
A. 28 May 2007: I think he was just being friendly - you dont have anything to worry about unless he tries it on with you or starts flirting with you. ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant but don't know if I want this baby... I'm not ready to have kids yet.
Q. Hey, so im 6 month pregnant and getting a ban on my ex for abusing me, i feel real bad as if IM in the wrong for him abusing me? but as many people said he was putting my baby in danger, im thinking about letting him come to the next scan with me ...
A. 28 May 2007: Dont let your boyfriend back in - he wont have changed and does not deserve to be forgiven and a part of the babies life. If he has been abusive towards you then you are safer and happier without him. I think everyone thinks the same = they aren... (read in full...)
Why do I never feel like having sex with my boyfriend?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and things are great but i never feel like having sex... other sexual acts are ok... but wen it comes to sex i never really feel like it. its not that hes bad in bed coz he's really good but i just never ...
A. 28 May 2007: Dont feel like you have to have sex with him, take things slow and get to know each other all over again. It could be that you have a low sex drive. Try to make things more exciting. ... (read in full...)
I can't just stop liking him. He's so perfect... one in a million. What do you think I should do?!?
Q. Ummm well my sister has this friend Ray. And I really like him. Majorly. Everything he does is completely awesome. But he is probably the least liked guy at my school, simply because of the way he dresses. He doesn't really care about that and ...
A. 28 May 2007: Talk to him - tell him that you like him. If you are going to another school soon what have you got to loose? he might really like you to - which could be why you are both awkward around one another. Love is worth the risk isnt it?... (read in full...)
Is it wrong at the age of 22 to have the desire to have a baby and get married?
Q. Is it wrong at the age of 22 to have the desire to have a baby and get married? I'm not with anyone at the moment, and I know that I need to get a better job and a house, but the feeling has been overwhelming me lately, and I don't know if I'm wrong ...
A. 28 May 2007: Course you arent too young to be thinking this way. Its a shame there arent more guys out there who are mature enough to think like you do. You are still young and have plenty of time, meet the right girl and fall in love. You are normal!... (read in full...)
Why did he kiss me for so long when I know he doesn't like me in that way?
Q. Recently I had a passionate kiss with my best friend that lasted hours. My friend kept pulling him away because she was drunk and stuff, but he kept coming back to me. But I know he doesn't like me in that way...so why would he kiss me for so ...
A. 28 May 2007: Perhaps he likes you more than you realise - he might be scared of ruining your friendship and being rejected? it could simply be that he had drunk to much and didnt realise he would confuse you by kissing you. Can you talk to him and see what he ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends are so bitchy to me because I have always liked football!
Q. Sorry for the length! I'm a girl and I love football and I've always been into it since I was little. Obviously this always made me popular with the guys and I've got loads of mates who are guys, who I really get on well with. I've had no problems ...
A. 28 May 2007: These girls are simply jealous. To them you have it all good looks, and lots of male attention! There is nothing wrong with you liking football - many woman do. They are the ones who have a problem. Can you talk to your boss about these bi... (read in full...)
He's gay but is giving me all the signs that he fancies me.
Q. I work closely with a man who is gay but recently he has been flirting with me so much that i dont know whether im coming or going. He stares into my eyes for longer than normal, looks at my mouth when i speak and just says and does things body ...
A. 28 May 2007: He is gay - a lot of gay men flirt with women - they find it easier to chat and flirt than str8 guys (at least i think). You could mention to him that he is flirty with you - see what his repsonse would be. It could just be his way!... (read in full...)
Why do I feel attracted to other guys when I have a wonderful boyfriend?
Q. I am currently at Uni. I have a wonderful boyfriend who i love but sometimes i get attracted to other guys and wonder what it would be like with them. It makes me feel awful and my boyfriend has picked up on it. Any advice is welcome. ...
A. 28 May 2007: Sounds like something we all do! As long as the only thing you are doing is looking then its not doing any harm. Just try not to check other guys out in front of your boyfriend! As long as you still love your boyfriend im sure you will be able... (read in full...)
Do we have a chance at getting back together? I really thought he was the love of my life and I don't want to let go.
Q. I can send you the whole story if it will help to give better advice. This past week my bf of 2 1/2 years broke up w/ me. He said he was bored although I had no indication anything was wrong. I was never given any info about how he was feeling and ...
A. 28 May 2007: Saying that he wanted to finish things because he was 'bored' sounds like an excuse to end things to me; what was the reason he was bored with your relationship for. He wants to end things fine - but you deserve an explanation - if only to help you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him but I would NEVER do that! I'm at the end of my tether with this, what can I do to prove I'm not?
Q. I am a 24 year old girl who is having trouble with my on off boyfriend i love him loads but he keeps breaking up with me because he thinks i am cheating on him i have never cheated and never would but he just doesnt believe a word i say, how can i ...
A. 28 May 2007: He sounds very insecure. He needs to learn to trust you - just because you have male friends does not mean that you are planning on being unfaithful to him. It sounds like he has been hurt in the past and has trust issues, if he wont work throug... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but just lately I've been having lesbian tendancies... I'm so confused.
Q. Im straight and have a boyfriend but lately i have beeen thinking about being a lesbian i look at pictures of naked women and feel the need to masturbate. after i have masturbated i feel dirty but i still like boys :S im confused please help tara x...
A. 28 May 2007: Its completely normal to be feeling and thinking like this, a lot of girls of a similar age do. It could be you are attracted to both girls and guys, i think it is your hormones kicking in. You have plenty of time to think about and work out you... (read in full...)
Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 28 May 2007: from what you have been writing it sounds to me that you are sure you want to have this baby. DOnt let anyone pressure you into giving the baby up for adoption or having an abortion. You know in your mind what you want, and your decision will be ... (read in full...)
Bf has jealousy problems with my guy friend! Bf has refused to meet him--what should I do?
Q. long story short , i have a boyfriend and another friend but he's a guy. And my boyfriend has problems(he's jealous) with me talking to my friend. I don't think that my friend loves me because we've known each other for like 3 years and he never ...
A. 27 May 2007: If your relationship with your guy friend is innocent then your boyfriend should trust you enough and not see your friend as a threat. If your boyfriend doesnt want to meet your friend then you cant make him, but i dont see you should have to stop ... (read in full...)
I am seriously considering breaking my engagement with my fiance
Q. I am seriously considering breaking my engagement with my fiance. For those of you interested there are a few background posts on the OW thread. But the issue right now is that I am fed up with overlooking everything he does. I'm tired of pretend...
A. 27 May 2007: This man is controlling you - get out now whilst you can.
If he is like this before you marry think how much worse he is going to be if and when you do marry him.
Get out. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is trying to steal my bloke! I don't want to fall out with her so what do I do?
Q. Hi! I really need some help with this, so I'm going to do my best to keep everything straight so you don't get confused...lol Ok, so I have this best friend, we've been friends since preschool, and we're both now 27. I'll just call her J. Ok, ...
A. 27 May 2007: reply to your follow up;
I still dont think she is a nice friend. If she was she wouldnt be coming between you and every relationship you ever have. Fair enough it isnt just her - obv the blokes involved have played there parts.
I just think o... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband I KNOW he's been cheating on me?
Q. I have just found out my husband is cheating on me. I have computer eveidence so I am sure. I hurt so much. How do i tell him i know the truth?...
A. 27 May 2007: Okay if you want to sort this out now - Id ring or txt him and ask him to come home - tell him you need to talk to him and that it cant wait.
Confront him with what you know and find out why he has been cheating on you.
are you prepared to walk ... (read in full...)
My is my ex boyfriend constantly keeping in touch with me after our breakup a year ago?
Q. What do you think an ex boyfriend wants when he stays in contact with you for over a year since you broke up (his choice) say once a month just saying hi. Then in the last month he has been texting nearly every day and apologising again for his ...
A. 27 May 2007: From what you wrote it sounds as though your ex still has feelings for you.
It might just be that he misses spending time with you and regrets your break up. ... (read in full...)
He flirted and texted girls who disliked me...just for an ego boost! How do I ever trust him again?
Q. Hi I really appreciate any advice. i found out a few months ago that my boyfriend had been talking to girls from early on in our relationship. he had even arranged to have sex but had changed his mind. I found some of these texts and confronted him. ...
A. 27 May 2007: you need to talk to him and find out why he needed an ego boost, he was prepared to cheat by the sounds of things so maybe he isnt worthy of your love
... (read in full...)
My Nan is living with us and it's creating a lot of family problems! Any advice?
Q. My nan has moved in with my mum and dad. They already have 6 People in a 3 bedroom house and my nan is now staying. This wast a problem at first, but now i feel i cant have a life. if i go out with my friends she wants me home before everyone else ...
A. 27 May 2007: You are entitiled to have a life you shouldnt have to stay in to keep your nan company all the time.
Its nice to be close and have a good relationship but if this is stopping you from having a social life then thats not good.
Can you try to g... (read in full...)
Husband is unable to perform sexually, due to drinking! What can I do?
Q. My Husband can no longer perform sex from drinking to much, and im very sexual woman, what in the dam can i do when he is my husband and i need good sex and affection, please help me please with some wisdom.......
A. 27 May 2007: Is he drinking enough to be put into the alcoholic category
It sounds to me if drink is affecting him sexually then he could well be an alcoholic.
There must be a reason as to why he feels he needs to drink so much, is he unhappy with work or ... (read in full...)
I have a hard time confiding in others. When I do-I feel that my trust always being violated.What can I do?
Q. I have a bad past and need to talk to someone but I have no one to talk to. My "friends" all have bfs/ gfs and when I try to talk to them alone they just say " I dunno what to say, sorry" then run back to their partners as if we hadn't spoken a...
A. 27 May 2007: Your counsellor shouldnt have spoken to your parents, i think that he/she did so because of your age.
If you have a friend you can trust why not arrange to meet one when they arent with their partners and have a chat to one of them about how you ... (read in full...)
Can a friendship turn into a relationship?
Q. attraction does it mean that it could be a friendship and it could turn in to a relaationship. i have alot of attraction for a police officer....
A. 27 May 2007: If he is attracted to you then yes this could develop into something more.
It could be that this could become something more, but maybe your destined to be friends.
Talk to him and see where you stand?... (read in full...)
Will going on my laptop all the time affect my eyesight?
Q. hi im 14 and on my laptop all the time if im not going out ill be on it all the time im awake. Im quite worried about what will happen to my eyesite its perfectly fine at the moment but what will it do to me and how long have i got till it starts ...
A. 27 May 2007: Try cutting back on being on laptop for so long. Put more breaks in between. Do say an hour then go and have something to eat or walk to shops then go on again after a break.
I cant say it bad or not bad depends how long your on here for. You ... (read in full...)
Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?
Q. Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?...
A. 27 May 2007: You will always remember you first love. simply because of the fact that he/she was your first love!
You will move on and find someone else and get over it yes.... (read in full...)
I saw my girlfriend and another female in a VERY intimate position!!!
Q. i went round to my girlfriends, friends house (she is a girl as well) last night as she left her phone in my apartment. however as i went to knock on the window i saw the 2 of them in a very, very intimate position. they also were half naked. i...
A. 27 May 2007: I know some girls dont see this as cheating - because they see it as its a female not a male sort of thing!
To me if i caught a bf with another bloke id think of it as being unfaithful.
Either talk to her and ask her why she cheated on you a... (read in full...)
How do you go from dating someone to actually being in a relationship with them?
Q. how do you go from dating someone to being in a relationship with them? i know that sounds stupid but i honestly don`t know. do you say after a couple of dates "so should we start a relationship together" or what?...
A. 27 May 2007: Just sort of say; how would you feel about making things more official.
... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend of one week has just asked me over to her house for "some fun"
Q. Hey, I've posted a couple of times now, you might recognize part of the story. Basically my gf dumped me last weekend, and in favor of some guy online. Shes meeting him this friday. But the friday thats just been, she started emailing me abou...
A. 27 May 2007: It sounds as though you will become her F*** buddy as they call it!
She wants you when it suits and to be free to date other guys.
She clearly isnt thinking about your feelings, as most girls would know after breaking up it takes time to ge... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and I have always found it hard to be friends with guys.
Q. Hi, I just wondered if you guys could help. I'm 22 and I have always found it hard to be friends with guys. If I get to know a guy then I can't be just mates with him, I'm always looking for it to be something more and if they don't find me ...
A. 27 May 2007: I myself find it harder being friends with a guy opposed to a girl.
Some people say a guy and a girl cant be friends cos the other will always want more.
You need to stop looking at men as possible love interests and take the time to be friend... (read in full...)
Why can't my girlfriend get pregnant? Is it me?
Q. hey all i've been with my girlfriend now 11 weeks on tuesday (29 May) nearly 3 months and for the past 2 months or so we've been haveing sex without comdoms and i've not made her pregnant at all. shes not on the pill could there be something ...
A. 27 May 2007: You havent been together for that long and already you are trying for a baby.
Your worried that she is chatting other people up online. How well do you know each other. perhaps you should get to know each other better first before you try for a ba... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is trying to steal my bloke! I don't want to fall out with her so what do I do?
Q. Hi! I really need some help with this, so I'm going to do my best to keep everything straight so you don't get confused...lol Ok, so I have this best friend, we've been friends since preschool, and we're both now 27. I'll just call her J. Ok, ...
A. 27 May 2007: She doesnt sound like a very nice 'friend' to me.
Dont involve her in anything that you do online or conversations with this bloke you have been chatting to. It sounds like she is jealous of you, and is trying to muscle in on him.
She is ri... (read in full...)
Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 27 May 2007: your mum and dad may well come round - they must be in shock, i doubt they were ready to hear there little girl was having a baby!
At least you have you boyfriend and his mums support.
Im sure you will get through this and make great parents.... (read in full...)
Why am I always so nervous when it comes to pleasing my guy sexually?
Q. dear cupid, I am going out with this guy and things have become serious and i think he wants to have sex. he knows i want to wait and he respects that but he does want me to pleasure him in other ways. i want to but i get so nervous when it ...
A. 27 May 2007: You are bound to feel nervous the first time you have sex with your boyfriend.
maybe your not quite ready to take things to the next level, spend more time getting to know one another and continue to take things slowly.
You will know in your own... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband I KNOW he's been cheating on me?
Q. I have just found out my husband is cheating on me. I have computer eveidence so I am sure. I hurt so much. How do i tell him i know the truth?...
A. 27 May 2007: Sit him down and talk to him, ask him how he feels about your relationship. Explain that you have been on your computer and that you think he is cheating on you - if you are certain that he is? Maybe you both need to spend more time together to... (read in full...)
Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 27 May 2007: Okay - you really need to tell you parents. They are going to be upset/mad of course they will you are there little girl and this is going to be a great shock to them. But you can't go through this alone.
Go and see a doctor as well they can help... (read in full...)
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