Should I trust her alone with my boyfriend?
Q. i met this girl at a job that i had and we became cool. i also met a guy there who became my boyfriend. One day me and my boyfriend went out and he said that she was going to open up her own business and gave her number to him. She never ...
A. 3 June 2007: I think this girl fancies your boyfriend and no i dont think you can trust her.
The thing you need to ask yourself is can you trust your boyfriend to be alone with her? You definately cant trust her.
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you... (read in full...)
Missed a period but we did was dry hump and fingering! Can I be pregnant?
Q. Me and my bf have been 'fooling around' and im not sure if i could be pregnant. I'm not on the pill. I missed my period last month, so thats why im thinking i might be pregnant, even though we havent actually had sex. Just dry humped. But ive heard ...
A. 3 June 2007: Take a test. Its the only way to know for sure.
It could simply be that your body is taking longer for your period for some reason.
I didnt think that dry humping and everything else you described could result in pregnancy.
To put your ... (read in full...)
I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?
Q. hi i am a 17 year old guy. I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?...
A. 3 June 2007: Just remember that she is your SISTER! and that nothing can or ever will happen here.
is this a serious problem?????
Get out there and mix with girls you have a chance with. Having sex with your sister is incest.... (read in full...)
Why is it that most (well nearly all) paedophiles are men?
Q. Why is it that most (well nearly all) paedophiles are men?...
A. 1 June 2007: What a question...who knows!? i certainly dont.
There are a lot of female paedophiles out there to - your right though the majority are men.
....:-/... (read in full...)
Why does she never want to spend time alone with me?
Q. A girl first told my friends that she fancied me about six weeks ago but I decided that I wanted to get to know her properly first. We've kissed a few times when we've been out with a group of mates and I know that she still likes me. We see each ...
A. 1 June 2007: Perhaps she likes you so much that she feels nervous about spending time alone with you and is worried about what to say or do.
Get to know each other a bit better, when you go out to theme park suggest that you go out on a date just the two of y... (read in full...)
I've liked him for ages, he asks me out and I say NO out of nerves!
Q. I really like this guy and I have done for months. We both work together and I had the feeling that he liked me too. Basically I know loads of guys at work because there are mostly men working there and when I first started working there a lot of ...
A. 1 June 2007: If you want to go out with him and be more than just his friend then next time you see him ask if you can talk to him in private and explain to him that you like him and you only said no because you were nervous and werent expecting it.
Im su... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend had a huge argument and she hit me!
Q. Me and my girlfriend had a huge argument and she hit me. I dont mean like a slap a full on attack. I dont know what to do i really love her, im walking round with bruises all over my body. This isnt the first time she has lashed out at me wha...
A. 1 June 2007: This is domestic violence, you should walk away and leave her.
Unless she is prepared to get professional help and sort out her problems with violence. she needs to learn how to sort her problems out with her violent behaviour.
Dont put ... (read in full...)
He ignored me and then I hit him!
Q. please help me!!!went out last night with my boyfriend and his friends and he ignored me all night to the point where i was standing alone for most of it. we argued about it on the way home big time he was shouting at me and i just slapped him in ...
A. 1 June 2007: Let him get his head together and cool off then talk things through with him.
he was wrong to ignore you and leave you by yourself all night, perhaps he just got carried away with drinking and chatting that he didnt realise he had left you all ... (read in full...)
What is going on with my married friend?
Q. I am a female in love with a female friend of mine. We are both in our late 40's or so. I would bet my life on the fact that she was falling in love with me as well. Our flirting was so obvious that some people noticed it and said things. There is ...
A. 1 June 2007: from what she sent in her email its hard to work out if she is overly friendly or if she does harbour feelings for you - i can see why you are confused!
It could be like you said that she is married and doesnt want to hurt and mess things u... (read in full...)
Torn between two men! HELP
Q. I am so confused. I was married to S and had two kids. We divorced after 7 yrs. Due to the fact he was cold and selfish. I met and married A 4 months later. Two days after getting married S calls and says he still loves me and wants me back. So I ...
A. 1 June 2007: I think you should stop seeing them both and take some time to work things out in your head.
Was A a rebound thing or is he your soul mate? S sounds like he messes you around picks and chooses when he wants to be with you.
Your kids dont hav... (read in full...)
Me, my boyfriend and the girl he met on holiday!
Q. Im not sure if my fella loves me truley, if you know what I mean. I feel like he does but he has recently been tExting another girl who he met on a lads holiday last sumMer before we got together, he has been wanting her to mEet up with him when he ...
A. 1 June 2007: He knows you know about the txting? It could be that he thinks of this girl he met on holiday as nothing more than a friend and he might not realise he is making you feel this way by txting.
Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel and how you ... (read in full...)
Someone has posted a picture of my boyfriend in his boxer shorts to a dating website and are continuing to do so, it's stressing us both out.
Q. I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25. We've been together since we were 18. Today I heard that he'd posted a photograph of himself in his briefs/boxer shorts on a dating website from a friend in work. I've seen the profile on the site - but my boy...
A. 1 June 2007: Tara,
I think you should try to contact the website, inform them that this user has been posing as your boyfriend and has got hold of his photos as well.
I also think your partner should talk to his boss about it again, explain the upset this i... (read in full...)
Repeat of a 3-some!
Q. Is it possible for me to get my wife to have sex with another man,she has done this one time before for me and I have a fetish about that.thanks for your advice...
A. 1 June 2007: Talk to her about it, did she enjoy this the last time you did it or was she not keen on the whole experience?
If she is happy with it then yes repeat your threesome and have some fun, but think about her feelings first and make sure she is okay ... (read in full...)
How long should you see someone for before you have sex? When is too early? And also why do you bleed the first time?
Q. How long should you see someone for before you have sex? When is too early? And also why do you bleed the first time?...
A. 1 June 2007: I used to worry about this too. I dont think you can say there is a certain amount of time before you should take it to the next level. I do however think you need to be ready for a sexual relationship, make sure that you are fully comfortable ... (read in full...)
Please help, I've never kissed a boy before...
Q. Plz help!!! I've never kissed a boy before and he's my 1st boyfriend, how do i know if he wants 2 kiss me or not, plz help!!...
A. 31 May 2007: Just relax and dont worry about it. I know i was a nervous wreck when i had my first kiss and there wasnt any need it was fine.
He will probably make the first move and go to kiss you - just kiss him back.
You will be fine im sure
good luck ... (read in full...)
He taking a female friend to the cinema and I'm jealous. How do I deal with this 'jealousy bug'?
Q. My boyfriend recently bumped into an old friend and agreed to go to the cinema with her, just the two of them. I felt a bit uncomfortable with this so asked if he could take a friend with him just to put my mind at rest. I know he loves me, and i ...
A. 31 May 2007: You wouldnt feel worried if it was a guy he was going to the cinema with.
I think you need think - if it was you going out with a guy friend he would feel the same.
Maybe you could meet her - try being friends with her too, might put your min... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and want a relationship, but I fret about the size of my penis..any advice?
Q. Hi iam 17 and still a virgin i would love to have a relationship with a girl but iam very insecure about the size of my penis as it is only 6 and a half inches when erect should i be woried or am i fretin about nothing ...
A. 31 May 2007: Sounds like the normal average size to me.
Dont worry about the size of your penis - its what you do with it that counts - believe me!
xxx... (read in full...)
We had an argument and now my bf won't return my calls! What do I do?
Q. my boyfriend and i quarrelled just this monday and he refuses to return my calls what should i do?...
A. 31 May 2007: OK, i think you should stop calling him. He knows you have called and isnt returning you calls. If you stop it might be a wake up call for him and he may well realise he could lose you.
Just give it chance to cool down.
xxx... (read in full...)
This guy told me if I kept skipping school he wouldn't talk to me anymore! Why does he care??
Q. Am 15 years old and I was talking to a 17 year old guy.Well sometimes I skip school with my friends.I would never tell the guy that i was talking to that I skipped but my friends talk to him and they would tell him everything.Well one day he erased ...
A. 31 May 2007: Its not really a good thing to keep skipping school your exams and grades will suffer in the long run.
This guy can see that and wants you to do the best you can and come out with good results.
I think he must really really like you to be like t... (read in full...)
Is it just the commitment phobia or he is behaving normally and my thinking is wrong??
Q. Hi all, I am ankita from India. I have just got engaged a months back (It will be an arranged marriage) and the boy is working in a different city (So we dont meet actually). He calls me nearly everyday but we talk for just 10-12 minutes. Initially, ...
A. 31 May 2007: If you believe that it is better for you both then maybe breaking this engagement off is the best thing to do - it wont be easy though if your parents expect this off you.
It could be he feels pressured into marrying you as much as you do him. ... (read in full...)
Every time he puts on a condom he goes limp. How can we fix this?
Q. I have been with my bf fot 14 months. We started having sex back last august. We have only had sex like 15 times since as i still get a bit anxious and after a while feel pain when having sex. He finds that when we have finished foreplay and are...
A. 31 May 2007: How about putting the condom on before you begin foreplay? wouldnt ruin the moment then!
Or whilst he does this kiss him and caress his body.
The pill does have some side effects why dont you discuss your concerns about the pill with you GP?... (read in full...)
Why do I have to do all the work when we're having sex?
Q. hi ive been getting kind of annoyed lately because in bed it seems as if im always doing all the work. I mean its fine to do it sometimes but I would like to get some pleasure back. Really hard to explain. but i dont know what to do. can someone ...
A. 31 May 2007: Sounds like you partner is lazy in bed! not good!
Talk about it explain that you feel like you are doing all the work!
He has to consider your needs too not just take.
xxx... (read in full...)
What should I do if I'm talking to a boy but he won't really tell me his feelings because he thinks he will get hurt if he falls in love again?
Q. What should I do if I'm talking to a boy but he won't really tell me his feelings because he thinks he will get hurt if he falls in love again?...
A. 31 May 2007: Be his friend, help build up his trust. Its clear he has been hurt in the past and is scared that it will happen again.
Just talk things through with him. If you like him then tell him that you do and that you dont want to hurt him.
xxxx... (read in full...)
I lost his number and asked him for it again but he said no.
Q. i don't no what to do? help ok i really like a guy at work and i heard he likes me so i gave him my number and he text me so i could have his number i was so happy. He's 22 and im turnin 17 next month and don't worry he knows. but i deleted his nu...
A. 31 May 2007: You need to keep things at work quiet if you are going to date or try to arrange to meet up outside of work.
Can you not talk to him when there is no one else around and tell him you genuinely like him and that you erased his messege with his numb... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to get a nude/topless photo of myself done professionally so that he can put it up in his house.
Q. Hey guys, I need some advice. My boyfriend wants me to get a nude/topless photo of myself done professionally so that he can put it up in his house. I'm not sure because I don't know why he came up with the idea. He said he would do one for me in ...
A. 31 May 2007: I dont think you should agree to doing this unless you are 100% sure about it. Are you okay with others seeing you naked on his wall or whereever this may end up?
He probably thinks its a good idea and it is if you can trust him complete... (read in full...)
I have a gut feeling my husband may be cheating on me...
Q. i need some advice i normally wouldnt do this but i have no idea what to think!i think my husband is sending me lil signals that hes cheating on me or that he has cheated on me. Well lets see hes in iraq and he use to call me like all the time and ...
A. 31 May 2007: Dont panic, wait until he gets home and see if he acts differently around or towards you.
It could be he hasnt contacted you due to work demands or he may not have access to communicating at the moment.
If you need to talk to him when he is b... (read in full...)
I have never cheated on my boyfriend of 4 years but he's got it into his head I have and it's driving me mad!
Q. I have been going out with my partner for over 4 yrs now. But i am at the point now of deciding whether or not to end it. There is a considerable age gap between us and perhaps this plays its part in the problems. My partner does not trust me nor...
A. 31 May 2007: You've already told him that you have no interest in other men and he wont accept this.
Has he been hurt in the past by an ex girlfriend? He doesnt have to right to go through your mobile and emails etc.
I think you need to tell him that you... (read in full...)
I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm still a virgin. What's it like?
Q. can someone please help me with sex, i am a virgin and i am with a guy im 15 and he is 16. we really want to have sex, im scared of letting him go down there because i find it embarrasing although i realli like him. we want to have sex but can ...
A. 31 May 2007: Firstly if you are going to have sex with your boyfriend then make sure you have a condom, also i think you should see your doctor about going on the pill.
everyones first time is a little uncomfortable, its not that bad though or we wouldnt ... (read in full...)
I get really emotional over my body - help!
Q. I really need to talk to someone who understands how it feels to get really emotional over their bodies. Can someone talk to me, please? ...
A. 31 May 2007: Im on a constant diet - always worrying about my body! Think it must be a normal girl thing...if you prefer to send a private msg you can tell me more about how you are feeling. xxx... (read in full...)
I want to tell him the truth that I lied but I don't know if it'll make the situation better or worse. HELP!!!
Q. Hi...Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half and we just had a son together. The problem is that we live 20 mins from each other and I barely ever see him and when we have plans to see each other it's very rare he'll come over. ...
A. 31 May 2007: Okay you want to tell him the truth.
I think it may make the situation better - he feels he cant trust you as he believes that you had an old boyfriend round.
Tell him how you feel - if you want to be with him more or if you need more commitm... (read in full...)
Is college fun, is it too much work, or what?
Q. I want as many opinions as I can get so anyone who has something to say, even if it's just a little comment, please respond. I'm just wondering what people think of college. I will be graduating soon and I want to keep in contact with some of my ...
A. 31 May 2007: College is great, it is hard work too though. I found it good to get out of high school meet new people and make lots of new friends.
Keep in touch with mates from school as well.
... (read in full...)
My wife's dad died last night, how can I help my wife through this?
Q. ok i hope you can help me out here. i'm 33 and my wife is 32. She lost her dad last night and it very upset. I know she's grieving and everything but I've really never seen her like this before. last night when we got back from the hospital we went ...
A. 31 May 2007: Just continue to be there for her and support her through this traumatic time.
Listen to her if she needs to talk - hug her and assure her of how much you love her.
With time this will get easier - her dad has only just passed and she is going to... (read in full...)
Do i tell him how i feel, wait it out, or just leave him alone?
Q. Well, I have a friend that i really have strong feeling for and who I would like to be more than just friends with. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend. Now, as his friend he tells me that she is not the one for him but never made an attempt ...
A. 31 May 2007: Tell him how you feel - you are good friends so im sure even if nothing ever happens between you at least you will know you tried.
If he is in a relationship though make sure its over before anything may happen between you both.
If he doesnt f... (read in full...)
What can I do now that I've just given up on everything, women especially?
Q. What can I do now that I've just given up on everything, women especially? I just dont kno what to do with myself. I am on anti depressants but they wont start working till I have taken them for a week more what can i do?...
A. 31 May 2007: Dont give up.
Continue to take your anti depressants - they will soon start to work.
Is there any reason in paticular you feel this way?
Have faith you can get through this and become a stronger person.
Always here if you need to talk
xxx... (read in full...)
My large breasts are sooo uncomforatble! What should I do about it?
Q. Lately ive been feeling very self concious about my breasts. Im 17 and im a G cup.. but im small in comparison with my breasts, i wear size 10 clothes. I dont have any bras that fit and feel really uncomfortable. My question is.. can breasts be too ...
A. 31 May 2007: Most men like a girl with big breasts.
I mean just take katie price aka Jordan, she started off small and has paid a lot of money to have boobs similar size to your natural breasts.
... (read in full...)
Bf pressured me to give him head and said he's return the favor but he didn't! How can I ever trust him again?
Q. im 17 my boyfriend is 31 he got me 2 give him head i didnt really want to but he said he would do it back to me and he didnt . how can i trust him...
A. 31 May 2007: He wasn't thinking about what you wanted to do or your needs. He manipulated you into doing this promising to return the favour - once he was satisfied he was happy and didnt care about what you wanted.
Dont trust him, he is taking advantag... (read in full...)
Why would 2 people in a close relationship have a threesome? Is this a sign of a problem?
Q. why would 2 people in a close relationship have a threesome? why would a man have a threesome with his long term girlfriend and her friend? is this the type of thing that would just happen when you got drunk or would you plan this? is this ...
A. 31 May 2007: It could just be a case of trying new ways to spice up a persons sex life, but i dont think they ever think about the emotions that this could start.
The reason why they may brag to girlfriends is to sound the big man - most men brag to their mate... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable to give your number out to an ex when your in a relationship? Do I have a right to be upset?
Q. I have been seeing my partner for about two years we currently live together. The other day I answered her mobile and I guy who i never heard of name appeared on the caller ID. The guy never wanted to leave a message but wanted to know who I was, i ...
A. 31 May 2007: Yes you have a right to be upset, especially when he acts like this - he has given you cause to be concerned.
It might just be that they are able to be friends, but i think she should have mentioned this to you sooner then you might not feel so upse... (read in full...)
I told him I wanted to to be more assertive and say NO to sex with just anyone. Yet he took advantage when I got drunk! Any advice?
Q. Im 17, im pretty and have a nice figure however i am very insecure about myself.. i cant go out with out makeup and take so long to get ready in the mornings... ive slept with 5 people between now and last June and i no this is too many, and i ...
A. 31 May 2007: Go out still and have fun, but say no to sex and mean no.
Get to know a person first - then you will be able to judge if they like you for you or if they are after sex.
If this guy wants to be with you and you dont want to go out with him the... (read in full...)
I'm almost two months late but the pregnancy test came back negative!
Q. hi sue i need your help im late 1 month and 3 weeks i thought i was pregnant but it came out negative im scared it might be something else wrong with me can you please help me thank you...
A. 31 May 2007: Do another test - sometimes the tests dont come back with the right result, if its still negative it could be caused by stress.
Your doctor can do a test for you at the surgery. ... (read in full...)
Mom found a condom wrapper in my bedroom. She now says my bf and I are not allowed to be alone together, here! Is she being unreasonable? or is she right?
Q. Right this is a long one so i need to find a place to start. Well im 15. Have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for 5 months. i was moving my room around with my mum nd she found a condom wrapper. She at first was pretty ok about it, but then she ...
A. 31 May 2007: I can see where she is coming from, but i think she should be pleased at least if you are having a sexual relationship with your boyfriend she can see that you are being careful and taking precautions.
Of course she is going to be shocked - you ... (read in full...)
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