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How do I get my g/f to go back to having threesomes?
Q. I found out that about a year before my girlfriend and I became a couple she had several threesomes with her previous boyfriend and other girls. She also was involved in orgies. She became "gun shy" of that scene after her boyfriend left her for ...
A. 30 October 2007: You are most welcome hon. Experiment if you must but please remember the vows you will soon take. You can have romance and love without involving a third person. That is why marraige vows say "Forsaken all others" and why you both say "I do" ... (read in full...)
I'm married with four kids but in love with my HS sweetheart, any suggestions?
Q. Hi. I am married with 4 kids. My husband and I had a child when I was 16. He was no where to be found , untill he showed up on my door step when my child was 4 and I had another by someone else. 3 days later we got bacj together and have been ever ...
A. 23 October 2007: I have read your last post hon and I see why you have reservations about being with your husband. Your husband needs some professional help it seems. He could be suffering from some type of mental or emotional condition. The cursing and neglect ... (read in full...)
Am I reading too much into this? What do you make of my potential boyfriend?
Q. I recently moved to a new city, been here for about 4 months now, and found a new job. With this, I found some new friends. Two guys and a girl. One of the guys, and the girl have partners, so of course that left those two saying something was gonna ...
A. 23 October 2007: My first husband was 18 the month before we married where as I was 3 months shy of 17. He left and filed for divorce because he wasn't ready for type of committment that marriage takes. We were together for roughly two years and two months.
... (read in full...)
Me? a Poser?
Q. If you are in a long term relationship, is going into chat rooms posing as a single person classed as cheating? ...
A. 23 October 2007: If you are doing it to protect your privacy I would say no. However if you are doing it to keep someone from knowing that you are in a relationship I would say a definate YES!!
I met someone once who did this all the time. Let me tell you... (read in full...)
Lesbian sisters?
Q. hi. i am 18 and i am a lesbian. my younger sister is 13 and we are close. i have started to get horny around her and want to know if this is wrong. should i not spend as much time with her?...
A. 23 October 2007: First of all she is way too young to be involved in any sexual activity. Next she is your SISTER which is hands off. She is too young to know what she is really doing and you are old enough to know that this is wrong!
Be a good sister a... (read in full...)
Torn between the two
Q. my ex bf wants me out of his life and i cant let go. i really am confused. i had been with my ex for about 1 1/2 years when we split. about 3/4 months before the end of our relationship my bf (at the time) introduced me to a good friend of his. w...
A. 23 October 2007: Take a few steps back and let yourself be single for a bit. If the new guy really likes you he will give you some time to figure out what you should do. Let your ex see that it really isn't his friend's fault that you two split.
Try to figur... (read in full...)
I miss her so much I think I can smell her
Q. This might be a bit strange, but I just wanted to see if anyone has experienced the same thing. I really miss my ex, and tonight.. I can almost sort of... Smell her. On my body. It's so strange. I just happened to have a sniff inside my shirt ...
A. 23 October 2007: Different things can bring association to sight, smell, touch or the mention of certain things. Maybe you are wearing a cologne that she likes. It reminds you of her. Or perhaps it was her favorite shirt you have on. Your senses can be very ... (read in full...)
I am falling too fast
Q. well my first love died 4 months ago. then a couple of weeks ago this guy and i started talking and now i here he was messing with this other chick.how do i ask him if he is when we are together just we havent talked about us being together. but i ...
A. 23 October 2007: You are still in the grieving process over loosing your first love. Please give yourself more time to get your feeling in check.
If you and the new guy are in the talking stage he might not be considering it more at this time. Don't le... (read in full...)
14, my boyfriend is 16. Why are boy his age so obsessed with Sex?
Q. why are boys his age so obsessed with sex!!!. hi everyone!! I was recenly back with me ex and he broke up with me by text message saying that "i love you megan" and I was like wtf? he told me "ahahahah" and i asked what was so funny and his response ...
A. 23 October 2007: I can sum it up in a few words....HORMONES!!!!! and INMATURITY!!!! Don't waste your time on someone who isn't staying straight about what they do or tell you. You derserve to have a real relationship not an imaginary one.
You used the term... (read in full...)
I've recently gone through a brea-up. We are still friends, but now I like somebody else. Should I tell him, or just wait it out?
Q. Hi everyone, I have just recently gone through a breakup but now I have feelings for another guy. We are good friends and this poses a problem. He may like me but I think he may be afraid of what he is feeling also because he's my friend. Do you h...
A. 23 October 2007: Remaining friends with an ex can get tricky but it might not be all impossible. I have remained friends with all of my ex's if they allowed it. I think that has to be a personal choice. Sometimes it works out sometimes not.
Take your tim... (read in full...)
This isn't really a relationship question, but please help me... My daughter is hearing voices at night...
Q. Im sorry this isnt a relationship question....its about my 9 year old daughter.......each night when she goes to sleep she is hearing voices and she cannot quieten them....i believe but am not sure that they are spirit but this is distressing her ...
A. 23 October 2007: Please seek the advice of a mental health professional. Children who are troubled by certain things can imagine in their mind they are hearing things. It might be her need to create attention for herself or it could be a serious physcological ... (read in full...)
Can you give me an opinion to this situation?
Q. So ive been with my g/f for 8 months and everything was incredible til about 2 wks ago, she got very depressed. Were both 25. We never actually planned on being in a relationship, it started as just a friend w/ benefit type of situation. When we ...
A. 22 October 2007: You are most welcome and I hope something I said helped you greatly. Again God bless you both.... (read in full...)
I'm married with four kids but in love with my HS sweetheart, any suggestions?
Q. Hi. I am married with 4 kids. My husband and I had a child when I was 16. He was no where to be found , untill he showed up on my door step when my child was 4 and I had another by someone else. 3 days later we got bacj together and have been ever ...
A. 22 October 2007: You are tired of the relationship you have as you seem to be picking him apart with criticism. However you also say that this man "doesn't cheat, smoke, drink, do drugs, hang out, hit me, or anything illegal.
He works hard to provide ... (read in full...)
My half brother is married to her elder sister. We see each other in secret. Our families disagree. How can we win this?
Q. I'm 25 and i'm really, truly, madly, deeply in love with my girlfriend. She's 20 but the problem is everyone(my folks and hers) swear they wont let us get married cos my half bother is married to her elder sister. I know she's also crazy about me ...
A. 22 October 2007: If you are old enough to make the decision and you will accept the consequences then I don't see the problem here. You aren't acutally related to your girlfriend as the sister is your sister-in-law.
Many famalies have circumstances like the... (read in full...)
What does she mean by this?
Q. "sorry just have alot on my mind.. haven't really wanted to talk to anyone lately i guess. tryin to clear my head and concentrate on my test also" "no i don't want you out of my life, i guess i just need a lil space right now" and the night b...
A. 22 October 2007: Confusion, depression, excuses, protector,or mind games? She may really be too stressed to carry on conversation or spend time with you. Problems with depression could also be zapping her emotional and physical energy. It is also possible that ... (read in full...)
Can a long distance relationship work?
Q. Hey Aunts/uncles I have a question. I recently met this guy who i fell for instantly. Trouble is, him being 3 years older he was due to go to uni a week later. He said he wud persue a long distance relationship with me. Im more than happy to d...
A. 22 October 2007: It all depends upon how committed you are to one another. Is love in the equation? How decicated are you now to this person? How dedicated is he to you?
I once lived about two hours away from my b/f. I only saw him on Sunday's a few ti... (read in full...)
Can a long distance relationship work?
Q. Hey Aunts/uncles I have a question. I recently met this guy who i fell for instantly. Trouble is, him being 3 years older he was due to go to uni a week later. He said he wud persue a long distance relationship with me. Im more than happy to d...
A. 22 October 2007: It all depends upon how committed you are to one another. Is love in the equation? How decicated are you now to this person? How dedicated is he to you?
I once lived about two hours away from my b/f. I only saw him on Sunday's a few ti... (read in full...)
Can you give me an opinion to this situation?
Q. So ive been with my g/f for 8 months and everything was incredible til about 2 wks ago, she got very depressed. Were both 25. We never actually planned on being in a relationship, it started as just a friend w/ benefit type of situation. When we ...
A. 22 October 2007: She sounds a bit scared and confused. It is quiet possible that she really loves you but is having a hard time letting go of the past. My advise would be to take your time in getting to deeply involved again all at once. Give her the space she ... (read in full...)
Three's company.
Q. I have a girlfriend of 1 year with whom I am in love with. However, she is a year younger than me, and since I have just graduated from High School a little late recently,(3 months ago to be exact) I never really see her anymore, and it feels like ...
A. 22 October 2007: It sounds like you are experiencing mixed emotions. If you truely love your g/f you should refrain from spending time alone with a the new girl. Try to focus more on your schooling and give yourself a break from dating. Hopefully you will be able ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex, will it hurt?
Q. im 12 years old and my boyfreind is 23 years old,we want to have sex will it hurt and will he have to force his penis in me?...
A. 22 October 2007: If you have read Sweeties answer please go back and read it again. You are 12 hon you have plenty of time to worry about sex. You shouldn't be involved with a 23 year old it isn't a good idea for any reason. Find someone closer to your age for a ... (read in full...)
Did this man give me herpes? What can I do about it?
Q. hi. i have an embarassing question. i have contracted herpes from a complete stranger. my mother is asking whats on my face and i keep telling her its a cold sore. this man randomly came up to me in the subway and statred kissing me, then he ran....
A. 22 October 2007: I am glad you did hon and I hope that you will be able to feel safe when you travel. Take care of yourself and ask God to watch over you. ... (read in full...)
How can I describe to him what it's like to have sex with someone who's so drunk they hardly can recall it? He hid this "habit" until after we got married.
Q. I'm 51 y/o, married 7 months to a total alcoholic, functional in all ways, but a drunk nevertheless. He hid it from me until after we were married. I knew he drank a few beers a day, but not also at least a 1/2 pint of vodka, too, straight from the ...
A. 22 October 2007: It sounds crazy but some people are not relaxed enough to have sex unless they are intoxicated. Many people tend to forget things when they are in a druken state. Some people don't forget what they do but they might not be all aware of what they ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend just hit me 'cause I wouldnt get him something from the fridge!
Q. my boyfriend has just hit me and smashed lots of things in the house because i would not get him something from the fridge when he was in the kitchen and i wasnt what shall i do,we are due to get married and dont think i can spend the rest of my ...
A. 22 October 2007: It sounds like he has a possible control problem. He needs to seek help for anger management. If he doesn't then you should walk away and not look back. No one should be treated this way. His outbusrt could seriously endanger your mental, emotional ... (read in full...)
If I look down there it puts me off from having anyone touch me. How do I know I'm allright?
Q. Heya. This is probally one of the most common questions you come across but you can never find an answer for, well at least i cant. Im worried if i look right or not down below and it puts me off from even having anyone touch me. How do you now if ...
A. 22 October 2007: If someone can't like you for whom you are then you don't need them anyway. Try not to fear something that another person pobably won't notice the way you do. It sounds like low self esteem or the fear of being rejected. At either rate tell ... (read in full...)
Did this man give me herpes? What can I do about it?
Q. hi. i have an embarassing question. i have contracted herpes from a complete stranger. my mother is asking whats on my face and i keep telling her its a cold sore. this man randomly came up to me in the subway and statred kissing me, then he ran....
A. 22 October 2007: Treat it with blistex. It works wonders. However if it continues to remain seek medical advice. It could be many one of many conditions which might require medical attention. From now on be more cautious of strangers and try not to travel alone ... (read in full...)
I love her, but don't know what to do?
Q. i have a problem with my current gf. we have know each other for 3yrs but we have been going out for 8months.she told me that she fell in love the first time she saw me. but she has a 1yr old baby with an older guy.the guy comes to visits his baby ...
A. 21 October 2007: She could be playing with your emotions or she could be afriad of complications with the child's Father. He may be using the child as a pawn to win her back or perhaps to control her in some way. On the other hand they could be still in somewhat ... (read in full...)
For the past month he started to freak out about being in such a long term and with the same person forever. Now he's given the relation a chance, but I'm afraid of losing it!
Q. i am losing my boyfriend and i dont know how to stop it. we have been together a long time and we really do love each other, we have also become each others best friends. the problem is we have both become really reliant on each other, our worlds ...
A. 21 October 2007: A quote from an ex of mine that so many people use. "If you love someone set them free and if they return to you then it was meant to be". I am a firm believer that true love never dies and that which is meant to be will be. It sounds like you ... (read in full...)
I like two guys, which one should I choose?
Q. I have a problem with liking two guys. One I'll call John. I met John over two years ago and I've been dating him for two years. We have a great relationship and neither of us ever planned on us ever breaking up. The only problem is that he is in ...
A. 21 October 2007: Sometimes this happens when a loved one is away f0rm you. You have to make a choice because you could end up hurting someone in a really bad way. The NavyMan might care for you but if you can't make a clear decision to be committed to him you won't ... (read in full...)
I like two guys, which one should I choose?
Q. I have a problem with liking two guys. One I'll call John. I met John over two years ago and I've been dating him for two years. We have a great relationship and neither of us ever planned on us ever breaking up. The only problem is that he is in ...
A. 21 October 2007: Sometimes this happens when a loved one is away f0rm you. You have to make a choice because you could end up hurting someone in a really bad way. The NavyMan might care for you but if you can't make a clear decision to be committed to him you won't ... (read in full...)
He says I've got problems that are bound to come out again and our relationship will always suffer from them if we come back to what he had. How do I convince him?
Q. I hurt my boyfriend and lost his trust. However, I have a depression and he knows it. So he says that he does not want to go back to our previous relationship but does very much want to help. He is around me still. But we don't go out on da...
A. 21 October 2007: If he is still sending you love notes and text messages it seems you still might have that heart after all. I would suggest that you get help with your condition. Physiotherapy might help you a lot. You can try backing off a bit so he can come to ... (read in full...)
Am I just a challenge to him?
Q. i have recently broken up with my boyfriend of nearly two years, as we just were not getting on very well. he can not accept that it is over which is making me confused as to what i want as i was the one who ended it. although i think that i would ...
A. 21 October 2007: It sounds as if you may had developed a relationship with the fling of 3 years ago when you weren't quiet emotionally ready to move on. It is often what one terms as rebound. It doesn't mean that you didn't develope real feelings for this ... (read in full...)
How do I get my g/f to go back to having threesomes?
Q. I found out that about a year before my girlfriend and I became a couple she had several threesomes with her previous boyfriend and other girls. She also was involved in orgies. She became "gun shy" of that scene after her boyfriend left her for ...
A. 21 October 2007: Just to let you know. Many people who engage in this type of activity often wind up loosing their spouses to the other part of the 3_some. When you consider this, is it worth loosing the person you LOVE just for the moments of pleasure you can ... (read in full...)
Oral sex is now hurting him!
Q. Hey Okay this has really gotten to me now I was giving my boyfriend oral sex and ive never before had any conplaints. but he said that it hurt. Hes in full health and his penis is fine, it never hurts any other time and I think I'm being a little...
A. 21 October 2007: The genital areas of both male and female can be quiet sensitive. The skin in that area is often extremely thin and can cause pain during the sexual act. Some people are just more sensitive than others also. You might try using something to help in ... (read in full...)
Oral sex is now hurting him!
Q. Hey Okay this has really gotten to me now I was giving my boyfriend oral sex and ive never before had any conplaints. but he said that it hurt. Hes in full health and his penis is fine, it never hurts any other time and I think I'm being a little...
A. 21 October 2007: The genital areas of both male and female can be quiet sensitive. The skin in that area is often extremely thin and can cause pain during the sexual act. Some people are just more sensitive than others also. You might try using something to help in ... (read in full...)
Is this love, or is this friends with benefits?
Q. I was separated and became involved with someone who was a friend. She spent alot of time with me (she was going thru the same thing) and was very affectionate. It seemed like we had something very good happening to both of us and others around us ...
A. 21 October 2007: Well she did say it herself. She isn't ready. If you love her my advice is to wait it out. Time is the keeper of all tales. She already told you she hasn't slept with anyone else since you started dating. That's a good sign, I would say. Just try to ... (read in full...)
He jacked off earlier and told me during sex why he was taking so long. It made me angry!
Q. Recently my bf and i were having sex and he was taking a really long time... so I started to feel self-concsious that I was doing something wrong. Then he said "Don't worry... it's not your fault... I "jacked off" today." I was so mad and hurt by...
A. 21 October 2007: Well said Tommy! It is known sometimes also that men pleasure themselves and tell the partner so it will make them feel good that it wasn't with another woman. Sometimes it is considered a turn on by their mate. Don't feel angry Oscar most men will ... (read in full...)
Is it selfish of me to feel uncomfortable when giving an ex relationship advice?
Q. I was in a relationship recently with a girl, but we split up. We're still friends now, and we still care a lot for each other, so we talk about all sorts. She's moving on and has starting dating someone, and she sometimes asks my advice. In a way ...
A. 21 October 2007: Sometimes you say it best when you say nothing at all. Good luck and God is watching over you.... (read in full...)
He's stressed and I feel neglected
Q. I could really use some advice. I have been seeing a really top guy for 8months now. Everything had been going great. At the beginning it was me who had all the reservations but now im so confused and it hurts so much. We have very similar interests ...
A. 21 October 2007: If you had a favorite dress with a small hole in it would you simply throw it away or would you instead try to mend it so you could have it as long as possible? Or think about the special moment in time when you were on vacation and coming home you ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think about my behavior. What do you think?
Q. i went out drinking last night and got 'extremely' drunk. i brought home a woman with the intention of having sex with her and a friend of hers and a another guy came back too. after a while, i disappeared upstairs to have sex with the girl, leaving ...
A. 21 October 2007: Quiet often people who drink excessively will vent their aggravations out on the ones whom they are closest to. If you have a good friend and companion in your flatmate then I would advise you to make amends quickly. Try not to get so intoxicated ... (read in full...)
How should I persue this new possibility?
Q. Ok so I recently broke up with my long term bf. Totally gutted and shocked - right out of the blue he breaks up with me. Over the phone. Am getting over him. Thankfully when you get hurt by someone, it becomes very easy to see the bad in them. ...
A. 21 October 2007: It sounds like you want one but you just aren't sure that you are quiet ready for one. Give things time to develope slowly and naturally. One day at the time as they say and good things come to those who wait. It seems that you are well on the way ... (read in full...)
How does a person reclaim her dignity in a situation like this? He says I'm not mature enough to be friends with him after the break up...
Q. Hope someone can help. My boyfriend and I split about three months ago. The reason was that he was seeing someone else on and off. I could not handle it. I had wanted to meet to clear the air but he did not want to. That mean't that much of the ...
A. 20 October 2007: As far as it goes honey your dignity is still intact. Where his is far gone. Walk away from the conflict with a good heart and best wishes. Tommorrow is another day. May God bless you and "Vengence is Mine sayeth the Lord"... (read in full...)
I love her, she likes me, but we don't want to hurt anyone.
Q. i'm in love with my mates girl and she likes me to but we dont want to screw things up, wat should i do?...
A. 20 October 2007: If you know you feel this put yourself in his place. If she were your girlfriend would you really want to be dissed for your best mate? Seems a bit unfair to say the least. It can cause the end of a great friendship and you never know a ... (read in full...)
My partner is an environmentalist and I'm tired of being getting lectured and reprimanded! I feel like a child!
Q. My boyfriend is French and I'm American. We do very well together excepting one thing. I have many bad habits and I'm very bad at being an environmentalist (in which he is). He tells me what I ought to be doing and for the most part he is usually ...
A. 19 October 2007: Be honest and let him know how you feel. Don't act resentful over it. Tell him you appreciate the fact that he is able to do the enviromental thing but that you are a bit different out of habit. It will take time for you to change ask for his ... (read in full...)
Is it selfish of me to feel uncomfortable when giving an ex relationship advice?
Q. I was in a relationship recently with a girl, but we split up. We're still friends now, and we still care a lot for each other, so we talk about all sorts. She's moving on and has starting dating someone, and she sometimes asks my advice. In a way ...
A. 19 October 2007: Let her know that you don't feel comfortable trying to advise her on a new relationship. You don't have to explain what you feel for her. Just let her know you are her friend and that you hope she is happy in whatever she chooses. You wish her the ... (read in full...)
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