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We broke up and I can't get over him! Help!

Q.   hiaa I have a problem. I broke up with my bf a few months ago and now he's with someone else. but I can't get over him. its when youve not got someone that u realise how much you needed them. and now when ever I see them together I have to leave ...

A.   9 May 2010: This has happened to me too darl. I'm 16 and been with my boyfriend since I was 14 and he was 16, so yeah he's now 18. All I can really tell you is that it's hard. Me and my bf argued for a whole 3 weeks just constant none stop swearing at e... (read in full...)

What is cam2cam?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for a while and he wants to do cam2cam...i am willing to do this but i don't really know what happens during cam2cam. I know that it does involve getting naked but what else do you do??? please help because i don't ...

A.   1 June 2009: Huh cam 2 cam isnt always for you to 'strip'. If he saiis he wants u to get naked then thats up to you but cam 2 cam is where u and whoever your chatting to both go on cam for the sake of seeing each others faces OR cam2cam could mean that you have ... (read in full...)

Advice on how to do Phone sex!

Q.   Hey, I just currently turned 14 and my boyfriend's about a year and 5 month's older than me. We have a very long distance relationship, but we've gotten to the stage of phone sex. And for some reason I won't do it with him, I feel bad because I ...

A.   5 April 2009: During phone sex u dont always need to tlk about it. Just make orgasmic noices. But if u feel insecure with it all please please please dont be afraid to say no. Good Luckk x... (read in full...)

What can I do to make him stay?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend was together for 10 months now and we`re not in love anymore.He wants to leave me.What can I do to make him want to stay?...

A.   10 February 2009: I know its not what you want to hear but youre young and he may just want to experiance girls before he goes into a serious relationship. Just have a break and see different people. Keep in contact and if he wants to try again and you do too then go ... (read in full...)

Feeling left out

Q.   I am a very social person. I love people. My feelings are always hurt when I am left out of a party or get-together. I have a couple who are good friends of mine. I am pretty sure that they consider me a good friend also. I have done lots o...

A.   1 February 2009: Hey, Am not being nasty its just a thought, she may just be using you because she knows that you are there for her child. Just tell her that you wont help her with the child if she doesnt start including you.... (read in full...)

I don't know if I'm ready!

Q.   Well, I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 14. We've been dating for about 2 months now and we had our first kiss about 2 weeks ago. I Love him and I think he's the perfect boyfriend. I just spent time with him yesterday and we made out for a couple hours. He ...

A.   29 December 2008: Hey there Hunni. I am in the same situation as you. Am 2 years older than u n still havent let no one touch below the waist as it might ruin my current relationship. He has touched under my bra n tht but nt gone below my waist. You say your bf i 14... (read in full...)

Is this too big of an age gap?

Q.   Hi everybody, I met a guy who is older than me and we and thinking about getting into a relationship. I am 20 and he is 26. Is this age gap ok or is it too wide? Thanks for all your help. :)...

A.   8 December 2008: To be honest its ok when your an adult. There is 7 years between my parents. Just don't go over 10 years age gap.... (read in full...)

How do I stop my boobs from growing?

Q.   Okay i'm 15 years old, i'm 5'1 and my boobs are way too big already, i just want to know if there's anything i can do to stop growing anymore! I'm already a 32F, no 15 year old at my short height should have boobs that big, and i'm really quite ...

A.   30 November 2008: you cant stop your boobs from growing untill you have finished puberty. When your older you may wish tht you want to reduce your boob size but you can't gt tht op till you 21... (read in full...)

Is it normal that I am 20 and still a virgin?

Q.   Is it normal that I am 20 and still a virgin? All my friends have been in serious relationships, however, I have not. I have been on a few dates but I have never felt attrated to anyone. My friends say im picky but I dont want to hurt anyones ...

A.   28 November 2008: This is normal. You may still be waiting for that right person and their is nothing wrong with waiting tht long. Just because your friends have doesn't mean you hae too. Dont rush with having sex just because your friends have you may regret i... (read in full...)

Stressed about choosing the right guy without hurting the others that are interested in me...

Q.   im so stressed about boys, I have a few that i think are nice and they are intrested in me, but i need to see who i like by meeting them, and that makes me feel really bad cause il kiss them and then il have to hurt the rest i dont want to be ...

A.   22 November 2008: Get with the boy you feel knows you and will appreciate you not ones that just flirt, they may end up cheating. Don't feel like your going to hurt them, they will move on quickly trust me. You will only be happy if you are with someone who you ... (read in full...)

We can't afford to break up!

Q.   I've lived with my long term boyfriend for a good few years. We do have a lot of problems that have come up over the course of that time, I've discovered we're very different people, with very different priorities. The spark may not completely have ...

A.   22 November 2008: I know i am only young but when i was younger my mum and dad had the same problem when they was married. They just agreed that they shouldnt be together and my dad moved out and went to stay with his family who lived over 200 miles away. My mum wa... (read in full...)

I plan to propose to my girlfriend - how do you find this scenario?

Q.   Hello, I plan on proposing to my girlfriend, she knows i want to marry her as we have talked openly about it, but she dosent know when im going to ask her. she is away at college at the moment and has been begging me for a puppy, so i plan on buy...

A.   20 November 2008: I think that this is a really romantic idea. Get a ring saying i love you and put a puppy in a box with the ring around his collar with a note in the box or on the box saying will you marry me maybe write it at the bottom of the box so when she pick... (read in full...)

Do you think there is any chance for us after my husband discovered I had lied about the amount of debt I was in?

Q.   i am deeply upset. i am only married a few months and lied to my husband about the amount of debt i was in.i do not blame him in anyway it is all my fault and i am deeply sorry and facing up to all me problems. he found out and threw me out of the ...

A.   20 November 2008: Tell him you love him so much and you dont want to lose him. If you are a really good married couple you would be able to sit down and talk about it. Married couples have got to be there for each other so talk to him about it and try and think of... (read in full...)

My best friend and I fight over this boy's love, what should I do?

Q.   My best friend and I are in love with the same boy. We fight over it every single day and hate each other to bits at the moment. This boy told me he loved me and hated my best friend...... what should i do?????? XxX...

A.   20 November 2008: You should tell your best mate that boys come and go but friendship lasts a lifetime. You have all the time in your life to look for a boy both of you do and dont let one silly little boy get in the way of your friendship x... (read in full...)

She ignored my message in which I wrote that I love her, what should I do now?

Q.   There is this girl who is close to me and i love her. She doesnt know that i love her.but recently she saw one of the msgs i sent to her telling her that i loved her,she didnt say anything. What should i do. Should i tell her bcos she now knows....

A.   20 November 2008: She may just be shy she may apreciate if yo gie her something to prove you love her ya never know she may feel the same way. Let me know how it goes x... (read in full...)

We're very close... I think I love her, should I tell her?

Q.   There is this girl who is my friend for over 3 months now. She comes around to visit me, always laughs all the time when we are together, touches me frequently and looks at me in the eyes. I wrote a love poem for her and asked her if she loved it ...

A.   19 November 2008: I think you should definately tell her that you love her. She may be acting this way towards you because she doesn't think you love her. Go for it, tell her how you really feel. Good Luck x... (read in full...)

We're not going out so why doesn't he like me hugging other guys?

Q.   I don't understand, right this lad i am really close fiends to, and he always hugs me and stuff, and when other lads want to hug me he gets dead over powering and doesnt let them or gets like dead protective and obsessive and jealous, like he will ...

A.   19 November 2008: He may have feelings for you. Talk to him about it ask him why he doesnt like you hugging other lads. You may have feelings for him too so its worth a try going out with him. Hope This Works x P.S. Let me know how it goes.... (read in full...)

How can I prove my feelings for her so that we never break up again?

Q.   Hi everybody, My girlfriend and I fell out over a week ago because I was studid enough to doubt our relationship and my commitment etc, we have spoken though and have decided to go back out and give it another go because we still love each other ...

A.   19 November 2008: I think you should propose to her but ask her parents and your parents about it first.... (read in full...)

Anal sex has suddenly started hurting. Any advice?

Q.   Well me and my boyfriend of about three years have been having sex for the last six months or so but we had a break from sex whilst i was away in South Africa for a month. Well we're having sex again now and it is really hurting. I mean anal sex is ...

A.   18 November 2008: Go to a doctor, you may have an STI. It may be hurting because you have had a long break from sex, it may just be a shock to your body if your body is used to often sex like 3 or 4 times a week. Even if you do have an STI you can get it treated s... (read in full...)

Worries about pregnancy and the contraceptive pill.

Q.   Ok so I'm having some worries about pregnancy and the contraceptive pill. I had me period then forgot to take the first active pill. had unprotected sex then forgot to take the pill again until almost 2 days later. I've been feeling a little...

A.   18 November 2008: hiyah If i was you i would STOP taking the pill wait a week or so and try a pregnancy test. Taking two pills leads to dissiness and some sickness. If your pregnancy test says positive then you can decide with your partner if you want to keep the ... (read in full...)

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