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I can't retract my foreskin. Is this a problem?
Q. hi im 15 years old and i've only realised about a year ago that my foreskin doesnt roll over the head of my penis this is scaring me ....i dont want to go to the doctors about it because it would scare me and i would get really worried incase i had ...
A. 13 November 2007: Circumsision is a minor operation. Don't be afraid to have it done. If the problem you have is annoying to you or embarrassing then talk to a doctor about having it taken care of. If you keep yourself clean otherwise and you don't feel it's a ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? I wasn't worried initially because I had known him for a long time and he was a virgin. Help!
Q. i'm 15 years old. and last night while i was at a friends house her brothers friend and i were fooling around. all he was doing though was fingering me. but later when we went up stairs, me and him were laying on my friends futon, and then we fooled ...
A. 13 November 2007: Hon if you have a period you can get pregnant. If you had a period just before all of this happened you are extremely fertile during this time.
Get a home pregnancy test done and if you are seek medical help immediately. Hopefully yo... (read in full...)
Husband having midlife crisis?? I want affection from him but I've read men don't offer it during this time. What can I do?
Q. I am a 31 yr old female with a 37 yr old husband of 10 yrs, been together 15, have 2 boys, 4 and 7. Husband I think is going through midlife crisis. Last yr he decided to have an affair for 2 months in which i caught him in, he then moved out, ...
A. 13 November 2007: You love him that's a fact. He must have love for you because he keeps comming back. Something in your relationship is more important than keeping his mistress. You need to talk it out with him and see if you can find out just what he is ... (read in full...)
He blames me because I won't move back in.
Q. I don't know if I should continue on. I left my husband a year ago- I don't want a divorce; but I don't want to be unhappy either. We both have children, creating a blended family. We have one child together. He won't work, cook, clean, ...
A. 12 November 2007: I would never say you are wrong hon. You have a right to feel what you do. It becomes hard to deal with life on it's own without the added stress of your husband's condition. He probably is in denial. That is a sad fact for alot of people with ... (read in full...)
He blames me because I won't move back in.
Q. I don't know if I should continue on. I left my husband a year ago- I don't want a divorce; but I don't want to be unhappy either. We both have children, creating a blended family. We have one child together. He won't work, cook, clean, ...
A. 9 November 2007: You have to be he one to practice tough love. Let him know that you love him but that he has to seek help for his condition. From what you said I am gathering he is bi-polar and must be recieving SSI disability income.
First of all... (read in full...)
How can I get to meet him?
Q. ive been talking to this guy on AIM for over 3 months now. we seem to click realy well and usualy end up chatting for about half an hour too an hour most days. its usualy him that starts the conversation. the thing is he hasnt never asked to see ...
A. 8 November 2007: If you are getting vibes that he might be interested in meeting you in person then just ask him. Use a phrase like we have been talking a good while and it seems like we already have so much in common. Would you perhaps like to meet? Don't agree ... (read in full...)
Is this cheating
Q. i kissed a lad on the cheek to say thankyou and he kissed me on the cheek back is this cheating on my boyfriend?...
A. 7 November 2007: If it was only a simple thank you kiss on the cheek and a return of one I don't think it would be considered anything other than a friendly thank you.
If your b/f knows about it and thinks differently it could be misunderstood. If he kn... (read in full...)
His ex cheated on him and now I wish he'd get over it!
Q. Hi. I work in the same place as this really cool guy. We've been spending quite some time together and I really really like him and for the first time I'm falling in love.I know he likes me too but there's a major problem I've had to deal with.He ...
A. 7 November 2007: If you two made love it could have triggered his subconcious mind to remember. When he was sleeping the sub concious brought her out possibly to be dealth with. If he is still in love with her that might have a bearing on his dream. If not then ... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant and don't have a ride or money for the test.
Q. im very young and i think im pregnany by my ex bf. but my current bf will hate me and my ex bf that i think im pregnant by is mad at me and pretty much hates me. i havnt felt like eating my stomach is getting hard and i have no appetite. my...
A. 7 November 2007: See if you can find a Teen Pregnancy Center ir a /teen Pregnancy Hotline listing in your local phonebook.
Here is a site you might be able to get some help here also.
Birthright International
A www.birthright.com
Tollfree Number 888-2... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant and don't have a ride or money for the test.
Q. im very young and i think im pregnany by my ex bf. but my current bf will hate me and my ex bf that i think im pregnant by is mad at me and pretty much hates me. i havnt felt like eating my stomach is getting hard and i have no appetite. my...
A. 7 November 2007: Whether you are or aren't pregnant it is unhealthy not to eat. If your stomach is hardened it could be that your bowels aren't working properly if you aren't eating right.
If you are sexually active it is also a big possiblity that you are ... (read in full...)
My wife needs to pee every time we try to have sex
Q. Hi not sure if anyone can help me. After foreplay and sex, my wife spends most of the night going to the bath room for a pee. She says she pees each time but only a trickle. on saturday she counted 10 trips, we used a condom to see if that was...
A. 7 November 2007: Sexual intercourse can put pressure upon the walls of the bladder causing an urgency to urinate. Another problem could be an over active bladder. Having an orgasm can also trigger the bladder thus causing the flow of urnation in some women. ... (read in full...)
How to get my ex back?
Q. My ex and I had something really special and we really cared for each other but we have now been done for 2 months. I still really love him and I know he still likes me. Ive reserched some on how to get an ex back sadly did some of the bad signs. N...
A. 7 November 2007: First of all you should consider that you might love him but it's possible he doesn't reciprocate so he has chosen to move on. Don't get between the new relationship it will only cause you more heartache.
Back off and let him do what ... (read in full...)
What to do to make him feel loved and cared for?
Q. Both me and my fiance are currently deployed overseas. What can I do to let him know that he feels loved and cared for?...
A. 7 November 2007: When loved ones are far away it is important to bring a little piece of home to them as often as possible. You can try sending lots of letters, cards and pics of you and family members.Don't forget to use your favorite pefume on the letter and ... (read in full...)
How can I Convert a Non-Exclusive Relationship to an Exclusive One?
Q. I've been dating my ex for awhile now. At first, after we broke up, we were just friends but at some point things became more physical and now we're definitely more than friends although we are not in a relationship. He is involved in the ...
A. 7 November 2007: Back off! Don't let him use you to fullfill his need for emotional stability. You deserve to have the committment you want. If he clearly isn't giving it to you then you should just let him go.
When he does decide upon a committm... (read in full...)
Can surgery fix my finger?
Q. Dear Cupid's I have a major problem with myself. My left ring finger is shorter and the knuckle seems to be lower and you cant see it. I would like to know will surgery be able to fix this? As i have had enough of people calling me disgusting wh...
A. 6 November 2007: If people treat you badly because you finger is just a wee bit shorter than it should be you need to avoid those people. They aren't worth your time anyway. They are short more than the lenght of a finger. They don't have a great deal of ... (read in full...)
My gf's sister and 4 year old loud niece are moving in. I want to help out family but feel this may be too much!
Q. My gf's sister and her 4yr old niece are moving in with us. We live in a small 2bd condo and space is tight. Never before did I think that I would have a problem helping out "family" in a time of need but I do have some serious concerns regarding ...
A. 6 November 2007: Anytime you have someone other than you and your mate living in the same house it can cause disruption. Having a small child who is undeslipined in the house can be huge problem. As far as the sister, set ground rules period. You and your mate ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing???
Q. Help someone please, I have finished with my husband of 19 years and I really don't want him back its over for good.... My problem is that I have fallen head over heals with a man ten years younger than me, we meet on holiday and he is the best t...
A. 5 November 2007: You are stronger than you think hon. When you made the decision to say you needed to move on with your life you followed your commom sense. You can love someone and loose them but letting go is the hard part.
You might want to consider... (read in full...)
He went to bars the last 2 Fridays and now is under house arrest, I am afraid this will be a common occurance.
Q. i've been dating this guy for 8mo.He went to the bar the last 2Fri without me because I was late getting to his house.He's on housearrest until 7p on a DUI.I asked him if this was going to be a everyfri occurrance. He said I don't know after I ...
A. 5 November 2007: He is probably an alcoholic. He won't give it up until he is ready. From the sounds of it he clearly didn't consider your feelings at all by leaving just because you were a bit late. I don't know about in your state but you can get into a big ... (read in full...)
My mind is blanking out for no reason and I am not remembering what I do!
Q. I need medical advice what to do. I am 14 and in the past few weeks I have had a few episodes where I don't remember what I have just done. For example, I was getting ready for bed, and decided to write a small list, I sat down with a pen and pape...
A. 5 November 2007: There are many things that can cause this. Please SEEK MEDICAL ADVICE IMMDIATELY!!! It is very important that you do so your life could be at stake Your healh and well being is already being compromised.
God bless you.... (read in full...)
My mind is blanking out for no reason and I am not remembering what I do!
Q. I need medical advice what to do. I am 14 and in the past few weeks I have had a few episodes where I don't remember what I have just done. For example, I was getting ready for bed, and decided to write a small list, I sat down with a pen and pape...
A. 5 November 2007: There are many things that can cause this. Please SEEK MEDICAL ADVICE IMMDIATELY!!! It is very important that you do so your life could be at stake Your healh and well being is already being compromised.
God bless you.... (read in full...)
I'm nuts about my friend, she's so popular, Is this the right way to let her know how I feel?
Q. Ok im crazy for this girl i have known her for a long time and things just kept getting from normal to worse. We have been friends for like a year and a half and we know each other real good. Hses the type who always wants attention always with ...
A. 5 November 2007: It appears that she might be just taking her time in choosing. This is the norm for some people to date many suitors at the same time. This isn't necessarily a sexual thing. It gives a person a chance in getting to know about different possible ... (read in full...)
My own personal soap opera... I'm in love with 2 men from 2 different countries
Q. I've been dating this guy for over 3 years (2004-2007), we've been very serious and have been living together for 2 years. I actually moved from the US to NZ to live with him at the beginning of 2006, and we've been inseparable ever since. Howe...
A. 5 November 2007: Did you ever watch the movie with Julia Roberts, Cameron Diaz and Dermont Mulroony? It is called My Best Friends Wedding. The movie had a good ending but the lesson taught in the meantime was that you can really mess things up by being ... (read in full...)
17 yr old and attracted to younger girls (10-14). I take relationships seriously, with honesty, but this worries me?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a question that I don't know what to make of. I am a 17 year old male and I think am worried because I think I might like girls younger than me. By younger, I mean as in 10-14 or so. Somtimes when I look at schoolbo...
A. 5 November 2007: It sounds like you have some self respect left. You are smart enought to realize that it doesn't feel right. You feel as though you are what would be considered a pedophile. This is something you are against. Be wise and let common sense be your ... (read in full...)
17 yr old and attracted to younger girls (10-14). I take relationships seriously, with honesty, but this worries me?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a question that I don't know what to make of. I am a 17 year old male and I think am worried because I think I might like girls younger than me. By younger, I mean as in 10-14 or so. Somtimes when I look at schoolbo...
A. 5 November 2007: It sounds like you have some self respect left. You are smart enought to realize that it doesn't feel right. You feel as though you are what would be considered a pedophile. This is something you are against. Be wise and let common sense be your ... (read in full...)
We were together for 5 years, now she wants nothing to do with me, is it time to let go?
Q. Hi, Okay ladies, i need help please! My ex and I are broken up for 5 mos. now. we had been together for the past 5 years...she has resisted all attempts to communicate, except when I called her 1 mo. ago... She is in school again, and taking...
A. 5 November 2007: It is hard for someone to love a person and not feel the need to be close to them. Since you have broken up if you think about the reason for the split it might help to put things into perspective. If you have been the one who is making all the ... (read in full...)
Every day there's a insult from my gf of 3 yrs or her kids. Should I break up?
Q. my girlfriend of 3 yrs will only give about 30%, wont come to my house i have to go there. always tells me how wrong iam and that her and her kids are right, ALWAYS, every single thing is done when she says, its not what WE can do to make this work, ...
A. 2 November 2007: Something surely sounds amiss here. It sounds like she is the kind who wants it her way or else! It might be the time for you to cut your losses. A real relationship is about taking and GIVING. If she isn't willing to even see her faults then ... (read in full...)
Do we girls have to wait forever for a man to propose and settle down?
Q. Mom thinks that I should marry soon because I am already 31 years old. I also want to start my own family, however BF wants to wait. He claims he's not emotionally and financially prepared. I understand, but that makes me wonder. Any single NY men ...
A. 1 November 2007: It could be that he is seeing red flags! You said" MOM thinks I should marry soon because I am already 31 years old." What part of this post did you say you were? If he feels that Mom is pressuring the two of you to get married he could be ... (read in full...)
I've suffered a traumatic experience, now I've put on weight, how can I get myself back on track?
Q. hiya, I'm 17 and 6 months ago i was raped. I started eating loads and i have gained so much weight i use to be a size 10-12 and now im a 16-18. I hate my body so much and i have lost all my confidence, i was woundering if anyone can give me any advi...
A. 1 November 2007: You are most welcome hon. Keep your chin up and stay positive. You will cope and deal with your situation one day at the time. Ever read Footprints in the Sand...when I saw only one set of footprints I asked "Lord why did You leave me." He ... (read in full...)
What signs are shown when someone still cares.
Q. Me and my ex of 3 years broke up a little over 4 months ago. we lived together the whole time, had alot of ups and downs. but since the break up shes been dating different guys. How do i tell she still loves me and cares if we dont talk, because ...
A. 31 October 2007: When someone asks for space it often means that they need to sort something out. If she is dating other men she maybe wanting to be sure if your relationship should continue. Sometimes people feel trapped when they are with one person.
S... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl plays with her hair whilst she's chatting to you?
Q. Hey What does it mean when a girl plays with her hair whilst she's chatting to you?...
A. 31 October 2007: Sometimes twirling the hair with your fingers is a sign of being shy. It is a basic habit that is formed to signify many things. She is quiet possibly flirting with you. Watch for other signs like smiles or a touch on the hand or arm per say. ... (read in full...)
I've suffered a traumatic experience, now I've put on weight, how can I get myself back on track?
Q. hiya, I'm 17 and 6 months ago i was raped. I started eating loads and i have gained so much weight i use to be a size 10-12 and now im a 16-18. I hate my body so much and i have lost all my confidence, i was woundering if anyone can give me any advi...
A. 31 October 2007: I can say with all honesty that I truely do feel for you. I have been in your shoes. I too have been raped and is not a good feeling. It is terrifying. I care about you and the pain you are having to deal with. It is very difficult and yo mind ... (read in full...)
I've suffered a traumatic experience, now I've put on weight, how can I get myself back on track?
Q. hiya, I'm 17 and 6 months ago i was raped. I started eating loads and i have gained so much weight i use to be a size 10-12 and now im a 16-18. I hate my body so much and i have lost all my confidence, i was woundering if anyone can give me any advi...
A. 31 October 2007: Trauma can cause depression and sometimes it can be severe. Your binge eating could be related to the fact that when alot of women have this happen they think it is their fault and begin to hate themselves. IT ISN'T YOR FAULT!!!! No one had the ... (read in full...)
They're all calling me fat but I know I'm not. How can I get this through to them?
Q. My mother is constantly calling me fat, and her and her friends have a nickname for me 'fatso'. Im 140lbs and 5'7'', and her constant putting down of my weight and bodyshape is really annoying me. When she was my age she had a very kate moss ...
A. 30 October 2007: Body types have alot to do with how your weight is distributed. Certain factors can include body water, which means you have more lean tissue. A person who is considered big boned has more mass in their skeletal makeup thus making them look ... (read in full...)
She has Anaemia - will it affect her ability to have children in the future?
Q. Hi guys,i'm forever grateful to the advise you give.However,i need some education on a new development in our relationship.My girlfriend was recently found with Aneamia?I wanted to know if this can affect her capability to have children,in future.It ...
A. 30 October 2007: EXCUSE MY IMPERFECTION!!! Between the computer acting up and my spelling maybe one can understand what I mean. Thank God he isn't thru with me yet!SMILES! and *LOL*
Blue_Angel0316... (read in full...)
My family are living in the past! How can I get them to accept that I'm no longer depressed?
Q. I recovered from depression about 4 months ago and I'm having real trouble dealing with 'the aftermath'. Actually it's more that everybody else is having trouble; I'm doing really well at college, have a job and an amazing boyfriend. Overall I'm ...
A. 30 October 2007: Since you are dealing with your past situation positively you have every right to expect others to help you move on. The past is a place where when dwelled upon can interfer with a brigher future.
Think about everything concerning y... (read in full...)
Is he lying about his internet activities?
Q. Is he lying? Yesterday I was looking in the computer's history. It was not where you put in the web addresses, it was under the favorited websites, I guess there is an area that you can look at the history and I didn't know that. Anyway...
A. 30 October 2007: Anytime you go on the internet and put anything similar on the address bar that might link it up to another site this can happen. If he is in fact looking at something like this which could also be the case it could just be natural male ... (read in full...)
How do I get my g/f to go back to having threesomes?
Q. I found out that about a year before my girlfriend and I became a couple she had several threesomes with her previous boyfriend and other girls. She also was involved in orgies. She became "gun shy" of that scene after her boyfriend left her for ...
A. 30 October 2007: You are most welcome hon. Experiment if you must but please remember the vows you will soon take. You can have romance and love without involving a third person. That is why marraige vows say "Forsaken all others" and why you both say "I do" ... (read in full...)
She has Anaemia - will it affect her ability to have children in the future?
Q. Hi guys,i'm forever grateful to the advise you give.However,i need some education on a new development in our relationship.My girlfriend was recently found with Aneamia?I wanted to know if this can affect her capability to have children,in future.It ...
A. 29 October 2007: Most people do not know that there are many types of anemia. First of all you need to know what the type is. Anemia is a medical condition in which you may supper from fatigue, dimished physical and mental capcity unrelieved by rest. It affects ... (read in full...)
Does he love me, or does he just have separation anxiety?
Q. Hi,I would like to know your opinion on this. My husband cheated on me after 5 years of marriage. We have been separated 3 times since the war started one year deployments. The last time he was gone for a year is when he cheated. Now he is gone a...
A. 29 October 2007: You are most welcome hon and I hope that it helps.
Have a blessed day!... (read in full...)
Does he love me, or does he just have separation anxiety?
Q. Hi,I would like to know your opinion on this. My husband cheated on me after 5 years of marriage. We have been separated 3 times since the war started one year deployments. The last time he was gone for a year is when he cheated. Now he is gone a...
A. 29 October 2007: Hopefully he has realized that he loves you and as you said you were reconnecting with one another. I am sure by now he knows just what he has to loose Since he is the one who messed up by cheating he could be afraid that this time you won't be ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a woman's vagina to smell fishy?
Q. Is it normal for a woman's vagina to smell fishy? And is it a turn off for men? What if he keeps coming back for more?...
A. 29 October 2007: Seek professional advice. Although discharges can range in color from white, grey, yello, clear and pink. They can also be green brown orange or milky. Know what color the dischage is and what exact smell is present. In your case it seems that ... (read in full...)
How do I get my g/f to go back to having threesomes?
Q. I found out that about a year before my girlfriend and I became a couple she had several threesomes with her previous boyfriend and other girls. She also was involved in orgies. She became "gun shy" of that scene after her boyfriend left her for ...
A. 21 October 2007: Just to let you know. Many people who engage in this type of activity often wind up loosing their spouses to the other part of the 3_some. When you consider this, is it worth loosing the person you LOVE just for the moments of pleasure you can ... (read in full...)
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