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DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!
Q. I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...
A. 26 February 2010: Congratulations to all! That is such great news. I am proud to be a part of DearCupid and so glad when I can help someone else in whatever way I can. There are so many nice ladies and gentelmen here who give their time and share in experiences in ... (read in full...)
I'm worried he might be a paedo!
Q. Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...
A. 6 March 2009: Sometimes the path is narrow upon which we stand and the road too long. He has held your mind captive for perhaps what seems only a short space but rest assured that if he is up to NO GOOD then it will make your journey more weary with each breaking ... (read in full...)
I've never had sex so this can't be an STD! Any ideas?
Q. I have a problem and I need some answers please. Okay aunts the problem is I'm scared that I might have an std, but I'm a virgin and haven't had any sexual contact with anybody so I dont think that's possible.. The thing is I have a few pimples ...
A. 6 March 2009: You know I just remembered that white cotton briefs are best to wear. It helps to promote dryness and less chance of allergic reactions. Loose fitting boxers or boxers briefs also allow air to keep the area more dry. Sometimes sweat alone can cause ... (read in full...)
I've never had sex so this can't be an STD! Any ideas?
Q. I have a problem and I need some answers please. Okay aunts the problem is I'm scared that I might have an std, but I'm a virgin and haven't had any sexual contact with anybody so I dont think that's possible.. The thing is I have a few pimples ...
A. 6 March 2009: They could be caused by some type of sebacious cysts. Ingrown hairs can cuase problems in these areas as well. You also have to be concious of the fact that staph infections are pretty well accessible also. Stapy CAN set up in the hair follicles of ... (read in full...)
I'm worried he might be a paedo!
Q. Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...
A. 6 March 2009: My apologies for the bad link below. That should have been as follows.
CyberAngels@ http://www.CyberAngels.org
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
I'm worried he might be a paedo!
Q. Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...
A. 6 March 2009: Yes indeed! If you are already noticing discrepencies in his stories about himself or others, take note! I have been doing chat on the internet for years and I am here to tell you that this is a RED FLAG FLYING HIGH!!!
Set your sights on ge... (read in full...)
I'm worried he might be a paedo!
Q. Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...
A. 5 March 2009: I am thinking you were referring to my post.*LOL* Tis ok...but I wasn't Screaming. I was making point. She is the one who fears his isn't straight about himself. She referred to him as a possible pedophile. The last but not least section was in ... (read in full...)
I'm worried he might be a paedo!
Q. Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...
A. 4 March 2009: IF YOU DO CONSIDER THIS........
I would suggest being chaperoned until you are a couple of years older at least. Providing he is sincere and acts with respect, according to his word then it (might be considered ok. I would be very cuatious not to b... (read in full...)
I don't think hes that into me
Q. Dear cupid, I have been in a relationship for 20yrs, I'm 61 female and most of that 20yrs have been very lonely. I live far away from my grown-up children. My partner has always liked a drink and is very abusive in drink, I myself rarely go out a...
A. 4 March 2009: You are so welcome hon! I do hope that the world as you now know it will soon be gone and as another doors opens unto you, it will be to a great new beginning. To God Be The Glory and thank you for your kind words.
Blessings always,
Bl... (read in full...)
He asked if I'd love to come again...is that a good sign?
Q. Dear cupid Aew days ago i went to a movie with a grou of new peole. Among them was a by whom i really liked. After he movie we went o grab some ice-cream and all the other girls were talking he ket on asking wich flavours i liked and ifi had fun ...
A. 2 March 2009: You're most welcome hon! I hope everything works out just like you want. Seek God's will and I am sure that things will turn out for the best!
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
Views on virginity
Q. Hey, I was just wondering what age did people lose their virginity and having lost it at that age do you wish you had been younger/older when it happened? I'm not thinking of having sex or anything quite yet, I'm just curious :) Thanks x...
A. 2 March 2009: It was 3 months to the day of my 17th Birthday. I was married on Dec 16, so that was the reason. The man was my husband. We dated for a good while and then married.I got married so young because my Dad remarried and my Stepmom was jealous of me. I ... (read in full...)
He asked if I'd love to come again...is that a good sign?
Q. Dear cupid Aew days ago i went to a movie with a grou of new peole. Among them was a by whom i really liked. After he movie we went o grab some ice-cream and all the other girls were talking he ket on asking wich flavours i liked and ifi had fun ...
A. 2 March 2009: It sounds like he likes you too. He was being etremely attentive in trying to get just the right icecream for you! Front seat........well think about it! Asking if you would like to do come again......sounds like a plan to me!
Take your time and... (read in full...)
I don't think hes that into me
Q. Dear cupid, I have been in a relationship for 20yrs, I'm 61 female and most of that 20yrs have been very lonely. I live far away from my grown-up children. My partner has always liked a drink and is very abusive in drink, I myself rarely go out a...
A. 2 March 2009: I'm so sorry to hear your situation. Take this to heart please. I am the last of 8 children who had an alcoholic Mother, I have dated serveral alcoholics in my lifetime and was engaged to a few. Unfortunantly their abusive pattern kept me from ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend split with me but won't let me move on either, what do I do?
Q. Girlfriend split with me but wont let me go. She said she couldn’t be with me at the moment but gave no reason why. We had been going out together for over a year, everything seemed good, and I was heartbroke as I thought we had a very strong re...
A. 1 March 2009: It appears that what you are dealing with is a very mixed up young lady. If you love her and aren't in any real hurry to move on I would suggest backing off and waiting. A heart that is hurting is sometimes almost too unbearable to even speak of. ... (read in full...)
What can I do? My boyfriend is in love with his ex!
Q. My boyfriend is still in love with his ex!! I asked him to tell me truth if he still loved her and he said yes but he really doesn't want to be, they split up years ago but this is the only woman he's ever been in love with and the only woman th...
A. 28 February 2009: If your present relationship is going GREAT, then put the other thoughts out of your mind. You are going to make yourself a place with more troubles than you know by worrying to much over HIS PAST! I know how it hurts to be in your position. I have ... (read in full...)
Worryed my dad will sexually abuse my niece as he did me!
Q. I have a problem with my own dad. He sexually abused me when I was 10 years old. I am afraid he is attracted to young girls. I know he has bathed with my niece who is 8 years old, and everytime she is over, he has her on his lap. I wasn't abused by ...
A. 27 February 2009: Sorry My computer uummmm I forgot to put the http:www 's in front of the link text so they didn't show up properly. Just copy and past them into your browser's.
Thanks for reading!
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
Worryed my dad will sexually abuse my niece as he did me!
Q. I have a problem with my own dad. He sexually abused me when I was 10 years old. I am afraid he is attracted to young girls. I know he has bathed with my niece who is 8 years old, and everytime she is over, he has her on his lap. I wasn't abused by ...
A. 27 February 2009: You may be the only adversary she has. Speak up! Althought it is a very uncomfortable thing to talk to your Dad about it, you need to show your concerns. Have a quiet talk with him. You don't have to accuse. You can try talking to him with something ... (read in full...)
I can't stop arguing and crying!
Q. Please help me. I love my boyfriend, he treats me like a princess. Lately I seem to start arguments and I moan about everything! I am certainly not the fun loving person I was when we met! I cry nearly everytime I see him, I just get upset at lit...
A. 26 February 2009: You are very welcome hon and I really hope that things get better for you. God is watching over you and he WILL see you thru!
Always,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
I can't stop arguing and crying!
Q. Please help me. I love my boyfriend, he treats me like a princess. Lately I seem to start arguments and I moan about everything! I am certainly not the fun loving person I was when we met! I cry nearly everytime I see him, I just get upset at lit...
A. 26 February 2009: It's possible that you may have some sort of medical problem. Hormone imbalances will cause the same effect. The same signs may be caused by depression. Being pregnant can give the same. Not sleeping well and poor nutrition can cause levels of ... (read in full...)
He left me for no reason
Q. The same bf tht gtt mad @ me over a picture tht he didn't get just dumped me...I tried to ask him y he wz mad buh he would never tell me and then he was like just don't talk to I'm done with you but he didn't give me reason I've been nothing but ...
A. 26 February 2009: It's plain that you are very upset and confused over the break up. When you care for someone it's hard sometimes to let go. This seems to be the biggest problem you have actually. However if you can get up the courage to just tell him WHATEVER and ... (read in full...)
Why is this relationship so hard to handle? I'm so confused.
Q. I'm 20 years old,and I just wonder why relationship is so hard to handle.I've met a guy a month ago,and he seems like a gentleman and so polite to me. All close friends all told me he seems to like me a lot.He seems like a honest person and not a ...
A. 25 February 2009: You can simply tell him that you are very fond of him and would like to continue your friendship after he leaves. I wouldn't suggest getting sexually involved as you know he is going to be leaving soon. It will only makes your feelings deepen and ... (read in full...)
For anyone who has forgiven a cheating partner, how did you do it? How long did it take you?
Q. How do I forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me? How do I get the images of the two of them out of my head? A short background: My boyfriend broke up with me last March and slept with a girl that night. We got back together a day or two later...
A. 24 February 2009: I was cheated on over and over again. It takes as long as it takes to truely forgive. However after you forgive you have to try letting it go. If you don't it will poision the rest of your relationship until the end and most likely beyond.
Since... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin, he's not. I am ready to have sex, but don't want to be another skank on his list. Any advice?
Q. This is my first real relationship. I'm 19 hes 20, and we went out on our second date, last night. We made out for a long time and it was hot:P I am a virgin and he is not at all. I know he wants to have sex and I want to too but I don't want to ...
A. 24 February 2009: Hon if you have waited this long, what is another year or two? Give the relationshp time to grow and don't rush into the more intimante part of it. Sex is something to be shared between two people who really care about and love one another. It may ... (read in full...)
Is it abuse when a girl hits a guy?
Q. So I have a girlfriend. We seem to fight a lot. when I make her upset she tends to hit me. The other night we were arguing in the car and I said something to upset her, and she swung her arm and struck me right in the eye. she hit me hard enough to ...
A. 24 February 2009: Yes it's considered abuse. You however are provoking her by saying things that upset her. This is no excuse however. Abuse is abuse! I suggest that you either find a different way to discuss your problems without provoking and if she can't stop the ... (read in full...)
Did he only come back to me because the other woman didn't want him?
Q. I got married in 1981, 7 years later I had an affair, cause my husband was always leaving me in the house with 2 kids and I thought he was, he found out then 6 months later he left me for another women he worked with. She ran a pub he moved in with ...
A. 24 February 2009: Did it ever occur to you that she may have told you this but the real truth it he loved you and decided he didn't want to be with her so he left? Anything is possible here. The fact that the two of you became closer when he returned shows that he ... (read in full...)
I feel close to him but sometimes he is smothering me, I don't know what to do?
Q. I have been with my partner for almost a year now and he is the most kind, considerate, thoughtful man i have ever met. We knew one another at school but when i left home i didnt see him again for 20 years. When i got divorced 2 years ago i returned...
A. 23 February 2009: You are in a place where most women would love to be. When a man shows you this great attention and affection you are recieving it can be wonderful. So many women and men alike suffer from the too distanct and cold partner relationship. I am sorry ... (read in full...)
Name suggestions for my baby
Q. I may be pregnant. My daughter got her name from putting the names of her dad and my name together. I want to do it again but can't think of anything right now. If you have some ideas, I would really appreciate it if you can share some with me. ...
A. 20 February 2009: Destiny, Tiffiny, Taylor, Tiara, Tamara, Trinity, Trini, Alesandria, Alexia,,Genivieve, Annalissia,(pronunced Ne Ve Ah ..Neveah (Heavenspelledbackwards),Angelicia,Angel,Annamaria,Giselle,Natasha, Cheyenne,Breeanna to name a few girls. Some of which ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel this way?
Q. HEY!!!! again its lotmoney13!!!!!! Hey, so lately i've been thinking and getting advice from all my friends but one thing kinda dosent add up.....Why do i feel like this when he's around? i have a really deep crush on one of my friends ,he's...
A. 19 February 2009: I really believe that you are In Love with this guy.Not to make light of this, quite often at your age those feelings are quite often refferred to as Puppy Love. When he's around he brings out the deepest emotions that you can feel. Those emotions ... (read in full...)
Can a normally good and genuine person become a cheat?
Q. Is it possible to be a good person who loves a man with all her heart to become a nasty cheat after a lot of hurt, but is it possible for the same person to be loving and faithful to the same man when they both realize they messed up? I know what ...
A. 18 February 2009: Let he among you who have not sinned cast the first stone! Hon, if you love him with all your heart and you made a mistake, the first thing was to CONFESS! If you have done this, live your life taking it one day at the time. If he loves you, it's ... (read in full...)
My ex still wants to hold me close, even although we've broken up...
Q. My ex, still wants to hold me and be close to me, he broke it up, should I allow this as I love him and want him back or tell him to leave me alone. I'm confused coz I know he loves me but someone got in the way of our relationship and he said he ...
A. 18 February 2009: It's probably because he does still care alot about you. He feels close and comforted by this form of affection. It however doesn't mean that he will come back into the relationship. I would suggest that you just give him a little space and time to ... (read in full...)
DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!
Q. I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...
A. 6 February 2009: GREAT news Andrew, this is a BLESSED EVENT! CONGRATULATIONS TO EVERYONE WHO HAS PARTICIPATED! There are so many wonderful people on DearCupid who are willing to share their advice and ecperiences. Thanks to all those who wrote in also, without you ... (read in full...)
She's acting like an amorous school girl around me and she has a common law spouse
Q. I'm uncomfortable around a fellow student. Ever since I met her she's been acting like an amorous school girl around me and she has a common law spouse. I pretended I didn't hear her or clue in to what I interpreted as "advances" but eventually I...
A. 5 February 2009: I am sure. She is probably giving you mixed signals. It's possible that she does like you but even if she's putting out the bait, you must be WISE enough not to BITE! *LOL* The old FISH in the sea saga!
Stay your distance unless she becomes perm... (read in full...)
I love him but I didn't want to have sex
Q. im a 22yrs old and i lost my virginity last month to my bf of 11 months. i was saving my self for marriage b\c its part of my religion. my bf pressured me into doing it but i started to cry during it and he stopped. the next day he tried again and i ...
A. 31 January 2009: You have taken a stand hon now you have to STAND on YOR CONVICTIONS@ Never do anything that you aren't comfortable with. Since you have already told him this it seems that he isn't really giving you the respect that he should. He is acting upon his ... (read in full...)
We're always at each other's throats. How do we stop?
Q. Well, i have been going out with this girl for a year and four months now and i can say that we're always at each other's throats. All we ever do is fight. It's really starting to get to me. As well as her. I want to know, how can we stop fighting. ...
A. 31 January 2009: IT'S MUCH BETTER TO BITE ONE'S TOUNGE THAN TO STEP ON ONES' TOES! IT TRUELY DOESN'T MAKE YOU WEAK WHEN YOU TURN THE OTHER CHEEK, WALK AWAY FROM TROUBLE WHEN YOU CAN! LOVE CAN CREATE A BOND THAT WILL LAST THRU TIME...BUT IT ALL TAKES PRACTICE AND ... (read in full...)
Without A Word
Q. Hi! Okay, my boyfriend felt disappointed and decided to leave for good because I said that I was moving away. I stayed a while before I decided to move away because I thought he would come back and talk to me. I came to find out that he had a new ...
A. 31 January 2009: It sounds like he left because he thought that you were going and he didn't know how to hold onto you. Moving away was your idea and you wanted the move but he wasn't able to contend with a long distance relationship. It appears that you were a bit ... (read in full...)
Advise me please. Should I just get over him?
Q. I asked this question before in the past about this guy that i've liked but here's a little detail i forgot to add in, okay well just in case some of you don't know my situation, there's this guy who i liked since last year May and before i liked ...
A. 31 January 2009: In some cultures it is against belief to marry someone of a different race. If he is still looking at you alot and giving you that stare he is most likely attracted. If he isn't talking you up, perhaps he is shy and doesn't quite know what to say to ... (read in full...)
Sexless in soldier heaven
Q. my brother in law just came home from iraq and will do anything to get out of having sex with my sister. i don't know what to tell her.. can some one help. he was there for 15 months. all he does is invite friends to spend the night and tries to get ...
A. 26 January 2009: When a soilder is seperated from his family for a long time and returns home he has to readjust. The time he was gone made a big difference in how he views things. He wasn't gone long before the baby was born and now 7 months later he is basically ... (read in full...)
What is going on with him? Is he seeing someone else?
Q. Is he seeing someone else? or why would he start acting this way? I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he started standing me up, and when I call and ask him where he is he very calm, when I ask him to bring the stuff I left in his car ...
A. 26 January 2009: From the sounds of things it was a cover up for something either he WAS DOING OR WAS PLANNING ON DOING. Sometimes people can't be honest and it would have been the best thing for him to be honest with you. Like I said he could have been preoccupied ... (read in full...)
Sexless in soldier heaven
Q. my brother in law just came home from iraq and will do anything to get out of having sex with my sister. i don't know what to tell her.. can some one help. he was there for 15 months. all he does is invite friends to spend the night and tries to get ...
A. 25 January 2009: The y oung man has learned to do without any sexual intamacy and has been hanging out with his friends. This in a way has become second nature. His entire life has been reorganized to fit into his life as a SOILDER at WAR! In these hard times, ... (read in full...)
I’m going crazy with all these thoughts. March is coming so quickly and my stomach churns when I think about it.
Q. After dating my bf for 3 months I fell pregnant. It's now been 2 years and we live together. Before me he dated a girl for about 4 months and then they carried on the relationship long distance for 2 and a half years because he moved to where I...
A. 23 January 2009: HMMMMMMMMMM! I don't know why this URL isn't working properly. *LOL* Just copy and paste it in your browser!I thihk you will love it!
Thanks for reading!
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
She's acting like an amorous school girl around me and she has a common law spouse
Q. I'm uncomfortable around a fellow student. Ever since I met her she's been acting like an amorous school girl around me and she has a common law spouse. I pretended I didn't hear her or clue in to what I interpreted as "advances" but eventually I...
A. 22 January 2009: Well it does certainly sound like she is fond of you. I can't say by fact that she wants you. The real truth is that alot of people are just very friendly and sometimes they do come off as being a flirt or comming on to someone. The person's ... (read in full...)
He asked for my address which I didn't give him, now he's gone and called it quits.
Q. Hello, I have been talking to a guy in Denmark for 4 months, my family are so againist this and tried everything to get me to stop but I have fallen so hard for this man. This was so new to me, never cared much for the computer before. Anyway he ...
A. 22 January 2009: I know for a fact that sometimes people tell you anything over the internet and it may or may not be the truth. There are lots of times that pictures are posted of someone and it's really another person. Their are times when ages can vary by saying ... (read in full...)
He asked for my address which I didn't give him, now he's gone and called it quits.
Q. Hello, I have been talking to a guy in Denmark for 4 months, my family are so againist this and tried everything to get me to stop but I have fallen so hard for this man. This was so new to me, never cared much for the computer before. Anyway he ...
A. 22 January 2009: I know for a fact that sometimes people tell you anything over the internet and it may or may not be the truth. There are lots of times that pictures are posted of someone and it's really another person. Their are times when ages can vary by saying ... (read in full...)
I’m going crazy with all these thoughts. March is coming so quickly and my stomach churns when I think about it.
Q. After dating my bf for 3 months I fell pregnant. It's now been 2 years and we live together. Before me he dated a girl for about 4 months and then they carried on the relationship long distance for 2 and a half years because he moved to where I...
A. 22 January 2009: You are so welcome hon. Remember to walk in FAIth AND TRUST IN LOVE. KEEP PUTTING ONE FRONT IN FRONT OF THE OTHER and do all you can to give your BF and child a loving and happy home. Try to keep from letting on too much about the ex. He probably ... (read in full...)
I’m going crazy with all these thoughts. March is coming so quickly and my stomach churns when I think about it.
Q. After dating my bf for 3 months I fell pregnant. It's now been 2 years and we live together. Before me he dated a girl for about 4 months and then they carried on the relationship long distance for 2 and a half years because he moved to where I...
A. 21 January 2009: The ex still loves him, the family loves her. They are feeling that you have manipulated him by getting pregnant.They are excluding you, the boyfriend and the baby because they don't want to take the time in getting to know you. They resent you most ... (read in full...)
What is going on with him? Is he seeing someone else?
Q. Is he seeing someone else? or why would he start acting this way? I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he started standing me up, and when I call and ask him where he is he very calm, when I ask him to bring the stuff I left in his car ...
A. 6 January 2009: I am thinking that standing you up was his way of distancing himself from you. He's backing off and it seems it may be because someone has told him something, claiming you said it. Guys don't like their business out there so this could have been ... (read in full...)
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