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If he doesn't kiss you passionately, is he not interested?
Q. If a guy doesn't really kiss you passionately does it mean he is not interested? I have been out on a couple of dates with a guy who doesn't really show his emotions! - We talk a lot and get on well but not about how we feel for each other! ...
A. 2 December 2008: I know I have one of those men! *LOL* They give in degrees and find it hard to express their deepest feelings in emotion or words. It's up to you as to how long you wait it out. 8-)
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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I need him back! It's platonic love...
Q. i'm 15yrs old totaly straight but i've fallen for my bestfriends lil bro(llyrs old) i know he loves me too and right now is just afraid because what we are doing should not be shown in public and has been forbidden by his parents we used to be ...
A. 2 December 2008: All is good then. 8-) You however did say that you had *fallen and yet you considered it Platonic. Your post probably caused others to be a bit confused about what terms you used and the real need for secrecy. I am glad that you are into girls! ... (read in full...)
Is this guy being a jerk?
Q. I've been dating this guy for 7 mths now. He definatley told me that he's not ready for a long term relationship. Last night he told me jokingly "I own you" (which he says this often). And I said "No you dont". What gives? He doesnt want me seeing ...
A. 30 November 2008: Hit the door running! It sounds like he is a controlling person and wants what he wants. He isn't willing to give you the emotional stability or anything else connected in a Healthy Relationship. Although it's a nice gesture to give to the man we ... (read in full...)
I need him back! It's platonic love...
Q. i'm 15yrs old totaly straight but i've fallen for my bestfriends lil bro(llyrs old) i know he loves me too and right now is just afraid because what we are doing should not be shown in public and has been forbidden by his parents we used to be ...
A. 30 November 2008: For your sake and his I urge you to let go of the notion. If his brother lets's it out you are going to be in a big mess. The younger boy isn't capable of understanding all that you do about your choices (needs) The friendship you have with him ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't kiss you passionately, is he not interested?
Q. If a guy doesn't really kiss you passionately does it mean he is not interested? I have been out on a couple of dates with a guy who doesn't really show his emotions! - We talk a lot and get on well but not about how we feel for each other! ...
A. 30 November 2008: You hit things on the dead on saying that he doesn't show his emotions! Most of the time when one is inclined to hold back their emotions it's hard to really tell. Guesses are that he really does but it's just his way. If by chance he turns out to ... (read in full...)
I need him back! It's platonic love...
Q. i'm 15yrs old totaly straight but i've fallen for my bestfriends lil bro(llyrs old) i know he loves me too and right now is just afraid because what we are doing should not be shown in public and has been forbidden by his parents we used to be ...
A. 28 November 2008: You know I failed to mention that his parents are probably mostly concerned because you are so much older and your level of maturity is much more than his most likely. I am sure that they want him to be a child a little while longer and not rush him ... (read in full...)
I need him back! It's platonic love...
Q. i'm 15yrs old totaly straight but i've fallen for my bestfriends lil bro(llyrs old) i know he loves me too and right now is just afraid because what we are doing should not be shown in public and has been forbidden by his parents we used to be ...
A. 28 November 2008: The best thing is to show his parents that it is really PLATONIC. Always be chaperoned when you are around him. It's the BEST and Pretty Much ONLY thing you can do. Perhaps when he is 15 things will change but even then you will still be 4 years ... (read in full...)
I feel awful for having retaliated at my violent girlfriend!
Q. Hi guys, Ok here goes my girl is violent she attacks me and pushes me and even pullled a knife on me once this has been going on for at least 8 months and tonight she attacked me. she slapped me at least 4 times and started pushing me and t...
A. 28 November 2008: Point well taken here female, annonymous! I personally take no offense, however please reread my post and maybe you will understand. My suggestion wasn't to leave her just because she has problems. (She probably has an illness of some sort) He has ... (read in full...)
My mum and I never got on well, I don't know what to do...
Q. ok right me and my mum have never got on well. we always have arguments and i have s.a.d seasoning depression and this time of year is the worst for me.. my cousin died in september and hes best friend hasnt spoke to any one about him since last ...
A. 28 November 2008: Hon I know you that you don't seem to quite understand this now, but your Mom is trying to tell you that she LOVES YOU! In today's world so much is happening with sex,drugs and alcohol. So much gang activity, teen pregnancies, and lots of other ... (read in full...)
I love him and want kids, but after a rocky 1st year should I move with him?
Q. Hello there Please help. I have had a very rocky relationship for the past 14 months, but love each other much. He had unloved upbringing and can get very angry and finds it difficult to deal with situation. After many arguments, usually over ...
A. 27 November 2008: Blue_Angel needs a new keyboard!
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I love him and want kids, but after a rocky 1st year should I move with him?
Q. Hello there Please help. I have had a very rocky relationship for the past 14 months, but love each other much. He had unloved upbringing and can get very angry and finds it difficult to deal with situation. After many arguments, usually over ...
A. 27 November 2008: You are sooooooooooooo right! You ARE worthy of having someone who will love and respect you. Don't allow his attempt to control you to stop what you are thinking. Keep it in your mind that you CAN DO BETTER!!! YOU DESERVE IT! THTAT YOU DN"T NEED ... (read in full...)
Why do SOME people assume things about people, that may not even be true?
Q. I have just learnt that apparently some guys think that all girls are slags, this got me so annoyed, I am so angry that people actually think like that, why do people think like that, it's just gross, disgusting and demoralising/degrading towards ...
A. 27 November 2008: You are most welcome anytime hon! I hope you have a Wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday!
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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Why do SOME people assume things about people, that may not even be true?
Q. I have just learnt that apparently some guys think that all girls are slags, this got me so annoyed, I am so angry that people actually think like that, why do people think like that, it's just gross, disgusting and demoralising/degrading towards ...
A. 27 November 2008: You are most welcome anytime hon! I hope you have a Wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday!
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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Why do so many men have double standards?
Q. Why do so many men have double standards? My b/f is always clicking on sexy videos of hot females in his free time, a habit which greatly annoys me. So I decided one day to simply set up my own account and start watching sexy videos of hot men. He ...
A. 26 November 2008: I am thinking the phrase So many men...didn't include All the men. :-) Thank Goodness that they aren't all like that. For some reason it seems that it's just a man's way. Not every man but alot of them.
There is a book that talks about this. ... (read in full...)
He gets mad very easily and makes up all these 'rules'!
Q. Hi guys im 16 years old. i been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now. Like every other couple we fight all the time over stupid things. Hes some one who needs attention 24/7. I am also not PDA and he gets mad about that. He basically gets ...
A. 26 November 2008: It sounds like he has a definate anger management and control problem. He is also manipulative. He probably has low self-esteem or low self-worth. It is possible that he has something in his past or even now that is making him lash out at you. It's ... (read in full...)
I accidently dropped my towel and she took a picture with her phone!
Q. hi aunty,I am a 30 year old guy,stay alone now.. earlier my parents used to stay with me, but now they are gone on vacation and will return after 3-4 months.. recently I was having a bath, at that time my door bell rang, so I went to check, as I ...
A. 26 November 2008: Behave yourself! You are subject to ruining a good relationship with a good neighbor. It's customary when someone comes to the door to put your clothes on first! You should have at least put on a robe. It wasn't a very good or decent thing to do ... (read in full...)
Why did he react this way when I asked about his children?
Q. I guy I´ve emailing quite long time now after we met in person 2 years back, I called him to say Hi since we are long distance and holidays are coming. I always knew he has 3 kids but I never knew much about them, or how old they are. So, I ask...
A. 26 November 2008: It's quiet possible that he was as uncomfortable as you were. If you were asking abot them he might have thought you had an alterier motive. Perhaps it was just a bad day. Or maybe it was the fact that you were so uneasy when you tried to make ... (read in full...)
Why do SOME people assume things about people, that may not even be true?
Q. I have just learnt that apparently some guys think that all girls are slags, this got me so annoyed, I am so angry that people actually think like that, why do people think like that, it's just gross, disgusting and demoralising/degrading towards ...
A. 26 November 2008: Sometimes they learn it from someone else. Ignorance can indeed be passed along from generation to generation. Any guy who thinks this way thinks he is a man. A real man doesn't view women like this. Always remember this and it's a good way to ... (read in full...)
I feel awful for having retaliated at my violent girlfriend!
Q. Hi guys, Ok here goes my girl is violent she attacks me and pushes me and even pullled a knife on me once this has been going on for at least 8 months and tonight she attacked me. she slapped me at least 4 times and started pushing me and t...
A. 26 November 2008: It's good that you recognize this retaliation as wrong! However you were obviously trying to defend yourself. The best thing for you to do is leave her.
When it has happened once it can very likely happen again. You have had the buttons pushed f... (read in full...)
How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?
Q. Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...
A. 25 November 2008: I appreciate your feelings! I am sorry that things are at this point for you and your fmaily. I will tell you that a child having to move back and forth between parents isn't always a good situation either. I have been there too.
The distance... (read in full...)
How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?
Q. Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...
A. 25 November 2008: I understand hon and I don't mean to sound critical. I just want to give you some insight. I am not a perfect person so I won't judge you. I understand wanting what is best for your daughter. I wasn't implying there was somone else dear. I was ... (read in full...)
How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?
Q. Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...
A. 25 November 2008: Sory for such a long post before. I just had the thought about how you wanted to know how to get a divorce. Something in my heart wanted to tell you How to save a marriage.
What you termed below is called Irreconcilable and Uncontested ... (read in full...)
How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?
Q. Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...
A. 25 November 2008: Sory for such a long post before. I just had the thought about how you wanted to know how to get a divorce. Something in my heart wanted to tell you How to save a marriage.
What you termed below is called Irreconcilable Divorce, I beleive.
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How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?
Q. Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...
A. 25 November 2008: Perhaps this doesn't sound like the answer you expected but I have seen it happen over and over again. Please read on. I have a few questions for you. :-) Do you love her? Is there someone else who has taken your attention.(not necessarily an ... (read in full...)
How can I try to get my dad to understand me better?
Q. I currently am living with my parents, and things are getting progressively worse. This is the longest period I have had living with them, as I am on a gap year after finishing boarding school which I had been at since 11. We always argue. My dad ...
A. 24 November 2008: Harboring anger and resentment can bread harbor and resentment! If you are trying your best I can understand how you must feel. If you have done all you can and they don't act like you are doing what they expect perhaps they are being too hard on ... (read in full...)
I get extremely hurt and upset when he says things about other girls, am I taking all this too seriously?
Q. Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a year in febuary. Thursday night we we're on the phone talking about someon on the telly and he said what the one with masive boobs and I said yeah, how do you know shes got massive boobs and he said well ...
A. 23 November 2008: First of all alcohol can make people think, say and do things they might not do otherwise.
You are worried about loosing him but I will tell you that it's a known fact that a man and woman CAN lie together and NOT have anything going on. It c... (read in full...)
She informed me she's not a virgin! What shall I do?
Q. I have been seeing this girl for 3 weeks now, we have developed a really good relationship, and I was under the impression that we were both virgins. The other night however, she informed me that she is in fact not a virgin, not even close. I am the ...
A. 23 November 2008: She apparantly likes you alot and wanted you to know what you were getting into. Now the choice is up to you. The fact that she isn't a virgin can be hard for you to except. However it doesn't mean that she is a bad person or that she will ever ... (read in full...)
I broke up with her and now realized what a big mistake I made! How do I fix this?
Q. Ive been dating this girl for three weeks and i broke up with her for a stupid cause i wasn't sure if i really cared about her. Now i've realized that i made a mistake and that i want her back what should i do?...
A. 23 November 2008: Open your heart and your mouth! Just tell her! If she really likes you then chances are things will work out just fine. Young hearts are tender and they usually heal quickly. :-)
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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MONEY ORDER!
Q. Recently i sent a money order out to an ebay seller and i believe i put the wrong address, What can i do (IF anything) to get a copy of the money order so that i can resend it or to get the money order back. any help will be appreciated! thank you!...
A. 23 November 2008: You need to locate your receipt. You should be able to find instructions on the MO on how to report lost or stolen Money Orders and to see if they can help you to locate the MO.
Since it was Hopefully made out to the Seller no one else would ha... (read in full...)
One lass, two lads and a friend.
Q. Well, I am a 14 year old girl, and emm I was going with this lad he was really sweet and kind but then his friends started saying I was going behind his back seeing another lad, but I wasn't and he sacked me for it and I was so depressed but I got ...
A. 22 November 2008: What a lesson to have learned so early in life! Yes that is the typical thing for a person to want someone back when they don't have them. It doesn't however mean that they really even want you for sure. It just means they want what they can't or ... (read in full...)
I know you will give me the best suggestion.
Q. Helloooooo dear Auntyzeeeeeeeeee Hope you are in best of your health and wealth, so that to answer my question. Naaw the story begainzzz like this. I was having an relationship with a married women for 4 years. We have seen many ups and downs to...
A. 21 November 2008: OOOPS! I sent the post and Forgot to mention the fact that you should never try to take someone elses Wife it's WRONG! The fact he wants her to move is because he is probably making a last attempt to save his marriage.
*Just a note....... (read in full...)
I know you will give me the best suggestion.
Q. Helloooooo dear Auntyzeeeeeeeeee Hope you are in best of your health and wealth, so that to answer my question. Naaw the story begainzzz like this. I was having an relationship with a married women for 4 years. We have seen many ups and downs to...
A. 21 November 2008: Your best bet is to just let her go. She has already made her choice and you clearly aren't it. She is a married woman and chances are if she feels this way now she probably isn't going to change her mind.
The relationship that you have with he... (read in full...)
I wish my ex would come back
Q. I'm trying to gain some insight on things.. I wish my ex would come back but I have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years I was with him. I wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led ...
A. 21 November 2008: I understand your story. I can feel your pain hon. Most of the time when a man starts out like this he will usually remain this way. Sad but true. Unless he can see his faults and admit them he can never change.
Some guys were taught to stand fi... (read in full...)
Talking to my ex as a friend...
Q. My ex broke things off with me and a month later his ex-girlfriend said she was pregnant. He married her and now they have 2 children together and now realizes that she is not the one for him. He has apologized to me and admitted his mistakes and ...
A. 21 November 2008: He appareantly finds comfort in talking to you. However he is married. He should be busy working on his relationship with his wife rather than trying to spend time talking to you. Mind you that having a friend is fine but from what you are saying it ... (read in full...)
My friend was just diagnosed with diabetes. How can I help?
Q. not a relationship question as such, but a good friend of mine has just been diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and i want to know how to be a good friend and support her through this tough time? any help appreciated. ...
A. 21 November 2008: So true Fatherly, my friend has some terrible mood swings. You could classify them as somewhat like a bear!*LOL* I just always put on my happy face and try to be nice cause I am sure she has alot to deal with. Learning more about Diabetes can even ... (read in full...)
My friend was just diagnosed with diabetes. How can I help?
Q. not a relationship question as such, but a good friend of mine has just been diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and i want to know how to be a good friend and support her through this tough time? any help appreciated. ...
A. 20 November 2008: You are a good friend to want to be there for your friend. I commend you for that. Diabetes can be hard to learn to cope with. Hopefully she will be able to get enough knowledge and understanding of the condition to enable her to take good care of ... (read in full...)
Why does he want to hang about with me again after all this time?
Q. There's this guy who I like... I have no idea why I even like him, other than the fact he is good looking. We fooled around twice many months ago, now he's trying to talk to me again but I made it clear I don't do the friends with benefits thing. ...
A. 20 November 2008: You are probably right in your assumption. He is most likely looking to *fool around with you again. However he has chosen to seek you out. Now this could means that he really has an attraction for you or he perhaps sees you as just an easy ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is so lazy!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and I love him with every beat of my heart, he's amazing, he's everything a girl wantss in a boyfriend, I'm 19 I work part time every day, he doesn't work nor go to school, I brought it up to him once and ...
A. 19 November 2008: Well to coin a phrase...If he's lazy he isn't EVERYTHING a girl wants. The guy in your life really needs to get focused and find a job. He perhaps lacks the ambition to further himself and could need a good jolt! If you have been encouraging him and ... (read in full...)
Should I break my virginity or keep it?
Q. Hi everyone I really want the answer to this question. I am 25 years old, and am still a virgin. Should I go on to keep the virginity? Or should I break it? Your answer will be valued. ...
A. 19 November 2008: There's nothing wrong with being a Virgin! Take your time and don't do anything that you aren't completely comfortable with. It really is a matter of personal choice.
Your first time should be with someone very special and many agree that you shou... (read in full...)
Does "never date your best friends guy" apply to this situation?
Q. I have been friends with my current best friend for 5 years. We are completely inseparable, and have a pretty good relationship. She has had a crush on this guy for about 2 years and a year ago, they hooked up. They never turned into anything li...
A. 19 November 2008: It's a hard dececision to make. I will say that is feels unfair to like someone and you can't see yourself going there because of a friendship. It's happened to me before. I can certainly feel for you. In the end my my friend and I are still friends ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Would you wear a ring on your left ring finger if you're single?
Q. This question is for the ladies. Oh man :)... crushes really are unavoidable aren't they? It's a like a slow motion car crash and it just keeps building every time you see her and there's nothing you can do about it. So she's got what looks l...
A. 19 November 2008: You are most welcome! Always remember to make lasting friendships. They quite often turn out to be the best, longest lasting relationships when they are allowed to develope and evolve naturally. :)
Plant a seed with kindness,
Fertilize it ... (read in full...)
My wifes Dad is sexually harassing me and and it's stressing me out!
Q. Normally you'd get a woman asking this question, but no, it's also happened from a male perspective as well. I'm 31, and my wife's 28. We've been married for a month now. For the past few weeks my new father-in-law's been sexually harassing me. ...
A. 19 November 2008: *Just a note......My frist thought was to tell him straight out NO! and don't approach me again....My second thought was to tell his wife!.........Third was maybe if he tells his Mother_In_Law. No matter who he tells however the Marriage is already ... (read in full...)
Why is he so angry at me?
Q. I would really like some advice on this please if you wouldnt mind ! :) I met this lad at a party and we really hit it off. Then spoke through texts and on computer and we was getting along find until I found out he has a girlfriend! But he asked me ...
A. 19 November 2008: It sounds like he was possibly tring to hide things from his girlfriend. The person who told him is not really a good friend. Ditch that one!
The fact that he invited you to come along to the theater with some of his friends as well as some of ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Would you wear a ring on your left ring finger if you're single?
Q. This question is for the ladies. Oh man :)... crushes really are unavoidable aren't they? It's a like a slow motion car crash and it just keeps building every time you see her and there's nothing you can do about it. So she's got what looks l...
A. 19 November 2008: If she is glancing at you during your lectures and blushing she may well be interested in you too. At least she is looking so I would take that as a sign that she at is approachable enough to talk to. It could be she finds you attractive and she may ... (read in full...)
My wifes Dad is sexually harassing me and and it's stressing me out!
Q. Normally you'd get a woman asking this question, but no, it's also happened from a male perspective as well. I'm 31, and my wife's 28. We've been married for a month now. For the past few weeks my new father-in-law's been sexually harassing me. ...
A. 19 November 2008: Since you have done just about everything to keep him at bay and it isn't working you might have to consider taking a job in a different town and moving. At least then your time with your new Father-In-Law will lessened and your time alone with him ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Would you wear a ring on your left ring finger if you're single?
Q. This question is for the ladies. Oh man :)... crushes really are unavoidable aren't they? It's a like a slow motion car crash and it just keeps building every time you see her and there's nothing you can do about it. So she's got what looks l...
A. 19 November 2008: I wear an engagement ring surrounded by two golden bands on the left hand. The diamond ring will be passed on to my oldest grandchild as her Papa gave it to me and it was promised to her 10 years ago. When I leave this world it will be hers. The ... (read in full...)
I love him and want kids, but after a rocky 1st year should I move with him?
Q. Hello there Please help. I have had a very rocky relationship for the past 14 months, but love each other much. He had unloved upbringing and can get very angry and finds it difficult to deal with situation. After many arguments, usually over ...
A. 19 November 2008: If he has a controlling nature you need to decide if that is acceptalbe to you. It really shouldn't be no matter how much you love someone. Love is all about taking and giving. Sometimes one forgets to GIVE!
He could be wanting you to move up ... (read in full...)
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