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What is going on with him? Is he seeing someone else?
Q. Is he seeing someone else? or why would he start acting this way? I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he started standing me up, and when I call and ask him where he is he very calm, when I ask him to bring the stuff I left in his car ...
A. 26 January 2009: From the sounds of things it was a cover up for something either he WAS DOING OR WAS PLANNING ON DOING. Sometimes people can't be honest and it would have been the best thing for him to be honest with you. Like I said he could have been preoccupied ... (read in full...)
She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant... could it be possible she is?
Q. Ok so my gf and I are really scared. A few days ago I rubbed my penis against her vagina. I am 99% sure there wasn't any pre cum on my penis because there has never been before. She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant like feeling sick ...
A. 11 January 2009: You can't tell anything at all in a few days. If you were sexually active before then it's possible. If she has missed her monthly cycle she needs to be checked immediately! If not then it probably means that she is about to have her monthly cycle. ... (read in full...)
I want to start tap dancing!
Q. Hiya im 17 and i really wont to start tap dancing i wonted to start when i was 15 but didn't have much money but now i get ema My brother thinks tap dancing is weird and my bf just laughed 1. question.. Am i to old ??? 2. and what...
A. 11 January 2009: Hon you are a good age to start! Having the ambition to want to learn is a great. Heck I learned to square dance when I was 21 and now at 52 I CLOG! The thing is I didn't get to take lessons I just watched some folks do it years ago. One night I was ... (read in full...)
He pressures me to have sex
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is 14....NOT 23.... My boyfriend and I have been dating since November 16th 2008. We also dated in the summer of 2008. I am fourteen, he is fifteen. I've liked him since the summer of 2007, so when he announced he liked me in the ...
A. 11 January 2009: Well as you said you are too young to be having sex anyway. The young man, no matter what he does or doesn't do for you has no right in pressuring you to have sex. Don't let ANYONE ever push you into doing something that you don't want to do.
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I'm so depressed about turning 24!
Q. I'm having some troubling coping with the fact that I'm about to turn 24 years old next month. I feel like I'm not where I should be in this point in my life. I'm graduating from Nursing school this June. I feel that I'm way behind in career...
A. 11 January 2009: Hon you need to stop thinking like this. You are going to be a Nurse! That is a great profession. It doesn't matter what kind you choose to be, you will be helping people and giving alot of yourself in the process. I have been a caregiver for many ... (read in full...)
Does he want me back?
Q. I think my ex still cares about me, but i dont want to get my hopes up. He broke up with me thinking that i was faking a chest pain, even after i went to the emergency room. Anyways, he gave me some of his old clothes that he doesn't fit anymore, ...
A. 9 January 2009: I would think that he seems a bit guilty because he treated you badly when in fact you were having chest pains and wound up in the emergency room. Sorry hon but what you described in this post is not a healthy relationship. The chest pains you had I ... (read in full...)
Are we dating or just hanging out?
Q. Ok, I've been talking to this guy for months and months..we get along just great. He finally asked me out and he says, "I don't drive. I got a DUI." Sorry, but I was a little dissapointed and I blew him off a couple of times. Then, I was li...
A. 9 January 2009: Honey you are never going to understand a man! *LOL* They can change like the wind. This is a general view. Sometimes when they want you but they get you then it's time for the switcharoo....They decide they don't really want anything serious and ... (read in full...)
Virgin Girl that is waiting until marriage...
Q. When I was starting to get to know a boy and the guy getting to know me But, later confused that I was a virgin and his response was that he liked me so much to have sex that he couldn't stop for me that he said that I had to lose my virginity... ...
A. 9 January 2009: Sure thing hon, Anytime! You keep your Dignity in tact and hold out for the man of your dreams.
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
How can you choose a career that is the right one for you?
Q. I have a pressure over me, I know this is a relationship site, but I had nowhere else to go in such a short time and during holidays.. I am applying to go to a spanish university, and there you have to know what area you want to specialise in, whic...
A. 8 January 2009: You are welcome! Put your heart into whatever you do and you are sure to come out on top!
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
How can you choose a career that is the right one for you?
Q. I have a pressure over me, I know this is a relationship site, but I had nowhere else to go in such a short time and during holidays.. I am applying to go to a spanish university, and there you have to know what area you want to specialise in, whic...
A. 8 January 2009: It sounds like you might be interested in a Social Services type job. Perhaps working with state departments will peak your interest. You will be able to help people and the benefits are usually pretty good including the pay.
Phycoligist and Pych... (read in full...)
Heart broken and I need help.
Q. My boyfriend left me on new years and I was with him for four months but we really just clicked ya know? Well he goes to my school and I have gym class with him. I have tried to be just friends but it's too emotional for me. It's hard to get ...
A. 8 January 2009: You have got to find a way to put more focus on yourself and the others around you. Don't obsess over the breakup and your ex. Your friend is not really doing right by flirting and such with him but she is young yet and may not realize she is ... (read in full...)
He's got some mental health issues, how can I help him and understand?
Q. i was dating a guy who is amazing but mentally not all there. i dont know if he is bipolar or if he just has alot of issues to work through but he is very confused.When i ask him if he knows hes special he says no he doesnt think he is, it makes me ...
A. 8 January 2009: Just keep reassuring him that you are going to be there for him. Tell him that you aren't hurt because he has troubles but you are hurt because you don't know how to help. Make sure that he knows you want to see him but for now you won't pressure ... (read in full...)
Its the weekends I miss a man
Q. Whats the best way for a 30 something women to meet new men. Im not really into internet dating and there are hardly any men left in my town. WOuld love to meet someone to spend my life with! I work full time and go to the gym 3 times a weeks - so ...
A. 8 January 2009: Guys go to movies, shop at local grocery stores, sit on the last row in church, love karaoke as much as we do. You can find a man in just about every place you go. You might even attend a concert, go to a city park or the local zoo. If you fish, ... (read in full...)
B/f agreed to threesome but what do I do now?
Q. My boy friend and I have been going out for over a year. About two months ago we broke up for over a month. Now that my boy friend and I are back together for a few weeks, we have agreed to be more open and tell each other how we feel about thing...
A. 8 January 2009: I am wondering if you perhaps want to do this because he was with another woman. You stated that he wanted another woman so maybe you think that once you have another man it may bring back that magic .you once had in the relationship
I still u... (read in full...)
He's got some mental health issues, how can I help him and understand?
Q. i was dating a guy who is amazing but mentally not all there. i dont know if he is bipolar or if he just has alot of issues to work through but he is very confused.When i ask him if he knows hes special he says no he doesnt think he is, it makes me ...
A. 7 January 2009: It sounds like your friend may have a serious depression problem. If there are things in his life he is having trouble coping with it can make his depression worsen. All you can do for now is stand by and be his friend. Be there for him to talk to. ... (read in full...)
B/f agreed to threesome but what do I do now?
Q. My boy friend and I have been going out for over a year. About two months ago we broke up for over a month. Now that my boy friend and I are back together for a few weeks, we have agreed to be more open and tell each other how we feel about thing...
A. 7 January 2009: I don't think your idea of a threesome is a good idea at all. You just got back together with your boyfriend so it means that your relationship is already a bit unstable and rocky. Allowing someone else to enter into the middle of it will only ... (read in full...)
Why after 2 years does he need time to think?
Q. i would like your help... i'm 17. my boyfriend says that he loves me but then he asked me for time to think about us cuz he says that we're doing same things and he's confused so we agreed that we won't talk to each other for 2 days.. we're dating ...
A. 7 January 2009: When we grow within a relationship things take changes as the relationship progressess. At this time he could be confused about wanting to be with someone new or pehaps he is trying to figure out what kind of love he feels for you. Love usually ... (read in full...)
I told him I loved him but now he avoids me
Q. Dear Cupid , I have a doubt about a love that I have . There is a guy that i have been loving him for many years who doesn't know that i love him . We used to be a classmate . Then after year passing by , we separated our class . And we didn't t...
A. 7 January 2009: TElling a man that you love him first can make him run like the wind. It tends to scare them off because they either aren't ready to hear that or they feel it's too soon in a relationship. Perhaps even that you couldn't or don't really love them. ... (read in full...)
Feeling left out and miserable....what do I do?
Q. I am dating a guy since 3months.he is damn good and sweet but he is always outdoor with his friends and busy.If I ask him when we would meet again he pushes it to the next week.I am feeling left out and miserable.He's my first love and I found him ...
A. 7 January 2009: Hon you are young and can easily move on. Don't WASTE your time trying to mold a man into what you want him to be. Chances are you WILL NEVER change him. This is part of his personality. Sometimes people change with time as they mature and grow ... (read in full...)
He's happy with his new girlfriend... how can I stop the jealousy?
Q. I loved this guy for 7 yrs and 2 yrs back i came to know that he loved someone else while we had a relationship. And when i came to know about it i said i dint want to continue the relation. He said he liked me but never felt committed towards me. I ...
A. 7 January 2009: I hate that you have been hurt hon but sometimes we have to face the fact that a person, no matter how much we love them may not love us back in return. It doesn't mean that they are bad people but that it wasn't meant to be. Unfortunantly not ... (read in full...)
Was this mean or well deserved?
Q. In high school I used to be teased because I was overweight, wore glasses, and quiet. As I went to college I started to go to the gym and is a ripped 200 pound running back. When I came back home from college one of the girls that teased me now ...
A. 7 January 2009: I know it's human nature to do what you did but I think it would have hurt her more if you had been nice and THEN KISSED YOUR GIRLFRIEND! Talk about being DISSED!!
For your question in my opinion it was pretty mean but she as they would say h... (read in full...)
I like him a lot but I'm just not ready for a full blown relationship yet...
Q. Hi,i wonder if anyone can help? I have been seeing a guy for 4 mths. We started out casual as i had recently split up from a long term relationship{10yrs}. He is 40 and told me he has never been in love. He has been married and thought he was in ...
A. 6 January 2009: You are welcome hon. I am glad it helped. Take your time and enjoy your friendship. Let your heart lead you and your concience be your guide. It seems he may be a keeper. *-) but only time and events will truely tell.
Walk softly and let y... (read in full...)
Did he mean he's just another frog or my Prince Charming?
Q. Have recently got back in touch with my ex boyfriend form high school and we've been talking loads on the phone and catching up. We havent seen eachother for 4 years. I was telling him that I'd been in a few bad relationships and used the term, ...
A. 6 January 2009: I think it means he could be interested in seeing you again and he has hopes of YOU KISSING HIM!
*Just a note. Beware!
~~~PRINCE CHARMING~~~
The story book Prince that kissed Rapunzel, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and Snow Whi... (read in full...)
Please help me make the right decision, I miss my ex!
Q. I really need help. I'm 15. I have a boyfriend. We've been through a lot together and have a lot of past together. we went out all summer and even went away together and then we broke up and now we're back together.. I really have felt like I've ...
A. 6 January 2009: Perhaps you should try talking to him in the Light of Day with no drugs or alcohol involved. Talk openly about your feelings and his. If you feel the same at this point without any substances altering your mood then you will be able to have better ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I'm not interested without being rude?
Q. Firstly i am 29 yrs old.I have been talking to a guy online who is widowed and has a younge child, we have been chatting for about 2 weeks now. He wants to meet up and keeps telling me how much he thinks of me and im just not interested. How do i ...
A. 6 January 2009: I know it's hard to blunt sometimes but perhaps you will have to be, using a bit of tact of course. Let him know that you appreciate your friendship but you aren't ready to be involved any further than that. Don't mislead him by not telling him. ... (read in full...)
He wants a threesome doesn't care if I'm involved with another man
Q. My husband has broken my heart, l don't feel for him anymore. Have caught him so many times texting other woman, even my friends, he dates on-line. We talked about it and he promised he was going to stop all that, but l still do not trust him. Now ...
A. 6 January 2009: Some folks don't know when to leave well enough alone hon. Tell your husband that you aren't going to degrade yourself for his pleasure. This is something that you clearly don't want to do. Now's your time to make a stand.
Little does he know I g... (read in full...)
Men have menustration cycle without bleeding?
Q. I think men go through a menstruation cycle just with out the bleeding. Cauz geez when they have their spits its just like a woman when their ragging. So what do yall think...
A. 6 January 2009: Of course they do! They don't bleed however. They also go thru male menopause. There cycle consits mostly as an emotional one. It lasts for about a month.(Avg 28 days) Now just wouldn't you know that Even the word menstruation was derived from the ... (read in full...)
Virgin Girl that is waiting until marriage...
Q. When I was starting to get to know a boy and the guy getting to know me But, later confused that I was a virgin and his response was that he liked me so much to have sex that he couldn't stop for me that he said that I had to lose my virginity... ...
A. 6 January 2009: Just be yourself hon. Meeting guys is easy. Just get out and get seen. It's as simple as that really. Some guys won't persue a girl who intends to stay a virgin because they don't want to have to wait on sex. Plain and simple on that too!
Jus... (read in full...)
Virgin Girl that is waiting until marriage...
Q. When I was starting to get to know a boy and the guy getting to know me But, later confused that I was a virgin and his response was that he liked me so much to have sex that he couldn't stop for me that he said that I had to lose my virginity... ...
A. 6 January 2009: Tell him to get lost. He is after YOUR VIRGINITY! It's just another notch on his belt so to speak. A man is supposed to like you so much that he could wait for anything! Don't fall for this cheap trick and wind up getting into a serious mess.
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What is going on with him? Is he seeing someone else?
Q. Is he seeing someone else? or why would he start acting this way? I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he started standing me up, and when I call and ask him where he is he very calm, when I ask him to bring the stuff I left in his car ...
A. 6 January 2009: I am thinking that standing you up was his way of distancing himself from you. He's backing off and it seems it may be because someone has told him something, claiming you said it. Guys don't like their business out there so this could have been ... (read in full...)
I think I might have an infection, please help!
Q. I lost my virginity on new years....... ever since I have been itching a little bit and there has been like this muddy type substance and the color is like a brownish greyish.... I wash real good and it goes away... but the next morning when I wake ...
A. 5 January 2009: Brownish discharge can be a sign of bleeding inside. The color and consistency of the discharge can be caused by certain things. Old blood is washed out by the vaginal fluids, if you were a virgin is also possible that you had small tears inside ... (read in full...)
I like him a lot but I'm just not ready for a full blown relationship yet...
Q. Hi,i wonder if anyone can help? I have been seeing a guy for 4 mths. We started out casual as i had recently split up from a long term relationship{10yrs}. He is 40 and told me he has never been in love. He has been married and thought he was in ...
A. 5 January 2009: You probably just aren't quite ready for another long term relationship. Getting burned or being left with old wounds will certainly make one a bit scared of moving on to someone else. Now that you have gotten a taste of the single life again you ... (read in full...)
Do girls have female sperm
Q. im really curious.. you no how in the porn movies,, the guys starts having sex with the girl and all of a sudden a bucnh of watery fluids squirt out of the girls vagina.. what are those fluids?? why does that happen?? and do girls hav...
A. 4 January 2009: The common term for this is Female Ejaculation. Women's bodies are different and a woman has eggs carried by the fallopian tubes. Men have sperm that is carried by the ejaculation fluid. Women have no sperm present in those fluids she expulses ... (read in full...)
I know I need a new boyfriend. I am just never attracted to anyone. Am I depressed?
Q. My boyfriend and I have dated off and on for twenty years. At some point, he married a woman and had more kids with her while having one with me. Needless to say, this has caused some rocky times. Basically, he has been juggling both of us this ...
A. 2 January 2009: Hon you have got to stop telling yourself that you will never find anyone else. This negative thinking is bringing you down. He may be what you consider a best friend and you may love him but he isn't AVAILABLE to LOVE you back in return the way he ... (read in full...)
I'm in need of love
Q. Dear cupid.. please help im in need for love...im so empty..and i also have an anorexic friend that i wanna help..what should i do?...
A. 1 January 2009: Talk to you friend and let her know that you care and in showing your concern you can fill the gap in your loneliness. Helping others usually tends to take the focus off of oneself and places it on the person they are trying to help.
I am not s... (read in full...)
Why will women not date me?
Q. why will women not date a leg amputee like me im 49 average looking and financially stable and treat them like a princess? thanks...
A. 1 January 2009: You just haven't met the right one! Just be yourself and you will find her one day. Being an emotional cripple isn't easy either. I was one and I know first hand. I spent most of my life winging it but I don't give up and my persistance paid off. If ... (read in full...)
Why will women not date me?
Q. why will women not date a leg amputee like me im 49 average looking and financially stable and treat them like a princess? thanks...
A. 1 January 2009: Don't you worry about this hon. A person needs to like you for whom you are,with two legs or one! Try to take good care of youreself and hold onto your self-esteem. Any disability can make you feel a bit insecure or unattractive to others but trust ... (read in full...)
Help, I've ruined my relationship.
Q. HI there. I am in desperate need of advice; I have had an amazing relationship with my boyfriend who I consider my best friend, and my lover, for two and a half years; but now it has gone really astray. In the past 2 years I've suffered from pa...
A. 31 December 2008: Good news hon and you are welcome from the bottom of my heart! You are using good common sense in how you are handling this situation. You let him know how you feel and accepted the blame of your part in the failing relationship.
By working ... (read in full...)
He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"
Q. This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...
A. 31 December 2008: Perhaps hon you are a bit obsessed with the thought of Fred. If the other guy is more of the kind of man you want you may want to try letting Fred walk. Marriage is important to alot of folks and sometimes finding the right person seems impossible. ... (read in full...)
How can I stop the paranoia, how can I convince her to stop being polite to her ex?
Q. Hey everyone, I've got a question, although a bit hesitant to begin with I decided to post it anyway to see what people think. (I'll explain a bit of the background as well). If you do read it all and reply, thank you so much. I've been seeing ...
A. 31 December 2008: Blue_Angel's really having a bad day!*LOL* I have no idea how I got my advice on this page listed as annonymous. So YES that's really me that posted to the thread and signed it Blue_Angel. 8-)
Thanks for reading and HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Bless... (read in full...)
Why do the bad guys always win?
Q. why do some people who are nasty and cold and who have inflated egos with good looks get every thing? some like who is nice,quiet,hard working get nothing in life only disappointment and rejection and failure. why do do bullies and meanies ...
A. 31 December 2008: YOU NEED TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF! START taking control of your life and STOP being the VICTIM. Ignore people like this guy you are so upset about. They sometimes get their biggest kicks out of hurting someone JUST LIKE YOU!
Find a new sport in... (read in full...)
He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"
Q. This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...
A. 31 December 2008: Pack your bags and find the door. This cad has no real respect for you. He doesn't even want any of the same things in a realationship that you do.
You need to think about the child. You say you care for HIM more than anything. Does this mean you... (read in full...)
Help, I've ruined my relationship.
Q. HI there. I am in desperate need of advice; I have had an amazing relationship with my boyfriend who I consider my best friend, and my lover, for two and a half years; but now it has gone really astray. In the past 2 years I've suffered from pa...
A. 29 December 2008: MY computer has gone Kukooo! Keyboard sticks and now it doesn't post my name *LOL* Thank Goodness I signed it or I would never have been heard. *rolling my eyes In case you missed it I am the 3rd post. According to what this young lady has told ... (read in full...)
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