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Is it normal for a woman's vagina to smell fishy?
Q. Is it normal for a woman's vagina to smell fishy? And is it a turn off for men? What if he keeps coming back for more?...
A. 29 October 2007: Seek professional advice. Although discharges can range in color from white, grey, yello, clear and pink. They can also be green brown orange or milky. Know what color the dischage is and what exact smell is present. In your case it seems that ... (read in full...)
I accepted him back provided that he stopped using drogs. Now we separated again, should I accept the job offer in another city? When I was pregnant, his friends convinved him it wasn't his child...
Q. I started dating my sons father about 4 yrs ago. In the past 4 years it has been really difficult, because alot changed between us. One day I decided that he was the one that I wanted to have my 1st child with, and he was willing to try after I told ...
A. 28 October 2007: It is a hard decision to make in divorcing someone and leaving to a different destination. The old saying you can run but you can't hide has a bit of meaning here. I know that the job offer in a different city gives you an option but remember ... (read in full...)
I want to forget him but can't!
Q. I send in the question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-cheat-and-we-break-up-now-the.html and after a while, I took the action myself…oops! I know it might not be the best thing to do (probably a stupid thing to do) I got really anno...
A. 27 October 2007: It is quiet possible to sleep in the same bed with a man and have no sex. I know this for a fact. So even though it may be quiestonable it may also be true.
If you are finding it hard to forget him then you must like him alot. He keeps yo... (read in full...)
Divorcing is a disgrace to my religeon... But I feel trapped. Help me!
Q. In my religion, it's a disgrace to divorce, and very rare. And the thing is, I've had a husband since I was 13 and now, I'm 19. I feel trapped, I see myself just doing everything for him, with him forcing me to do things, to have sex with him, get a ...
A. 27 October 2007: Your mind is telling you that it's not good to be treated this way. It is human instinct. Human nature gives us insight about our lives but sometimes we are powerless to react and follow thru.
If you religion dictates your marraige... (read in full...)
Do I stay with the security of my current lifestyle or take a gamble with this new woman?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 6 years the last few of which have been fairly miserable. I haven't felt able to be myself around her anymore and she doesn't bring out the best in me. But despite that I feel her loyalty, depth of feelings ...
A. 26 October 2007: In a nutshell as they say. I was married to a man who was handsome, sexy and smart for 14 years. I was happy being his wife because I loved him. I was proud of him. We had our ups and downs.
During the course of 14 years of marriage... (read in full...)
How do I make him want me like he used to?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and 4 months now, which is the longest for both of us. Lately, it's as though he ignores me almost all the time. There's this other girl that he's been talking to, but she has a boyfriend and says ...
A. 26 October 2007: Sometimes guys have committment issues. Sometimes they just need a little break. If he is talking to someone it might not mean he wants to be with that person. He could have a crush on that person though. If he is a considerate and gentleman he ... (read in full...)
Do I wait for her?
Q. Dear all will it be worth waiting for a women that I still love and she love aswell but she need to be alone we are both thinking about each other every second of the day and dont now how it will end? Take care Marco...
A. 26 October 2007: I am not completly informed of the situation. From what you did post it seems like she might be wanting some time to figure out what she wants where you are concerned. If she is in love with you and you with her chances are good that it might ... (read in full...)
My busy boyfriend lives far away and doesn't seem to care to see me, what can I do?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship and I always the one traveling to see him. I don't mind the traveling 'cause he has a really tide , really busy schedule and he can't make it. The thing is that it is not easy to get our schedule together, and ...
A. 26 October 2007: Backoff for a bit and give him time to regroup. You both seem to have a pretty heavy and tedious and overextended schedule. Spend some time doing something nice for yourself as it seems you are doing most of the giving. Let him have a little ... (read in full...)
Someone that has never met me or talked with me, likes me.
Q. My best friend's 3rd cousin likes me. Ive never met him but she tells me he really likes me. Also he is 13, in grade 9 and I'm in grade seven and i just turned 12 today! Should i meet with him?...
A. 26 October 2007: I don't think the age difference is a big problem. However you should meet him with a chaperone. Start out as friends and see how well that goes. Don't allow yourself to get too tied up with boys at this point in your life. Focus on school. ... (read in full...)
Someone that has never met me or talked with me, likes me.
Q. My best friend's 3rd cousin likes me. Ive never met him but she tells me he really likes me. Also he is 13, in grade 9 and I'm in grade seven and i just turned 12 today! Should i meet with him?...
A. 26 October 2007: I don't think the age difference is a big problem. However you should meet him with a chaperone. Start out as friends and see how well that goes. Don't allow yourself to get too tied up with boys at this point in your life. Focus on school. ... (read in full...)
I keep getting depressed, is there something wrong with me?
Q. I started university back in september, I really enjoy the course, I have a good set of friends, I go to the gym, play hockey and football, and people really like, a big change from high school. Yet I've noticed that I am feeling down every other da...
A. 26 October 2007: You appear to be having some form of depression. It could be caused by improper diet, lack of sleep , vitamin defiency, stress or other underlying causes.
If you work or go to school and play with too much zest then suddenly you crash it... (read in full...)
Is there a way to normalize my periods?
Q. i haven't got my periods for the last 3 months.I've done a home pregnancy test twice and the results are negative.I have a doubt that i might not be getting it due to stress and change of location.I was doing night shifts for a long time.I'm now ...
A. 26 October 2007: I am not sure where you could go for help. Have you tried looking for a Missionary organization in your area? Are you from India and of the native origin? Healthcare in India is the responsibility of the individual Indian States. You might be ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to normalize my periods?
Q. i haven't got my periods for the last 3 months.I've done a home pregnancy test twice and the results are negative.I have a doubt that i might not be getting it due to stress and change of location.I was doing night shifts for a long time.I'm now ...
A. 26 October 2007: I am not sure where you could go for help. Have you tried looking for a Missionary organization in your area? Are you from India and of the native origin? Healthcare in India is the responsibility of the individual Indian States. You might be ... (read in full...)
He's 7 years older than me. Should I carry on seeing him?
Q. I met this guy on the internet and we met, don't worry,he is who he said he is, but the problem? He's seven years older! Should I continue seeing him?...
A. 26 October 2007: You are most welcome hon from the bottom of my heart. I am glad that I could say something that gave you the courage to walk away and to keep you safe. Blessings to you and thank you for being a smart girl.
God bless and keep you alw... (read in full...)
I am 14, pregnant and haven't told anybody! What do I do?
Q. ok so i had sex with my bf and we used a condom and i still got pregnent, I'm only 14 and nobody knows, not even my bf, I'm scared to tell anyone, my mom said if i ever got pregnant that i would have to get an abortion. What do i do??? HELP PLEA...
A. 24 October 2007: If you know it is his for sure then you should tell him. Talk to your MOM she will know how to take care of things. You need to see a doctor right away. Pray about it because from a Mother's heart to her child is a close bond. I know because my ... (read in full...)
He's 7 years older than me. Should I carry on seeing him?
Q. I met this guy on the internet and we met, don't worry,he is who he said he is, but the problem? He's seven years older! Should I continue seeing him?...
A. 24 October 2007: Sorry for the reply being posted more than once I am experiencing difficulties with my computer.
Thanks.
Blue_Angel0316... (read in full...)
He's 7 years older than me. Should I carry on seeing him?
Q. I met this guy on the internet and we met, don't worry,he is who he said he is, but the problem? He's seven years older! Should I continue seeing him?...
A. 24 October 2007: Beware of a sheep in wolves clothing! If you are 10-12 then he is 17-19 correct? My adivce is to wait for having a realtionship with someone this age other than a simple friendship. Do not meet with this person alone because if they have ... (read in full...)
He's 7 years older than me. Should I carry on seeing him?
Q. I met this guy on the internet and we met, don't worry,he is who he said he is, but the problem? He's seven years older! Should I continue seeing him?...
A. 24 October 2007: Beware of a sheep in wolves clothing! If you are 10-12 then he is 17-19 correct? My adivce is to wait for having a realtionship with someone this age other than a simple friendship. Do not meet with this person alone because if they have ... (read in full...)
He's 7 years older than me. Should I carry on seeing him?
Q. I met this guy on the internet and we met, don't worry,he is who he said he is, but the problem? He's seven years older! Should I continue seeing him?...
A. 24 October 2007: Beware of a sheep in wolves clothing! If you are 10-12 then he is 17-19 correct? My adivce is to wait for having a realtionship with someone this age other than a simple friendship. Do not meet with this person alone because if they have ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to normalize my periods?
Q. i haven't got my periods for the last 3 months.I've done a home pregnancy test twice and the results are negative.I have a doubt that i might not be getting it due to stress and change of location.I was doing night shifts for a long time.I'm now ...
A. 24 October 2007: You are right stress can affect your menstural cycle. It can stop it from comming on. However this may not be the exact cause of the problem. Years ago I had this same problem. I wasn't pregnant but my natural cycle stopped for several months. I ... (read in full...)
White discharge from my nipple. Is this normal?
Q. So this is really embarresing, but some white discharge from the nipple, that normal? I'm kinda scared, and totally embaressed. ...
A. 24 October 2007: Try not to worry it is probably just a natural occurence. This type of thing can happen even if you have never had children or not even pregnant. Cancer is rarely the underlying cause of the discharge. Glands in the breast will leak fluid. The ... (read in full...)
No sex was involved until I got separated from my husband. When I can't see him when I want I get depressed and frustrated, so what next?
Q. This party in my life (married man) has been in my life for over 30 years. He got married first, dued to child born into a relationship he had before meeting me. Married her so the child would not be without a dad, as he did. I moved on, with other ...
A. 24 October 2007: You sound like you are in love with him. It hurts to not be able to be with him and you fear what the distance could do. You might be thinking he isn't wanting you or maybe something worse and it makes you feel sick inside.
He is already ... (read in full...)
No sex was involved until I got separated from my husband. When I can't see him when I want I get depressed and frustrated, so what next?
Q. This party in my life (married man) has been in my life for over 30 years. He got married first, dued to child born into a relationship he had before meeting me. Married her so the child would not be without a dad, as he did. I moved on, with other ...
A. 24 October 2007: You sound like you are in love with him. It hurts to not be able to be with him and you fear what the distance could do. You might be thinking he isn't wanting you or maybe something worse and it makes you feel sick inside.
He is already ... (read in full...)
Loving from afar
Q. I love a girl, but she already has a boyfriend. And there is no signs that they'll break up any time soon. I really love her, and there is no one else I want besides her. If only she knew how I felt. I would do anything for her. What should I do? I ...
A. 24 October 2007: If you love her then you will do what is best for her. Be her friend. If she becomes single then you may persue her heart.
If you try to tell her now she may become confused and if break up with him to be with you. Then of course you migh... (read in full...)
I feel like a prisoner. My wife is trying to alienate me from my family. What can I do?
Q. My wife has been bringing up divorce lately, sometimes jokingly, sometimes not. I've never been in this situation before so I'm hoping someone can tell me whether our relationship is worth saving or if we're better off apart. My wife doesn'...
A. 24 October 2007: It sounds like it might be a jealousy problem to start off but perhaps she suffers from seperation anxiety from being in a place far away from her home surroundings. Not having friends close by can make someone feel alone. (Ex military wife ... (read in full...)
I love him, but I don't think I want to be with him. Please advise!
Q. I need help getting to the bottom of my feelings. My partner and I split up earlier this year after 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the one though that ...
A. 24 October 2007: First of all you should deal with the problems that caused the breakup. Since you both decided to try again to make it work it seems that you both want this. Try to figure out the real reasons you decided to give it another try.
Many ... (read in full...)
People have told me that her dumping me is her loss... Is it really?
Q. After 2 years and 8 months, she's left me. I thought we were doing so well. We'd both gone to seperate universities, but our conversation seemed to be the same as ever, and I was happy. Now it's over. I don't think there's anything more I ...
A. 24 October 2007: I don't know the whole story here but it seems she might have decided she just wasn't ready to be with you. She left the relationsip when it was convienent to her needs for whatever her reason. Please try to accept her decision and in time if it ... (read in full...)
How can I find out her feelings, without ruining our friendship?
Q. I've recently become more and more attracted to a close friend of mine. I'm 21 but she's 34. She's single and we always get on very well when we're together but I want to spend time with her as more than friends. How can I find out if she feels the ...
A. 23 October 2007: Make a date and go somewhere special with your fiend. Make eye contact with her often and notice if she is doing the same. Let her get the feel of your presence and she how she reacts. (Body language)
It the moment presents itself and you ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant by this?
Q. Hi. Although i should know this im really not that sure. Me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night when we finished we relised some of his cum and dripped out the bottom of the condom and may have touched just the inside of my vagina, ca...
A. 23 October 2007: Most definantely if it had contact with the iside of the vagina. SPERM SWIMS!!!
May God be watching over you and help you to make the choice not to chance this again. If you must then PLEASE use some protection.
By the way you are r... (read in full...)
Have I got something unsavoury?
Q. Hi, have a really embarrising thing to ask. I've just starting seeing a guy and things have got really heated between us and he wants to make me cum. However I noticed that when i was wet there was some white discharge. Is this normal? We're not ...
A. 23 October 2007: It sounds like you might have a yeast infection. Refrain from sexual activity and consult a doctor.
God bless... (read in full...)
I just can't get through to him that I'm not cheating! Please help!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 3 1/2 years, but together for 7. We have 3 boys, 6,3,1. I have been completely faithful to him since we first got involved and haven't been with anyone else since! I kept in contact with an old flame who is ...
A. 23 October 2007: I don't know what the emails said but it seems that he has found it a reason to believe you have been cheating. First you need to realize that you opened the "can of worms", accept the blame for causing him to think what he does.
The burden o... (read in full...)
I am 12, he is 28. We are in love and he says he wants me to move in with him as soon as I am 16.
Q. About a month ago I met a really sweet guy at my aunts wedding. I'm only 12 but i look alot older and people tell me i am a lot more mature than my age. He's 28 and he works with my aunt. Pretty much everyone in my family knows him and they all seem ...
A. 23 October 2007: You might act older and look older hon but you are still 12. I don't believe you are old enough to make decisions of this nature. I have a 12 year old grandchild who 1, looks 15-16 and is pretty mature for her age. However she is still 12. ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant, and I seemed to be bleeding quite heavily recently! Please help!!
Q. i have not gotten my period in two months so last week i took two pregnancy tests and both came back positive. i started spotting a few days ago and it gradually got heavier and heavier as if i was on my period. i read that it was not uncommon to ...
A. 23 October 2007: Anytime you are pregnant and you are bleeding get to a Doc quick. If it's night time and you can't get to the doc before daylight, go to the emergency room. They are trained at what to do in this case. Let them know when you arrive that you are ... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this vicious circle?
Q. Hello, Mine is an odd one but I'll try to keep it all as short as possible. I had been living with my (now ex-)fiance for 18 months between September 2005 and March 2007. I'm now 28 and he's 24, and has always been a bit immature but I could hand...
A. 23 October 2007: What was done to you by the girl you called a friend is totally out of the loop. Honey that is no friend!!!! With friends like that you don't need enemies. Your boyfriend's problem sounds to be the simple in description. He is an alcoholic. He ... (read in full...)
I've been chatting with him on the net, do I love him?
Q. i have been chatting with a guy on the net for the past 2 months. i understand him well. he too cares for me. but i think im falling in love with him. because most of the time, im thinking about him only. im 18 and he is 24, if he doesnt contact me ...
A. 23 October 2007: I believe that you can love someone you have never seen. At least the person whom you percieve them to be. Love itself is concious choice based upon the feelings you have for someone but beware! The internet is filled with liars and cheats, ... (read in full...)
I don't like my boyfriend looking at other women!
Q. I don't like it when my boyfriend looks at other girls in public, I find it humiliating. If I initiate sex or give him a blow job before we go out, is there less chance that he will look at other girls because he's just had an orgasm? Or would it ...
A. 23 October 2007: A man will look. It is what he does *LOL* It doesn't mean they are wanting someone else. When all is said and done he goes home with you. If he is respectful,he will look but not touch. He will be tactful as to the way he acts toward the other ... (read in full...)
I want out because I'm not loyal and I'm bored. But she loves me - and sometimes I think I love her - so I could just come back!
Q. Okay, well I have been going out with this girl for about six months. I look at myself and I think "why would someone want to go out with me?" I think this because I like my freedom - I'm unloyal - and to be honest I get bored. Well, now I'm thin...
A. 23 October 2007: You appear to have mixed emotions. You might care more for her than you realize. You know that you get bored and you don't quiet know what to do having a real relationship with her in some way takes away alot of your valued freedom.
O... (read in full...)
Do I stay in the marriage for the sake of the children?
Q. Help! I have been married for 25 years. Have 2 children. 6 and 9. For most of my marriage, my husband has refused to touch me. I used to think there was something wrong with me, but turns out, he is very messed up sexually, and we've just started ...
A. 23 October 2007: If he thought you were leaving and he started counseling he must not want you to leave. Think about it. He may love you even though he never said it. Men have different ways to show their love. Many men think they show it in how they provide for ... (read in full...)
I'm married with four kids but in love with my HS sweetheart, any suggestions?
Q. Hi. I am married with 4 kids. My husband and I had a child when I was 16. He was no where to be found , untill he showed up on my door step when my child was 4 and I had another by someone else. 3 days later we got bacj together and have been ever ...
A. 23 October 2007: I have read your last post hon and I see why you have reservations about being with your husband. Your husband needs some professional help it seems. He could be suffering from some type of mental or emotional condition. The cursing and neglect ... (read in full...)
I was told to 'go back to africa' by my boyfriend - am I over reacting by breaking it off?
Q. Till recently i was in an interracial relationship (black and white). My boyfriend and I got into a political discussion and he told me to go back to Africa and I broke it off. Some of my friends say it was just a slip of the tongue and it's no big ...
A. 23 October 2007: That was a completely ignorant and rude comment to make. He is supposed to care about you as he is your b/f. I don't think I would waste any more time worrying about it. Put your political views at rest for the time being.
If he can't gi... (read in full...)
Am I reading too much into this? What do you make of my potential boyfriend?
Q. I recently moved to a new city, been here for about 4 months now, and found a new job. With this, I found some new friends. Two guys and a girl. One of the guys, and the girl have partners, so of course that left those two saying something was gonna ...
A. 23 October 2007: My first husband was 18 the month before we married where as I was 3 months shy of 17. He left and filed for divorce because he wasn't ready for type of committment that marriage takes. We were together for roughly two years and two months.
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I'm married with four kids but in love with my HS sweetheart, any suggestions?
Q. Hi. I am married with 4 kids. My husband and I had a child when I was 16. He was no where to be found , untill he showed up on my door step when my child was 4 and I had another by someone else. 3 days later we got bacj together and have been ever ...
A. 22 October 2007: You are tired of the relationship you have as you seem to be picking him apart with criticism. However you also say that this man "doesn't cheat, smoke, drink, do drugs, hang out, hit me, or anything illegal.
He works hard to provide ... (read in full...)
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