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I have a pain on the left side of my breast, doctors don't know why, any idea?
Q. I have a pain on the left side of my breast, I had an ultrasound and a mammagram done this year. They found nothing wrong. So, does anyone know why I have this pain? ...
A. 26 December 2008: You are welcome and I pray that things will be fine with you. My best to you in the comming NEW YEAR!
Blessing,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
Confused! What am I doing wrong?
Q. Ok I'm kind of new at this and haven't ever really asked anyones opinion before, but I'm just at a loss... I have been single for sometime now and I meet these guys that seem to be so great and start out good but then after about a week or two it ...
A. 24 December 2008: Perhaps he enjoys the closeness of the friendship. He may not be ready to move it to another level by becomming an item. If there is no sex, sleeping in the bed with you gives him comfort. If there is a nothingness when you aren't together perhaps ... (read in full...)
Regifting... Mamas boy? Does he even like me?
Q. I etched a portrait of my boyfriend for him. He framed it, however, before hanging it on his wall, he started entertaining the idea of giving it to his mother for Christmas, or, may be, for Mother's Day. Can someone tell me if this is a sign of ...
A. 24 December 2008: I think he appreciates the gift but he isn't aware that it will make you feel odd or hurt by giving it to his Mother. I am sure he thinks it's very nice and probably thinks it would mean something special to his Mother. Perhaps he knows she will ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to leave my wife and pursue relationship with an old friend?
Q. Ok i am at a lost and wanted to get an outside opinion of my situation...I don't know if I can save my marriage with my wife or if I even want to anymore, nor do I know how to tell her that though I love her dearly as she was my first love and is ...
A. 24 December 2008: It's quite common when someone has been married a good while to sort of drift apart a bit. It's up to both of the parties to keep that gap bridged. It isn't always easy. The easy way out though is just saying I love you but I am not in LOVE with you ... (read in full...)
She broke my heart, I moved on... but not completely.
Q. My boyfriend says that I was brave enough and he is proud of me for dumping my girlfriend... but somehow it feels wrong to do it... I am happy with him but deep down inside I know she's not right for me cuz she broke my heart once and I let her in ...
A. 24 December 2008: You are welcome sug I hope that you will have a Very Happy and PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR!
"To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful.”
"God can heal a broken heart but He has to have all the pieces."
"Giv... (read in full...)
Need help with what to do!
Q. Hi, my name Dan and I've made a big mess of everything, on Sat 12:00pm 20th December I went and saw my sister for the last time before she went to adoption, anyway I was expecting to be with my gf coz she knew I was going to be upset but later that ...
A. 24 December 2008: Dan you are welcome hon from the bottom of my heart. ANYTIME!
May You Have a VERY HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR 8-)
"Lord Raise me up to more than I can be"
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
I shouldn't stay when he deserves to have someone who is in love with him, right?
Q. okay here it is .. basically me and my current boyfriend have been together (for two years on new years day..so comming up) ..around may i told him i wasn't in love with him any more ..after that i left,and did my own thing kinda ..and he said he ...
A. 24 December 2008: You are going to have to be honest and let him go. The longer you hold onto this fantasy that you are creating for him the more he is going to be hurt.
You were wrong in leading him on since you already wanted to be with the other guy. No good is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not demonstrative, should I cool it?
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been dating for two years now. I love him very much, but he does not show that he reciprocates that love. My boyfriend claims not to be very "verbal." I, on the other hand, like to call him and send him...
A. 24 December 2008: You are welcome hon and yes The FRUITS OF THE LABOR....Patience is sometimes all that is really needed.
Blessings,
Blue_Angel
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My boyfriend is not demonstrative, should I cool it?
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been dating for two years now. I love him very much, but he does not show that he reciprocates that love. My boyfriend claims not to be very "verbal." I, on the other hand, like to call him and send him...
A. 23 December 2008: Just be patient hon and don't forget to play a bit hard to get. It keeps things alive and keeps them guessing!
Don't try so hard and let him see that you are ok with things even when he isn't giving the utmost. However you do deserve love and... (read in full...)
Why would my fiance say this to me?
Q. Before we got engaged, my fiance told me he "is not obligated to do anything for me". What does he mean by this? Why would he even say this to me ?...
A. 23 December 2008: Any man who wants to marry a woman has a certain amount of obligation. It is best when he wants to give it freely as it should be. If he doesn't feel this way the biggest chance is that he will never follow thru on some of the most important ... (read in full...)
Break-up: Before or After Christmas?
Q. Yes, this is incredibly bad timing. I have been in a relationship for 4 years and have known for a long time that something wasn't right. I wasn't ready to admit to myself that I no longer wanted to be in the relationship - until yesterday. My ...
A. 23 December 2008: You are very welcome. Yes I have been thru this and much more. I hope that something I can say here will be a real blessing to others. It's great news that he isn't physically violent towards you. I think that you will be able to handle this all ... (read in full...)
She broke my heart, I moved on... but not completely.
Q. My boyfriend says that I was brave enough and he is proud of me for dumping my girlfriend... but somehow it feels wrong to do it... I am happy with him but deep down inside I know she's not right for me cuz she broke my heart once and I let her in ...
A. 23 December 2008: Sometime hon love really hurts. It is often hard to let go of someone even when they are no longer around. It's ok to continue to care for a lost love but if you want your heart to heal so you can move on you must put this behind you.
When you ... (read in full...)
Newly pregnant, please help!
Q. I have just found out I'm pregnant and it's pretty early on in the first trimester. What are the consequences of me not taking care of myself during pregnancy? I would love it if you could state the really bad and even the small bad things that ...
A. 23 December 2008: You need to get to a DOCTOR! You will be needing prenatal vitamins and test need to be done to check for certain things that can affect your pregnancy,
Be sure to eat healthy foods and get lost of Calcium and vitamin D. You can find it in foods li... (read in full...)
Break-up: Before or After Christmas?
Q. Yes, this is incredibly bad timing. I have been in a relationship for 4 years and have known for a long time that something wasn't right. I wasn't ready to admit to myself that I no longer wanted to be in the relationship - until yesterday. My ...
A. 23 December 2008: If you love him I know how hard it can be to walk away. I can also see how it is to leave if he gets angry and could possibly cause you harm either verbally, mentally or physically. I have been on your back door step many times, on the front door ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to open his heart and really love me?
Q. I have been with this guy for 3 months it is like we have known each other in a past life. He told me he loves me but how do I know he means it from his heart? He was with this person for 9 years, she passed away about 9 months ago.. before me there ...
A. 23 December 2008: Be careful that it isn't rebound! If he cheated on the 9 year relationship ( a dying girl at that) with another one, whom he just got rid of......well it seems to me this man has some really big problems.
It might be best that you walk away fr... (read in full...)
Need help with what to do!
Q. Hi, my name Dan and I've made a big mess of everything, on Sat 12:00pm 20th December I went and saw my sister for the last time before she went to adoption, anyway I was expecting to be with my gf coz she knew I was going to be upset but later that ...
A. 23 December 2008: Talk to your Foster Parents. Get into counseling if you aren't already. focus upon getting youself well. Loosing your sister thru this thus adoption is a very traumatic experience. To be faced with loosing your girlfriend too further complicates ... (read in full...)
Break-up: Before or After Christmas?
Q. Yes, this is incredibly bad timing. I have been in a relationship for 4 years and have known for a long time that something wasn't right. I wasn't ready to admit to myself that I no longer wanted to be in the relationship - until yesterday. My ...
A. 23 December 2008: It's going to hurt either way hon. Personally I believe it is best to wait until after the holidays because you will be likely to ruin his entire holiday if you do it before.
I know it might seem like you are leading him on by going on the trip... (read in full...)
Does this seem like a one-sided relationship?
Q. is it bad when you were hanging out with someone for about a month or more, and you hung out at least once or twice a week...sometimes more and then you hang out once one week( being last week, monday-tuesday morning) and dont talk until today, ...
A. 23 December 2008: It doesn't exactally sound like a REAL RELATIONSHIP. It sounds more like a friendship of sorts. He is now either backing off, too busy or interested in something or somwone else!
Get busy and put him aside for the time being. When he notices ... (read in full...)
My hubby is great now but I can't forget that he cheated a year ago, help!
Q. Hi - I'm really confused - I love my husband but don't think I am in love with him any more. A year ago he had an affair. We broke up, were almost at the point of divorce, when he begged me to try again. He moved back in 2 months ago. We get on f...
A. 23 December 2008: It's a hard thing to do to FORGIVE and FORGET. You have been hurt deeply by someone who has claimed to love you. The feelings you have are pretty normal in this case. The fear that it could happen again stays with you night and day. If you have ... (read in full...)
Why would my fiance say this to me?
Q. Before we got engaged, my fiance told me he "is not obligated to do anything for me". What does he mean by this? Why would he even say this to me ?...
A. 23 December 2008: I don't want this to sound harsh but you need to DUMP him straight out! In a realtionship an attitude like his is going to constantly leave you hurting and lonely. He cares too much for himself and I am doubting that he has any real love for you at ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with Crohn's disease?
Q. i have a rare disease called orofacial granulomatosis also known as crohn's disease. i have been bullied for over 4 years now because of this actually i think its longer and i havent had a proper real boyfriend because no body wants me some people ...
A. 23 December 2008: One big ole mess here! Nearly 52 years old, bad eyesight, arthritus, bleeding gastrointestenal disease, GERDS and Overweight, Had cancer so no thyroid now! Had to get my throat cut for surgery and I am Bi_Polar too! Lots of other things all messed ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not demonstrative, should I cool it?
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been dating for two years now. I love him very much, but he does not show that he reciprocates that love. My boyfriend claims not to be very "verbal." I, on the other hand, like to call him and send him...
A. 22 December 2008: If you should choose to embark on the cooling off phase or the playing hard to get routine PROCEDE with CAUTION! Afer two years he will certainly be a bit suspicious if you just go COLD TURKEY.
You should however start leaning back in the relation... (read in full...)
Girlfriend loves me not interest in sex
Q. hi my girlfriend loves me but has no interest in sex what can i do to solve it...
A. 22 December 2008: If she has recently had a child this could explain it. Some women don't have sezual desires because they are often too tired or they just don't feel sexy anymore.She could be pregnant!This makes some women more sexual and some loose their natural ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend loves me not interest in sex
Q. hi my girlfriend loves me but has no interest in sex what can i do to solve it...
A. 22 December 2008: If she has recently had a child this could explain it. Some women don't have sezual desires because they are often too tired or they just don't feel sexy anymore.She could be pregnant!This makes some women more sexual and some loose their natural ... (read in full...)
Will his puppy lose its sight?
Q. Hi you lot, Need some advice really. My son has a lovely new little puppy. He let his mate look after it for him while he was at work, and the friend took the puppy round to his mate who has 3 cats. To cut a long story short, the puppy got attack...
A. 22 December 2008: Always welcome! Your kindness and bightlook for the puppy will help him to be all he can be.
You might be able to find something in this site that will help in maintaining, caring for and easing the transition from being fully sighted to only ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel sad instead of moving on? He was abusive and violent.
Q. Confused, I've been with my off and on again boyfriend for 3yrs who is violent and abusive.just two months ago he tried choking me the 2nd incidents of many.I kicked him out and we tried making it work. Needless, to say I'm a single mom with 2boys ...
A. 21 December 2008: I understand how hard it can be hon. I have been there! You are so welcome for anything that I could do to help. Merry Christmas to you and your Chilren. 8-)
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
Are these symptoms of being abused?
Q. i don't know what to do. this is confusing and i dont even know but i need some support from people so I dont feel bad. It is such a long story but i'll make it short. my ex will not get rid of his ex. I think has abused me financially, sex...
A. 21 December 2008: He is trying to make you feel sorry for him. Yes you were threatened. He may or may not carry out any act of violence or mental duress against of you.Put your money somewhere that he can't get access to it even if you have to change banks or ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel sad instead of moving on? He was abusive and violent.
Q. Confused, I've been with my off and on again boyfriend for 3yrs who is violent and abusive.just two months ago he tried choking me the 2nd incidents of many.I kicked him out and we tried making it work. Needless, to say I'm a single mom with 2boys ...
A. 21 December 2008: You need to break it off completely. You and your children could be in danger. The violence and abuse will forever be etched in the minds of the young ones and can lead to all sorts of problems later on in their lives. If you feel the need, change ... (read in full...)
Can they really take my daughter away from me?
Q. I recently got a message from my ex boyfriend's new wife. She talked about how she went to social services and told them how I used my daughter to get back at him, yet all I did was take her away because he wasn't there for her anyway. Plus she said ...
A. 20 December 2008: I think I might have mistaken a word here.
If tap meant to take the hand and strike the child I still say THROW that idea AWAY~
When I used the word Tape.I perhaps misunderstood what I was seeing. Angels eyes are getting old.
My ap... (read in full...)
Can they really take my daughter away from me?
Q. I recently got a message from my ex boyfriend's new wife. She talked about how she went to social services and told them how I used my daughter to get back at him, yet all I did was take her away because he wasn't there for her anyway. Plus she said ...
A. 20 December 2008: First of all hon you need to think put your child first. If you need time for yourself be sure to leave her with only those who are adaquate caregivers. NEVER TAPE her mouth shut! Simply try placing your hand over her mouth and asking her to ... (read in full...)
I have a pain on the left side of my breast, doctors don't know why, any idea?
Q. I have a pain on the left side of my breast, I had an ultrasound and a mammagram done this year. They found nothing wrong. So, does anyone know why I have this pain? ...
A. 20 December 2008: There are so many things that can cause pain in the breast. If your Doctor's having concluded the problem thru diagonosis you should consult another Doctor. Mastaglia the term used for pain in the breast. Causes of the breast pain are not well ... (read in full...)
Why is he suddenly giving me the silent treatment?
Q. Why have I been receiving the silent treatment? This guy friend I have has been recently talking to me alot through texting, talking online, hanging out quite a bit and we have fooled around in the past and recently because of our attraction. I...
A. 20 December 2008: He doesn't seem to be a one woman kinda man. He's playing the field and playing with your heart. Now he has your mind confused and has no real intention of making you the woman in his life. You deserve to have someone who will make you first place ... (read in full...)
Go along with parents or follow heart?
Q. If I am in a relationship that my parents are extremely against, do I sacrifice my happiness to please them? The only reason they don't agree with it is because he was once in a relationship with one of my friends. We weren't close, and I didn't s...
A. 20 December 2008: You are welcome and I think that's a wise choice. Best wishes.
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
Will his puppy lose its sight?
Q. Hi you lot, Need some advice really. My son has a lovely new little puppy. He let his mate look after it for him while he was at work, and the friend took the puppy round to his mate who has 3 cats. To cut a long story short, the puppy got attack...
A. 19 December 2008: Sorry to say hon but if it's milky looking it's quite possible that he will be blind in that eye. Don't worry though cause he will be just as cute and sweet in the hearts of those who love him.
If he becomes completely blind perhaps you son will... (read in full...)
Go along with parents or follow heart?
Q. If I am in a relationship that my parents are extremely against, do I sacrifice my happiness to please them? The only reason they don't agree with it is because he was once in a relationship with one of my friends. We weren't close, and I didn't s...
A. 19 December 2008: It really depends on all of the circumstances involved. As a parent I can certainly see where they would be concerned. I have this thing about dating someone who a friend of mine has liked and/or dated. I just don't go there. It can cause ... (read in full...)
I am married and am developing feelings for my sister in law.
Q. Hi there, I like everyone else am a normal guy, loved a girl, got married to her and I am happy. I love her the most in this world and she does love me too. Her parents have a great deal of respect for me. The problem is that she has a sister, who ...
A. 19 December 2008: Ditch those I love you's to the sister-in-law and remember to save them for your wife. If truely love your wife any involvement beyond that of a brother-in-law/friend is strictly off limits. It can destroy your marriage PERIOD! It can damage any ... (read in full...)
I'm the only one who says "I love you", he used to say it too, am I worrying for nothing?
Q. I know my guy loves me. We have been going out for a while. In the beginning of the relationship, we both kept saying "I love you" non stop. But now a days, I'm the only who says it, and when I do, all he does is agree. Am I working myself up over ...
A. 18 December 2008: Well it still won't go that way! Just copy and paste, or type that enitre link with all the other stuff into your brwser.
http://www.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3dsO_KILnJdHw%26amp;fmt%3d18A&fr=chr-ppal
^(**)^ Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
I'm the only one who says "I love you", he used to say it too, am I worrying for nothing?
Q. I know my guy loves me. We have been going out for a while. In the beginning of the relationship, we both kept saying "I love you" non stop. But now a days, I'm the only who says it, and when I do, all he does is agree. Am I working myself up over ...
A. 18 December 2008: Sorry for the blooper but the link says Maliformed Video URL. I tested it again and went back to find the real thing. It's a short Comedy Vid about how hard it is to say I LOVE YOU.......And the misconceptions and perseptive views of those who hear ... (read in full...)
I'm the only one who says "I love you", he used to say it too, am I worrying for nothing?
Q. I know my guy loves me. We have been going out for a while. In the beginning of the relationship, we both kept saying "I love you" non stop. But now a days, I'm the only who says it, and when I do, all he does is agree. Am I working myself up over ...
A. 17 December 2008: The newness had started wearing off or perhaps he has changed his mind about how he feels. Some guys aren't really into saying I love you all the time. The feeling of love is so great in the beginning because everything is new and exciting. In time ... (read in full...)
My ex is angry because he thought I told his brother his password
Q. hey right if u have eva read any of my other questions , you should know im crazy about my ex well this is the problem my ex were friends , and he told me his password to msn , and his brother asked me to tell him so i made it up , just a mad...
A. 16 December 2008: You betcha sweetie!From my heart! Make sure you keep up with your studies cause you need all the help you can get in making your life as SPECTACULAR as you can!
I have a 13 1/2 year old granddaughter too. 8-)
LIVE,LEARN,LAUGH ... (read in full...)
Her boyfriend doesn't know she has a baby. Should she tell him?
Q. Have a friend of mine, who has been dating a guy for the past one year. My friend has a baby but she is afraid to tell her boyfriend because it might ruin their relationship please give any suggestions to help....
A. 16 December 2008: That's ok too! She is putting the child's best interest at heart perhaps. Sometimes one has to let their child or children stay somewhere other than with them in order to give the child what is best for the time.
If he can't accept her situatio... (read in full...)
My ex is angry because he thought I told his brother his password
Q. hey right if u have eva read any of my other questions , you should know im crazy about my ex well this is the problem my ex were friends , and he told me his password to msn , and his brother asked me to tell him so i made it up , just a mad...
A. 16 December 2008: Don't even bother hon. If he doesn't know by now that you wouldn't do this, you are so much better off staying your distance from him. Let him be and leave him to him own misery. Don't rush your childhood, you only have ONE chance to LIVE IT!Let go ... (read in full...)
Her boyfriend doesn't know she has a baby. Should she tell him?
Q. Have a friend of mine, who has been dating a guy for the past one year. My friend has a baby but she is afraid to tell her boyfriend because it might ruin their relationship please give any suggestions to help....
A. 15 December 2008: You shouldn't tell him anything! That is up to your friend. However I think you should talk to your friend and try conviencing her that he needs to know. If this is a serious type of realationship eventually he WILL find out and it could cause big ... (read in full...)
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