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| | blazee's profile:My name Andreas Avraam, i live in england and am 15 years old.
I have been through a lot, but lately i think ive learned to accept myself who i am, which tbh not doing that was probably creating a lot of my problems in the first place:)
im love sports, used to sprint for my bourough, play basketball for the school team and am a black belt in taekwondo,
i like to read, although i dont as much as i used to:S and i luv writting so hoping to be an author wen i grow up;) or own my own gym, or be a doctor, lol aint quite decided yet.
Am here because ive had probelems before which ive needed help on so i wanna return the favour:)www: www.myspace.com/andreasavraam |
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I do not know what to do to prove myself.
Q. Over the period of 3 years or so I was talking to a guy (lets call him Bob) I met online through a band. We had always wanted to meet but we didn't until this August when he came in from Iraq on leave. While he was here I met his best friend of 13 ...
A. 19 November 2008: Before you where close with the bob right? thats why you felt the way you did about him, Fred should understand that you werent as close with him then but as you got to know him more, youve relised that he much more important then the Bob, and your ... (read in full...)
His daughter calls another man "daddy".
Q. Hey I’m Jon 18 years old. This questions actually about my older brother he had a baby girl "Chloe" with his ex wife 2 years ago and broke up with her about a year ago (I'm not sure of the details my brother normally goes to his friends not family ...
A. 19 November 2008: Talk to him, make him realise that no matter what, he is that girl's father, dosnt matter how much another man might be there, he can never take that away from your brother. This other guy can walk away at any minute, he cant, also if you still ... (read in full...)
I'm happy without a boyfriend, so why is it always on my mind?
Q. Okay, basically, I'm EXTREMELY confused with myself. Honestly, I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend. Usually I am happy with this, I really don't care whether I have a boyfriend, and can be happy without one. I have my GCSEs comi...
A. 16 November 2008: Hey, being a 15 year old guy i hope i can help lol.
Ive been out with a few people and unless you connect well, there is no point at all, its always gonna end badly.
I think its better if you wait, you shouldnt settle for anyone so unless you have... (read in full...)
He's creative and good hearted but slow, should I endure or move on?
Q. My boyfriend is a simple and sweet guy with a beautiful heart. We've been dating a few months and up 'til now have had a great time together and shown each other a lot of love. We're goofy together and laugh a lot -- in some ways he's got a ...
A. 16 November 2008: Its up to you, im not sure anyone can really answer this without being in your situation.
You have to make a choice, does his simple mindidness really eclipse his affection for you, and your obvious love for him?
Many women come on here telling ... (read in full...)
Best aftershaves and perfumes???
Q. Hello, quick question. Girls, which (if any) (fairly cheap) colognes do you like the best? Guys, what do you think is best? I know it's not going to suddenly make all the girls in my school attracted to me, but I like to smell good. It creates a ...
A. 16 November 2008: calvin klein MAN - i own it and i really like it, or armani code. Whichever there both realy good... (read in full...)
My husband has always had porn in his life and I'm aggravated and tired.
Q. i'm tired and confused and need help. i've been married for 15 years, my husband has always had porn in his life since i've been with him, everytime i find it i cry i get furious and he says he'll stop and does for maybe a week or 2 till i find ...
A. 16 November 2008: im sorry to hear that:(
ending 15 years of marridge is really hard, but you really did deserve better things, and he was only making you have low self confidence, so because of that im glad you've made this decision.
good luck with everythi... (read in full...)
My husband has always had porn in his life and I'm aggravated and tired.
Q. i'm tired and confused and need help. i've been married for 15 years, my husband has always had porn in his life since i've been with him, everytime i find it i cry i get furious and he says he'll stop and does for maybe a week or 2 till i find ...
A. 15 November 2008: im sorry i didnt realise that he acted like that, my answer was only based around the infomation you have given me, since i am not you i cant understand how he feels or your relationship with him. when i asked if he showed he loved you through ... (read in full...)
Do I stop talking to him altogether?
Q. We were together for months but he told me he was too busy with school and work. I said that I wasnt going to do it anymore without a proper relationship and he asked me to be his girlfriend. A week later, he told me that his grades were too low and ...
A. 14 November 2008: It dosnt sound like he is that good at relationships, Romantic ones as well as friendships. The fact that he thought you were close when you werent, and that hes always running away from convosations shows his distance to other people. Have you ever ... (read in full...)
My husband has always had porn in his life and I'm aggravated and tired.
Q. i'm tired and confused and need help. i've been married for 15 years, my husband has always had porn in his life since i've been with him, everytime i find it i cry i get furious and he says he'll stop and does for maybe a week or 2 till i find ...
A. 14 November 2008: You and your husband need to sort this out. He has an addiction which he wil find very hard to give up, once you start it is like trying to stop smoking. You need to talk with him, ask him what you are not giving him, what these magazines are, but ... (read in full...)
I found sexy girls stripping from "Youtube" on his computer!
Q. I found online "you tube" videos of sexy girls stripping, dancing around and what not in my husband's history on his computer. So I confronted him and at first he was like well I left my IPOD in the car and went on "You Tube" to listen to music and ...
A. 14 November 2008: to be honest you dont know. more and more every generation becomes rapped around porn as it becomes more accesible. I think you need to confront your husband and ask him what he feels he is not getting from you, what the videos on youtube are giving ... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on halloween?
Q. Theres this girl my best friend since like 2006.... we always hang out together talk on msn. We both have boyfriends (we go threw them very fast) She's very pretty, I've grown so close to her. We always call each other sisters. The point is i ...
A. 24 October 2007: heya. are you sure she feels the same way? most girls are close at this age, exactly how you described, id be careful not to ruin your friendship with her... (read in full...)
How can I find out her feelings, without ruining our friendship?
Q. I've recently become more and more attracted to a close friend of mine. I'm 21 but she's 34. She's single and we always get on very well when we're together but I want to spend time with her as more than friends. How can I find out if she feels the ...
A. 23 October 2007: ask her out, only way she will willingly admit she likes you unless she feels verry strong about you... (read in full...)
This isn't really a relationship question, but please help me... My daughter is hearing voices at night...
Q. Im sorry this isnt a relationship question....its about my 9 year old daughter.......each night when she goes to sleep she is hearing voices and she cannot quieten them....i believe but am not sure that they are spirit but this is distressing her ...
A. 22 October 2007: hi, i would say that.. you need to consult a profesional with something like this, unless we have some phychiatrists, or children specialists on this site that come across your question, im not sure we can help much.
x... (read in full...)
I only see him once a week - is he still interested in me?
Q. hi i would like some help please. I like this boy and i know he used to fancy me, because someone told me, he kept looking at me, flirted a lot, and everyone told me he did. But now he dosent seem very interested.I only see him once a week and...
A. 22 October 2007: hi, um yeah he does probably. if he hasnt asked you out chances are his feelings havent gone completely=]
get his msn, or num. something that you can use to talk to him and just act like your interested and bubbly. he should start fliritng agai... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a guy in the sixth form, but I don't want to compromise our friendship. What can I do?
Q. I'm 15 and have fallen with one of my guy mates who is in the sixth form in my school- he is 17. I am completely and utterly in love with him and its so bad it actually aches inside. I know this sounds dramatic and your proberly thinking this is ...
A. 22 October 2007: heya=]
lol im your age and ma friend had a problem like this as well so i might have some helpful tips on this.
ok the first thing is, if you really really like him, and you cant stand the thought of being without him. have conversations with him... (read in full...)
He touched my bum - does that mean he likes me?
Q. i know this sounds an odd question but ive known this guy for over a year and the past few months hes alway talking about wanting to sleep with me in front of my face and in front of others to which i find really strange that i just laugh it off. he ...
A. 22 October 2007: heya,
um do u mean that the guy who apparently likes you is getting married?
if so.. i would be very careful. dont do anything with him, chances are its not a relationship he wants, just a little fling. someone who really liked you, and was gett... (read in full...)
Am I just worrying or jealous for no reason?
Q. Hi, I am 17, and my girlfriend is 18. We have been going out for 2 months now, and we have had few arguements even though we love each other alot and know it can work. Basically, what bothers me is shes really close with her boy mates, infact all ...
A. 21 October 2007: hi, um this girl is not alright if she has slit her wrist. ive been involved in this situation to, do not get tied up because you feel guilty, or two involved. get out when you can. sorry to say that but you dont want to be dragged down like that w... (read in full...)
Am I getting the wrong end of the stick?
Q. Hi, There's a girl (j) I work with who's well to say the least, so beautiful and has a lovely personality, we both work for a communications company and I've been there since June and she's been there since febuary this year also, While i was on m...
A. 21 October 2007: id say its going pretty well! just be yourself and im sure itll be fine.... (read in full...)
I like two guys, which one should I choose?
Q. I have a problem with liking two guys. One I'll call John. I met John over two years ago and I've been dating him for two years. We have a great relationship and neither of us ever planned on us ever breaking up. The only problem is that he is in ...
A. 21 October 2007: heya=]
um you got to chose this on your own, look into your heat and try to realize which one really means a lot to you.
like the guy that can sing, hes gonna know that will help him with any girl, and hes kinda stealing you, but in a sneaky k... (read in full...)
My kids are out of control, and my wife and I fight over it.
Q. My 3 kids of ages 11, 9 and 6 are always fighting among themselves. I being the father have a little control. I mean when I am home they take notice of me, but for the mother they dont seem to listen her. I always ask them to behave but in worst ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi, dont worry about it all ids are like this=]
just remember why you wanted them andh old in there, eventually, when there older you wont want to let them go so engoy the time where there every wish and responsibility revolves around you, your gonn... (read in full...)
He can't have a meaningful discussion without disagreeing with me and then breaking off. What do you think of this situation?
Q. my fiance has broken off with me off and on more than 10times this year, and im emotionally stressed out. on top of this, he continues to threaten especially if i comment on something he doent like. once, i asked him if he is having some inte...
A. 20 October 2007: heya,
um it sounds like.. this guy is very overpowering.. is he?
if you feel safe in the relationship then ok.. but if you feel a litte bit worried, weather that he is doing anything to you. or even if you feel that your words arent being heard. i... (read in full...)
I have a phobia about letting him see my vagina. How can I get over this?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been hitting on 8 months, but i'm too self-concious to let him see my vagina, we have sex often enough but i dont let him see it. how can i get over it, its like a phobia, i shake and go insane if he tries to go near it!...
A. 20 October 2007: heya b=]
um.. i think that this is something that you will worry about now but not later in your life.
if you go along with it, everytime you do it it will get better untill eventually, you wont even think about it=]
there mite be a reason why y... (read in full...)
Do I tell him, even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. I like this guy and ive liked him for a while. and he was single and we were flirting alot and hangin out like 4 times a week. but i never was brave enough to ask him out. now he has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do. i broke up with my ex ...
A. 20 October 2007: chanches are he will be single soon=] lol most relationships in teenage years dont stay strong for to long.
so dont do anything that might jepordize your relationship with him already, wait.
good luck, x... (read in full...)
I have everything I ever wanted. So why am I unhappy?
Q. what is wrong with me ?. i have just moved into my first home with my partner, i have a beautifull house a wonderfull partner a supportive family and a good career ahead of me but im so so lonely and down. i feel so lonely i have nothing to compl...
A. 20 October 2007: heya=] um youll find that everyone has to have somethiing to worry about, even if there rlly little. but you need something, its what gives your life that litlle bit of esscence and meaning, something for you to do and concentrate on. most people in ... (read in full...)
I hate my family life. What can I do?
Q. I hate my family life im 13 and there are so many family problams I hate everyone in my family there so unfair and horrible. I want to leave home. I have a week off school for half term and i would rather go to school just to escape! What can I Do?...
A. 20 October 2007: what exactly are the problems?
and try and stay with your family ok.. i mean i dont know whats going on in there but, this is a very emotional time in your lifee.. i think if you stay there you will realize there only trying to help you, and maby... (read in full...)
21, if I can't have her, It doesn't seem like I can have anyone. How can I painlessly move on from my ex?
Q. Hi I've just turned 21, and basically, I HATE love. The only girl I've ever loved for over 2 years left me to go to university. My friends have told me to move on, but the thought of moving on really hurts. I wanted the only girl I've ever l...
A. 19 October 2007: hi, um chances are this is your first love.. yh stating the obvious but everyone feels like this with there first love.. everyone. you will move on, you just need to focus on something else, someoneelse. try talking to new people, dont become boxed ... (read in full...)
How can he say he loves me and I'm his soulmate but still leave me??
Q. hi, I've been split up with my bf for 3 months now and it seems to be gettin harder. I love him so much and miss him more everyday no matter what i do i can't seem to move on . He told me that we needed to sort our heads out and he would love th...
A. 19 October 2007: heya=] um answering your question, dont think to badly of this guy. more detail into the problem would help produce a more acurate answer but basiclly there are two solutions to this. one: he does care for you, just not in the way that he may have... (read in full...)
I want to tell her about us, but he'll be mad.
Q. Hey I'm a 19 yr old female with a dilemma! I have this friend, we have been best friends for about 7 years. He's had a girlfriend for the past 4 years, one that I helped him to get- when he saw her he basically fell in love and said he wanted t...
A. 19 October 2007: dont take to many of these posts seriouslly, you should live your life the way you want to live your life. most people wil say that you should always do the right thing like many of these people here and they will say your disgusting but no doubt ... (read in full...)
How do I get a boyfriend?
Q. I thought that I was an attractive person. I have big brown eyes, long brown hair, perky breast's, long legs, flat stomach, athletic, kinky, smart, nice and have a strong sense of humer... Why don't I have a boy friend? yyyyyyyyyyyyyyy??????? What ...
A. 8 September 2007: heya, well most boys wont come up to you unless they are absaloutly sure they arent gonna get turned down. so if someone looks at you, give them a smile. and with any boy you like flirt with them, make sure they know you are interested. things sh... (read in full...)
Am I still in love with my ex? Do I love my classmate?
Q. Ermm.. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4months a few weeks ago. Now, he's with one of my close friends. I really support them, and wish them the best. I thought I could get over him and I thought I did. I guess I was wrong. Whenever he talks to me ...
A. 3 August 2007: Sounds like you're still thinking about your last relationship and because you havent been involved with anyoneelse since and your ex is still talking to you, thats why your feeling like that. I think if you like this other boy and start dating you ... (read in full...)
I'm married-he's married. I am having his baby..should I allow him in the baby's life?
Q. I'm married, he's married, and now i'm having his baby should I allow him to be in his baby's life? We met at work and I thing lead to another that we starting seeing each other and having a sexaul relationship in May of 2006 We are both married...
A. 26 July 2007: yeah i think he should. he has no other children of his own, and this is his first child:(
if you dont let him in its like your punishing him but you are both equally responsible for the baby and should both contribute to the babys life.
im su... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but i can't stop thinking about my best friend.
Q. I have a GF, and my best friend who is a girl we shared a hug and there was this moment when i forgot my GF and being with my best friend seemed perfect. What should i do?, i love my GF but now i am constantly thinking about my best friend in a ...
A. 25 July 2007: remember you might lose both.
think about it long and hard. was there a reason for you asking your girlfriend out? or was it a mistake, and the real person was always there just unnoticed?
think through your emotions about your best friend. ... (read in full...)
Five year old girl masturbating, is this normal?
Q. Is it okay or normal for a 5 year old girl to masturbate, I see her in her bed humping at night and wanted to know how to handle? Thank you....
A. 25 July 2007: um nope that does not sound normal. i looked it up and most masterbating problems written by people are about there 11yr kid +. are you sure she is actually humping? at may be something conforting her. have a talk with her and ask her. but she is... (read in full...)
I dont believe in giving cheaters second chances, but I kind of want to with him
Q. okay well firstly i have quite a harsh perspective of realationships if someone ceats on me then its over with them offcourse it takes time for me to get over them but i can. if someone ceats on me with a mate of mine then i get make out with them ...
A. 25 July 2007: he sounds a litlle bit forceful to be honest:( you clearly told him that you couldnt make out but he still started didnt he? um well to be honest you cant be sure he has never cheated before, youve only got his word for that:( and very few guys... (read in full...)
An old GF wants to get together. Should I take a chance?
Q. So a girl I went out with a few times in college, about 5 years ago, (we went out on a few dates but really didnt work out and no hard feelings afterward) and was somewhat friends a little while thereafter the few dates we went on...emailed me out ...
A. 25 July 2007: mabye she has just left a relationship and is on the rebound? anyway if you didnt really argue and you liked her why not? give her a try:) but 6 hours is a long way. mabye a long weekend? but remember she only said she wanted to talk, did she ... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 25 July 2007: try to move away. yeah you will feel pain but it is the best thing. it will hurt but you can survive it try not to worry to much. after all relationships shouldnt be your life. mabye you got to attached to this one? you need a brake, i think s... (read in full...)
My married lover's guilt is getting to her; should I try to see her or give her space?
Q. Hi guys, been seeing a married work colleague, whos marriage is seriously not fulfilling for her. Know we both shouldent but fancy each other like crazy. She is suffering with guilty concience and i am too believe it or not and its made us both ill...
A. 24 July 2007: leave her to get her thoughts together. she has walked down the aisle with this other man, there was obviously a time when she loved him. be careful you might be getting involved in something with no happy ending. often when a girl says somethi... (read in full...)
Why are so many children having sex?
Q. Hi. This is a general question, rather than help really, and for all the young people to think about perhaps. Ok, here it is..... Why are so many very young people having sex under 16 years old? For a start the legal age for it is no...
A. 24 July 2007: its about technology. these days people want everything good and fast. they dont care that taking drugs could kill them its what they feel that they care about. they dont care that having sex is illegal or that they could bring a, sorry to say th... (read in full...)
Update on the guy at the gym; he's acting even friendlier now
Q. hi all, yesterday i posted a question about this guy i like from my gym, well today i saw him again and was talking to one of the others about my crap day yesterday, he was standing thre the whole time, and smiled at me a couple of times, then w...
A. 24 July 2007: i would say he is interested b! go for it;) if a guy is looking at you and smilling, then he starts a conversation he is trying to out the hints across that he likes you. but the only problem with this site is with things like this were not much is ... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 24 July 2007: ok... well do remember that in this the most important feelings are yours.
i think that you will feel pain in any way you go here and im a not quite sure if she feels the way about you that you do about her.
look at her, see if you can feel any... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 24 July 2007: ok... well do remember that in this the most important feelings are yours.
i think that you will feel pain in any way you go here and im a not quite sure if she feels the way about you that you do about her.
look at her, see if you can feel any... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 24 July 2007: dont cut her out of your life, that is one of the most confusing and painfl things you can do.
wondering with what ifs, could i have her back.
and if you've had your last kiss.
im so sorry:(
you need to talk to her, tell her all this.
if she do... (read in full...)
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