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*oftballplaya
writes:why are boys his age so obsessed with sex!!!. hi everyone!! I was recenly back with me ex and he broke up with me by text message saying that "i love you megan" and I was like wtf? he told me "ahahahah" and i asked what was so funny and his response was "its so funny I want ass" I was shocked and appauled at this.Everything was fine 2 text messages ago (lol) Well his "friend" apparently texted me before after one day of us dating saying about how he wanted sex. I really think it was him now...I said no THEN he blamed it on the friend. Iam a girl that has high selfesteem and respect for herself. but why is it that if a sleezy girl was the other option who would gladly hand him sex, he would choose her? he is 16 Im 14 but he has dated a variety of ages so please dont give me the "your too young lecture" because Ive heard it before. I dont understand why he has to play me! I was a good gf to him, and yet he does this to me. Im not as upset as I was when we first broke up but THIS hurts me=(all advice acceptedplease and thank you. God bless xox
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reader, DIE-romantic.  +, writes (28 October 2007):
 Every guy goes through this stage. Its the hormones. He will grow out of all this once his hormones have settled down. Its good that you have self respect and the girls who do gladly hand sex on a plate to guys, obviously dont. Keep it and dont give into him. :)
Take care xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): Well really it depends, I just read the other, longer reply and I disagree.
I'm 16, I have hormones but I'm in a good, loving relationship, true, sex is, let's face it, awesome, but there is more to a proper relationship than sex.
It should be a PART of the relationship, not the whole thing.
My advise is find someone more mature, not nesessarilly older though, as anymore than 3 years can raise a few eyebrows :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): Well really it depends, I just read the other, longer reply and I disagree.
I'm 16, I have hormones but I'm in a good, loving relationship, true, sex is, let's face it, awesome, but there is more to a proper relationship than sex.
It should be a PART of the relationship, not the whole thing.
My advise is find someone more mature, not nesessarilly older though, as anymore than 3 years can raise a few eyebrows :P
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (23 October 2007):
 I can sum it up in a few words....HORMONES!!!!! and INMATURITY!!!! Don't waste your time on someone who isn't staying straight about what they do or tell you. You derserve to have a real relationship not an imaginary one.
You used the term God bless so I am assuming you have some religious background. Keep your self respect girl and save yourself for the man you will marry. I highly doubt you will regret it.
God bless and keep you. In his favor.
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (22 October 2007):
softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question lol thank you. thats very good advice, and your right I could have figured that out on my owm. I appreciate your advice very much
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (22 October 2007):
 I am not telling you that you are too young for a boyfriend as you sound pretty street-wise and clued up. This is not difficult or terribly complicated...he is a hormone-charged 16 year old with terrible social skills if his only method of communication is to text you. If you rolled over with your legs in the air then he would have gladly taken the opportunity for his advantage and then run away leaving you feeling used. Boys of 16 generally are interested in sex for several reasons: (i) they want to tell their mates how they have 'done it' - the peer pressure is enormous (ii) they are midway through puberty so their bodies are going bananas and (iii) they are more immature than girls of the same age so the 'hit and run' thrill of sex really appeals leaving many teenage girls in search of an emotionally equal, long term boyfriend very disappointed! You don't seem stupid so you should figure this all out for yourself. Basically run away from the over-grown toddler and feel thankful to be spared the ordeal of babysitting him.
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