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What has caused my boyfriend to be this quiet the past two weeks?
Q. My boyfriend has been quiet for the past two weeks. We got into a fight about his drinking and all of a sudden, we stop having sex. When I walk to a room, he leaves out. We do not sleep in the same bed anymore. I even asked him "what's wrong?" or ...
A. 19 October 2008: You are welcome God bless and hope all is better from here on out.
Blue_Angel
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What has caused my boyfriend to be this quiet the past two weeks?
Q. My boyfriend has been quiet for the past two weeks. We got into a fight about his drinking and all of a sudden, we stop having sex. When I walk to a room, he leaves out. We do not sleep in the same bed anymore. I even asked him "what's wrong?" or ...
A. 17 October 2008: A whiner NO! It makes you human. Sometimes when a relatinship is on the downside it is quite often because one of the parties has already left or thought about leaving the relationship long before they break it off. Fade is right when you continue ... (read in full...)
What has caused my boyfriend to be this quiet the past two weeks?
Q. My boyfriend has been quiet for the past two weeks. We got into a fight about his drinking and all of a sudden, we stop having sex. When I walk to a room, he leaves out. We do not sleep in the same bed anymore. I even asked him "what's wrong?" or ...
A. 17 October 2008: It sounds like he is still upset about your having criticized him about his drinking. It possible that he is being stubborn about letting you have the last word. By brooding or become distant with you he thinks he is gaining control over the ... (read in full...)
He broke up our long distance relationship and now I don't know what to do...
Q. My boyfriend of over 2 years just broke up with me a few weeks ago and I'm going crazy. Our entire relationship has been long distance.. but we made it work. We talked every night for two years and this summer he started going out with friends all ...
A. 15 October 2008: It appears that his relationship needs have changed. If he is concerned that things will be too hard on your relationship because of his obligations then he is choosing what he feels is best for both of you. You are still very young and it is hard ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic.
Q. I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic. he's had a rough life. his mom just committed suicide last year and he found her and its just tragic. basically, I just want him to be happy. he can really be ...
A. 15 October 2008: I would like to add that also I have encountered countless numbers of others who have drug or alcohol addictions. Drugs like alcohol can lead to danger in the same abusive or neglectful behaviors. I know how deceptive they can be just to obtain the ... (read in full...)
Does my step sister like me?
Q. i like my step sister and i'm pretty sure she likes me is there any way i can find out for sure without asking or telling her how i feel it's just i keep dropping massive hints like i got something to tell you which you won't like then she thought i ...
A. 15 October 2008: It is possible she might . Sometimes when families join together and there are children of different genders they can become *infatuated or sometimes even *love one another. However it isn't a good idea to let things go further. It can cause alot ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic.
Q. I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic. he's had a rough life. his mom just committed suicide last year and he found her and its just tragic. basically, I just want him to be happy. he can really be ...
A. 15 October 2008: I do understand. I am the child of an alcoholic parent.(deceased)I also have been in a few serious relationships with alcoholic boyfriends. I know how mean and hurtful things can become. Sometimes they vent themselves by being verbally abusive or ... (read in full...)
I seem to sweat alot for no reason. what is wrong with me!
Q. hi. i am a very clean person! i take a shower every day and clean myself up good. but i seem to sweat a lot. and its disgusting. but if im just sitting there i feel my underarms getting sweaty. and it makes b.o. i use deoderant. and ive changed it ...
A. 15 October 2008: To help fight body odor you can try using a deoderant/ antibacterial soap. It fights the bacteria which causes b/o. It's ok to tell your Mom that you need deorderant. Everyones body requires different things at different paces to help maintain ... (read in full...)
My husband got jealous of my guy friend! Whom do I choose?
Q. Ok, so heres the thing.... I just got married in July... and had been seeing my now husband before that for nearly 5 yrs but, sometimes I miss the attention and desire you get from men when you are single. My husband has a friend (not a super close ...
A. 15 October 2008: Please not that as I reread my post I had forgotton to say that from what you wrote you are the one who seems to be drawn here to a single man. The attention that you are getting makes you feel something you might not be feeling about your husband ... (read in full...)
My husband got jealous of my guy friend! Whom do I choose?
Q. Ok, so heres the thing.... I just got married in July... and had been seeing my now husband before that for nearly 5 yrs but, sometimes I miss the attention and desire you get from men when you are single. My husband has a friend (not a super close ...
A. 15 October 2008: You are married. Who should you choose? Your husband of course! The other man may be attentive but you must not accept any advances. He may be a friend to you but if he is making advance toward you he isn't much of a friend to your husband.
You a... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic.
Q. I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic. he's had a rough life. his mom just committed suicide last year and he found her and its just tragic. basically, I just want him to be happy. he can really be ...
A. 15 October 2008: I am sorry to hear about your friend. Please remember that you can only change yourself and you can't make someone stop. However if you are a friend sometimes you do have influence over a person. All you can do is try to talk to them about this and ... (read in full...)
When I find out they like me, my feeling of attraction for them disappears...
Q. Hi, I'm 17 and I'v got a problem. For the past few month, when I get to a girl relationship wise to the stage I realize that they may in fact like me all of a sudden literally on the very same day that I find this out, all my feelings of attraction ...
A. 15 October 2008: It sounds like you might be tired of just picking up someone from parties and such however if you like someone and when they return the mutual feeling you hit those brakes! Sounds like Committment Phobia to me. Then again it could be a lack of being ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I am love with 18 year old boy who I have never met before.
Q. I'm 15 and I am love with 18 year old boy who I have never met before. I believe he is my soulmate but doesn't want to get involved with me as I am so young but he claims he still likes me Please help :(...
A. 15 October 2008: If he's your true soulmate then it won't hurt to let things just happend naturally. Continue being his friend from afar. I am assuming possibly that this is an internet connection. Since he is 18 certain laws could cause him alot of problems ... (read in full...)
Keep or wait to have this baby? We may not be financially stable to properly care for another being that needs us. Your thoughts?
Q. I am 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We are planning on getting married but have been putting it off so that we can save for a big wedding. We both want children one day but my issue is, I just found out that I am pregnant...right now. So, I'm ...
A. 13 October 2008: He has a good job,you have a home,you love each other. Most couples starting out don't have anything but Love. If he has some insurance that will help for medical needs during the time the baby is comming and after it's birth. Just a note....Some ... (read in full...)
I finished the relationship but now I feel so miserable.
Q. I hope someone out there can help me because I am a complete mess at the moment. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and now I am going crazy, I miss her so much and I'm scared she has met someone else. I'll start from the beginning. Th...
A. 13 October 2008: It's hard to let go of soomeone you really love. I know all too well. I know how your thoughts can become so consumed that you can't really think about anything else. It can make you sick.
You really have to try and get this off your mind for... (read in full...)
What should I do about my classmate's eating disorder?
Q. This girl S in my class has an eating disorder. No one really likes her, and I'm the only one in our class who even tolerates her, but she thinks we're friends and always tags along with me at school. I feel bad about it, but my friend came up to me ...
A. 13 October 2008: This girl is in real trouble. She could really use a friend here. Someone to confide in. You have already allowed her to assume that you are friends. Why not give it a try.\
Not causing a scene about the brownies I think is only part of why you ... (read in full...)
Should I go to meet this guy in Europe after what might have been a simple holiday fling?
Q. I recently fell in love with a married man from a far-off land (something I personally don't approve of and yet it has happened to me!). He came for a visit a month ago to my country. I had met him five months earlier in his own country and while ...
A. 12 October 2008: You are welcome hon. I know from your post and your concerns that you already know what to do. Let go with grace and humility and keep your self-respect and dignity. You are going to be just fine.
Blessings,
Blue_Angel
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Do I tell my ex about my new love?
Q. Hi Everyone, I am so confused right now so I really need some help with this! Here is the scenario: I ended a 7 year relationship with my girlfriend about 2 years ago as we had been together since the age of 17 and decided that I needed to...
A. 12 October 2008: You have to make a choice. There are two other people here who are subject to being hurt, no matter what you choose. If you still want the ex and move on yet she is in love with you then who gets hurt? Both you and the ex. If you choose the ex who ... (read in full...)
Should I go to meet this guy in Europe after what might have been a simple holiday fling?
Q. I recently fell in love with a married man from a far-off land (something I personally don't approve of and yet it has happened to me!). He came for a visit a month ago to my country. I had met him five months earlier in his own country and while ...
A. 12 October 2008: I can understand your delima. Our hearts can often feel what our eyes cannot see, what our minds cannot know and even that which we cannot touch. Love is not simply a word but it's a heartfelt emotion. Sometimes we wait a lifetime for this and ... (read in full...)
Do other girls have hairy breasts?
Q. Right I have a bit of a problem I have some hairs on my breasts and although their not like armpit hairs or anything I think their quite noticable am I the only one with this problem or do other people have hairs aswell??? ...
A. 12 October 2008: Sometimes women get facial hair and even hair on the breast. Don't worry. It's hormones! If they are soft and light they may not be a noticeable to others as they are to you. If they are dark and more noticeable then simply get a pair of tweezers ... (read in full...)
I finished the relationship but now I feel so miserable.
Q. I hope someone out there can help me because I am a complete mess at the moment. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and now I am going crazy, I miss her so much and I'm scared she has met someone else. I'll start from the beginning. Th...
A. 12 October 2008: Finding someone else quickly is quite possible, however if it's true loves she feels for you then chances are you won't be forgotton so quickly!
I know how you feel about the rollercoaster ride. I used to say I feel like I'm on a rollercoaste... (read in full...)
Is baby oil okay to use for a hand job?
Q. is baby oil an okay lube for a handjob?...
A. 12 October 2008: I do hope that there was no one offended by my post. I understand the question was about baby oil being used for a specific purpose. However there was mention of saliva. I wanted to give information concerning the risk of using it as a lubricant.
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Is baby oil okay to use for a hand job?
Q. is baby oil an okay lube for a handjob?...
A. 12 October 2008: Using saliva as a personal lubricant is the method techinally referred to as *in a pinch* when you don't have don't have anything else available.
While it can be used as a lubricant not all Doctors agree that the usage of saliva is the best met... (read in full...)
I finished the relationship but now I feel so miserable.
Q. I hope someone out there can help me because I am a complete mess at the moment. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and now I am going crazy, I miss her so much and I'm scared she has met someone else. I'll start from the beginning. Th...
A. 12 October 2008: Sometimes time can heal a broken heart. You have to let her go. If she still loves you after all the hurt you have already put her through give her time to figure out what she really wants. Which in turn will give you a chance to know for sure that ... (read in full...)
I finished the relationship but now I feel so miserable.
Q. I hope someone out there can help me because I am a complete mess at the moment. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and now I am going crazy, I miss her so much and I'm scared she has met someone else. I'll start from the beginning. Th...
A. 12 October 2008: Sometimes time can heal a broken heart. You have to let her go. If she still loves you after all the hurt you have already put her through give her time to figure out what she really wants. Which in turn will give you a chance to know for sure that ... (read in full...)
Should I give up my studies to become a model?
Q. Hey, I am 19 years old. Do you think giving up my studies and doing modelling is a good option? I really am interested in acting and modelling but I am doing medicine, pursuing to be a doctor. I don't know if its worthwhile. Advise please!...
A. 9 October 2008: When it comes to a career many are confused espcially at your age. A career is a usually a lifelong choice hoever sometimes one changes their career status at sme point in time. Always remember that what you do now will affect the rest of your life. ... (read in full...)
It's hard sometimes juggling mates and boyfriends and I'm not sure what I want!
Q. I don't know wether to stay with my boyfriend. Sometimes i think i want to be with him forever and then sometimes when im not in a good mood i feel like i dont want to be with him. Also its hard juggling mates and boyfriends. I just dont know what ...
A. 9 October 2008: You are too young to be stressing over this. If you can't be nice to him all the time chances are you don't really want this close personal relationship. Being a good friend is always a good start. You might be a bit too young to understand all that ... (read in full...)
She loves alcohol the way she loves me.! She needs therapy far away but wants to be with me! Advice?
Q. I know how this is going to sound. How many times have I heard that "She's different when we're alone!" and "I know it's bad, but I love her!" and "She'll change!" speech? I don't know, but here's mine. So, my girlfriend is a horrible alcohol...
A. 8 October 2008: You need to realise that she may love you but the alcohol and drugs are here first loves. You are going to have to give her tough love and tell her that she either gets the help she needs(which may include getting new friends) or you are gone.
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When I look in the mirror I think I'm ugly.
Q. hello....... now that I'm growing up and all... i am starting to think I don't look as good as I used to... I used to be able to say I was cute... I never bragged about my looks... but when I look in the mirror I say I'm ugly and someone will say no ...
A. 8 October 2008: You seem to be rather insecure about your looks. Try to remember that REAL BEAUTY comes from the HEART~
When we grow older we sometimes become more aware of ourselves as far as looks, body shape, weight and etc. Sometimes we develope low self est... (read in full...)
I am her first boyfriend, she is very nervous when I am close, how can I help her relax?
Q. My gf is always very nervous when we are together especially when i hold her hand or touch her leg or when we kissed for the first time. She is very great to be around when she is nervous too but i sort of feel bad for making her feel nervous. And ...
A. 7 October 2008: It sounds like your girlfriend isn't quiet ready for the physical contact that had already begun. I would suggest taking things a bit slower. Let her know that you are ok with not going further than the hand holding if it is what she wants. Let her ... (read in full...)
My new neighbour is drop dead gorgeous! Should I ask him out???
Q. Hello there Dear Cupid's....I'm 40 have been divorced for 11 years, have had a few relationships since but nothing I consider special. My children are now late teens, so I'm pretty much a free agent. Well...about 6 months ago a new neighbour moved ...
A. 7 October 2008: Actually the words are part of a song Diovan *Smiles. It's called Fill My Cup Lord and my quote wasn't made in referrence to sex. You see when one is seeking to have fullfillment in their lives(she obviously is seeking a companion or mate)afer being ... (read in full...)
Do you think he just likes the chase???
Q. A guy I was seeing quite often broke things off with me for no other reason than he did not want a relationship. So for the past 3 months now all I've been is a drunken 3 in the morning phone call to which I always usually go round to his ...
A. 7 October 2008: After I posted to this question the term came to my mind, Holla Back Girl. He wants you when it's convienent to him and he thinks he can just call you up and you'll come running. Which is exactally what you did! Tell him you are not his Holla Back ... (read in full...)
My husband's friends are "coming on to me" and it's making me uncomfortable.
Q. I'm not sure where to begin with this without making it a long drawn out story, so I'll do my best to make it short and sweet. My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years now and during that time we have aquired mutual friends. I'm not ...
A. 7 October 2008: Tell them to leave you be in no uncertain terms or you will tell your husband. Don't spare their feelings because they certainly aren't considering yours or that of your husband. Ever heard this? With friends like that who needs enemies? Many times ... (read in full...)
Do you think he just likes the chase???
Q. A guy I was seeing quite often broke things off with me for no other reason than he did not want a relationship. So for the past 3 months now all I've been is a drunken 3 in the morning phone call to which I always usually go round to his ...
A. 6 October 2008: Some guys are wonderful! They can be smart,suave and kind. They can even be generous,compassionate and understanding. These guys can have many different qualities which make them GREAT! Thank God for the Good Guys....who are TRUE MEN!
HOWEV... (read in full...)
Should I kiss it off, or fight for her?
Q. I am not well. I have trouble with the drink, and have spent many years sober, in fact, all but seven of the last seventeen years I was able to stay clean. I have a great job, and by most accounts I am doing okay, but have a tendency to go o...
A. 6 October 2008: Seek help for yourself. Join an AA(alcholoics annomymous) group or a clinic for Alcoholics. You must fix the part of you that is faulty before you can truely be of any good to someone else. Perhaps the lady has been abused or neglected because of ... (read in full...)
My new neighbour is drop dead gorgeous! Should I ask him out???
Q. Hello there Dear Cupid's....I'm 40 have been divorced for 11 years, have had a few relationships since but nothing I consider special. My children are now late teens, so I'm pretty much a free agent. Well...about 6 months ago a new neighbour moved ...
A. 5 October 2008: Well if you believe that the man should make the first move then he is an alternative. Bake him a cake, pie or a special dish, knock on his door and WELCOME him to the neighborhood. Hopefully he will invite you in or at least start up a ... (read in full...)
Is this abuse? Should I get out of my relationship now?
Q. Should I get out of my relationship now? I am currently taking a break from my relationship with my boyfriend because I am working on issues from my past. My question is if he is abusive. Since we've been together for about 7 months a few things ...
A. 5 October 2008: People who have been or are being abused quiet often become abusers themselves. It sounds as if you picked up the traits somewhat. You must first accept this fact. Knowing what caused your bf to push you down or take the keys and phone to prevent ... (read in full...)
Can I recive my answer in my personal email or will be posted here?
Q. Can I recive my answer in my personal email or will be posted here?...
A. 5 October 2008: You may post here and get replies here or you may post to a specific Agony Aunt and recieve your answers via personal email. If you would rather not have your question and answers viewed by all of the readers then you can select the Agony Aunt(s) to ... (read in full...)
Shall I just move on because he's not interested or is he just shy?
Q. Iv been getting to know a boy for two months now. we meet up, sometimes alone but usually with mates. The thing is nothing has happend between us, we only hug when saying goodbye and we text each other almost everyday. last night i told him how i ...
A. 5 October 2008: Sometimes guys at that age can be rather shy. However if he isn't,then he could be feeling a bit uneasy now knowing that you like him for more than just a friend. The nice friendship that you two were developing has now changed and he may not know ... (read in full...)
I have a personality disorder. What can I do to be a better mother?
Q. ive got personality disorder and on the 25th of september my daughter got taken of me ive been to court but its looking slip that i will ever have my daughter back im gutted its so unfair they think that when my daughter gets abit older i wont ...
A. 29 September 2008: If you are not under the care of a Mental Health Specialist,then you should start by getting help. Most places have community, or state run facilities. You will need to keep all appointments and do exactally what is told by the courts and your ... (read in full...)
We didn't really get together before but how do I get him back again?
Q. If I have turn a guy off in other words dosen't like me anymore..knowing it was both of our fault we stop talking but you want him back beacuse you care and you have no way of getting his attention then how do I get him to like me again???...
A. 29 September 2008: Be cordial and nice, treat him like you always have. Be his friend but don't push the issue. Let him come to you. Don't seek him out. Since love is a two way street he has to be the one to figure out what he wants from you. If the feelings turn out ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so tired all of the time? Maybe the emotional problems in the past two years?
Q. I often feel very tired all the time I am normally a happy person even though I have been hurt so many times in the past I try to be positive and smile through the pain.. I am just wondering why I could be feeling really tired and drained all of t...
A. 28 September 2008: It sounds like you could possibly have clinical depression. If you are having any mania with this (hyperactivity) then it's possible that you are bi_polar. You should consult with your medical professional. You may need to have meds and /or therapy. ... (read in full...)
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