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Have I been raped?
Q. (sorry that it's so long) a couple of months ago i got drunk coz my 'friend' spiked my drinks and that night i was sleeping round her friends(John*) house he is about 22-23 he takes drugs n was waiting to go to court for grh(grevious bodily harm) ...
A. 5 February 2010: You are welcome for anything I can do to help. I am so proud of you for making some changes and picking some new friends! BRAVO!!!! Hang in and let God take you thru step by step. It's been awhile since I have been here too due to ill health. May ... (read in full...)
He says he cares, but am I just more into him than he is me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 6 months, it's long distance, as we live about 90 miles from each other, or a 2 hour drive away. We see each other near enough every weekend now, and he admitted to me at the end of September that he likes me loads m...
A. 16 December 2008: You are welcome hon. I am glad that things have turned around for you. You gave him the space he needed to think things over. He has decided that he wants you and stepped up as the man he needed to be by letting you know.
Now you take a stand an... (read in full...)
I love him and want kids, but after a rocky 1st year should I move with him?
Q. Hello there Please help. I have had a very rocky relationship for the past 14 months, but love each other much. He had unloved upbringing and can get very angry and finds it difficult to deal with situation. After many arguments, usually over ...
A. 27 November 2008: Blue_Angel needs a new keyboard!
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I love him and want kids, but after a rocky 1st year should I move with him?
Q. Hello there Please help. I have had a very rocky relationship for the past 14 months, but love each other much. He had unloved upbringing and can get very angry and finds it difficult to deal with situation. After many arguments, usually over ...
A. 27 November 2008: You are sooooooooooooo right! You ARE worthy of having someone who will love and respect you. Don't allow his attempt to control you to stop what you are thinking. Keep it in your mind that you CAN DO BETTER!!! YOU DESERVE IT! THTAT YOU DN"T NEED ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Would you wear a ring on your left ring finger if you're single?
Q. This question is for the ladies. Oh man :)... crushes really are unavoidable aren't they? It's a like a slow motion car crash and it just keeps building every time you see her and there's nothing you can do about it. So she's got what looks l...
A. 19 November 2008: You are most welcome! Always remember to make lasting friendships. They quite often turn out to be the best, longest lasting relationships when they are allowed to develope and evolve naturally. :)
Plant a seed with kindness,
Fertilize it ... (read in full...)
My wifes Dad is sexually harassing me and and it's stressing me out!
Q. Normally you'd get a woman asking this question, but no, it's also happened from a male perspective as well. I'm 31, and my wife's 28. We've been married for a month now. For the past few weeks my new father-in-law's been sexually harassing me. ...
A. 19 November 2008: *Just a note......My frist thought was to tell him straight out NO! and don't approach me again....My second thought was to tell his wife!.........Third was maybe if he tells his Mother_In_Law. No matter who he tells however the Marriage is already ... (read in full...)
Why is he so angry at me?
Q. I would really like some advice on this please if you wouldnt mind ! :) I met this lad at a party and we really hit it off. Then spoke through texts and on computer and we was getting along find until I found out he has a girlfriend! But he asked me ...
A. 19 November 2008: It sounds like he was possibly tring to hide things from his girlfriend. The person who told him is not really a good friend. Ditch that one!
The fact that he invited you to come along to the theater with some of his friends as well as some of ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Would you wear a ring on your left ring finger if you're single?
Q. This question is for the ladies. Oh man :)... crushes really are unavoidable aren't they? It's a like a slow motion car crash and it just keeps building every time you see her and there's nothing you can do about it. So she's got what looks l...
A. 19 November 2008: If she is glancing at you during your lectures and blushing she may well be interested in you too. At least she is looking so I would take that as a sign that she at is approachable enough to talk to. It could be she finds you attractive and she may ... (read in full...)
My wifes Dad is sexually harassing me and and it's stressing me out!
Q. Normally you'd get a woman asking this question, but no, it's also happened from a male perspective as well. I'm 31, and my wife's 28. We've been married for a month now. For the past few weeks my new father-in-law's been sexually harassing me. ...
A. 19 November 2008: Since you have done just about everything to keep him at bay and it isn't working you might have to consider taking a job in a different town and moving. At least then your time with your new Father-In-Law will lessened and your time alone with him ... (read in full...)
I feel totally judged by others when I'm in public places.
Q. I have a weird problem, maybe someone can help me out here. I feel totally judged by others, when I'm in public places. I don't know if it's true or I just imagine this. It's really hard to tell. I feel everybody looking at me really mean, and l...
A. 19 November 2008: You seem to be suffering from an extreme of low self-esteem, possibly futhered by paranoia. If others see you as beautiful then you must be! Remember that to some you may mean nothing but to someone you will mean the world.
If you are pretty y... (read in full...)
Ladies: Would you wear a ring on your left ring finger if you're single?
Q. This question is for the ladies. Oh man :)... crushes really are unavoidable aren't they? It's a like a slow motion car crash and it just keeps building every time you see her and there's nothing you can do about it. So she's got what looks l...
A. 19 November 2008: I wear an engagement ring surrounded by two golden bands on the left hand. The diamond ring will be passed on to my oldest grandchild as her Papa gave it to me and it was promised to her 10 years ago. When I leave this world it will be hers. The ... (read in full...)
Did I lose my virginity even though it was just his finger?
Q. if i am a virgin and someone sticks there two fingers into my vagina like a shove almost and i bleed afterwards is that losing my virginity? because i have been very close to losing my virginity before. like one time i thought i lost it because ...
A. 19 November 2008: You have been traumatized by what happened. You probably feel some guilt about letting things go that far. It troubles you for fear that you are now tainted as they would say. Fearing that a new guy perhaps will look down on you for having this ... (read in full...)
I love him and want kids, but after a rocky 1st year should I move with him?
Q. Hello there Please help. I have had a very rocky relationship for the past 14 months, but love each other much. He had unloved upbringing and can get very angry and finds it difficult to deal with situation. After many arguments, usually over ...
A. 19 November 2008: If he has a controlling nature you need to decide if that is acceptalbe to you. It really shouldn't be no matter how much you love someone. Love is all about taking and giving. Sometimes one forgets to GIVE!
He could be wanting you to move up ... (read in full...)
Did I lose my virginity even though it was just his finger?
Q. if i am a virgin and someone sticks there two fingers into my vagina like a shove almost and i bleed afterwards is that losing my virginity? because i have been very close to losing my virginity before. like one time i thought i lost it because ...
A. 19 November 2008: The physical integrity of an unbroken hymen denotes the actual meaning of Virginity. However it is concluded that a woman who hasn't partaken in sexual intercourse is therefore a Virgin. The hymen is valued as a sign and seal of a woman's ... (read in full...)
Now I'm reticent to express my feelings to her.
Q. I know there is a social idea that people who are inexperienced with relationships get attached too quickly and think what they are feeling is love. I haven't had many relationships and I know that I definitely fell into this category for my first ...
A. 18 November 2008: When you feel it just say it! Love is a very strong emotion. If you love her she may already know cause LOVE comes out in many ways. Actions they say speak louder than words.......now it's time for the Word to Speak for itself.
Just be prepared... (read in full...)
Are condoms still necessary even if I'm on birth control pills?
Q. I was just wondering if I was on birth control should my boyfriend still need to wear a comdon so we don't get pregnant? Thanks for all the help....
A. 18 November 2008: Condoms are used as an extra preventative measure. They help in protecting you from STDS such as infections, viral conditions and diseases like AIDS, Syphilis and Herpes. Only to mention a few. If you aren't sure that you are the only partner it ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get turned on!
Q. I can't seem to get turned on! I'm still virgin, but have tried fingering myself/rubbing and it does nothing! My boyfriend tried, I still feel nothing! It feels a bit nice, but nice is all it is, he could be doing it to me and I could just lay there ...
A. 18 November 2008: At 17 alot of girls and guys alike are not completely in touch with their own feelings about their bodies. Perhaps you just aren't ready for the sexual act itself. Take your time and learn your own body. Hormones are present already, so there is no ... (read in full...)
Have I been raped?
Q. (sorry that it's so long) a couple of months ago i got drunk coz my 'friend' spiked my drinks and that night i was sleeping round her friends(John*) house he is about 22-23 he takes drugs n was waiting to go to court for grh(grevious bodily harm) ...
A. 18 November 2008: It could be hard to prove if you do try to prosecute. You were molested and lucky that it didn't go further. You don't know for sure who is he or what he even looks like so you are going to find it hard to get anything done. You have to know that ... (read in full...)
Has he just lost interest and I should take the hint and move on??
Q. I relocated abroad about 5 months ago with work and just before I left I started seeing a guy - it was literally for only a few weeks but we'd been flirting with each other for 6 months prior to that. After I moved we were constantly emailing, ...
A. 16 November 2008: It sounds like the feelings you shared that were once mutual perhaps have changed because of the long distance. This happens alot when a couple is seperated for long periods of time or thru distance.
Since you spent time with him recently and shar... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid I need help badly..
Q. Dear Cupid, I need help. I have meet this man whom I thought I could have a relationship with, how very wrong I was... after 3 weeks into the relationship he told me he was married with 3 children, he told me he plans to leave his wife after xmas,...
A. 16 November 2008: A wife and 3 children.....Say goodbye...Don't let him use you for an excuse to leave his family. He may or may not go thru with his promise to you. Find someone who is free it will cause you less heartache in the end.
Read this article and ... (read in full...)
What do I do and how do stop behaving like some clinging, needy female.
Q. Please help. I have met a man I have fallen for in a big way. It started as an affair, yes he's married. I don't think I'm a fling, my gut feeling tells me that. He tells me he is deeply unhappy, they don't sleep together, she has no interest in him ...
A. 16 November 2008: Honey let me be the first to tell you that you aren't the only needy one here. He is needy too! He is seeking the affection and closeness of a woman to whom he is not married , while HE IS MARRIED to someone else. Most men who are married and have a ... (read in full...)
My ex is still calling but won't get back together!
Q. me and my ex was together for 6 years i'm still madly in love i messed over her thru those years but we only 22 we was 16 when we got together i'm changed i told her this cried and all that and she want take me back she gotta new boyfriend they ...
A. 16 November 2008: It sounds like she has made an attempt to get over you. She is still holding onto you for her own reasons and can't seem to quiet let go. The fact that she calls you is a statement that she either still likes/loves you or that she is keeping you ... (read in full...)
Could my girlfriend be pregnant from mid-day sperm?
Q. alright. new to this so i'm going to be blunt. I masturbated about mid-day and just kinda wiped myself off. the old once over with some tissue. then later on, unexpectedly, my girlfriend of two years came over to visit me and we ended up having sex ...
A. 14 November 2008: The sperm outside of the body doesn't have a long life span. It usually dies within minutes because it doesn't have the correct temperature on the outside to keep it alive. Sperm are swimmers and they can move but not fast.
They need temperat... (read in full...)
Could my girlfriend be pregnant from mid-day sperm?
Q. alright. new to this so i'm going to be blunt. I masturbated about mid-day and just kinda wiped myself off. the old once over with some tissue. then later on, unexpectedly, my girlfriend of two years came over to visit me and we ended up having sex ...
A. 14 November 2008: The sperm outside of the body doesn't have a long life span. It usually dies within minutes because it doesn't have the correct temperature on the outside to keep it alive. Sperm are swimmers and they can move but not fast.
They need temperat... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is not ready for sex... what can I do?
Q. I want to have sex with my girlfriend as we are living with each other since last 3 yrs i told her i can use condom while doing sex but yet she is not ready for doing sex wht should i do?...
A. 14 November 2008: She isn't ready......You wait! If you can't hold out you might consider moving on. However if you love her this could be too hard. Remember that Sex isn't everything although it can be a very important part of a relationsip. It is like the icing on ... (read in full...)
A serious relationship scares me...
Q. I've been dating this guy for almost a month and a half, and it seems like it's just a roller coaster of emotion. The first time we started going together, we were both really excited, and everything seemed great. Then all fo a sudden, after a ...
A. 14 November 2008: It sounds like you are afraid because you have been treated so badly in the past. You don't want to wind up in the same situtaion again. The exitement you feel in the beginning is most likely a replica of the other relationship in most ways and ... (read in full...)
He says he cares, but am I just more into him than he is me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 6 months, it's long distance, as we live about 90 miles from each other, or a 2 hour drive away. We see each other near enough every weekend now, and he admitted to me at the end of September that he likes me loads m...
A. 13 November 2008: You at least know where you stand now. He either doesn't see it as a relationship or even a chance at one. Don't worry hon if he can't give you what you need then you can pursue others things. Take your time and you will find the someone who really ... (read in full...)
He says he cares, but am I just more into him than he is me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 6 months, it's long distance, as we live about 90 miles from each other, or a 2 hour drive away. We see each other near enough every weekend now, and he admitted to me at the end of September that he likes me loads m...
A. 13 November 2008: You at least know where you stand now. He either doesn't see it as a relationship or even a chance at one. Don't worry hon if he can't give you what you need then you can pursue others things. Take your time and you will find the someone who really ... (read in full...)
I want to get over him, but can't because I'm in love.
Q. I am having a really hard time getting over my boyfriend, beacause i feel like i know that he loves me. I am only 24 and i have 2 long term boyfriends, one for 2 years and one for 3 years, and i thought i was in love but they didn't work out. My ...
A. 6 November 2008: First of all you really need to stop drinking. Getting drunk isn't going to solve anything. It could actually make matters worse as it can lead to depression. Being so much in love with someone who doesn't reciprocate the feelings is depressing ... (read in full...)
Rumors said he's breaking up with her for me..but it hasn't happened yet? What's going on?
Q. I've had a crush on this guy for a while and there's rumors going around that he likes me back and he's gonna break up with his girlfriend for me but he hasn't and he hasn't said anything about the situation at all to me and nobody's brought it up ...
A. 6 November 2008: Getting stuck in the middle of a love affair can cause alot of stress and you could be viewed as a troublemaker. If he really likes you don't put any pressure on him to leave his girlfriend. Most always catching someone who is on the outs with a ... (read in full...)
Do I tell her I like her?
Q. First, let me give you the background story. I am single and have been for a while. I am not attracted to looks so it is rare when I get a crush on someone. I met this girl at college and we became friends quickly, and at one point she even kissed ...
A. 5 November 2008: She is dating one of your best friends. You best stick to letting her be your friend for now. Chances are you will hurt your guy friend if you tell her. This could cause the friendship to end or at least cause damage to the friendship. If she kissed ... (read in full...)
My pregnant wife is making me not want to be with her!
Q. well im 21 years old,and my wife is 19.we became parents at an early age.i was 18 and she was 16.ive been married for a year but dating for about 5 years.we have a 2 year old and we have a baby on the way.we really dont have sex and were constantly ...
A. 5 November 2008: Firat of all you should not turn to another woman for comfort. Your wife is going thru alot of hormonal changes right now and she could be acting more jealous and such out of the mood swings involved with these changes. Be supportive and show her ... (read in full...)
He says he cares, but am I just more into him than he is me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 6 months, it's long distance, as we live about 90 miles from each other, or a 2 hour drive away. We see each other near enough every weekend now, and he admitted to me at the end of September that he likes me loads m...
A. 4 November 2008: You seem to be rationalizing this. You apparrently care alot about him. It's obvious that you want to give him every benefit of the doubt. Please be careful that you don't allow him to walk all over you.
For your sake at least back off and give... (read in full...)
I truly want a child and am willing to try anything
Q. For two months now my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant. Everytime I think I'm pregnant I find out I'm not. For some reason my menstraul cycles are much longer than the normal 28 days. I went from having my period start on the 30th of ...
A. 4 November 2008: Consult with a gynocologist. Sometimes women have irregular cycles and they can be regulated by taking Birth Control Pills. The Doctor can give you other suggestions on how to check for times when concieving is better. You need to start by placing ... (read in full...)
He says he cares, but am I just more into him than he is me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 6 months, it's long distance, as we live about 90 miles from each other, or a 2 hour drive away. We see each other near enough every weekend now, and he admitted to me at the end of September that he likes me loads m...
A. 4 November 2008: He seems to still be in love with his ex as he keeps talking about or at least has very special feelings still. He is isn't quite over her. The other girl who slept with him, he either feels guilty or he likes her but doesn't let on to you becuase ... (read in full...)
Is this legal in the state of Florida?
Q. Alright, I know a guy who is 18. He is dating a 14 year old girl. The mom knows his age and knows where they are at all times, they are only allowed to see each other in a public setting and have never been alone! They are both Christian and ha...
A. 4 November 2008: My best advice would be to tell your young friend that waiting on sex until marriage is a very good idea. There are far too many diesease out there and unwanted pregnancies. Not to let it embarrass him that he is waiting and that you commend his ... (read in full...)
Please Help Me With My Autistic Niece!!
Q. Do any one knows how i can get help for my 10 yr old niece who is believed to have autism or PDD? She is suffering very bad because her parents really dont know how to care for her. They often just try to shunt her out of their life and never take ...
A. 4 November 2008: The first step would be to have her diagnosed so you will know exactally what you are dealing with. There are alot of conditions that might mimic Autism. However since she is a minor, the child's parents will have to be involved in getting her ... (read in full...)
My brother had such a lovely girlfriend but decided to break up with her to be with the horrendous woman who is the mother of his daughter. How can we advice him to make a better choice??
Q. hello all, im new to this so not sure how it really goes but have been told the results you get bk are good,(sorry its long) Anyway its mainly about my brother hes 28 and he has a young daughter aged 4, hes had a really good gf who would do absulotl...
A. 2 November 2008: The fact is you are probably right! She is probably using his good nature and the fact that he loves her to her own advantage. You brother probably also feels guilt that he wasn't there with his chld, which could have prompted him to go back. Love ... (read in full...)
Is this normal after having anal sex?
Q. Last night I had anal sex for the first time but it's like the guy didn't know what was happening, I don't think he realised it was my anus or not. But he kept alternating between the two. I've heard this can cause disease, does anyone know how ...
A. 2 November 2008: Not only will it cause vaginal infections it can also cause trouble in the intestional tract as well. Women's bodies are different than men's are and you could eventually develope what is caused a recticell. This is when the walls of the backside ... (read in full...)
What are your suggestions on completely letting go of my ex?
Q. so, at the end of june my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about 3 weeks before leaving for the navy. he couldn't make up his mind what to say to me or about me, although none of it was entirely bad, he was stuck between saying he loved me and ...
A. 31 October 2008: I know it hurts to be left behind.(Ex husband was military) It is an awful feeling to have someone break it off with you. Been there. :( When you have someone giving you mixed signals when they have such mixed emotions. Been there.:(
You are youn... (read in full...)
My mum or my girl?
Q. I have the worst situation in life, my mum and my girlfriend dont get on, I love them both a lot and I feel I have to choose but I dont want to... I need them both in my life and they both need me for emotional support but i dont know what to do...
A. 27 October 2008: You should ask your girlfriend to respect your Mother. In turn your Mother should try to give you peace by giving the same to your girlfriend. Sometimes Mother's are very close to their son's and the other girl in his life seems to be an outsider. ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling the intensity slipping away.....
Q. Hi My problem is, that I've been seeing a woman for 8 months. Initially my feelings were very passionate. Up until recently I've noticed a difference in my feelings and I don't know why. Our love making is very powerful. We generally see...
A. 27 October 2008: Intense sexual desire in form of Passion can give you intense feelings in the beginning. Like a kid with a new toy. However when the newness wears off the thrill often leaves as quickly as it came. Sharing these intense feelings can only last when ... (read in full...)
Is he just being friendly and just flirting? What do you think?
Q. I was in a controlling relationship and recently got out of it and moved back home with my family. I have met up with an old guy friend a few times this week. We always hang out in groups but I always notice that his attention is always on me. No ...
A. 27 October 2008: It sounds like he is flirting. However if he is and he's already got a girlfriend it's not a good thing. The attention he is giving to you now could be considered as a form of cheating. If he gives his present girlfriend so little thought, then it's ... (read in full...)
Staying with a woman who is great, or looking for a younger model to have children with?
Q. The woman I'm Dating so far has treated me better than any other woman I've ever dated, she behaves like she has won the lottery !! It is very nice, but she cannot have anymore children and to become a father and settle down has always been of the ...
A. 25 October 2008: If you do leave this *great woman for a younger model there are lots of things that you must consider. This younger woman may never care for you the way you are cared for now. It's sad that you can't have a child with this other woman but what ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I asked my mum to put in a tampon for me?
Q. Hello, i am quite worried. I have had a period for 2 years, and i wanted to start using a tampon. i couldn't get it in, so i called my mom and she put it in for me. Is that really wierd :S I don't know, i'm just a bit freaked out....
A. 24 October 2008: Don't let it worry you hon. Although it is personal thing and that is probably why you feel so strange about it. You would be surprised to know that there are many young ladies of your age that don't even know what a Period is. Perhaps you were a ... (read in full...)
What has caused my boyfriend to be this quiet the past two weeks?
Q. My boyfriend has been quiet for the past two weeks. We got into a fight about his drinking and all of a sudden, we stop having sex. When I walk to a room, he leaves out. We do not sleep in the same bed anymore. I even asked him "what's wrong?" or ...
A. 19 October 2008: You are welcome God bless and hope all is better from here on out.
Blue_Angel
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What has caused my boyfriend to be this quiet the past two weeks?
Q. My boyfriend has been quiet for the past two weeks. We got into a fight about his drinking and all of a sudden, we stop having sex. When I walk to a room, he leaves out. We do not sleep in the same bed anymore. I even asked him "what's wrong?" or ...
A. 17 October 2008: A whiner NO! It makes you human. Sometimes when a relatinship is on the downside it is quite often because one of the parties has already left or thought about leaving the relationship long before they break it off. Fade is right when you continue ... (read in full...)
What has caused my boyfriend to be this quiet the past two weeks?
Q. My boyfriend has been quiet for the past two weeks. We got into a fight about his drinking and all of a sudden, we stop having sex. When I walk to a room, he leaves out. We do not sleep in the same bed anymore. I even asked him "what's wrong?" or ...
A. 17 October 2008: It sounds like he is still upset about your having criticized him about his drinking. It possible that he is being stubborn about letting you have the last word. By brooding or become distant with you he thinks he is gaining control over the ... (read in full...)
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