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I’m going crazy with all these thoughts. March is coming so quickly and my stomach churns when I think about it.
Q. After dating my bf for 3 months I fell pregnant. It's now been 2 years and we live together. Before me he dated a girl for about 4 months and then they carried on the relationship long distance for 2 and a half years because he moved to where I...
A. 23 January 2009: HMMMMMMMMMM! I don't know why this URL isn't working properly. *LOL* Just copy and paste it in your browser!I thihk you will love it!
Thanks for reading!
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
I’m going crazy with all these thoughts. March is coming so quickly and my stomach churns when I think about it.
Q. After dating my bf for 3 months I fell pregnant. It's now been 2 years and we live together. Before me he dated a girl for about 4 months and then they carried on the relationship long distance for 2 and a half years because he moved to where I...
A. 22 January 2009: You are so welcome hon. Remember to walk in FAIth AND TRUST IN LOVE. KEEP PUTTING ONE FRONT IN FRONT OF THE OTHER and do all you can to give your BF and child a loving and happy home. Try to keep from letting on too much about the ex. He probably ... (read in full...)
I’m going crazy with all these thoughts. March is coming so quickly and my stomach churns when I think about it.
Q. After dating my bf for 3 months I fell pregnant. It's now been 2 years and we live together. Before me he dated a girl for about 4 months and then they carried on the relationship long distance for 2 and a half years because he moved to where I...
A. 21 January 2009: The ex still loves him, the family loves her. They are feeling that you have manipulated him by getting pregnant.They are excluding you, the boyfriend and the baby because they don't want to take the time in getting to know you. They resent you most ... (read in full...)
Did I lose a buddy? Or a love interest?
Q. I'm sooo confused! I've known this guy since like May 2008. We hit it off pretty good..talked and text for a long, long time before we even met, just recently. We went out on two dates and it was cool. I started to like him a whole lot but noticed ...
A. 21 January 2009: You are welcome hon! I hope that now you can at least have some closure. There are no gaurantees in life and IF he should ever decide to look you up again be sure to allow him to step up and make the moves. Be cautious and from now on play Hard to ... (read in full...)
Did I lose a buddy? Or a love interest?
Q. I'm sooo confused! I've known this guy since like May 2008. We hit it off pretty good..talked and text for a long, long time before we even met, just recently. We went out on two dates and it was cool. I started to like him a whole lot but noticed ...
A. 21 January 2009: Brace yourself hon. From your post it seems that he liked you and then met you but perhaps you weren't really what he expected. He probably was trying to spare your feelings and he used the term "Buddy" because he was uncomfortable in telling you ... (read in full...)
Caught between duty and heart
Q. Ah the drama... The unavoidable drama. I've been best friends with this guy sense kindergarden. we moved apart for a while and finally came in contact last year. now i haven't been datting anyone for a while because im waiting for a VERY gentlema...
A. 21 January 2009: Just got your reply and I am proud of you! Nothing is done better than that which is thought out carefully and planned. You have the right idea. *-)
You are so welcome for anything I said that helped. I am glad I could.
MY BEST TO YOU AL... (read in full...)
Stressful experience, now sexually vacant. Please help.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years. 4 of those years were sexually spectacular. Last December she became pregnant. It turned into an ectopic pregnancy and she had to have surgery. She was in the hospital for a night, and in be...
A. 20 January 2009: First of all you seem to care and I can understand your feelings. You are young and you need the physical intamacy which unfortunantly she can't give. I think what you described is not only a fear of becomming pregnant again, but since she lost the ... (read in full...)
COKE problem!
Q. Hi, I don't really know who to talk to about this... and not sure whether I am being too harsh or not and I would like to know a reasonable fair way to deal with my scenario. In a nutshell I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months. He is a...
A. 20 January 2009: A simply move really want stop his behavior most likely. However moving him from the area should help in some manner. The fact that he is working in the bar still isn't good though. Many types of people hang out in bars. You have to be really street ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to move things forward with this guy as he lives so far away.
Q. Hi! I don't now what I should do in this situation. For some years I and a boy I like, always went to the same hobby club. When we were there, we barely said "Hi" to each other and almost never talked. Now I've moved to another city. We have th...
A. 20 January 2009: It's very possible that he does like you. Howcver being in a long distance relationship can be hard. Perhaps he wants to just keep everything as is for now as he hasn't spoken up and told you anything different. Do remember that roads go everywhere ... (read in full...)
He wasn't in contact, I slept with someone else and turns out they know each other
Q. i was seeing a guy for about a month and a half..over christmas i didnt see him at all. now it has been a month since i have seen him. he never texts me first but he does always reply to my texts and we saw each other about once or twice a week. but ...
A. 19 January 2009: Don't stress over it hon. This guy should have made things plain to you if he had intended to carry on the relationship. Instead HE kept YOU in suspense and hoping that he would call. When he didn't, it showed that he probably wasn't that serious ... (read in full...)
Can you give me advice on how to leave Brent?
Q. THIS IS WORTH READING. Please help me out, I'm in a VERY tight spot. Thank you for taking a look at my pitiful problem. This one is kinda messed up. The main problem here is, Ive always liked this one guy but he's been a kinda player(so to s...
A. 19 January 2009: To be honest hon you should let them both go! They appear to both be players in their own way. They both have a few good quialitites yet both can be abusive to a point. Brent seems to be the most violent of the two. The abortion apparrantly messed ... (read in full...)
I'm confused..like both colleague and my boss!
Q. I've written before about a colleague at work, she's gorgeous and I am seriously attracted to her I'm not sure if she feels anything for me or even if she is straight or not. Since then she has been off work with depression following a number of ...
A. 18 January 2009: *SILLY GRIN...um FAIL instead of NOT FAIL. I am having troulbes with my keyboard. My apoligies.
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
Can you go back to your husband after a separation if you have seen someone else whilst you were away from him.
Q. Can you go back to your husband after a separation if you have seen someone else whilst you were away from him. I still see this man but he has a lot of baggage and now i am talking to my husband who just wants me to go back there are no financial ...
A. 18 January 2009: ~~~~LOVE MAY BE DORMANT~~~~
~~~~BUT IT NEVER DIES!!~~~~
Connely Cowan and Menly Kinder
YES!You can go back, however in all fairness be sure that it's what you really want. You need to know that things are really going to be better. That wha... (read in full...)
Full blown fishy fanny!!!!!!
Q. My girlfriend is 15... and I recently engaged with her... but after my fingers STUNK OF FISH. I'm not talking a little, I mean full blown fishy fanny! What do I do??? I can't go round with smelly hands :( Thanks :)...
A. 18 January 2009: This condition aqquires the diagnosis and treatment by a medical professional. The foul fishy odor is from vaginitis and can be caused by different things. Trying to cleanse internally the famale genatial isn't going to work. It can actually make ... (read in full...)
I'm confused..like both colleague and my boss!
Q. I've written before about a colleague at work, she's gorgeous and I am seriously attracted to her I'm not sure if she feels anything for me or even if she is straight or not. Since then she has been off work with depression following a number of ...
A. 18 January 2009: Correction to the second sentence...That was FAIL....instead of fail.
Thanks for reading,
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
If I don't give him what he wants, will he drop me for someone older?
Q. Hey people I'm 13 years old + I'm going out with a 16 year old guy. I know technically it doesn't matter but I've been told by almost everyone I know that it is "immoral", he is "too old", and I should "stick to people my own age". Please don't gi...
A. 18 January 2009: I know that you are eager to please him hon but do think about your age. The age gap isn't too far but the maturity level may be. I am not sure that you are completely aware of how having sex so early will affect your life. If you get found out you ... (read in full...)
Question about bathroom and period
Q. I was just curious. I've come to realize that if you haven't gone to the bathroom for a while (#2) it stops your period from coming. Does anyone know why? It's just been bothering me. My stomach starts hurting and i can't go to the bathroom, but ...
A. 18 January 2009: This could be from the blood that clots and has to pass thru your female organs causing cramping. This is called Dismenorrhea. Also the hormones in your body can cause this. (PMS)They can also cause cramping due to the imbalance at the time which ... (read in full...)
I'm confused..like both colleague and my boss!
Q. I've written before about a colleague at work, she's gorgeous and I am seriously attracted to her I'm not sure if she feels anything for me or even if she is straight or not. Since then she has been off work with depression following a number of ...
A. 18 January 2009: Romance in the workplace can be disaterous. It can cause complications should the relationship not fail. Getting involved with your BOSS is not a good idea in the least. It can cost one or both of you to be dimissed from your jobs.
The girl out... (read in full...)
Is it common for mistresses or the other woman to get stood up frequently by men who already have partners?
Q. Do "other women" get stood up regularly? I know I am not going to be popular here, but is it common for mistresses or the other woman to get stood up frequently by men who already have partners? Also, how do these other women cope if they only ...
A. 17 January 2009: You are very welcome hon. From now on hon what you need to do is to stand up for who you really are and you set higher standards for yourself. You can do fine just wait from here on in and YOU LEARN TO BE HARD TO GET..DON'T PLAY HARD TO GET BE HARD ... (read in full...)
I want to break the cycle
Q. me and my x was together for 5years, i took her son on as my own and at age 7 he looks at me as his dad and as of november 07 we had a baby girl. My x suffered from depression and has done for many years and ive been through all the hard time and ...
A. 17 January 2009: First of all hon your ex really needs professional help. Having issues with drinking can cause alot of troubles in a family. It's especially hard on the children. I am the child of an alcoholic. The fears that a child develope are certainly real and ... (read in full...)
Is it common for mistresses or the other woman to get stood up frequently by men who already have partners?
Q. Do "other women" get stood up regularly? I know I am not going to be popular here, but is it common for mistresses or the other woman to get stood up frequently by men who already have partners? Also, how do these other women cope if they only ...
A. 17 January 2009: Of course they do! YOU WOULD BW THE OTHER WOMAN and sitting around waiting for the time he can spend with you. If he has a wife and family, that time is probably going to be even more limited. Why would you want to be t he t other woman? How are ... (read in full...)
He's clingy!
Q. Please help me! My boyfriend is so caring and I know he will be soo faithful, and recently we have been arguing over petty things, he has a problem with most of my friends, then when I pick faults with his friends it a different story, I feel he...
A. 17 January 2009: That unfortunantly happens to alot of people. A guy(some women too) sometimes wants to have his(her) way on things and gives you none of the same priveledges. Men look at things so differently than women. They don't alway rightly see that their ... (read in full...)
Want to get naughty, but parents do "room patrol"
Q. Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost two months and he wants me to give him a hand job. Im ok with the idea its just that whenever i go to his house, his parents are there and they sometimes come into his room to “check on us”. I ...
A. 17 January 2009: I think it's not really a good idea. It can be a show of disrespect for his parents. If you get caught it will certainly lessen the respect that they have for you. RESPECT YOURSELF AND JUST DON'T GO THERE. Tell you boyfriend that's it inappropriate ... (read in full...)
She wants space so I gave it to her
Q. So basically , me and my girlfriend , are on a break, meaning break up w/e, but yah we went out for 2 months and it was good but then she started to realize the feeling she had for her ex were getting in the way , they went out for 3 years and she ...
A. 17 January 2009: Your girlfriend or ex as it is for now, is probably confused about her feelings for this ex of hers. Sometimes people tend to go back to someone when it's a comfortable feeling. She probably likes you alot and knows she doesn't want to let go of the ... (read in full...)
Caught between duty and heart
Q. Ah the drama... The unavoidable drama. I've been best friends with this guy sense kindergarden. we moved apart for a while and finally came in contact last year. now i haven't been datting anyone for a while because im waiting for a VERY gentlema...
A. 16 January 2009: It's really a matter as wheter you are willing to be in a long distance, long termed relationship. At your age I think it would be best to remain friends with your first guy. Let the other one be a friend for now. Don't rush into any decision about ... (read in full...)
Is it just my age? Or more going on?
Q. I'm 15 and for the past few years, all i feel inside is complete emptyness, lonlyness and sadness, i havn't had much luck throughout the years with divorces, friends, family etc. Everyone at home is starting to get sick and tired of my behaviour, bt ...
A. 16 January 2009: I know that being 15 can be stressful due to peer pressures. You are now becomming a young adult. Life is constantly changing. The things in your life which you named here can certainly cause alot of emotional damage to you. I think that you perhaps ... (read in full...)
10 days ago had sex, now maybe pregnant
Q. about 10 days ago, me and my boyfriend had sex and i think im pregnant. My boobs are sore, there is thick white discharge from my vagina, my period is due around the 1st of the month please help me as im really scared...
A. 16 January 2009: Infections(yeast) produce a thick, white vaginal discharge called Leuhorrea and can irritate and dry the tender skin of the vaginal area. It has the consistancy of cottage cheese.
There is also a discharge when you are ending ovulatio... (read in full...)
Cervical cancer injection
Q. my girlfreind got the cervical cancer injection and was wondering how long you had to wait till sex ...
A. 16 January 2009: I would assume as tolerated. Have her call the doctor. He can give her the answer according to her own specifics. Each situation may vary. The injection can cause swelling, irritaion,bruising, allergic reactions,etc.
I hope this helps.
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Should I ask him if he's single?
Q. This guy I like flirts with me all the time and I flirt back because he is cute, funny and brainy, he has asked me round to his flat next weekend to watch a DVD, kiss and a cuddle he says, the problem is I thnk he has a girlfriend and she is out of ...
A. 16 January 2009: Well it sounds like you are really concerned about a girlfriend being somewhere. I wuold suggest that you try finding out if he really does before you persue this. You might try asking around to some people who may know him but only those people you ... (read in full...)
Will I always be on the outside looking in?
Q. my bf went to court to finalize his divorce recently, which he initiated, no kids involved, and then after the court hearing - they went out to eat. I was a little surprised I guess and admittedly a little upset. Not sure why but I think because ...
A. 16 January 2009: It sounds like his soon to be ex-wife is close to his family and apparrently on a good friends status with your boyfriend. Sometimes in a divorce people do tend to reamin friends but ehe manner in which they procede to be involved can be very ... (read in full...)
Problematic friend...
Q. Hi, I had this funny curious episode. A guy added me on facebook. As a rule I don't accept friend request from strangers and he was not my type but I chatted a bit and I liked him. Then after reading his profile and finding him to be a regular ...
A. 14 January 2009: What I am thinking happened here is that you had been talking and flirting for several months and he probably thought that things were going well. When he finally asked you for a picture and you denied him, he probably thought that you weren't ... (read in full...)
Social issues...
Q. Hey everyone. Ok so I got some social issues. My mom won't allow me to go anywhere with my friends. Not even with my best friend whom I've been friends with for 13 years now and my mother knows her. My mom just won't listen to me so talking won't ...
A. 13 January 2009: Perhaps she is a bit too over-protective but I am sure she has her reasons. First of all ask yourself what your Mom knows about your friend. Try to figure out why she might not want you hanging out with her. Be glad that your Mom cares enough to try ... (read in full...)
We like each other but he's my boss
Q. I have like this guy for a while we work together and soon he found out. i was ok when he didn't know because the only thing i knew is that i like him but now i know he likes me too. when some one tells you that or you hear that from someone you ...
A. 13 January 2009: In work inviornment the boss is expected to maintain a personal realtionship only of that to his employee's. If he asks you out it could be against company policy and could cost him his job. There is another thing to consider and that is the laws ... (read in full...)
I love him but my problem is that lately I'm unable to look at him without seeing his past.
Q. My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years and have a child. I know he wants to get married and have a very high suspicion that he's going to propose soon from all the comments he keeps making. Nothing would make me happier because I love him ...
A. 13 January 2009: The choice he made to be with his daughter and not let her be a child from a broken home shows he has a good heart. He cares enough to want the best for his child. YOU ARE A BIG PART of his child's life. Thus you are included in his future plans it ... (read in full...)
I love him but my problem is that lately I'm unable to look at him without seeing his past.
Q. My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years and have a child. I know he wants to get married and have a very high suspicion that he's going to propose soon from all the comments he keeps making. Nothing would make me happier because I love him ...
A. 13 January 2009: Indeed everyone does have a past. The thing is if you can't move past this bad feeling you have about this you can't expect a very happy future. You have got to realize that if you love him it's going to be pretty miserable without him. I believe ... (read in full...)
Help with ex and strech marks
Q. I have two problems 1. My boyfriend of 8 months dumped me shortly after Christmas saying he wasn't too sure he loved me anymore. I thought I was over it, but he's had another lasses name on his msn and it got me really upset. I've taken all the st...
A. 13 January 2009: I know how it can hurt to loose your mate. It's best that you do keep those things hidden from sight as they will only remind you of him daily. You must remember that it's his right to seek someone new if you aren't together anymore. It is also your ... (read in full...)
I would really really really like for her to stay skinny as she is!
Q. Hi there. This is my first post, but really there is only one question that has ever been on my mind about my marriage for the last six months. How do I tell my wife that she is developing a gut and that she needs to workout/run? She is smart en...
A. 13 January 2009: Alot of people gain weight after they get married. Some people just fill out a bit more and some gain in the worst places, such as the stomache or butt. If you love this woman you should accept her the way she is. If you are concerned about her ... (read in full...)
Living with an alcoholoc...
Q. hey, I am wondering if anyone can help me? I have been with my partner for over 10 years and we have 3 beautiful daughters but for the past few years he has been drinking heavily. I had finally had enough in the middle of 2008 when I was pregnant ...
A. 12 January 2009: I know how it can be hon. It's hard to walk away, love keeps you there. I would suggest that you talk to him and try getting him to go somewhere for help. He needs professional help. Even when he only drinks on weekends as long as he drinks heavily ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend not off well financially but its draining me both financially & mentally--I'm tired of it!
Q. I have spent 5 years without a proper job since I graduated from university. Those have been the toughest times of my life. I was trying very hard to get a job but it was getting more difficult. I did part time jobs and went as far as writing for ...
A. 12 January 2009: Hon a man who can't support himself much less you is not very likely to ask you to marry him. He is probably very down on himself as a man that he can't even find a better job and support himself. He certainly doesn't know what to do that his job ... (read in full...)
Is it possible I love him or just holding onto feelings from when I was 11?
Q. When I was younger, about 10 or 11, i was best friends with a boy. We grew up together and I think that in some weird way i always loved him in the way that children do. Anyway, I moved away when I was 12, and didn't talk to him until recently...
A. 12 January 2009: Well let me be the first to tell you that ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE! I would take time in getting to know him once again. If you were best friends then perhaps it's the love of a rekindled friendship. Sometimes people change and they are no longer the ... (read in full...)
He won't commit... what do I do?
Q. There is this guy, I'll call him sam, we really really like each other. We've met up loads, and we've kissed. I've asked him out but he doesn't know what he wants, every time he sees me he wants to be in a relationship with me, but he doesn't want ...
A. 12 January 2009: He does seem a bit WISHY_WASHY! It seems like he may like you alot but has real committment issues. The best thing to do is lean back and let him make the necessary moves to further the relationship. Nothing you have done up until this point has ... (read in full...)
She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant... could it be possible she is?
Q. Ok so my gf and I are really scared. A few days ago I rubbed my penis against her vagina. I am 99% sure there wasn't any pre cum on my penis because there has never been before. She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant like feeling sick ...
A. 11 January 2009: You can't tell anything at all in a few days. If you were sexually active before then it's possible. If she has missed her monthly cycle she needs to be checked immediately! If not then it probably means that she is about to have her monthly cycle. ... (read in full...)
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