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| | *EEN THERE DONE IT's profile:Hi,
I am a married lady with two daughters 20 and 21 years old, I have no qualifications but have a good listening ear, I try to understand how people feel and put myself in their shoes, I live in London United Kingdom, I married young and had kids at a young age, my parents seperated as well as loads of other highs and lows in my life. I always have people come to me for advise, I do try to be sensitive to everyone and honest...hope I can give you some meaning and hope...
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I just found out my ex gf has been secretly going to see her ex when she was telling me she was visitng family and friends!
Q. Found out my ex gf had been secretly going to her ex bf house when she was telling me she was visiting her mum, sick nan, friends etc.When I confronted her she got mad and denied cheating. Personally I think she was sleeping with him – if it was all ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there babes,
You seem like a really nice guy and I am sad to say if your ex cheated she is really being cruel to you right now, don't allow someone to make you feel this way you deserve a partner who will give back what you give not someone who ... (read in full...)
I'm not in to S and M but when having sex, I have really sick thoughts.
Q. This is really sick and I have never ever told anyone of this as I feel too ashamed. I hope no one would judge me here. I am totally in love with my husband and we have been together for a long time-100% happy! However when I am having sex at ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi ther babes,
You go for it girl, these are your fantasies and everyone has them whether they are wild or mild, there is nothing wrong with you at all darling, some couples tell each other their fantasies and some keep them to themselves...
So do... (read in full...)
Things arn't as exciting with him as they were with my ex.
Q. I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year and everyone thinks we are the perfect happy couple. I am lucky as he spoils me and takes me away for romantic weekends etc and you wonder why I'm complaining? My ex was an alcoholic and i ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there hun,
You have been in a bad relationship before babes and I congratulate you for the strenght to move on, now with this guy he treats you good etc...
This guy was a virgin and obviously needs you to tell him exactly what you like once he ... (read in full...)
My married colleague and I got close but cooled it so as not to hurt anyone; now I want to move on
Q. Thank you in advance to all who respond to this. I became quite close to a guy who I worked with this year. He was married and so both he and I decided to cool everything...I did not want to hurt anyone and neither did he. We have kept up a casual ...
A. 11 July 2007: Sorry babes its meant to say things happen in life not live having a bad moment ... (read in full...)
My married colleague and I got close but cooled it so as not to hurt anyone; now I want to move on
Q. Thank you in advance to all who respond to this. I became quite close to a guy who I worked with this year. He was married and so both he and I decided to cool everything...I did not want to hurt anyone and neither did he. We have kept up a casual ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there hun,
Things happen in live and I am not blaming you nor am I blaming him you have done the right thing darling by ending this relationship you had with him as it would have turned out hurting everyone, so well done you!!!!
He now feels co... (read in full...)
Can someone help me sort out my life and show me how to have a positive outlook?
Q. hey guys just wanted your help plz. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 7 months, we have a good relationship. I don't know whether I'm in love with her, but I do feel close to her. She says she has never felt like this for anyone ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there darling,
You say you have been with your girlfriend now for 7 months well I have to say well done hun thats a positive thing so you must be doing something right sweet, and she has never felt like this for anyone how lovely, proves your... (read in full...)
I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed at me... I'm not too sure how I should feel about this.
Q. Here's the story, I am 20 soon to be 21 (in a week) A couple days ago I met this girl and we got to talking. As the conversation evolved, we ended up talking about sex. Well this is the point where I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi hun,
She may of laughed because she didn't believe you, or because she felt uncomfortable I am sure she didn't mean it to be nasty babes, don't allow this to affect you sweet its nice to see some guys out there with morals and you stick by them... (read in full...)
My gf and I are going to have sex for the first time. She's afraid of the pain, so what can we do to make it more pleasurable for her?
Q. hi me and my gf are planning on having sex tomorrow night for the first time. We are both virgins and old enough. We have been great friends most of our school lives so we know each other well. The thing is shes terrified of the pain and is afraid ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi there honey,
Well what a sweetie you are to be worrying about her feelings your a great guy....
Plenty of foreplay is great honey, play some soft music in the back ground to relax you both and stop worrying the pair of you its the first time for... (read in full...)
I think he cheated with his 'cousin'
Q. Hi there, I need some advice. I am 38 weeks pregnant and my husband and I have been married now for 5 months. On saturday night he went out to the local pub and got stupidly drunk. By 1am in the morning I was very angry and rang him. Gave ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi there honey,
I don't blame you getting angry he is your husband and you are 38 weeks preganant, you need to tell your husband that you don't mind him going out but your not going to tollerate this kind of behaviour he has a resposabilty here to y... (read in full...)
Is there an unobtrusive way to get my girl to give me a BJ?
Q. During foreplay, my girlfriend will often very briefly put the head of my penis into her mouth, but never for long. she's told me before that she doesn't like giving head but that she thinks its because of the way she feels about the guy she did it ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi honey
She has done it in her previous relationship I don't know what went wrong maybe she doesn't like the thought of a male ejaculting but is happy to do it up until that point???
You need to ask her what went wrong and ensure her you are lovi... (read in full...)
Is this a normal penis size?
Q. I am a 13 yro black kid and my penis is 6 1/2 inches long and im afraid that i have 2 be huge cuz everybody says im supposed 2 be huge and i dont wanna be made fun of in the locker room. AM i to small?...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi hun,
There is absolutley nothing wrong with you babes your a young strong growing lad with a lot more years to grow yet so don't allow this to spoil your teenage years enjoy them sweet because they go fast honest they do......
I think most lad... (read in full...)
How can I get more out of sex with my boyfriend?
Q. I'm a 17 yr old girl from New Zealand, and i need some advice, if anyone has any 2 give. My bf and i hav been 2gether 4 around 8 months now, and we started having sex a little more than a month ago. Our relationship is very strong, and it's the real ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi honey,
I understand honest I do tell him you have given it time as you were a virgin and you were following him and now you have gotten over the painful stage you want to explore more and you would like him to teach you!!!!get my drift this will... (read in full...)
I tend to get jealous and have too high expectations in my relationship
Q. i have been with my bf for about 5 months now and we have already declared our love for eachother which is all good. sometimes i feel like i love him more than he loves me (however i know full well that sometimes my expectations are too high). i ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi there hun,
A little jealousy isn't too bad but if its to the extreme it will end a relationship....you have to trust your partner no matter where he is or what he is doing or it will drive you insane...
Have you been in a relationship that a m... (read in full...)
We have a great relationship, but he isnt in love with me.
Q. I am currently dating my best friend, we have been on anf off for about a year now. We are together every weekend and we talk on the phone constantly. The problem is he changes his mind about me a lot. I asked him if he was in love with me and he ...
A. 10 July 2007: Ah honey,
He says he loves you but is not in love with you!!!!
Does he mean he loves you as a friend????
If so sweet stop hurting yourself you deserve someone who will be in love with you just like your in love right now but not getting the ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me, but we still love each other
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago, but I don't think either one of us is really over it and I want him back... He dumped me because he said he couldn't do it (not sure what that means). Although, he comes from not such a great family backgrou...
A. 10 July 2007: Ah honey
Its obvious that you are both deeply in love with one another but he seems to scared to commit, I don't know why just give him his space let him work it out he will come back if he truely loves you I promise you taht..your doing the righ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends stepson is making my life hell
Q. my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I love him very much. from his last relationship he had taken on her son who is now sixteen.(last relationship ended ten years ago)this son is always giveing me grief. he has stolen and has no ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi there babes,
It is nice your boyfriend has kept in touch with his step son, but he is sixteen now and stealing from you at his age is digusting you are allowing him into your home to spend weekends he should be enjoying it not abusing it!!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is done having kids, but I dont have any yet, and I really want one
Q. Im 29 and living with my girlfriend, 34, and her two boys 10 and 12. We have been together over a year now and i realise now that she doesnt want any more children and i do. She has had her boys and now want some time of her own, which i underst...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi hun,
I understand both points of view here babes, you really need to let her know how you really are feeling and let her know that your scared this will slowly eat away at you.
There is no easy answer here one has to give for the other bu... (read in full...)
Is there a possibility that he likes me for more than a sex buddy?
Q. I have a little background to bring understanding to my situation. Five years a go I met this guy, I will call "Tony" we messed around for a summer and then I went off to school. We never spoke after that until a month ago when we saw each other at ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi Hun,
Yes I think he does like you more thn he is letting on thats why he wants to fight Brad....
He probably thinks you want him as a sex buddy and is scared incase you turn him down, tell him how you really feel bout him its the only sure way... (read in full...)
I came across some naked pictures of him that he had sent to his soon to be ex-wife
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months. I am recently divorced and he is in the middle of a divorce. I was looking through his cell phone the other day (I know bad me..) and I came across some naked pictures of him that he had sent to his ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi hun,
I am going to be blunt here, serves ya right for looking, a reltionship is built on trust he sent those photographs before you were an item and yes, I think he is being honest because if he had sent them and meant it he would not have it o... (read in full...)
I am a married man of 18 months but recently i have been having wild dreams and fantasies about a collegue at work
Q. Hiya please can you help and give me advice as to what to do. I am a married man of 18 months but recently i have been having wild dreams and fantasies about a collegue at work, she is nearly 50 and married but is really gorgeous and kind, i so wan...
A. 9 July 2007: Hi there hun,
I am sure this lady would be flattered that she has an admirer but I don't think your wife would like to know!!!!!!
Keep your fantasies to your self hun, we all have them but they are not reality keep them as fantasies.....
You say t... (read in full...)
My ex and I both have significant others but we still love each other and want to be together.
Q. My ex and I both have significant others but we still love each other and want to be together. You know the saying "Let him go and if he comes back then its meant to be but if he doesn't then he was never your's to begin with" Well that's true we ...
A. 9 July 2007: Hi hun,
How would you feel if the shoe were on the other foot you would be angry wouldn't you ??
But you would much rather your partner tell you wouldn't you??
If its meant to be then it will happen but be honest, it really isn't fair to the ... (read in full...)
I want to know what steps we, or I, can take to start getting things back on track.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for eight months but I have known her for six years. We moved in with each other about three months ago. I had to quit my job and give up my car to move here because of the different laws in this state. I am still ...
A. 9 July 2007: Hi there hun,
You have betrayed her personnel space by checking her messages, this tells her that you don't trust her no matter what you say sorry to be harsh but it is true....
You need to show her and its going to take time that you do trust he... (read in full...)
Caught my husband of 10 years having an affair with my best friend! Can we work this as an open marriage?
Q. I recently caught my husband of ten years in an affair with my best friend. I had suspected something several years ago and confronted him but he denied it and life went on. I now find out it has been going on for 7 years. He says he loves me and ...
A. 9 July 2007: Hi there hun,
You have suspected this for a long time, how do you feel about this ??????
Its okay for them to say they won't give each other up but have either of them considered your feelings here??????
How do you feel about this so called open ... (read in full...)
It's our anniversary next Saturday, what can I do to get her in the mood and have the best night of her life?
Q. Hi me and my wife are both happily married and been together since we were 16 and always had a good sex life. It's just we really want to try new things like new places to do it that are more exciting and more passionate and romantic. I want this to ...
A. 9 July 2007: Hi there hun,
I think its wonderful that you want to please your wife,
You know after all these years what your wife likes so take advantage of this also why not sk her if she has any fabtasies you may be suprised.....
Find a location tha... (read in full...)
He is going back to his ex! How can he do this when I have been so supportive?
Q. Iv been with my bf a year I got a feeling over the last couple of days there was something wrong. He has always been honest and said that he never divorced his wife (been seperated three years) and that they had kids I was always supportive of this ...
A. 19 June 2007: Ah honey I am sorry,
There is nothing you can do my sweet to keep a man they have to want to be with you, he split from his wife for a reason this doesn't mean giving it one more try is going to solve any past problems they had...
If I were you... (read in full...)
I am suspicious of her even though I am the one that cheated
Q. I'm 22 and my girlfriend of 3 years just recently told me she has been talking to some guy on the phone. The thing is it started about 5 days after we ran into an ex of mine that made a huge scene and said she's still with me. Then about a week ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hi there hun,
Sorry to have to say this to you but its your own guilt that is now driving you mad, you have to trust her like she trusts you...If she means that much to you start a fresh put everything behind you or your likely to loose ever... (read in full...)
I was so wrong to mistreat him. I cant lose him. How can I convince him to give me another chance?
Q. Aaaargh i desperately need some advice i have been with my guy now 2.5 years and love him to bits even though he is 17 years older than me it has never been a problem. He also has a 14 year old son. On sunday even ing he announced in a pub ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hi there honey,
If he loves you after you tell him exactly what you have written here asking for help I am sure he will understand, don't forget going through a divorce is very stressful and at least your being honest, just tell him how you feel... (read in full...)
He's bad at communication, how can we improve that?
Q. Long distant relationship-help! Me and my boyfriend have been attempting a long distance relationship from opposite sides of the world for 5 months now after being (physically) together for 6 months. He tells me i am the one he wants to marry e...
A. 18 June 2007: here Hun,
I would say most men are not as good us us girlies talking on the telephone, e-mailing etc...I am sure he still loves you so don't take it to heart,.
Why don't you send him a lovely letter letting him know how much you miss him promptin... (read in full...)
Is he right for treating me that way and all the other stuff even though is causing me to resent him for it?
Q. Hi every one, can u give me some advise please. I am on the verge of losing my friends and my sis to. Every thing is just a mess right now and i've been very depressed so much it hurts. I went out with a mate of mine about 3 months ago and my drink...
A. 16 June 2007: Hi there honey,
What happened to you is terrible and I am sorry for that but your husbnd obviously is terrified this may happen again and has gone well over the top, he doesn't mean to he loves you and maybe he feels really bad as he was not ther... (read in full...)
He is hanging out with the wrong crowd and is shoving his new girlfriend in my face about how much prettier she is than me
Q. ok well i had another question i asked a little while ago and i have another problem with the same people which is bad...well i have strong feelings for the guy i am with now but my ex that i am still in love with but i know i dont need to be with ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hi there babes,
It sounds to me like he wants you to be jealous, why would he keep saying she is prettier if he didn't still care about you, you be better than that show him it doesn't bother you tell him your gald he is happy I know it will be hard... (read in full...)
What is wrong with me? Why do I all of a sudden feel this way for no reason?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 6 months. However, we have been good friends through college for the past four and a half years so the relationship might be new but to us it seems like its been forever. We practically live together ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hi there babes,
Are you going through any stress at the moment? Have you been living together long as you state your practicaully living together now? It could just be the fact that all of sudden things are moving a little too fast for you and it m... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my best friend... she's having a rough time with her current boyfriend! What shall I do?
Q. I have too many feeling for my friends wife... And I confessed these to her. She said she has similar feelings but she has to focus on her current relationship. Right now she is trying to work on a divorce, and I feel like a little of it is my ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hi there babes,
You sound like a very caring and loving man, she is working on her divorce right now like you have stated...this must be hard thing to be going through
Okay so she is in the same house with him at the moment this doesn't mean any... (read in full...)
I just wanna cry and go to the guy I have a crush on and lie in his arms... I hate this feeling!!!
Q. I'm feeling really depressed and alone. I have a huge crush on a guy (which I've already posted a question about - this isn't the biggest problem right now), and I've spoken to friends who know him, and they're helping me to sort something out. ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hi there sweetie,
Does this guy know you have a crush on him, is he a straight guy or is he gay? sorry but you have not told me much about him...
You are in the middle of doing you exams so you are more prone to be feeling down as it takes al... (read in full...)
Should I let my daughter get to know this man better?
Q. My daughter is a very mature 17 year old who has been homeschooled, just finished her first year at college. She is becoming good friends with a 26 year old man at church who is interested in her and would like to date her. They are both devoted ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hi there,
As a mum myself I can understand your worry here, a man 9 years older than your daughter who also has 2 children from a previous marriage, not the ideal situation I know, but nature has a funny way of taking its course, he must be a nice... (read in full...)
He says that he wants to have sex, I said no and now he's being all weird on me. What should I do?
Q. i got a boyfriend who says he loves me, he told his best m8 he had feelings for me and then we started going out, however before we started going out we were really close m8s i was like his 2nd best m8, i love him n i no he loves me well he says he ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hi there hun,
If this guy really loves you like he says he does then he will wait until you and only you are prepaired to give him a specail part of your body...
You be strong if he doesn't hang around then he really isn't the guy you thought ... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a 53 year old. How do I tell my Mum?
Q. im seeing a guy that is 30years more that that he 53yo male im a girl we ad sex for 4 years now he in love with me and he give me anything i want all i have to do is ti ask and ive got it and i love him alotbut the age i dont know how to tell me mom ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hi ther hun,
If you are really in love with this guy and he is in love with you and your both very happy then no one has the right to judge you, you do however need at some stage to introduce this man to your mum, give her time to adjust babes, if y... (read in full...)
What can I do to romantically spice up our relationship?
Q. How do I get out of the routine with my 16 year old girlfriend? I want to do something romantic for her?...
A. 16 June 2007: Hi hun,
I don't know what you guys do on a regular basis together the only thing I can suggest as you have not given me much to go on is what does your girlfriend like doing, what are her interests etc???, have you ever taken her or a meal wher... (read in full...)
How do I get over just being a friend??
Q. Hello I have this friend (call her Tina) who is the sister of my best friend (female). I have graduelly got to know Tina since I seperated from my wife, over last 18 months and have become very fond of her and seems very close to her. We do a lot...
A. 14 June 2007: Hi there hun,
You have to respect the fact that she values you as a very good friend and that is much better than pushing your luck and loosing her..I am not saying that given time she may see you differently but for now enjoy her company as you ... (read in full...)
Would I ever be his girlfriend or will I always just be his booty-call?
Q. Before i started to have sex i use to sneak this guy in and he would lay wit me until i fell asleep. He went off for college but would sleep toegther all the time wen he came for vacations now he is back to live and had a girl but they broke up.We ...
A. 14 June 2007: Hi there babes,
Have you ever told him how you feel about him?
Can you honestly say babes that you could trust this man when he slept with you whilst he had another girlfriend, that would worry me if I were you..
Us girls always like the bad guys... (read in full...)
I don't know how to stop loving my husband, and I'm scared of being alone...
Q. I don't know how to stop loving my husband, and I'm scared of being alone. We've been together 6 years, married for 3. We have 2 small children, and I have a teenage daughter. My husband has always been a little distant emotionally, but lately ...
A. 14 June 2007: Hi there babes,
You poor thing to love someone so much is great but to feel unloved back hurts so so much doesn't it hun? He says he needs some time alone and that he is not sure he loves you, you also mentioned he does a lot of hours at work when... (read in full...)
My inadequacies and insecurties are causing me to kill the relationship... Please please help!!
Q. Hi, I am feeling really insecure about myself, i doubt my ability to do anything and cannot seem to look positive at anything? I have a wonderful girlfreind and I am beginning to affect this relationship because I am jealous and insecure.. I fee...
A. 14 June 2007: Ah honey why would you feel like she deserves someone better than you, when she met you she fell for who you are and what you stand for, it doesn't matter if she seems to have a better job we are in year 2007 not 1807, it seems it doesn't matter to ... (read in full...)
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