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| | *EEN THERE DONE IT's profile:Hi,
I am a married lady with two daughters 20 and 21 years old, I have no qualifications but have a good listening ear, I try to understand how people feel and put myself in their shoes, I live in London United Kingdom, I married young and had kids at a young age, my parents seperated as well as loads of other highs and lows in my life. I always have people come to me for advise, I do try to be sensitive to everyone and honest...hope I can give you some meaning and hope...
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Should I give my boyfriend a 3rd chance to salvage our relationship of 7 years?
Q. My question is really simple. Should I give my boyfriend a 3rd chance to salvage our relationship of 7 years? We've broken up 3 times in the last 9 months, with the final time coming back in June. After our last break up, I met a really great guy, ...
A. 3 August 2007: Hi there babes,
The big question here is do you still love him?????
If you do then before you give him another chance you really both need to sit down and discuss the things that were wrong in the relationship in the first place other wise the prob... (read in full...)
I seem to be going through various rough patches with my girlfriend mentally... why?
Q. I seem to be going through various rough patches with my girlfriend mentally. One day I wake up and i totally love her and think I couldn't imagine losing her. Then other days I get irritated by her and just feel generally irritated specially when ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Your probably only feeling like this because your tired and this is irritating you thats normal, you say your like this with everyone when your tired but more so because your with your girlfriend more, thats normal....
She probably... (read in full...)
If i don't have sex with him, then i have really lost him.
Q. I recently wrote about my husband cheating and going back and forth undecided who he wants to be with me (his wife) or his lover. And i know its obvious that i should leave him and I'm being strong and I'm trying to move on with my life, BUT when he ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi there babes,
You feel you need him but you don't he is playing with you its not fair on you nor your beautiful children and its not fair on his girlfriend either, he is a cheat babes and its so unfair on ll of you....
Having his cake and eati... (read in full...)
How can i tell if she wants more?
Q. How can you tell? Hi. I ran into a girl who I dated a couple of times a few years ago on facebook. We exchanged emails since the new year. Since then we have been out a few times. How can I tell if we are just friends or if she wants someth...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi there babes,
It is natural for the male to pursue the female evn in the animal kingdom so go for it, tell her how you feel she may be hoping your going to anyway so what have you got to loose.....
If its just friendship she wants she will soo... (read in full...)
My husbands ex is always at parties we go too.
Q. My husband's best friend's wife, and my husband's ex are best friends. So every time we go to my husband's best friend's parties ,his ex is there. We both talk to each other but still i feel uncomfortable and it makes me mad to think that my husband ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi babes,
You said it yourself he once loved her, but did he because if he did he would still be with her wouldn't he? its you he loves and has married so don't let this make you angry breath deep breaths a wisper under your breath he married me h... (read in full...)
Does it hurt her or is it pleasurable?
Q. i am a 35 year old healthy male. married. having great sex (weekly 5-6 times). my wife screams and shout loudly while she climaxes. after couple of minutes, she become normal and she does not remember that she had screamed. she says, she had ...
A. 30 July 2007: Well,
What a lucky lady 5-6 times and still screaming well hun she is enjoying it and well done to you......
Bet the neighbours give their husbands a jealous look ha ha ha ha !!!!!
Happy living
Love Donna x... (read in full...)
We have been together ten months and i want to marry him.
Q. Why am I in such a rush to get married? Okay, I am 21 years old and I have been with my guy for 10 months. We fight frequently have almost broken up a few times but have gotten through it. Even after all of the times that he makes me want to pull...
A. 30 July 2007: Your not crazy darling, not if you really love him, but whats the rush, enjoy the time you have with him, don't argue life is miles too short my sweet....
You have time on your side your 21 so don't pressure him or you may find it will even... (read in full...)
Is it healthy for us to go out seperately?
Q. my fiance says it is healthy for the both of us to go out alone with our friends.Is that true or not?...
A. 30 July 2007: Of course its true babes,
A relationship is built on trust and as much as you love one another its still nice to have that odd break from one another, go out let ya hair down and have some chum fun...
Tell her to make arrangements with her frie... (read in full...)
Should I try and resume the relationship??
Q. I went out with a guy for about five years. We broke up once during those five years and got back together again. About two years after that we had some problems that we didn't resolve, and he moved to the US. We recently communicated and i got th...
A. 30 July 2007: Before you resume this relationship babes if thats what you want you both need to leave the past in the past where it should stay and start a fresh, if neither of you can do this then I am sorry to say it won't work the third time....
If you know... (read in full...)
Do I just come out and ask this guy if he's gay just like me?
Q. I have a good friend to whom I am extremely attracted. Recently, he agreed to attend a convention in Chicago with me next December and share a room. I'm fairly certain he's either bi or gay, and I'm hoping it's gay. He's a bit on the shy side. ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Its only fair to tell him your gay, see what he has to say babes if he is then I think he will soon let you know and if he isn't then if he is a good friend it shouldn't bother him at all...
All the best babes
Love Donna xx... (read in full...)
I'm too scared i'll get pregnant.
Q. heLLoo im 14 i really wanna have sex i have these funny feelings in my body when i think about it and i wanna have it but im so scared to get pregnant so can someone please tell me a way that i can guarte not to get pregnant please thank you who evr ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi babes,
Your so young 14 years old, how old is your boyfriend???/
Please darling think about this really hard before its too late this is your gift to give to the right person its your body........Everyone has this erge but you really ahve to ... (read in full...)
My mum will give me a hard time.
Q. Ok i left my husband over a year ago after a bad marriage, i then dated a few men who ended up being complete liers anyway!! i met this man a month a go he's lovely i love him very much and he loves me but now he has asked me to move in with him, i ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Your mum only worries about you sweet because you have had a bad time in the past, she only wants the very best for you doesn't she????
Why don't you go round to your mums with your new fella and tell her that you love him very muc... (read in full...)
He refuses counselling and marriage.
Q. I have been married for 9 years. Hubby sex drive very low (app 4 times in a year), refuses to go counselling nor divorce. i am very fustrated at this point. Still in marriage becoz of kids but am giving up. I have tried using tactics to keep flame ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi there babes,
I understand where your coming from you love your husband but you do have your needs, you need to feel loved and your young and you so desperatly want your husband to make love to you....etc...
This is also very hard for a man this... (read in full...)
Insecure because he does not last long.
Q. My boyfriend and I usually have great sex. But lately, he's been a little insecure about himself because he can't go longer than 7-10 minutes. How do you handle a situation where a man's ego has been crushed and you're lost for a solution??...
A. 29 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Your both very young, this has obviously upset him greatly after all it is his manhood here, you just need to be caring, understanding and patient, he will get over it darling its all in his head now as he is constantly worrying abou... (read in full...)
Should i keep begging?
Q. hi my name is john and i am 14 years old and me and my girlfriend of 9 months recently broke up because i cheated with a female on the internet i cheated once before and she forgave me but i did it again and now she says she wants to be friends i ...
A. 29 July 2007: Hi there babes,
I don't think talking to someone on the internet is actually cheating unless of couse this went futher, your only young babes, you have told her your sorry and you have tried begging, thats all you can really do, tell her you love... (read in full...)
I am in a bit of a quandry whether I am just waisting my time in this relationship
Q. Dear agony aunts... I'm in a bit of a quandary here at the moment... I'm with my boyf of 18 months and love him to bits and would do anything for him and I know he is mad about me too cos he has told me... but he also said that he will never marry...
A. 19 July 2007: Hi there babes,
He has obviously had a bit of a bad time I would say he already has a child and maybe the breakup of that relationship has just put him off, I am not saying he will never come round darling he may, but if you love him tell him how ... (read in full...)
My gf broke up w/ me because I'm too overprotective. Right now she hates me, should I not text her?
Q. hey! 3 weeks ago while i was on holidays my girlfriend broke up with me! we are only 15 but she was going out to a disco that night and said i didnt trust her and she said that i was too over-protective! at the moment she hates me. do you think...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there babes,
If you have been over protective towards her and this is the reason you have split up then I would text her telling her you have made a mistake, but before you do that you do have to trust her when she does go out, a rela... (read in full...)
He wakes me up for unsatisfying sex - how do I approach him without him getting offended?
Q. My boyfriend wakes me up in the middle of the night to have sex. He pokes me so I can wake up. He does not perform foreplay ever, and I have to get him aroused. Then I must get on top and do all the work, always. I'm really tired of this. He doesn't ...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Well, what a selfish so an so(and thats polite),if this has been going on for 5 months then trust me your more of a woman than I am I can tell ya...
Whats his name Henry the eigth, it is the 21 st century hun, sex is about two peop... (read in full...)
Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy?
Q. Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy? ...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there babes,
You don't say how long you have been with her for??
She obviuosly has issues and to be perfectly honest do you want to be with someone who has lied to you????
If she has got issues then she needs to sort them out as its really u... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do, I feel like I'm losing her, it seems we can't communicate properly! HELP !!
Q. Dear Cupid Me and my girlfriend have been going out for the last 4 months. It has been a very passionate, deep, caring relationship, but it came with a lot of squabbles, arguments over little things. My girlfriend has the tendency to go quiet on m...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there babes,
You been together for four months and your telling her not to be friends with certain people, well to be honest I wouldn't like my guy telling me who I can and can not be friends with would you???
If there is a problem with certain ... (read in full...)
He's getting over me by pretending like we never existed and ignoring me. But I want to talk to him and get closure!
Q. My relationship of almost 2 years broke up only a few days ago, and naturally I'm heartbroken. I dont consider how he ended it really closure for me, I want to talk to him alone, but our friends told him not to contact me, so when I IM him online, ...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there babes,
I know this is very hard for you to deal with but he doesn't want to talk to you right now, maybe he needs his space, time to think etc....
Your just hurting yourself babes keeping in contact with and hoping that he will listen t... (read in full...)
Does his appreciation of other girls mean I'm not good enough?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and things aren't exactly going well. everytime we go out he always looks at other girls .. i dnt really mind but he also comments on the way they look like he thinks their better than me in someway. ...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there babes,
All girlies and guys have a sneeky look don't we ??
But to be making comments in front of you is not really nice it will make you feel uncomfortable...
You need to tell him how its making you feel babes and if he continues th... (read in full...)
Did my friend dump me for her neighbour? Why?
Q. SO im 15 and i have this friend who ill call Ash. She moved here in November, and since i was fairly new [moved here in june of last year] i took the time to get to know her and we became close friends. I let her see all of me [i mean, my real me,...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there babes,
This does seem a bit cruel of her to do this to you, I think you need to get her on her own somewhere and have a little chat ask her why she has changed towards you, have you done something to up set her in any way???
Tell her you ... (read in full...)
How can I find out whether he loves me or not?
Q. I want to know how would I know if someone loves me? I broke from my fiance a year ago and now I see him regularly but each time he sees me he just runs away. we were on bad terms when we broke but now I have feelings for him and I want to know if ...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there babes,
The only thing you can do to really know for sure is to talk to him, tell him your sorry you both split on bad terms but thats the past now....
Let him know that your feelings for him are growing but you don't want to be hurt and... (read in full...)
Is my relationship over?
Q. Is my relationship over? My girlfriend of 10 years has gone away for a few days to spend time with friends and family. Since she left I've had unexpected feelings. For the first few days I felt a sense of relief, and really enjoyed havin...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there babes,
If your girlfriend has got personal problems and you have been her rock through all of this I would just say its a case of you relaxing hun, with no worries or problems to deal with....you need a break too, this doesn't mean that... (read in full...)
What's the chance of getting pregnant if you use a condom properly and you pull out?
Q. What's the chance of getting pregnant if you use a condom properly and you pull out?...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there hun,
Nothing on the market is 100% safe if you sexuallt active go to your doctor or family planning clinic they can advise you on the best precautions to take, re: your question I would think your safe but if you think a little acci... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming that my ex husband is being emotionally cruel to me.
Q. My ex husband was very emotionally cruel and sometimes physically. I was with him for a long time and have been seperated from him for 3 months and not seen him at all in this time. I am determined never to go back this time but the thing now is ...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi there babes,
When someone goes through a tramatic experience like you have you can get flash backs, just give it time they will eventually pass but good for you for having the strenght to get out of a relationship like this, now its time to put ... (read in full...)
I want to move back to where I used to live..but my partner doesn't want to!
Q. i love my partner we have a child together in a depressed because of where we live i wont to move back to where i lived but he wont move with me. i love his so much but im not sure if i can live wher i am. what should i do?...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there hun,
Have you been getting depressed because everything has happened so quick, having a child so young and then moving somewhere else....Bet you don't know many people here??
Tell your partner that it really is hard for you to adjust e... (read in full...)
Is this relationship worth trying to save?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year, but now suddenly he's told me that his parents want me to change my attitude and watch my words whenever I'm at his house (he lives w/his parents). The thing is, they've been speaking to him about ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Sorry to hear this, the parents have obviously got a hold over their son and he really isn't man enough to stand up to them, why should you change he fell in love with you and you fell in love with him not his family.....
Why s... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to belive in a future with her?
Q. After five and a half years my girlfriend has finally cut the cord. our only real problem was my baggage which i never dealt with. we tried living together but my issues prevented this from working. we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
If you have dealt with your issues hun, then I don't see why not, you just have to show her that you have put the past behind you and are able to start your life again...
You were engaged I don't think she has forgotten about yo... (read in full...)
He's started trying to become obese. How do I deal with this?
Q. Hi there, this worries me and I need some help, so apologies if this is really long! I'm 25, and my boyfriend's 28. We've been together for 4 years now - and our sex life's been good up to now. Recently he's become obsessed with becoming ob...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
You only have to watch TV now days to see how hard it is for obese people not only with getting out of bed but how it effects their relationships, they can't make love so why does he think big is better it just isn't....
He obviousl... (read in full...)
She says she will talk to me tomorrow, but I want to talk to her tonight!
Q. I have been in a relationship with a girl one year younger to me and we have been talking for 4 months. i would like stating beforehand that this is a long distance relationship and we have met only once. She starts with her university in a day's ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
I know its hard for you as you probably want to say so much to her, but she isn't being nasty to you in anyway she knows she has a long day and is probably very nervous about the whole thing....
She is starting a very importan... (read in full...)
What do men look for in a woman?
Q. I really wanna know what men look for in a woman? why they chose to be with the girl they're with, and why they reject others? i'm 23 and single and have no luck when it comes to men, so i'm hoping some of u guys out there will be able to shed light ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there hun,
Your young and worrying about how to attract men and what are they looking for, you just need to be yourself, laugh have fun and when you do have that date don't worry about what it may turn into look at him as a new friend enjoy his ... (read in full...)
His medical problem makes sex extremely painful! I adore him, but I'm sexually frustrated!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and care deeply about him and feel like i know him inside out, as he does with me. as a boyfriend, he is faultless - never cheats, he takes me out, buys me things, phones me daily and constantly tells ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi hun,
This must be extremley hard for you as its natural to wnat to make love to the man you love, however if it is a medical condition he really needs to get more help...he is only young darling and must be hard for him too...
In the mean tim... (read in full...)
My 11 year old son disrespects me - now my partner said he will not sleep over when my son spends the night because of it!
Q. Im wondering what to do, ive been in a relationship for 16 months with a man i love very much, ive got a son who's 11 from a previous relationship, my partner has his own house but stays at mine most of the time, he's recently told me that he was ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Your son is 11 years old and needs to have a little respect for you, he should not be calling you names at any age he should have respect for his mum...
Your boyfriend obviosly doesn't like hearing him talk to you like this and rath... (read in full...)
My husband of six months cheated on me w/ his ex! What should I do??
Q. I just found out that my husband of only 6 months basically cheated on me the other night. He took his ex out to dinner then they went to our new apartment to talk and they ended up kissing! i just got a new job not even a month ago but ever since I ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Yes, he has betrayed your trust and its going to take time to regain it, you have to ask yourself what is important to you right now???
Is he worth forgiving and building your relationship again, do you love him no matter what??? ... (read in full...)
When we aren't together he acts like he isn't interested in our relationship!
Q. My boyfriend of 1 year has recently started to neglect our relationship. When we are together he is like his usual self though and everything is so good. But I hate it when we arent together because it's like he isnt interested. What will I do?...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
You are both still young he obviously needs his own time and space this doesn't mean he is neglecting you babes...
You need to find things to keep you busy when he isn't around, go out with friends, join a gym or do a hobby you enjo... (read in full...)
What's the youngest age to fall in love?
Q. What's the youngest age to fall in love? I'm 9 years old and i think that i've fallen in love with my friend's cousin who's 10. I've heard people say things like it's not possible to fall in love until you are an adult so now i'm confused whether ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Its very sweet you fancy your friends cousin, you enjoy getting to know him and doing things together which you have in common....As you get older there will have been loads of boys who have been in your life, just enjoy your yout... (read in full...)
He doesn't show me his love the way I need him to show me! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 4 about 2 1/2 years. Im very in love with him but he doesnt take me or the relationship seriously.He doesnt pay enough attention to my needs and I have emotional needs.I know he loves me but he doesnt show me ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there hun,
You have been with him for 2 1/2 years you say you know he loves you but he does not give you the attention you need...well to be honest babes if you don't tell him what your needs are then he will never know, you need to tell him what... (read in full...)
How can i finger myself and get pleasure out of it?
Q. ok, i have a very weird question but here goes: ok i have been masturbating ever since i was like 8 years old.. (i'm a girl by the way) and i always rubbed myself.. never fingered.. and now that i have had sex and had other guys finger me, i tried ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi hun,
You have to find the parts that pleasue yourself, just take your time relax and explore, there is no one answer here as we all like different things so explore your own body and you will know what feels good to you
Love Donna x... (read in full...)
My friend feels like he's been replaced since his best friend got a girlfriend
Q. A friend of my girlfriend has a problem. We will call him Bob. He has been best friends with a guy for over 10 years. We will call him Joe. They did everything together. Anyway, recently Joe had started dating someone and all of a sudden he doesnt ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi babes,
Bob really needs to talk to Joe, If they were close friends like you say they were then I am sure Bob hasn't realised how he is hurting Joe.....
You say neither of them have dated much well perhaps Joe has just been swept awy with the... (read in full...)
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