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| | *EEN THERE DONE IT's profile:Hi,
I am a married lady with two daughters 20 and 21 years old, I have no qualifications but have a good listening ear, I try to understand how people feel and put myself in their shoes, I live in London United Kingdom, I married young and had kids at a young age, my parents seperated as well as loads of other highs and lows in my life. I always have people come to me for advise, I do try to be sensitive to everyone and honest...hope I can give you some meaning and hope...
Best of luck Donna
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My friend feels like he's been replaced since his best friend got a girlfriend
Q. A friend of my girlfriend has a problem. We will call him Bob. He has been best friends with a guy for over 10 years. We will call him Joe. They did everything together. Anyway, recently Joe had started dating someone and all of a sudden he doesnt ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi babes,
Bob really needs to talk to Joe, If they were close friends like you say they were then I am sure Bob hasn't realised how he is hurting Joe.....
You say neither of them have dated much well perhaps Joe has just been swept awy with the... (read in full...)
Since we had our daughter I feel he has changed and doesnt care about us
Q. My fiance and i are going on our 4th year together and we have a beautiful baby girl together, first child for both of us... i know this is all new for both of us but does it have to make a person change this much? he used to show me that he ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Maybe he is wearing himself out with all the hours he is doing at work?
I don't know as I don't live with you, you know your husband better than anyone else, if you have tried talking to him babes, and it hasn't worked then maybe a ... (read in full...)
I just wanted reassurance and now he wont talk to me
Q. I have been seeing my guy for about 8 months now... im 20 and hes 35 - we get along perfectly and we never see a problem with the age difference... Today we had a great big fight because i told him im starting to think hes treating me like...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi hun,
You should not have said this to him if you didn't really mean it, you should have told him how your really feeling and that your going through a down period at the moment, he is 15 years older and will not appreciate playing games....I don'... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is 19 years older than me and I am worried about our future
Q. Hi I have currently been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are very happy together. However, i have major concerns about the age gap. I am 22 and he is 19 years older than me. He is divorced with no children. I am worried that this will c...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
A 19 year age gap is big I grant you but if you relly love one another then any problems you encounter you will face together.
Does he want children, do you???
This needs to be discussed and sorted out between you both, ll rel... (read in full...)
How do I improve my sexual tecnique when I didnt know I was bad in the first place?
Q. Hello, My girlfriend of 5 and half years has just recently broken up with me (about 2 weeks ago). She said that she no longer loves me, she found a new guy, she doesn't see a future with me, and etc. Anyways, I met her the other day and we w...
A. 16 July 2007: Ah hun,
I think she is just trying to be mean, you was with this girl for 5 and a half yers and she only tells you this when you have split up, I really wouldn't take any notice of her honestly.....
But on the other hand when you next have a girlfr... (read in full...)
I kissed my boyfriends coworker
Q. I kissed my boyfriends work friend. The girl he was out with was upset he offered to walk me to the car although i dont know if she actually saw the kiss. me and my partner go out with these people regularly and i cant guarantee he wont be told...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi hun,
We all do things at times we regret but once done there is no turning back the clock, I know your scared and its hurting you and you fell guilty but you need to and be honest with yourself, would you rather he hear this from someone else... (read in full...)
How can you tell a good friend to go home without sounding like a jerk?
Q. Whenever my husband and I ask one of our close friends over for dinner, he always just assumes that he's going to also spend the night - and then he spends half of the day with us the next day! He only lives 45 minutes away and we've tried hinting ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there hun,
There is no easy way I'm afraid the best thing is to ask him to dinner and perhaps you or your husband drop him home, just sit down with him tell him you love him dearly as a friend and you enjoy him coming to dinner and you don't mind... (read in full...)
I'm 10, he's 19. He found out I've got a crush on him and now he's avoiding me!
Q. i like a guy 9 years older and i thought he liked me ( me 10, and him 19). it was good when no one knew i liked him, but then some one found out. she told him and now he wont talk to me. what do i do???...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
There is nothing wrong with having a crush on an older man, I am sure he is flattered but at the same time you are so so much younger than him, it has probably scared him a little as he probably saw you more as a younger sist... (read in full...)
She said it's not me, it's her. How can someone's feelings just suddenly stop??
Q. I've been in love with this girl for nearly a year and we've been through a lot of ups and downs. She said that she was in love with me, then suddenly she's saying she dosent even fancy me anymore. She says it's not me but she's changed. I just don...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Peoples feelings do change about one another but this doesn't mean its over hun, go and talk to her ask her if there is anything going on in her life that your not aware of at the moment.....
If she needs time then give her the ... (read in full...)
He wanted to marry me but his parents have another girl for him he has to wed
Q. My friend got close to me saying he wants to marry me. We got emotionally attached to each other very much and now due to his family problems he says he can not marry me. I tried to tell him how much it is hurting etc but he says he is sorry and ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
This is hard for you I know, and probably just as hard for him, call him tell him is there anyway you could both talk to his parents about how you both feel about one an other...
If this is impossible then I am afraid your going to... (read in full...)
Housemate from Hell!
Q. HOUSEMATE FROM HELL!! I have recently taken over lease and my housemate has moved out two days ago. She's lived there for a year and a half longer than me. I refused to sign the lease until she finishes a few things off such as returning the keys, ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Leave her to be the nasty person she is don't allow yourself to bad mouth her it will only make it look like she is right about you, if they are your friends your true friends know who you really are....
As for her texting you just... (read in full...)
We dated on and off; now he has a girlfriend but still acts like he wants me
Q. Dear whoever will answer this, So I need some major advice. I've dated this guy on and off for a year, and now he has a girlfriend but he still acts like he wants to be with me. He's one of my best friends and I hate the thought of losing him b...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi babes,
If he really wanted you he would not have a girlfriend right now, he may act like he wants you but to have you he needs to be single its not fair on his girlfriend nor is it fair on your emotions.....
Its hard to move on I know but you ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me saying he wants to experiment sexually but he had said he wanted to be with only me
Q. In a month me and my boyfriend would have been coming up on our two year anniversary. I found out he was lying to me about basic things, so I got friends involved and they did a little intervention. He admitted to them that he has thought about ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there hun,
This is hard for you I know especially as you love him so much....You need to talk to him babes, tell him you love him so much and how much all of this is hurting you, if he still feels he needs to experiment like you say then you have... (read in full...)
We argue when she goes out with her friends; now she says she'll see them less but I don't want her to say that because of me
Q. Hey my name is Andrew. I am currently in a Long distance relationship my girlfreind is in Canada and I am in Portugal. We have been 9 months apart so far and i will be back Oct 1st 2007. We were recently talking about fights that we were having ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi Andrew,
I have to be honest with you babes, its really not fair you picking fights just because she goes out with her friends, jealousy is terrible thing and will only end in tears....
She obviously loves you, but its not fair she should g... (read in full...)
My wife cheated repeatedly; I gave her another chance but she still sees the men she was unfaithful with
Q. My wife has had sex with more then a few guys on the side. A few were her coworkers. Our marriage was falling apart rapidly because of her infidelity and deciet. One day I had enough of her abuse and threats of divorce so I told her I was looking ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi there hun,
Dispite what has happened your wife wanted to make another go of your marriage she needs to prove to you that she can be trusted again and it seems to me she really isn't thinking of how hard this must be for you to gain her trust agai... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and I kissed my boyfriend after one day; what do I do now?
Q. i am only 12yrs old and i have a boyfriend we have already kissed and weve only bin going out for a day what shall i do??? do i kiss him again?? please help me!! ...
A. 13 July 2007: Ah hello babes,
That is really sweet if you really want to kiss him again then that is fine as long as you don't feel pressured into doing anything else babes, its fun being young and having your first boyfriend and first kiss so have fun but be c... (read in full...)
What do girls think of guys who are relationship virgins?
Q. What to girls think of guys who has'nt had a relationship before?...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi there hun,
If you have met a nice girl it won't matter to her whether you have had a relationship or not, so don't worry babes,
I think its sweet that your concerned but you really don't have to be...
Good luck babes
Love Donna xx... (read in full...)
I'm so confused by my ex's behaviour!
Q. my ex is back on the scene. we split up a few years back, over what i cant even remember. ive always had a soft spot for him he knows this cause stupidly i texted him saying how i wanted to get back together, he didnt bother replying so i left it at ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi hun,
You have let him know how you feel darling, now leave him to pursue you its the male role to chase the woman so let him chase you......
I know its hard but resist chasing him don't call him let him call you babes, trust me it works it may t... (read in full...)
Do you think im being selfish towards him doing what I did?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been on/off together for 8 years. We have a 3 year old boy which I really don't think he is bothered about. He never buys him clothes or toys it always me who does. He doesn't live with us, he's 40 and still lives with ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi there hun,
NO NO NO NO NO you were not being selfish you were being responsible he was the one banned from driving for having no insurance....
If he had of used that van he would have been driving on a ban how would you ahe felt if he had had ... (read in full...)
I didn't used to like him but since my friend started to like him then I like him too.
Q. help help help!!! my boyfriend doesn't like me talking to his mates especially this one paticular mate. I tell my boyfriend over and over again I do not find him actractive which was true, then an old mate of mine started seeing him. The thing is I ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi hun,
Your friend is with this guy now so to be honest hun, stay well away you wouldn't like it if your friend went off with your boyfriend would you???
Your probably only interested because your mate has been telling you great stories about hi... (read in full...)
I reaally like this lad, and he seems to like me too. He says if we are ever both single he wants to go out.
Q. I have been friends with a lad that I work with for nearly 3 years. Summer last year I told him I fancied him, well I didn't tell him big mouthed colleagues did, but anyways he found out, and he decided he was flattered but didn't want to take it ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi hun,
Of course your confussed so would I be,
I think the best thing you can do is let him know your very flattered and of course you would be happy to go for that drink if and when there is a time your both single, then leave it at that... ... (read in full...)
My ex was using me for sex and I broke it off, but how do I get over him?
Q. hi, i have a problem. i broke up with my first boyfriend seven years ago. i started seeing someone else and was with him for six years then broke up with him. my first boyfriend came back though he was seeing someone else and we used to sleep ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi honey,
Don't ya just hate loving the bad boys!!!!!
Us girlies fall for them hook line and sinker don't we????
First of all WELL DONE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't you dare regret your decision babes, you did the right thing other wise he would st... (read in full...)
What do I do to get back her interest and for her to fall in love with me?
Q. I have been in relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years and she is already married to a man. My girlfriend and her husband married due to family pressures when they were young and there have never been any kind of relationship between them. Me ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi hun,
You can't make anyone fall in love with you, you really need to talk to her ask her why she is treating you this way, you can't put right when you don't know what you have done can you?????/
If you have tried and she still brushes you off ... (read in full...)
I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't.
Q. I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer....
A. 12 July 2007: Hi,
You really need to be patient hun, if she is not ready then don't pressure her your both still young...
Why not talk to her about it ask her what she is scared of but no pressure ok...
It maybe her first time and she could be scared incas... (read in full...)
What should I do? Does he really just want to be friends again?
Q. My ex and I were best friends. We started dating in high school. Recently we were together for about four years, but my ex broke up with me to marry one of his ex-girlfriends. They have a baby on the way. However, my ex calls me after five months ...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi hun,
Your ex is now a married man with a child on the way, this is not fair on his wife nor is it fair on you babes as he is playing with your emotions I don't mean to sound harsh but stay well away, you have a boyfriend now so enjoy your life... (read in full...)
It's like a Romeo and Juliet situation, they want him well away from me.
Q. I had been going out with my ex-boyfriend for years. we're only 15 but we lost our virginity to each other and when we turned 15 we got engaged. It was going really well but then his parents found out. It's like a romeo and juliet situation, they ...
A. 12 July 2007: Ah bless ya honey,
If its like Romeo and Juliet hun then the end will be a great love story but your own one, be patient his parents don't mean to be mean to you they obviosly think he is too young whilst he is studying be patient ten months will... (read in full...)
Isn't this fraud?????
Q. I found out off a work colleague of my husband's that he and his friends at work have been raising money for a non-existent employee who has lung cancer in order to fund a trip to Las Vegas to see showgirls and prostitutes. The "colleague" was ...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi there hun,
Yes, this is fraud but what angers me are all the innocent people who have put in their hard earned cash thinking they were contributing to a good cause to some poor person who has lung cancer, how cruel is that?
Your husband needs to... (read in full...)
I told her how I feel, but she wants to stay with the guy who's using her for sex! So now I want to have a talk with him about what he's doing to her!
Q. Ok so theres this girl 'L' and she was being messed around by one of my best friends 'P' she thinks she loves him, i think she infatuated, and she was coming to me for advice and I helped her out as best I could, but last week having been with this ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Why don't you talk to your friend P and tell him since you have got to know L you have actually fallen for her and you don't want him hurting her feelings anymore...
If he is a true friend he will stay well away and will understa... (read in full...)
After moving away, I flirted with other men. My bf saw photos of it and is now distraught! How can I make it up to him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 14 months. We have had an extremely tough time of it- we spent the first 4 months together, fell madly in love, and then I moved away but we decided to stay together. As a result, over the last year ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there babes,
There is nothing wrong with a little light hearted flirting so long as it doesn't step over the mark....
How would you feel if you saw the same photographs of your boyfriend in the same situation, I don't know what these photogra... (read in full...)
My job sucks and I'm just unhappy in general. What can I do?
Q. I'm not satisfied with my life. I never am happy- well not for long. I only want little things in my life to be right but they never do and other people always have it easier- they get things handed to them on a plate or get things easier for ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Yes, life is tough for some of us or so it seems, stop looking at others everyone has it hard sometimes , some have it harder than others I grant you that but ya know what us who have it harder bounce back better we become toug... (read in full...)
How do I tell my partner that I no longer am in love with her?
Q. Recently I have stopped being in love with my partner and we are just getting more and more distant how do I tell her that I'm no longer in love?...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there babes,
You say you have stopped loving your partner and your both getting more and more distant, she probably already senses this hun so you really have to be cruel to be kind in the long run, there is no easy way, be polite and caring towa... (read in full...)
I think marriage is too much if we want different things! What should I do?
Q. im engaged to be married in 2 yrs just before i go to uni. but recently my fiance and i have been discussing our future and we want different things. i want to complete my degree and then travel for awhile. he doesnt ever want to leave our ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there babes,
Your both still very young I am not saying marriages don't work because you marry young but in your situation your going to uni and want to complete your degree good for you babes, and when your done you want to travel thats grea... (read in full...)
I had a sexual relationship w/ him before he started dating my relative. He comes onto me and when I tell him to stop, she laughs! What do I do?
Q. A close relative of mine has a boyfriend that I had a sex relationship with before they got involved. He still comes on to me in front of her. Why does he do this? How do I know if it is bothering her and does this mean he is still interested in ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there hun,
I know this must be awkward for you but if this makes you feel uncomfortable you need to be harsh and tell him you really don't like it and to have some respect for you and for your relative (his girlfriend)
Your relative probably... (read in full...)
What is the key to have great sex? The one time we did, she told me what to do. But she said she doesn't like giving orders!
Q. I have been in a relationship for a few months with someone that I am very serious about and I am very much attracted to. I have not had a lot of experience with sex but even less experience in serious relationships. My partner complains that I ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there darling,
I understand that you have not had a lot of experience when it comes to sex and you really want to please your partner, well I have to say Well done you!!!!1
You state the one time you did have great sex it was when she told you... (read in full...)
He tells little lies...how do I trust him and should I?
Q. Hi, In the past nine or ten months, my partner of over four years has been very snappy and distant. He blames me for everything, even when it can't possibly have been my fault. About nine months ago, my partner made a new friend, a pretty woma...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi hun,
Your miles to soft for your own good, he is having his cake and eating it and you my sweet are feeding him it, sorry for being so blunt but it angers me when men like this treat nice girls like you like this....
It was your birthday... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hits me--what can I do?
Q. I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15. I'm starting to worry about my relationship with her. I really love her but sometimes when I don't do what she asks she hits me. It's more of a punch to the arm or a slap. I'm worried in future years she may get ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there babes,
You have asked her why she does this and she has said she doesn't mean it.....
Well tell her if it doesn't stop then you wont mean to be nasty but the relationship will have to end tell her straight if she loves you she will und... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to sleep with her sister...is that wrong?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a good relationship with my wife even though there was some infidelity on my wife's part a few years ago. Her sister has also been a victim of infidelity, and hasn't had sex in years with her husband who is just not interested in ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there hun,
Yes I am sorry this is wrong your wifes sister has problems with her own marriage and she really needs to be sorting this out with her own husband, having sex with you will not solve her problems it would just make them a whole lot ... (read in full...)
I saw my best friend's husband cheating on her!
Q. Ok, so here's my problem. My bestfriend started dating this guy about three years ago. Pretty much that whole time there were rumors he was cheating on her. I told her many times that this was going on (not that it was necessarly true just that I ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there darling,
You poor poor love, I would really hate to be put in this situation because there is no love like a best friend and its hurting you so much...
You tried telling her once before about rumours that you had heard but you had no proof... (read in full...)
He's mean but is he abusive?
Q. i'm 13 years old and i wanna find out if my brother is abusive.he is always bothering my sister about her sicking her thumb.he is always bothering me about how slutish i look(but i don't).he is always bothering my other sister about how she is going ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there babes,
You don't say how old your brother is ????
Does he only do this to his family or is he like this with everyone?????
All brothers and sisters tease one another and it can be very hurtful to the one recieving all the abuse, you m... (read in full...)
I met a girl through a personal ad and there's 8 years between us; I'm excited but concerned
Q. Recently,I put a dating ad in the newspaper, and this girl replied who I really seem to like. However there's quite a big age gap. Im 29 and she is only 21. I've not had a girlfriend for 5 years now and have only really had one real relationshi...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there Keith,
Well I would like to say first what a lovely guy you sound and to ask for advice is lovely as you want everything to work out with this girl don't you?
Your excited to meet her and scared she may not feel the same well let me tell ... (read in full...)
I just found out my ex gf has been secretly going to see her ex when she was telling me she was visitng family and friends!
Q. Found out my ex gf had been secretly going to her ex bf house when she was telling me she was visiting her mum, sick nan, friends etc.When I confronted her she got mad and denied cheating. Personally I think she was sleeping with him – if it was all ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi there babes,
You seem like a really nice guy and I am sad to say if your ex cheated she is really being cruel to you right now, don't allow someone to make you feel this way you deserve a partner who will give back what you give not someone who ... (read in full...)
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