A
male
age
41-50,
*ccdscompanion
writes:I have been with my girlfriend for eight months but I have known her for six years. We moved in with each other about three months ago. I had to quit my job and give up my car to move here because of the different laws in this state. I am still looking for a new job. Well because money was tight and I got depressed from sitting around the house she became cold towards me. I got insecure and checked her messages. I didn't do it because I thought she was cheating but because I wanted to know how she was feeling. We have been fighting for the last three weeks because of all of this. I want to know what steps we, or I, can take to start getting things back on track. Thank you.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 Hi there hun,
You have betrayed her personnel space by checking her messages, this tells her that you don't trust her no matter what you say sorry to be harsh but it is true....
You need to show her and its going to take time that you do trust her......
Why not ask her how she is feeling instead of checking her messages, sit down and talk to her make her a meal keep busy during the day, this will stop you being bored I am sure there is something you could be doing whilst she is at work show her you trying hun,
I hope you manage to find a job and sort things out babes
All the best hun
Love
Donna x
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