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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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... (read in full...)
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I get so jealous of my boyfriends 3 year old daughter
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I'll give you an example that will sound too dramatic and ... (read in full...)
Why does the creep factor go up the older you get?
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I thought I was his girlfriend? Why did he do this?
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A. 20 July 2010: You don't really get why he is doing so . But he told you ! Because he misses sleeping with you. He appreciates you as a sexual partner.
You also don't get why he did not see you as his Gf after all you had together. Well, from his point of view... (read in full...)
I was so understanding for the 8 months while he was away, but as soon as I got drunk and had a fight he wont stand by me!
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Are married women basically all disloyal, cheaters at heart, ready to do whatever it takes for male attention?
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A. 20 July 2010: It can't be like you say. If all married women cheat - they are cheating with men, right ? And how come all these
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Well, of course ,... (read in full...)
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How long to wait before proposing?
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A. 20 July 2010: This is a rather traditional, old fashioned social etiquette rule but, for what is worth, - here it is :
since an official engagement is the public announcement of your formal committment to marry, the actual wedding should follow within a reas... (read in full...)
How can I stop my period cramps? They are becoming unbearable!
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Feeling like an old married couple... will it end or should I just end it?
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A. 20 July 2010: A MONTHLY shower ?.. Honestly, I don't know how you can cope with that. I could not stand being in the same room with a guy who showers once a month, forget about having sex with him.
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I feel like a fool. Has he changed or was he always like this?
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he has not "changed ", he has always been a user and did not even part... (read in full...)
My love triangle...
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If neither of the ... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex in the bathroom??
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Why does my boyfriend tell me he loves me but does not want me back?
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A. 19 July 2010: Because he is a 20 years old male. At hise age one can at the same time lovea girl ( or think to love her ) and be fascinated by freedom, lack of responsibility and lack of committment. Hanging out with guys, checking out the other girls, not ... (read in full...)
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A. 19 July 2010: So if the one who feels right is oblivious to your needs and he is also not attractive, ...what's so right about him ??... (read in full...)
If he wanted me he'd just after me
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A. 19 July 2010: i'd let him make the first move ,since you know he is a self -confident-, go-getting kind of guy.
You may think that he has not made his move yet in fear of ruining your friendship but I have this theory that this is a mainly female concern. If a... (read in full...)
I want my Turkish boyfriend to come to my country before I move over there!
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A. 19 July 2010: I'd check more in details with the Consulate.
I am in Italy but Italy too is Schengen area as UK is, so it makes sense the policy should be the same.
Here to get in with a tourist visa from certain countries ( including Turkey ) it is true tha... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might be "too strict" in my morals concerning virginity, what should I do?
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A. 19 July 2010: If you believe strongly in something, you don't change your mind because the majority of people around you does not share your ideas.
If you are a true Catholic, you do not convert to Islam just because you go live in an Arab country. If you hate... (read in full...)
Is it better to have someone perfect who feels "wrong" or someone imperfect who feels "right?"
Q. what would you rather have: someone who satisfies and anticipates your every need, but feels "wrong" or someone who makes mistakes and is oblivious to your wants, but feels "right"?...
A. 19 July 2010: Neither one !
The one that feels "wrong"... well, if he feels wrong you cannot force yourself to love him, no matter how caring and considerate he is.
And the one who feels "right "...aw come on, how can possibly someone who is oblivious to your ... (read in full...)
In love with a married man and not sure what to believe!
Q. Hi, I'm in love with a married man and i need to spell it out! At first i didn't know he was married. we dated for 6 months and then i found out he was married. At that time I couldn't even suspect that he was married since he was spending al...
A. 15 July 2010: Hey Q- you are a genius , ( or probably you speak better English than I :)- You said in few words what I really was struggling to explain.
If the wedding is recorded at the county clerk's office - then he can divorce ,( he'll be a sinner for his ... (read in full...)
In love with a married man and not sure what to believe!
Q. Hi, I'm in love with a married man and i need to spell it out! At first i didn't know he was married. we dated for 6 months and then i found out he was married. At that time I couldn't even suspect that he was married since he was spending al...
A. 15 July 2010: You know what Q ? You are just being funny , but here we DO have a choco-chestnut spread that is called precisely Maronite. No disrespect meant , just quirks of the language.... (read in full...)
In love with a married man and not sure what to believe!
Q. Hi, I'm in love with a married man and i need to spell it out! At first i didn't know he was married. we dated for 6 months and then i found out he was married. At that time I couldn't even suspect that he was married since he was spending al...
A. 15 July 2010: No sorry, maybe I am being stubborn but I still think there is some confusion between religion and law.
- Maronite church is in formal communion with Roman Catholic Church since 1182 ! and it is the only Eastern Christian Church to be entirely Cath... (read in full...)
In love with a married man and not sure what to believe!
Q. Hi, I'm in love with a married man and i need to spell it out! At first i didn't know he was married. we dated for 6 months and then i found out he was married. At that time I couldn't even suspect that he was married since he was spending al...
A. 15 July 2010: Things take time because it was a religious marriage ?..
What's that supposed to mean. Divorce puts an ends to the civil effects of marriage,not the religious ones. Therefore it takes exactly the same amount of time terminating a marriage that has ... (read in full...)
She says she's against abortion, but has already had one in the past!
Q. Hi. I have a question with which I desperately need some help. I love my wife very much, but I have found out some information recently that troubles me. I found out, totally by accident, that my wife had an abortion before we met. The thing that ...
A. 29 June 2010: Thank you for your further comments and informations.
You know ?, I'd say let's give your wife the benefit of doubt. It's possible you took her comments more literally than you need ,due to this being a very sensitive issue for you. Many peop... (read in full...)
She says she's against abortion, but has already had one in the past!
Q. Hi. I have a question with which I desperately need some help. I love my wife very much, but I have found out some information recently that troubles me. I found out, totally by accident, that my wife had an abortion before we met. The thing that ...
A. 24 June 2010: Dear OP, you e3plained yourself very well and you raised many valid points in illustrating your position. Obviously you are entitled to your opinions anyway, and then again DC would not be the best venue for a debate about abortio9n.
All I am tryn... (read in full...)
She says she's against abortion, but has already had one in the past!
Q. Hi. I have a question with which I desperately need some help. I love my wife very much, but I have found out some information recently that troubles me. I found out, totally by accident, that my wife had an abortion before we met. The thing that ...
A. 22 June 2010: C.Grant stole my words. I was gonna say that is very easy to be pro or against something in theory,on moral or conceptual grounds. But you reallly don't know the impact that is gonna have personally in your life until it has happened to you and you ... (read in full...)
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