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HAPPY HOLIDAYS, DEARCUPID FAMILY!

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23 December 2009: Hey all RAINORFIRE here just want to say HAPPY HOLIDAYS Wishing everyone the best in the up coming new year, Spend some quality time with the ones that are important in your life live to the fullest and make the best of life. This is t...

Women who need to take control

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21 December 2009: Hello all RAINORFIRE here, OK Thanks to the Blizzard of "09" i had time to write this. The topic is Women who need to take control. There are many post on here where Females are telling the tail of the jerk boyfriend or husband whose ...

Failure and weak men

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21 December 2009: Well hello all Its RAINORFIRE, I felt it is about time I jump into the mix. I have something to talk about, Men who are weak Cheating seems to be a huge issue it always has in relationships then there's the porn, post after post wives ...

I don't want a physical relationship, I want something meaningful.

Q.   I meet this guy well over 1yr ago, we exchanges numbers 3 to 4 months ago. We went on two dates within the last two weeks and basically went all the way last night our third meeting. I’m 26 and at this point in I’m tired of dating for sport. I’m ...

A.   14 July 2009: Life is about second chances and I beleive God forgives. you havnt messed up or thrown anything away just learn from this and try and continue to stick to your beliefs If your really religious and need help i recommended reading the Bible the new ... (read in full...)

23 year old son sleeping with male prostitutes for the "kick". Should I tell his fiancee?

Q.   My 23-year-old son is in university, and lives with us at home (purely for financial reasons - he is otherwise independent). He said to me the other night "Mum, I've got something to confess..." I was expecting it to be something academic-rela...

A.   13 July 2009: WOW im gonna say he told you as a cry out for help other wise he wouldnt have told you i kno plenty of men who have secrets liek this and they havnt told a soul i only kno cause well when your out drinking people slip up plus they tell there boys ... (read in full...)

I come across very confident sexualy but in reality I'm bricking it! Help me

Q.   I'm nervous. I've been seeing this guy and i'm really worried that i'm not going to be enough, sexually. It's embarrassing to admit... You see, he has 8 inches down there, and I'm worried that I won't be able to give him decent oral sex. He told me ...

A.   13 July 2009: UM gonna say if your giving him a BJ he will just be thankfull for the attmept you should just go with the flow and ask him how your doing let him kno your open to tips and learning dont try to be an expert cuse then hell start to wonder why your so ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst I'm asleep

Q.   i really need help! my boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst im asleep. i should explain that i have a medical heart condition that makes me faint quite a lot it also makes me very tired so i have extra naps during the day to prevent b...

A.   13 July 2009: Well i would say talk to him about it ask him why he didnt just ask you if you wanted to have sex maybe he thougth it wouldnt hurt and you wouldnt mind. really theres no excuse he should have asked you but hes only human he made a mistake its up to ... (read in full...)

When I get close to him I get frightened! How do I have sex with him?

Q.   ok well i am goin out wit this guy and yes i wanna have sex so dose he but Idk how to go about it im in my childhood i was bein touch unwillingly and now it seems if i get so close to him i start to breath heavy and get frightened please help me a ...

A.   13 July 2009: Well if you where older id say have a shot of bacardi, but at your age id say stick to red bull and chocolate bars to loosen up a bit there may be no real way to get over that trauma as you said the therapy didnt help but you might be able to work ... (read in full...)

I start bleeding during sex and its starting to scare me. Help

Q.   ok im 19 and im goin out wit this guy he 17 and for some reason i started bleeding during sex is something wrong wit me or is it normal please help its startin to scarre me please...

A.   13 July 2009: WELL if you where a virgin its normal for you to bleed after sex for the first time its possible the session was rugh and tore somehting there can be several reason. Theres nothing wrong with coming to a help website thats what there for everybodies ... (read in full...)

Shouls I ask for her forgiveness and hope she will take me back or leave it?

Q.   I'm so confused about my feelings and think I've made a terrible mistake! I have recently ended a relationship with the most wonderful woman after 2 years! We had a really deep connection and in the beginning the excitement was fantastic as I ...

A.   13 July 2009: HEY MAN THATS Deep honestly i think you should tell her exactly what you wrote in here its up to her to forgive you and give it another try at any rate dont wait another day tell her now before its to late. as for the ejaculation thing that could be ... (read in full...)

First time sex. Underage but how do I come across it with my boyfriend?

Q.   Im ready to have sex with my boyfriend. I know am 'underage' but I have spoken to my bf about it and we are both ready for this kind of commitment. I didnt come on here to be told am to young and i shouldnt be doing it because I KNOW this okay. ...

A.   13 July 2009: UM you can try watching some porn for ideas im guessing if your mother is going to allow you to have sex she wont have a problem with that secondly if shes going to allow you to have sex it probably wouldnt be a big deal to just ask her for some ... (read in full...)

I like this boy but mum doesn't!

Q.   i need some advice, i like some boyy like loads, but my mum is not very keen on him, but i dont know what to do, i want him to be mine, but i also dont wanna loose talking to my mum .. so what will i do :S ? x...

A.   13 July 2009: OK him you kno my cousin a female at the time of 14 yrs old came to me one time and wanted me to convince her mom my aunt to let her date this boy her mother had serious trust/male sex issues she hated men she seemed to like me enough for some ... (read in full...)

He's not as rich or young as my family would like!

Q.   I'm in a relationship with a significate age difference (legal) and a very noticable class difference. If anyone has been in or is in either of these types of relationships, I'd would love any advice on making this easier. Being on the upperclass ...

A.   13 July 2009: You have to think about it like this are you compatible with him and do you beleive he can give you what you want out of life a happy loving relationship is better then having more houses then you can remember and enough yachts to rival carnival... (read in full...)

I keep thinking I'll never see him again, but I can't stop liking him. What should I do?

Q.   I kinda like this guy in my class. The thing is, I'm in China right now. I'm going back to America, but I dont know when. I keep telling myself that I'll nver see him agian in my life, but I can't help liking him. I keep thinking about him before I ...

A.   13 July 2009: Hi your in luck we live in a technologically advanced world where people are just a phone call email webcam or txt msg away. I think you should try and stay in touch with him and be freinds it would be good for both of you he can learn about ... (read in full...)

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