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30-35,
*ois-mcphee
writes:recently i have broke up with my boyfriend who i loved and adored sooo much, but i finished him...i bet your wunderin why, well because i started seaking to a guy on the internet and really fell for him the thing is hes older than i am..my boyfriend has asked me to go back out with him and ive said maybe the thing is whenever i talk to the other guy,he gets jealous and blanks me yet he still wanst to meet me do you think that this guy is worth it??? because im not too sure...
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (14 August 2008):
 honestly, i cannot believe you broke up with a guy you love because of an online fling! i definitely say ex over online dude, for sure!
you don't know who that online person is, what they've done, what they like, how old they are... everything they say to you could be a lie!
please be careful!
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (14 August 2008):
 I have to give you the warning about internet people. You have to be aware that you really don't know them and you aren't too sure if what they tell you is the truth. It's hard enough to tell if someone is telling the truth on person, so how easy would it be for someone to lie on the internet where they're mostly faceless?
I bet you have heard thousands of stories where the girl met her internet lover and ended up regretting it. SPECIALLY at your age.Predators target people at your age, tell you stuff they know you want to hear and are great at faking their age.
So what I will tell you is to not meet this guy, and if you actually decide to do this, do it with someone else, preferably an adult. You can't take chances for your own sake. So take someone to accompany you (preferably a guy) to meet this guy. Make it a double date.
Now, I don't understand how you can say you love and adore your boyfriend yet dumped him for a practically faceless person. You may think that this other guy is awesome and possibly perfect, but in reality you don't know him. That's the harsh truth about the internet. You tend to not really know anybody. Please don't risk yourself for a guy you barely know.
So in my opinion, choose your boyfriend. You have known him more and know more about him and lets face it, the only reason you two broke up was because you got interested in someone else and completely forgot about him. As far as I read, you never complained about him. So why don't you give your boyfriend a chance?
Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.
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