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My real name is obviously NOT Phoebe Halliwell and no, I'm not Alyssa Milano either, though it'd be awesome if I were. I chose this name (Phoebe Halliwell) because she's a strong character and has been through some tough times in love herself, coming out stronger and still believing.
I'm young, single and live in the UK. I don't have any form of qualification, just a big heart and the occassional spare moment!
I have a pretty open mind and can relate to a lot of people. I'm the right side of 25 and have had some serious ups and downs! I'm just here to give you guys a fresh pair of eyes on a situation that seems to have no solution, sometimes that's all you need :)
Peace,
Phoebe
*NOTE* I'm going back to school for a while to try and change my career path. This means I won't be answering as quickly as I usually do but will still accept private e-mails from those seeking my advice. |
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All people see are my FF breasts, they forget im a person!! How can I get people to see that im more than my boobs!
Q. I'm a girl, who i feel, is intellegent and has a great personality the problem is a men (and sometimes girls) don't seem to be able to get past the size of my chest. I am a natural FF cup and it really gets me down people automatically assume i'm a ...
A. 11 August 2006: Hey,
why don't you show people that you're not stupid by doing something only really clever people can do, like getting a university degree if you havent already got one or becoming something really sucessfull like a buissness woman?
I know thi... (read in full...)
I have hair in certain places and wondered if this was normal ?
Q. Hair problem! I am a 15 year old girl with a problem....hair! I have a boyfriend and seem to get a lot of good attention from boys and have never considered myself ugly. however, i just seem to have a lot of hair in places i wasnt sure girls should ...
A. 11 August 2006: Hey,
don't worry. it's completely normal. I bet every girl feels in doubt about her body at some time in her life! And what's more, I bet you're not ugly at all!
Hope this helped,
phoebe
xxx... (read in full...)
Hes had over 100 one night stands!! But Im obsessed with the one before we hooked up ....
Q. Why am I obsessing over the boyfriends one night stand? I found out he had a one night stand when we first met but before anything happened between us. It's really not that unusual, this was the final one night stand of over 100! I can't get this ...
A. 11 August 2006: Hey,
first off - when you both met and nothing had developed at first - he hadn't seen any sparks, therefore, to him, a one night stand wasn't cheating cos you hadn't hooked up but you may have felt something then and not noticed that you were feel... (read in full...)
How can I put my pride aside?
Q. How do I Put my pride aside n have sex with a boy ive been spending alot of time with lately?. Im 18, hes 20. I'm horny but I dont want him 2 think i'm easy! He has alredy asked me 2 b his girlfriend but I sed i didnt wanna rush things. Wot Should I ...
A. 11 August 2006: Hey,
well you should have sex until you feel you're 100% ready. Being horny doesn't mean you're ready to have sex, it just means you want to!
If you don't want him to think you're easy, how about playing hard-to-get? Make him want you more, by... (read in full...)
Need help in getting over my ex!
Q. How do I get over someone I dumped 4 weeks ago? We'd only been seeing each other for 3 months but he became lazy and dismissive and closed quite quickly, and I got angry with him all the time. However, the sexual attraction was incredible at first ...
A. 11 August 2006: Hey,
people do blank eachother when they break up - it's like slamming an invisible door in their face.They simply think that they don't talk to each other it will be easier to move on - but it's not.
Well - getting over someone can be a painfull... (read in full...)
Is this normal behaviour when you break up ?
Q. I have to ask if how my girlfriend broke up with me is normal or if she was acting spiteful. When we broke up I went round to her house (just to like say goodbye) but she wasn't in (as far as I know). I asked the neighbour when she'd be back but...
A. 11 August 2006: Hey,
first off - you havent mentioned the following:
1) who dumped who?
2) how?
3) why?
4) how long had you been going out?
I'm guessing you dumped her, right? She was deeply emotionally attatched to you. I'm betting you dumping her came as ... (read in full...)
The boy I like is giving me mixed signals! Help!
Q. Help: I recently went out with this boy about a month ago when we split after a week. I still think and dream about him and really like him. He says he has a girlfriend now and it hurts inside but he asked me out again which is giving me mixed ...
A. 11 August 2006: Hey,
well, you havent mentioned why you split after that week. Maybe he got scared? Some boys do, the thought of him actually truly liking a girl gives him a flash-back to the first ever game he played of "spin the bottle!" You just have to be pati... (read in full...)
Bickering with my pal is getting me down
Q. Me and me best friend have been best friends for...about... 8 months now nd were 14 but we are very mature and act about 16 most people say.. lately we have the most pathetic niggles at each other though. we are very very close! and i know it sounds ...
A. 5 August 2006: Hey,
I think the reason why you start bickering with each other is either that you have different opions on things or that you are getting so exactly like each-other. Me and my gran work the same way. We are very alike but drive each-other up the ... (read in full...)
Is he just my friend or does he want to hook up???
Q. I've recently fallen in love with this boy who has been my friend for about a year and i think he fancies me too. He was really depressed a few days ago becuse he asked someone out and they said no and i spent along time comforting him via txt. I ...
A. 31 July 2006: Hey,
loads of people get into your position. And many regret either taking the risk or not. There is only one way to find out! I'd take the risk - love wouldn't be love if we didn't! Why don't you ask him out? If he says no, he says no and you'... (read in full...)
Is there hope, or are we broken up forever?
Q. I was with a my ex for about a year. We had our up's and downs together of course. I knew her for years and our families know each other as well. She was dating my friend for a while and we became very good friends. We ended up confessing our feel...
A. 22 July 2006: Hey,
well you need to ask yourself WHY she broke up with you if she was so in love with you. Maybe she met someone else? Maybe she fell out of love with you?!
If she means that much to you then of course you keep trying - how would you feel lat... (read in full...)
Everyone is enjoying summer... Except me!
Q. Just wanted to rant and get it off my chest. I feel like everyone in my uni are enjoying their holidays except for me. I have to resit an exam, so have to revise over the summer. Everyone seems like they are doing something- all the time, going ...
A. 22 July 2006: Hey,
why don't you try balancing out relaxing and revising time? don't ignore your revision - but try to break it down to something like two hours a day at least? Then you have the rest of the day to enjoy yourself And you can revise!
Unfor... (read in full...)
I really lack confidence and fear that I am really not meant for love!!!
Q. I am not that very confident in my appearance and it affects me with guys and if I have a interest in a guy I will just ignore it and say "Well he wouldn't want me anyways" but I really wouldn't know. I also have a hard time talkin to them if I ...
A. 15 July 2006: Hey LoneSum,
well you have to understand that you've got to take some risks and leaps of faith if you want to find somebody. There is a perfect mathc for everyone out there, you just need to get looking instead of waiting around for him to come to y... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm almost forcing my boyfriend to have sex!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost five years. We have been living together for over a year and I love him very much. BUT he is almost totally disinterested in sex. I want to do it all the time and it's got to the point now where I feel like ...
A. 15 July 2006: Hey,
maybe he just feels that it's not right? Maybe you should talk to him about it? It'll feel weird but you need to understand how he's feeling so that you can address that situation properly without just charging in there and demanding to know... (read in full...)
How should I ask this lad out?
Q. Dear cupid I need some help with choosening to ask this lad out that I really like what should I do I need help really bad his mates tell me that he wants to go out but I always think he is joking should I make the first move I am scared of what he ...
A. 15 July 2006: Hey,
well. Love wouldn't be love (or teen years) without you getting hurt. If you want to find someone then be prepared for a bumpy road! If it turns out he is a joke and he says no, it's his loss. He'll probably soon see what he's missing.
Go Fo... (read in full...)
Current boyfriend vs ex-boyfriend, who do I pick?
Q. Dear agony aunts, I have a boyfriend who isn't afraid or shy and an ex-boyfriend who I also have feelings for. But I don't know what to do about current boyfriend or ex I so confused! what can i do? x...
A. 15 July 2006: Hey,
well try and seperate them in your mind. Why is your ex your ex? Doesn't that tell you something? Why is your boyfriend your boyfriend? Possibly write down the pro's and cons about them and try and think how happy you are with each of them and ... (read in full...)
I need some freedom from my parents' opinions!
Q. My parents don't approve of me dating my current boyfriend. I am 17 and he is 19. For some reason they have a big problem with that and always bring it up when they fight with me about him. He is the love of my life...and I'm not just saying that! ...
A. 9 July 2006: Hey,
I'm afraid there is no easy quick fix option here. It's all going to take some time. I know it's fustrating - trust me, I've been there. But just stop and see it from their point of veiw for a second, their little, baby girl of only 17 is dati... (read in full...)
Renewed feelings for my ex are troubling me
Q. Hi, Lately i have started to see my ex again after not talking for 3 years and now we have feelings for each other. He makes me so happy and has asked me to go out with him again but no matter how much i want to or how he makes me feel i know ...
A. 8 July 2006: Hey,
you are probably not as messed up as you think you are. I think that the reason you had/have feelings for your ex again is that you say you didn't talk for three years, so ask yourself, were you really over him? Or is this just all of your old ... (read in full...)
14 and found "the one".... Until she broke it off
Q. Im kinda young (14), but i think i have found "the one". we went out for 4 months, and we were really happy together. Everyday we would talk in some way. but the last day of school she broke up with me because she is going through some tough ti...
A. 8 July 2006: Hey,
why don't you talk to your ex and say that you really don't feel she should be going through these tough times alone? Why don't you say that even though she's in California you can work things through together and she doesn't have to deal with... (read in full...)
Do I have a chance with my text-message-guy?
Q. well, i have a crush on a senior in college. at first i SMS him anonymously in september 2004 but later i introduced myself by showing my picture in Friendster. i think it went quite well. when i first SMS him, he already had a girlfriend. then, we ...
A. 4 July 2006: Hey,
well he wants to know you. He gave up his free time to see you. I'd say go for it, you like him, it's obvious he likes you. (And even more obvious if he payed for your coffee!)
How old are you? Have you known him for long?
I'd just meet hi... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I love him?
Q. The guy I´ve been dating has just moved to Italy for 6 months. I´m in love with him, but haven´t told him. If he asked me I would go there to be with him. should I talk to him???...
A. 4 July 2006: Hey,
well, obviously this guy needs to know how you feel or you may wind up feeling guilty for the whole 6 months he's gone and he may have got himself an Italien girlfriend to boot.
You havent mentioned in your post whether you know him well, ho... (read in full...)
What shall I do about my predicament?
Q. Should I let the guy that may be the man of my dreams go? We´ve been together 1 month and now he´s going to Italy to work (from Spain). I´m 22 and feel that if I let this relationship go I will regret it later, should I tell him how i feel??...
A. 2 July 2006: Hey,
of course you tell him how you feel. There are several ways it could go. You tell him how you feel and ...
1) He feels the same way, doesn't go to Italy for work and you live happily ever after
2) He feels the same way, still goes to work... (read in full...)
What I do about my crush?
Q. I'm 16. For about 8 months I had this crush on a guy. I never talked to him, but when my friends and I would see him in the hall at school we'd do things that probably made him figure one of us liked him. In the meantime, I was kinda friends with ...
A. 2 July 2006: Hey,
he probably likes you for who you are and was too nervous to ask you out before. I'd just be yourself and go for it! This is the chance you've been waiting for, he wants to get to know you so let him know the real you. Chances are, you'll hit ... (read in full...)
How do I get a man to like me for more than looks
Q. I know a man whom I am deeply attracted to both physically and to him as a person. However, though he is just as attracted to me physically,( He has made this clear for the past two years now but I haven't done anything about it as i know he would...
A. 1 July 2006: Hey,
well michelle. First off - you know he likes you, which is a good thing to know if you're trying to get someone to notice you and want to know you. Why don't you get your mates to ask him questions about you and see how well he actually does... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and............. hate my family!
Q. Im 13 and I hate my family so much.Everyone else my age really likes their family but I hate mine.I can't stand to be in the same room as them!When Im watching telly and a family member comes in I just get up and watch telly in the kitchen.I hate ...
A. 1 July 2006: Hey,
I used to feel the exact same way. Still do sometimes. I think you just want to be you - the person you are and the way you want to be and you feel that maybe your fsmily are leaving you out? Maybe you just wish they were different? Maybe you ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions for gifts to send my army boyfriend?
Q. i dont know if this a suitable question for this site or if any1 will be able to help me but my bf has recently joined the army, im really struggling to deal with it and i finding it hard to show him support. i have found that sending him little ...
A. 28 June 2006: Hey,
why don't you send him maybe and action man and try and Find a Barbie that looks like you? Or a photo of you in some army gear? Try and send him something that not only reminds him of the lust, but of the connection you both have. WHy don'... (read in full...)
Really worried about dating at 14
Q. hey um im a 14 yr old girl n ive had quite a few relationships in my time..okay it sounds stupid as im only young but every time im in love with someone n going out with them, im really shy n nervous.. if they say lets go out or something, i get re...
A. 25 June 2006: Hi,
I'm afraid to say that I can't just wave a magic wand. I really wish I could but the only way that you're going to be more confident is to learn from expierience. Go on more dates and gain more conifdence. They're going out with you beca... (read in full...)
How do I get over this lad!
Q. i have asked this lad out because we get on well and i reali like him but he saidd no becasue hes moving so far away from me and i know he likes me so how do i get him because i love him i really do i cant stop thinking about him, and i dont ...
A. 24 June 2006: Hi,
there is no certain way to get a guy's attention. Maybe your mates could talk to his mates and sort of ... puch you two together? I know it sounds weird but it worked for me and my mates say we are meant to be togther we just needed a litt... (read in full...)
Why doesn't this boy want people knowing about us!
Q. hi, i go to the park every week with my sister and we met some boys there and we got to know them. we have all now been going to the park together every week for a year. recently the one i fancied asked me out and i said yes. but he said "lets keep ...
A. 23 June 2006: Hi,
of course he's not ashamed of you!
He's probably just embarresed because either none of his mates have got a girlfriend or that you're his first girlfriend. I'll bet he's really nervous about them meeting you because he wants them to like you... (read in full...)
When am I supposed to hug him and hold his hand?
Q. how do i know like ... when im supposed to hug him and hold his hand . i never know when its suitable and when he wants me to .?...
A. 22 June 2006: Hi,
do it when you're comfortable with it, don't do things cos you think he'll like it.
Good luck,
Phoebe
xxx... (read in full...)
I need more confidence as I can't talk properly around girls. Is this normal?
Q. i know this is going to sound weird, but how do i put my confidence up as i get shy around girls and the girls in school say im ugly n etc. is this because i do not have good self confidence or is it they like me but they do not want to let me know. ...
A. 22 June 2006: Hi,
of course this is normal!
It just shows you care which is much appreciated in many girls who want to be treated right.
It's very sweet, the onees who speak confidently to girls are the ones with Ego's the size of Calcutter who think they c... (read in full...)
Boy I like..smokes... should I still go after him?
Q. hi people theres this boy who I want to go out with and he says he dosent know but i have seen him today with a cigarette in his hand and i dont know whether to tell him forget about it or ask him for an answer i need help!!!! tnx frm sxi-blondie...
A. 21 June 2006: Hi
I think it depends what this boy is like. Is he likely to carry on smoking? If he smokes around you it could put you in danger, was he just trying a ciggarette? Is he likely to give up for you?
It's fine to go out with him as long as he doesn... (read in full...)
What is love, and how do I know if I am in it?
Q. How do you know your in love? I realy do think i love this boy i think about him 24/7 butterflies in stomach when i speak to him and i light up when i see him i cnt seem to eat or sleep and i tlk about him all the time and think about him i still ...
A. 19 June 2006: Hi,
Love is what you just decribed it to be!
Go For The Guy!!!!!!
In Love!
Blessed Be,
Phoebe
xx... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time with this mixed feelings girl!!
Q. i have a girl who alwalys has mixed feelings am i wasting my time and move to another girl...
A. 19 June 2006: Hi,
you havent included how you feel when she talks to you or anything like that. More info if possible.
If you feel you like her, just even a little bit, don't loose her.
Phoebe
xxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to french kiss but i don't know how.
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and I have never french kissed a boy before. I have a boyfriend and he wants to french kiss me but I can't because I don't know how to. So if anyone has any tip on how to learn to french kiss i would be very happy to recieve them. Th...
A. 18 June 2006: Hi, ok, this is the basic outline of a french kiss,to you and your boyfriend it will probably all come naturally! When you’ve got used to his kissing techniques, try adding tongues. Your mum might call this a French kiss, but probably best to... (read in full...)
Will the prom still be speical without me dancing with the girl I care for.
Q. I'm 16 and I have my prom coming up... I'm going to it but I'm not looking forward to it as much as everyone else is. The reason is I don't really like any girls in our school because I really like a girl outside of school. So what can I look ...
A. 18 June 2006: Hi, is there a reason you can't take this girl to the Prom? Has she got a boyfriend or is it just those annoying rules? If you care for her that much get an extra ticket and ask her! Make it special for her too. You'll just end up going home and... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend girly nights out really her way of cheating on me.
Q. My girlfriend has been with me for almost a year, everything has been going fine until the last few weeks when she always goes out at least 3 times a week. She never takes her phone up and says she will meet me in the morning not after shes been to ...
A. 18 June 2006: Hi, Maybe your girlfriend is going through a bit of a rough time at the minute that she doesn't want you to know about? Sometimes we all just need a break from things. If she was cheating on you, she wouldn't take her phone, and she probably wou... (read in full...)
Never been kissed, and I'm 19. I want to learn to be more confident with guys!
Q. hi, I'm 19 years old, and have never had a boyfriend or even been kissed. I would say I'm quite attractive but extremely shy when it comes to guys I fancy, except in a social setting though. How can I become more confident? I really do want to ...
A. 18 June 2006: Hi,
you're not meant to find guys, they're meant to find you!
Start going out one night at the weekend, social places and meeting friends, this gets you used to being out places - work it into your routine, like breathing!
Next, before you g... (read in full...)
I want to know if my boyfriend loves me
Q. hi i am 15 and i have this really nice boy friend and i love him very much but i dont know if he loves me so how would i know if he loves me? we get on really well but i just dont know if he loves me ? so if any one can help me i would be happy ...
A. 18 June 2006: Hi,
Well in your post, you havent given us lot much to go on. You are 15 - so Chances are, you won't know what love is anyway. You'll get excited about a relationship and think "OMG! It's true love!" I did, we all probably have and will.
If he... (read in full...)
How do I sort out my problems with my BF?
Q. hi.i hav a 10 month old baby and not with her dad.i met a guy a few weeks back and we've become close and we want to be together.his ex is 4 months pregnanyt though.he says he doesnt love her and that it was only a sexual relationship.she's ...
A. 18 June 2006: Hi,
well you obviously know your boyfriend wants to be with you - and only you. Which is a great start to a realtionship. But you have to remember that his ex wants her Baby to have a Daddy, she wants him for the interest of her child. Why don'... (read in full...)
i'm the green eyed monster
Q. hi i am so not confident and its really gettin me down cos im so jelous of other girls. if i look at a girl an shes pretty or wearin nice clothes then i am SO jelous of her! when i look in the mirror i just think, i want to be pretty even though i ...
A. 17 June 2006: Hi,
you're jealous because you've put yourself down so much and have got it into your head that everyone's better than you, you have made yourself almost paranoid about the way you look! There is a garantee that SOMEONE in the world admires you.... (read in full...)
Sweet 15 and never been kissed!
Q. hi i am 15 and i have never kissed a boy before. I have a boyfriend but we have not kissed yet.We have not been going out very long. if any one has any tip on how to be a good kisser i would like to konw because i dont wont to mess up the first time ...
A. 17 June 2006: Hi,
ok, here to help!
You may feel you’ve seen enough tv tongue action to get a GCSE in snogging. But kissing someone for the first time can be pretty darn nerve-wracking.
The main thing to remember is that kissing is natural - you’ll be amazed ho... (read in full...)
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