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writes: hey um im a 14 yr old girl n ive had quite a few relationships in my time..okay it sounds stupid as im only young but every time im in love with someone n going out with them, im really shy n nervous..if they say lets go out or something, i get really worried n cant relaxplse can u help me..i need help NOW!!thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks 4 ur answers guys! i really appreciate it :D
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reader, Smiler +, writes (25 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
You are at a very tender age at the minute honey and yeah i agree with phoebe on this the only way you are gonna gain your confidence is by going out on more dates having lots of fun and gaining your experience, you have plenty of time to live your life an stress in the future right now you should just enjoy your life to the full and have plenty of fun :o)
I hope my advice was of some help to you sweetie :o) good luck ok... If you ever need someone to talk to or just a shoulder to cry on or maybe a little more advice, truely i'm always here for you ok :o)
You Take Care Babe And Good Luck X
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (25 June 2006):
 Hi,
I'm afraid to say that I can't just wave a magic wand. I really wish I could but the only way that you're going to be more confident is to learn from expierience. Go on more dates and gain more conifdence. They're going out with you because they like you for who you are, not who you could be.
Hope this Helped,
Phoebe
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reader, Shazmart +, writes (25 June 2006):
Hi there, I'm sure that your nervous feelings are all down to desperately wanting to impress the person that you're with. Try to remind yourself that these people you are dating obviously like you for the person you are and so you have no reason to not be yourself. A person who is right for you will accept you JUST as you are. Relax and have fun- you've got years of great dates ahead of you!
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reader, lucy +, writes (25 June 2006):
aww bless you hunny. dont wrorry i know exactly how you feel, a relationship can be a really nerve racking thing! i think you've just got to think about it alot if a guy asks you out, and if he's really all that great then after a while things will just come so naturally with him that you won't feel any need to be nervous. It doesn't matter if you are shy or nervous at first cos loads of girls are like this, me included, but after a while the real you will shine when you feel more relaxed with the guy. i hope this helps xxx
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