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writes: My girlfriend has been with me for almost a year, everything has been going fine until the last few weeks when she always goes out at least 3 times a week. She never takes her phone up and says she will meet me in the morning not after shes been to the pub because its a girly night out. Do you think she is cheating on me or am i been paranoid? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): ive been going out with my bf for over 2years, i turned 18 a couple of months back and ever since then i go out with my mates all of the time 2-3 times a week, my bf got jealous and thought i was cheating on him but i really wasnt it was just im 18 and this is what 18 year olds do, my bf and my mates get on but dont know each other that well, so when he comes out i feel that i cant do what i want i have to check he is ok all the time, check it is ok for me to go to the toilet or the bar or dance i dont mind doing this but not every time i go out, my point is im sure she loves you but she may just need to spend sometime with her mates and having your bf with you doesnt always make it the most exciting of nights, if you are really worried ask her why she is going out all the time but she might think you dont trust hope i help xXx
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reader, raerae +, writes (18 June 2006):
 hiya, No this just means that she want to spend time with her mates and wants to take a break. She probably wants to make sure she still has her mates especailly if she needs advice or just needs to catch up on girly gossip. so don't worry while shes doing that spend some time with your mates have a nice night out. It's nice to have a break. Hope this helps xxx
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (18 June 2006):
 Hi,Maybe your girlfriend is going through a bit of a rough time at the minute that she doesn't want you to know about?Sometimes we all just need a break from things. If she was cheating on you, she wouldn't take her phone, and she probably wouldn't tell you she was going out somewhere. I'd just let her have a bit of fun. If it turns out she is cheating, then she's not good enough for you. Hope this helped and gave you some re-assurance!Phoebexxx
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