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I love helping people and i'm also a peer mentor at my school. I live in the UK and as you can probably guess by my username i'm a fan of charmed.

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I've been medically suggested not to wear contact lenses but I need them to impress a friend. Also, what to do about my sickness?

Q.   I'm just gonna apologize in advance for how long this is. My situation doesn't have too much to do with relationships but I didn't know where else to ask. So, to start off, let me give a little bit of information about myself. I just turned 1...

A.   26 February 2009: I know this sounds like the obvious answer, but I think you should give your glasses a go. I used to wear contacts all day every day. My optician said that I should wear them less because I was developing "abnormal vessel growth" in one eye (bas... (read in full...)

How do I keep up in this fast paced world?

Q.   I feel so stressed right now. The world is moving so quickly, everything passes by like a blur and I find it so hard to keep up. I hate living in this world of deadlines where I drop behind and fall down. It's all getting too much for me and I just ...

A.   26 February 2008: I'm 15 bu the way... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Call for new volunteer moderators (please read carefully)

Q.   Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING! Moderators approve new questions, think up of interesting and accurate titles and approve/reject a...

A.   15 June 2007: hey i'd love to help out this site has been such a help to me ... (read in full...)

Feel scared of loving... any help?

Q.   Can anyone tell me why do I feel so scared of loving another person? Is it because I have been hurt before? How should I go about solving this problem?...

A.   11 June 2007: It could either be because you have been hurt by love before or you have seen someone else been hurt by love and you're scared it might happen to you. You need to talk to someone, telling a friend or relative could help you deal with this and maybe ... (read in full...)

Why is there no interest?

Q.   I'm 13, and really like quite a few boys. I'm good friends with most of them, and flirt loads with them. I'm told by lots of people that I'm gorgeous, and that i've got a lovely personality. But why haven't I had any interest from them? Please he...

A.   11 July 2006: I think that if lots of people say you're gorgeous, you're bound to have a load of secret admirers out there somewhere! I reckon one or two of these guys you like might like you back but they may be too afraid to let you know in case they're afraid ... (read in full...)

My daughter is dating a much older man. What should I do?

Q.   Recently I found out that my 15-year-old daughter is is dating a 46-year-old man. She's not planning to marry him or anything; just dating him. However, the 31-year age gap makes me shiver; I fear that this guy is up to no good. How do I bro...

A.   27 April 2006: You're the adult here- tell her you don't want her seeing someone 31 years older than her he's old enough to be her dad and is probably up to no good.... (read in full...)

I'm 12 and pregnant! HELP!

Q.   I am only 12 and i am pregnant.Me and my boyfreind wo is 13 nearly 14 used protection but it split.Only me and him no but i need to no what to do.PLEASE HELP!(i have gone a few weeks)...

A.   31 March 2006: At 12 you are very young to be pregnant. Firstly, you need to tell an adult you trust and decide whether or not you want to keep the baby. I strongly advise you not to as it will affect your life a lot, I myself have a baby sister and she is a LOT ... (read in full...)

Wanted: Your views on DearCupid.org

Q.   Hi everyone Thought I would introduce myself. My name is Andrew and I'm the guy who runs this site... Yes, it is just a one-man-band! I'm looking for ideas on what new features to add to the site and want YOUR input. I am thinking of the ...

A.   8 March 2006: hi i just wanted to say thanks for the site its really good and gives people a chance to help other people with their problems. I think a discussion board and user to user email would both be really good to add to the site! Keep up the good work... (read in full...)

He kissed me, but also my friend.....does he really like me?

Q.   There is this guy that i really like and i know that he likes me, we have kissed. i know that he is a bit of a player and i dont want to get hurt. I am a virgin and i know that he is very experienced and i don't know if he just wants sex. I do ...

A.   8 March 2006: my guess is he was just playing with you and doesn't want to get into a proper relationship just yet. Hold back and see if he does anything to show that he genuinley likes you, but be careful you don't get hurt if you decidee to give it a go.... (read in full...)

How do I ask her out without being the laughing stock!?

Q.   Hi. Im 12 and this girl i like is 13 (She is only a few months older.) well anyway, she is really really pretty, and i want to ask her out. The only trouble being that i am scared she will reject me, and will tell her mates and i will be a laughin ...

A.   7 March 2006: I think you should drop a few hints around her and flirt with her a little to find out if she likes you. if all goes well then you should go for it and ask her out. just be yourself around her and don't be scared of rejection. It doesn't matt... (read in full...)

I wanted to go on a break, but now I'm worried he don't want a relationship with me

Q.   okay i have to admit i'm highly dramatic for person. just yesterday i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should go on a break. i thought it was best because i think i try to be my own person again and he needs to figure out what he wants, how he ...

A.   7 March 2006: If your boyfriend wasn't a caring enough person to let you go on a break, he doesn't deserve you. I won't tell you what to do but follow your heart, you deserve someone who will let you do what you want and let you decide if you need a break.... (read in full...)

My ex contacted me, but says she doesn't love me?

Q.   Hi my ex-girlfreind contacted me on the 17th Feb of this year after 8 years, that's when we split up and we went out. now everthing was going fine till last friday i took her out for a meal, later the same evening i received a text from her. "i ...

A.   7 March 2006: Don't worry, she's probably still dealing with the issues she had in the past and whatever the reason is she broke up with you, she thought it might have changed. I think you should get over her and find someone who won't mess you around like this.... (read in full...)

Should I be rid of him? Or am I over-reacting?

Q.   should i get rid of him? i think this guy is messing me around. he tells me first that he likes me and i like him too. so yesterday we get together and he tells me he wants a relationship. so i said yes and then he text me yesterday saying that he ...

A.   7 March 2006: yes, totally you should get rid of him. he's just playing with you and stringing you along. You deserve someone better than him.... (read in full...)

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