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writes: How do I get over someone I dumped 4 weeks ago? We'd only been seeing each other for 3 months but he became lazy and dismissive and closed quite quickly, and I got angry with him all the time. However, the sexual attraction was incredible at first and this is what I can't get out of my head. Also, why do people have to blank each other when they split up. Surely it's easier to say hello if you meet at a bar than avoid each other?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): me and my partner have split up, i have his door key and he wont let me return it,, can you tell me why,
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (11 August 2006):
 Hey,
people do blank eachother when they break up - it's like slamming an invisible door in their face.They simply think that they don't talk to each other it will be easier to move on - but it's not.
Well - getting over someone can be a painfull process. First off - Have a good cry - get it all out of your system. It's a very small but effective first step.
Next - I'd gather all the memories you have of him in your head and shut a door on them. Chuck them away - lock them up and forget about them, he's history. If you dwell on the past it leaves no time for the present or the future.
You have to face your demons, or they'll just come back and bite you in the behind. Day by day, it will get easier and gradually, he'll fade out of your life - but don't rush it, if you rush to get him out of your life it'll probably take longer!
Hope this helped you and good luck!
Phoebe
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