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My real name is obviously NOT Phoebe Halliwell and no, I'm not Alyssa Milano either, though it'd be awesome if I were. I chose this name (Phoebe Halliwell) because she's a strong character and has been through some tough times in love herself, coming out stronger and still believing.
I'm young, single and live in the UK. I don't have any form of qualification, just a big heart and the occassional spare moment!
I have a pretty open mind and can relate to a lot of people. I'm the right side of 25 and have had some serious ups and downs! I'm just here to give you guys a fresh pair of eyes on a situation that seems to have no solution, sometimes that's all you need :)
Peace,
Phoebe
*NOTE* I'm going back to school for a while to try and change my career path. This means I won't be answering as quickly as I usually do but will still accept private e-mails from those seeking my advice. |
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My best friend flipped out because I danced with this guy!
Q. If I danced with a guy who asked me then why did my best friend flip out? Right after our dance was over she said "don't tell me u like him." Why wouldn't she let me decide on my own? He really likes another girl but that girl likes another guy so ...
A. 4 November 2006: Hey,
well first off - not to point out the bad in this, but there is a TINY chance your friend could have been jealous. However, now we;ve got that lil detail outta the way, let's think about your problem for a second.
I'd say just check it out... (read in full...)
I keep getting mixed messages from my ex. What should I do?
Q. My bf and I broke up in August and basically had no contact for 2 months..I only saw him once and he only called me once (he ignored all my attempts). Our breakup was primarily because of our distance apart and being busy and dealing w/other non ...
A. 4 November 2006: Hey,
there is only one thing to say to your problem - short and sweet honey. He left you for a reason, move on. He left you, it's his loss. You obviously deserve better!
xxPhoebexx... (read in full...)
I want to be more than friends with him! How do I do this?
Q. There is this guy in my art class who I have gotten feelings for. He is athletic, funny, sweet and artistic. We only really talk in that class but I see him in the halls. He is single and so am I. His last gf cheated on him. I wanted to go to ...
A. 4 November 2006: Hey,
I agree with Jadzia 1127. Be friends first, then start hanging out together casually (eg - at a party) then like, meet up somewhere and just hang around the two of you. Really get to know him, he may just fall in love with you. And when you ... (read in full...)
I like this guy I met at a dance, but my friend says he loves someone else! I don't know what to do!
Q. At our school homecoming dance I danced with Adi a guy friend of Paul an aquataince of mine. Adi doesn't go to my school and I had never met him before, but he asked me to dance so why not. My close, friend Natalia is also friends with Paul and ...
A. 4 November 2006: Hey,
well first off - not to point out the bad in this, but there is a TINY chance your friend could have been jealous. However, now we;ve got that lil detail outta the way, let's think about your problem for a second. He asked You to dance, He coul... (read in full...)
Wiil the age gap scare this girl away?
Q. i fancy this 14yr old girl. im 16. wen i get to know her more i will ask her out. if she does'nt like me will this scare her away? i mean i'm not sure if she has even thought about me! we only met for 3 hours on a mates birthday so far! but after i ...
A. 25 October 2006: Again, following your follow up (lol) if your friends can't cope with you being happy...what's their problem? If you are happy they should support you, talk to them and find out WHY such a tiny age gap is a problem. Have they ever Tlaked to this ... (read in full...)
My heart hit the floor when I saw my husband's profile on AdultFriendFinder!
Q. I got home from work last night and i was trying to find a wed site i was at the other day, so I went into the "history" part of the computer and found that my husband signed up for adultfriendfinder.com and alt.com, is he thinking about cheating on ...
A. 25 October 2006: Hey,
well, first of all, before anyone can answet his problem, we need to know all the facts. Has he been acting strangely around you? Maybe he was looking on it for a friend? I wouldn't jump to conclusions, that's how fights start. Think of reas... (read in full...)
I really like this girl but I don't think she is that keen!!!
Q. hi im 15 and i really like this girl we see each other regularly and we often kiss but we dont get on well when we go out with each other. i really want ot have sex with her but i dont think she i that keen. Any help please ...
A. 23 October 2006: Hey,
well, first off, you are legally underage to have sex. If she's not that keen, then she probably won't want to have sex anyway. You havent mentoined why you think you don't get on well when you go out with eachother. Are you too simular? Too ... (read in full...)
Since he came back to me he has changed!
Q. My man and I have been together for the last 17 months we have split many times mainly over my drinking but the last time i went on a bender was around 6 wks ago when i found out he posted him and me on a few sexual sites without my knowledge he has ...
A. 22 October 2006: Hey,
first of all, well done about doing something about your drinking and depression. It shows that you know you want to change and become a better, happier person - good for you!
Have you ever thought maybe someone has talked to him or somethin... (read in full...)
They all seem to be trying to split us up...I'm 16 he's 13!
Q. Hey guys im 16 and ive got a bit of a problem. for starters everyone is trying to split me and my boyfriend up because he's 13 and i no that sounds bad but we had a long chat about it and were not going to get too seriouse becasue of the ...
A. 22 October 2006: Hey,
my advice to you would just be to take things really slowly. Does he look you in the eye when he tells you he loves you? If yes, then there's nothing to worry about. If no, then he's probably just nervous, because you're a little older he must... (read in full...)
Wiil the age gap scare this girl away?
Q. i fancy this 14yr old girl. im 16. wen i get to know her more i will ask her out. if she does'nt like me will this scare her away? i mean i'm not sure if she has even thought about me! we only met for 3 hours on a mates birthday so far! but after i ...
A. 22 October 2006: Hey,
no, i don't think it's that much of an age gap. It's two years! My parents are 9 years apart,small age gaps like 2 years hardly make a difference for some couples. I like the idea of a 16 year old boy wanting to get to Know the girl before he a... (read in full...)
How can I show her that I value our friendship?
Q. what can i do to show my 16year old very close best female friend that i care and value our friendship? lots of idea's or suggestions please!...
A. 8 October 2006: Hey,
I'm sure if you treat her as a proper friend she has not doubts that you value your friendship with her. David Lewis is right, unlike boys girl do notice small things, maybe a friendship card is a good idea, or most girl like those Me-t... (read in full...)
Just found out my Marine BF is being sent to Iraq in 2 days!! I don't know what to do. Please help.
Q. ok here is the deal my boyfriend who I have been with for about a year graduated from the Marines two months ago and said that he signed up for the reserves but they are making him go to Iraq anyway and he leave in 2 DAYS!! I dont really know how I ...
A. 8 October 2006: Hey,
well first, I would support your boyfriend. It's probably hard for him leaving too. You should be honoured, think about it like this, he's not fighting for the Marines, he's fighting for you - his girl. Feel better?
Act normally around h... (read in full...)
Should I give her space, or try to win her attention back?
Q. I need help... I mean badly. My girlfriend she used to be so into me and she would be like so happy to see me and calls me in the morning to say good morning and now she doesn't do it anymore. She usually smiles alot when I'm around and wants to ...
A. 8 October 2006: Hey,
a sticky situation. I wouldn't try to win her attention back, not yet anyway. I's tone it down a bit, not stay away from her completely but just give her a little more room. She might be going through something or working through something pers... (read in full...)
Just what happened to our relationship?
Q. My ex and I broke up about a month ago. Things hadn't been good for about 5 months prior to the break-up. I found out he had a myspace account he had been hiding from me and has it set as private so I can't even view it. There were also alot of ...
A. 8 October 2006: Hey,
if he's around other girls, dumped you out of the blue and then can suddenly ditch his commitment ideas I say move on. He obviously can't value you enough to break up with your properly and give a valid reason!I say you take a break from guys... (read in full...)
I have had numerous sexual encounters with a work mate. I would like a relationship, but feel it will end in tears.
Q. I recently worked with this guy at work and thought he was quite good fun but nothing more. Then people kept telling me he fancied me but I thought he was trouble being ten years younger than me and very confident. so I kept him as a mate until on...
A. 7 October 2006: Dear Sharon,
I've learned myself, by personal expierience that work and play shouldn't collide. Maybe this guy gets something out of an older woman playing hard to get with him (that's you acting cool). So when you give in, it's not fun and he loos... (read in full...)
How can I tell this girl that I think I am in love with her?
Q. Hi Im going on a night out with some friends soon and the girl i wanna be with is also going with us. Im gonna make one last attempt to get with her even though i dont know if she wants to be with me. I have told her how i feel about her in the...
A. 7 October 2006: Hey,
no of course it doesn't sound pathetic that you care for somebody and want to be with them. If you want to tell her how you feel you have to know how you feel about her. Are you sure you love her? If the answer to this is yes, we can move forw... (read in full...)
How can I dissuade this boy from moving schools?
Q. please help me there is a boy i really love and he says he likes me to but his best friend is moving schools and she ignored him for a year because she became popular and she never put him on her friends pages on her website and when was wasnt ...
A. 7 October 2006: Hey,
I'm afraid there are two options here:
1.) Let him move, don't do anything and feel really bad about it.
2.) Tell him how you feel.
Now, if you're scared about option 2, option 1 seems most inviting but remember that if u don't tell him t... (read in full...)
I am 12 and my bf is 14. People call him a pervert. What should I do?
Q. im 12 and my boyfriend is 14. he's in year 10 at skwl and im in year 7 at skwl. when ever ppl see us at skwl thay call him a pervert, What shud i do?...
A. 7 October 2006: hey,
you have failed to provide information as to why they call him that. How does he act around you? How does he treat you? If he treats you like dirt then no more said honey, get rid of him! I don't think anyone can answer your problem if we don'... (read in full...)
Scared to let him know how I feel for fear of getting hurt, but I want him to know! What can I do ?
Q. Me and my best friend met a group of lads about 2 months ago. within a week we all felt like we'd known eachother for years. I started seeing one of the lads and im so comfortable round him i feel like i could tell him any thing and he would never ...
A. 1 October 2006: Hey,
I would worry about this problem when you are sure how you feel about him. You say you Think you're falling for him. Let this whole thing play out a bit longer, give it a chance to unfold. When you are sure how you feel, think about tell... (read in full...)
Chatted on MSN for ages, I want to meet up, but we are 2 days away from each other!!
Q. For about 6 months I have been chating to a guy I met online. We have talked on line through msn instant messenger as well as through our phones. I am 17 and he is 19. I have also seen him on web cam so I KNOW he isn't some old pedaphile. We hav...
A. 30 September 2006: Hey,
well - i'm glad I don't have to point out to you the dangers of meeting someone online. And I'm also glad you don't want to sneak off behind your parents' backs. I think the best bet (though not the easiest option) would be to talk to your pare... (read in full...)
Am I correct in thinking that my manager likes me? I know it's bad, but I just don't trust guys.
Q. This problem has been bothering me for a year already, I noticed that my superior whom is single and younger than me is fond of me, though he don't dare approach me directly about his feeling however, his body languages and behaviours already ...
A. 24 September 2006: Hey,
well, it sounds like he does like you, a lot. But office romances don't usually work out. If he makes a move on you, see how you feel. But if he's leaving you alone in that respect than I'd try looking for a guy else=where. The right one will... (read in full...)
Is my teacher coming on to me???
Q. This problem has been niggling at me for ages i really need to talk about it. There is this teacher at my school who is REALLY strict he never laughs or smiles and always tells people off except when hes around me. He always smiles (winks alot too), ...
A. 12 September 2006: Hey,
he might be, or he might just recognise you as a good student. I'd be aware of him, help out and stuff but if he comes on to you say no and there's laws about teacher-student stuff aswell. So report him. I'm sure you're a smart clever girl so j... (read in full...)
He's acting weird what should I do???
Q. there's this guy i really like but he's 3 years older than me. might not seem like much, but i'm only 13 and when we started going out his freinds started taking the piss and we split up. but then we got back together again, and then we split up ...
A. 12 September 2006: Hey There,
well if he really cared about you he would have told his friends to shut up about you in the first place. He's giving you the choice here to be more than friends, you are in controll. If you like him go for it but tell him that if you ... (read in full...)
How does it feel to kiss???
Q. Lads! How would you feel if you were going out with a girl that hasn't kissed before! I hate talking about it, because all my friends have, but i haven't! Im curious about what its like! Could you explain how you would act about this? and can you ...
A. 11 September 2006: Hey,
well, obviously, i'm not a lad! But I think that as long as the guy appreciates who you are, then he doesn't mind even if your first kiss isn't your best. All i can say is practice makes perfect so good luck!
Phoebe xxxx... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but my dad doesn't, what do I do?
Q. ME and MY boyfriend are having enormous amounts of trouble i love him but i cant take the fact that my dad doesnt My dad is more important to me what do i do?X...
A. 2 September 2006: Hey,
dad's never stop loving their daughters. It's a fact. He probably has trouble accepting that his little girl is all grown up and having boyfriends andstuff. Give him time, he'll come around. I disagree with what Helpful girl said. It never does... (read in full...)
Meet the parents...
Q. Hello everyone, Well basically I have to meet my boyfriends parents in a few days time and I'm really scared. I've never met any of my Ex boyfriends parents so I don't really know what to expect. I'm quite a shy person but I really want to m...
A. 2 September 2006: hey there,
well, when I went to meet my boyfriends' parents (i'm quite shy too) I was just myself. Laugh at his Dad's jokes, offer to help do the washing up if you're having dinner. That kind of thing.
Be nice, be helpful, be polite. they're ... (read in full...)
24, a virgin and feeling blue
Q. Hello i'm 24 years old, i'm a virgin and have neer had a girlfriend. I'm ugly losing my hair and have slighty crooked teeth, i'm in reasonable shape and very strong. I don't have much of a personailty. I don't want to be lonely anymore, there is a ...
A. 2 September 2006: Hey,
everyone is beautiful on the inside. The more you put yourself down the worse you're going to feel so stop. Just cut it off.
Right, now that you've got over the fact that you're beautiful inside and out you need to focus on this girl. Sh... (read in full...)
Why can't I get past my teenage years???
Q. I can't forget about my awful teenage years. Recently I split up with a girl I've been with since I was 22, over 4 years ago. I lost my virginity to her. But I found increasingly that I felt sad about the past especially the teenage years. During ...
A. 2 September 2006: Hey There,
you probably can't get past your teenage years because you've seen other people doing stuff with girls so easily it's put you down and you just lost all your confidence then. Which, as a result of that, has given you no confidence now.... (read in full...)
Why are so many people getting divorced ?
Q. I noticed in a survey that 2 in 3 marriages end in divorce in UK (so will probably be higher in america). Why are so many people in UK getting divorced? Or is it more frequent in certain areas or social classes...
A. 29 August 2006: Hey,
maybe it's because people aren't in love anymore, or give up looking for the right person and find a "Mr.Ok" instead of a "Mr.Right"? There are a million reasons. Some people just think marriage is an easy ride and they aren't prepared to work... (read in full...)
How can I get her to open up a bit without causing friction ?
Q. Let me give you a little bit of background before I get to my question. I have been seeing this lady for a little over two years now. She is a few years older than I am, which is one drawback according to her countrys customs (she is not ...
A. 29 August 2006: Hey,
well. Once i was in a simluar situation. A member of a close friend's family got very very very ill and I was willing for her to lean on me and I was ready to support her. But she didn't open up to me either. I asked someone who I think is a gr... (read in full...)
I dont want to scare him off, but want him to know I care, how should I act ?
Q. I have a very good male friend who i have known a few months and im falling in love with him, i see him twice a week speak to him everyday but he has been hurt and doesnt want a relationship. He knows I like him alot but I dont know how best to act ...
A. 29 August 2006: Hey,
falling in love with friends isn't always easy. And it doesn't always work out. But if you really love him, then it's time to do something about it.
First of all, how does he act around you? And do you feel/know he likes you as much as you l... (read in full...)
I'm a teen and wondering...is it normal to be horny all the time??
Q. hey peeps! im in my late teens and i was just wondering if it is normal to be horny all the time. I could wake up and be horny and ive noticed that i masturbate at least twice a day everyday if not 3 times, im worried about myself!!...
A. 25 August 2006: Hey,
yes, of course it is! You're hormones are kicking in and you are becoming interested in the opposite sex.
It's perfectly normal so just take each day as it comes.
Hope this helped,
Phoebe xxxx... (read in full...)
I can't my ex out of my head and I need to know--does he still like me?
Q. I cant get my ex out of my head!! I rele need to know if he still likes me or misses me! I used to go out with him last yr and we were very close, we went out for about 3 months and I loved every minute of it, but gradually we stopped talking and ...
A. 20 August 2006: Hey,
I think if those rumors got between you is it really worth going through all that again? If you really like (/ love) eachother than shouldn't you be strong enough to over-come anything together???
I think it's worth giving him a try, if he re... (read in full...)
Do guys want to marry sexy women?
Q. Hi there, This may seem a silly question but for some reason it has me worried! I am 25 year old blond female. Most guys I meet who get to know me always say I am very sexy. I don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. Do guys w...
A. 17 August 2006: Hey,
guys want to marry women they are insanly in love with - women they can imagine themselves spending the rest of their days with. Someone they want to grow old with. Whether you're sexy or not doesn't matter! When you find the right guy, you'... (read in full...)
How do I know if he really loves me ?
Q. i need to know if my bf really loves me, we have been on and off for a year, when we first got together he messed me about abit and we split up for a month because he was scared to tell me he had 4 kids. we got back together and things seem to be so...
A. 15 August 2006: Hey,
well if he was messing you around again, he wouldn't ask you to move in. Maybe it's scary for him a little bit. Having a relationship when you've already got 4 kids can't be easy. Just take it one step at a time and listen to your heart.
Hope ... (read in full...)
I have been a bit stupid!
Q. Hi all! A few weeks ago I was feeling really depressed about breaking up with my girlfriend. For some stupid reason I became convinced that I was in love with my best friend. I sent her an email about how much I loved her and how I couldn't bear ...
A. 12 August 2006: Hey,
well at least you know why you did it and tried to explain yourself! It's probably a huge shock to your friend, getting an e-mail from her friend saying they are in love with her, and then another saying they're not so just give her time. When... (read in full...)
Im madly in love with My online girl, problem is shes younger and miles away plus her parents dont approve!
Q. I think I am going insane. I have been dating a girl who I met online, she is 16 and I am in my late 20s. Our problem is, we live 300 miles apart. She lives in Scotland and I live in England, yet I have travelled up to see her as often as possible...
A. 12 August 2006: Hey,
If he parents don't approve of the age Difference why can't you show them how much you love their daughter. Talk to them, reason with them. If the love is there - the rest will follow.
Why doesn't she move closer to you? Or maybe you could fi... (read in full...)
My parents don't like my boyfriend! What should I do?
Q. Hi. Sorry this is kind of long. I've been going out with my bf for about 5 months now. I think he's great and wonderful, and although he's not flawless at all, i feel very strongly for him. The only problem is that my parents don't really lik...
A. 12 August 2006: Hey,
well your boyfriend souns really nice but let's just look at it from your Parents point of veiw for a second. Their baby girl has grown up right infront of them (remember, for parents it's only yesterday you were saying your first word) And ... (read in full...)
Could I have gotten pregnant?
Q. This will sound silly but its worrying me.While i was with my ex we were once sat on my bed,and i noticed a 'wet patch'around his penis,i was sat virtually on top of him,and now im 20 days late,i was due on the 23rd of july and its now the 12th aug ...
A. 12 August 2006: Hey,
why don't you take a home pregnancy test or consult your doctor?
Phoebe
xxx... (read in full...)
Im going on a date with my friend tomorrow any ideas how I should go about it!?
Q. please reply quickly to this! me and a mate have liked eachother for ages on and off now we both fancy eachother at the same time we are now going out. Im meeting up with him and some friends tommorow this will be the first time i see him since we...
A. 11 August 2006: Hey,
if you are attracted yo each other there is obviously something there - right? something between the two of you. If he is going out with you, it shows he likes you. For who you are, seeing as he knows as a friend and now as more than just a fr... (read in full...)
All people see are my FF breasts, they forget im a person!! How can I get people to see that im more than my boobs!
Q. I'm a girl, who i feel, is intellegent and has a great personality the problem is a men (and sometimes girls) don't seem to be able to get past the size of my chest. I am a natural FF cup and it really gets me down people automatically assume i'm a ...
A. 11 August 2006: Hey,
why don't you show people that you're not stupid by doing something only really clever people can do, like getting a university degree if you havent already got one or becoming something really sucessfull like a buissness woman?
I know thi... (read in full...)
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