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My boyfriend is the least popular in the class and I have to face nasty comments for dating him! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is the least popular kid in the class and everybody is like,"ur really going out with him?!" and I don't know what to do because it's really bugging me and I dont want to dump him. What should I do?...
A. 8 June 2008: Glad we could help!... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 29 May 2008: Your dilemma intrigued me to the extent that I decided to look around the Internet a bit. It seems that porn nowadays is a totally different kettle of fish from what it was in my day. All we had to look at was dirty magazines, and apart from ... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 29 May 2008: "You are the one who has pushed him into this corner". That was inaccurate.
Both of you are responsible, although the responsibility on his side is greater. Your attitude to pornography has pushed him into this corner. But he should not have mad... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 29 May 2008: I can't speak for other people, but my point was quite simple.
I don't think he's going to stop looking at porn. I think he has a compulsion, and he can't stop it. It will come back again sometime, and he's going to lie about it. Simple as that.... (read in full...)
The more he says NO, the more I want my HOT neighbour!
Q. Ok I have never ever done this before! I am always a good girl who hasnt slept with many people. I never sleep around and i always make sure I am proctected. I have this neighbour who i find very attractive! I life at home with my parents and i have ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hey, calm down!
This isn't an "American-British" thing. And the people on here all have a lot of experience trying to analyse (sometimes second-guess) what the real problem or motive is. They don't always get it right, but they do try to give adv... (read in full...)
The more he says NO, the more I want my HOT neighbour!
Q. Ok I have never ever done this before! I am always a good girl who hasnt slept with many people. I never sleep around and i always make sure I am proctected. I have this neighbour who i find very attractive! I life at home with my parents and i have ...
A. 25 May 2008: Oh yeah, one other thing. What happens if he falls for you?... (read in full...)
The more he says NO, the more I want my HOT neighbour!
Q. Ok I have never ever done this before! I am always a good girl who hasnt slept with many people. I never sleep around and i always make sure I am proctected. I have this neighbour who i find very attractive! I life at home with my parents and i have ...
A. 25 May 2008: I also think that if it's going to happen it's likely to happen when his hormones get the better of him. One day he may let his guard down and think, "Why not?"
Do you ever see him away from the neighbourhood? Like, people often get into sexual l... (read in full...)
Too early to be thinking about orgasms but are these sensations usual at this stage?
Q. My boyfriend and me have recently started out to have regular intercourse-about 7 times up to press. During sex I'm now beginning to sweat, get flushed and make a few sounds of pleasure.I know its far too early to be thinking about orgasms ...
A. 25 May 2008: Since when is it too early to expect orgasms? I didn't know you had to have sex a certain number of times before you could experience orgasm.
Just enjoy it for what it is. You're lucky it's so good!... (read in full...)
Should I give a try or should I move on? What if it is meant to be?
Q. Ok. Here we go. I worked with this guy for more than a year. Nothing ever happened. We used to flirt but just as a joke. I always knew he was married and never thought he could feel something for me. After a party we kissed and it was really ...
A. 25 May 2008: Sure, I'd go ahead with it.
On one condition: you brace yourself for the shittiest ride of your life. In love with a married man who "loves you" but would never leave his wife. You'll be waiting for quite a few heart-wrenching years before y... (read in full...)
How do I make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?
Q. I have tiny boobs and i have no boyfriend, how do i make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?...
A. 24 May 2008: Postscript:
I love small boobs! Yum!... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 24 May 2008: Oh yes, by the way, you've got to stop comparing yourself to porn actresses. You're just going to have to take my word for it that they are two separate worlds. Treat the porn as "fantasy" as Waz says.
If you're having it once a day that's p... (read in full...)
What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?
Q. There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with ...
A. 24 May 2008: I've never been addicted to porn, especially if I've got the real thing right there waiting for me!
But some men are, and it seems to be a major issue between the sexes. I can't see it being resolved.
The issue is very simple:
* You... (read in full...)
He keeps pushing me to perform sexual acts I'm not comfortable with, can you help?
Q. I am engaged and have been with my fiance for just over a year. We have a loving relationship and things are mostly amazing. Recently tho he has been pushing me to perform sexual acts I am not comfortable doing. For example, right now he keeps ...
A. 24 May 2008: He probably understands your traumatic experience of two years ago in an intellectual, but not in an emotional sense. Perhaps he thinks that he's a "good guy" and that you shouldn't be directing those feelings at him.
I think it simply represen... (read in full...)
The more he says NO, the more I want my HOT neighbour!
Q. Ok I have never ever done this before! I am always a good girl who hasnt slept with many people. I never sleep around and i always make sure I am proctected. I have this neighbour who i find very attractive! I life at home with my parents and i have ...
A. 24 May 2008: Damn, wish you lived next door to me! On the other hand, I might feel a bit nervous, too, if news of our liaison got round the cul-de-sac.
You know the old saying about not shitting in your own nest. That's usually applied to romances in the same... (read in full...)
Why do some married men think it is ok to watch porn?
Q. Why do some married men think it is ok to watch porn? I dont see how that is respecting their vow to forsake all others and cherish their wives...Im not religious but believe in commitment in marriage. If I share my body with a man I fee that is a ...
A. 24 May 2008: To the lady with the husband who likes sado-masochistic porn:
Have you asked him to tie you down during sex? Have you asked to tie him down for sex? That seems to be what floats his boat. I know you risk disappointment if it doesn't work... ... (read in full...)
Do all guys get grossed out by kissing their partner after she gives you head?
Q. okay i have a question for all of you guys out there (girls feel free to answer if youve been in this situation). okay do all guys get grossed out by kissing thier partner after she gives you head? my boy friend doesnt want to kiss me after ive ...
A. 24 May 2008: If you've given him head and he's just come, it's unlikely that he wants to do anything. There is, to put it mildly, a massive drop off in sexual desire after ejaculation. What was a huge turn on 20 seconds before suddenly becomes a no no after he's ... (read in full...)
Is it nature or is it nurture that make us pefer different types?
Q. i am not sexually attracted to blue eyed blond women. It seems that there is hardly anything but blue eyed blond women on tv, in movies and i really find them boring. Let a black woman, latino or asian appear on the screen and i pay rapt attention. ...
A. 24 May 2008: I would suggest it's your eyes that give you away. I believe it's been shown that the pupils dilate when you see someone you like, and people unconsciously pick that up.... (read in full...)
She is amazing but her past puts me off...
Q. Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...
A. 24 May 2008: Well, now we are moving into familiar territory. Her sexual past is getting to you and it's hurting you that she made herself available so cheaply to other men. Most men do tend to value sex a lot because it's not something that's given out on ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is the least popular in the class and I have to face nasty comments for dating him! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is the least popular kid in the class and everybody is like,"ur really going out with him?!" and I don't know what to do because it's really bugging me and I dont want to dump him. What should I do?...
A. 24 May 2008: Thanks for the update, and sorry to hear that things are still difficult.
First, let me say that when you're young you feel you've got to be like everyone else. It won't always be like this. People around you will gradually blossom and develop ... (read in full...)
I've tried everything, and so far failed, to get her to reach orgasm
Q. Hi all, I'm hoping you can help! I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a few months now, and I've tried everything, and so far failed, to get her to reach orgasm. She's quite inexperienced, she's only had one sexual partner before m...
A. 23 May 2008: Well, this is not an easy one.
Some girls are not terribly orgasmic. If you keep pushing her, and she keeps pushing herself, it may turn into something of an obsession. The more obsessed you get, the more frustrated you will get.
I'd stop focu... (read in full...)
He's a millionaire but won't give me money for a deposit, how can I make him regret this?
Q. I am a 25 year old female who has been involved with a married man for 3 years. We have an okay relationship, I dont ask him for much or expect much from him at. I respect his private life, and know where not to cross the line. He is a millionaire, ...
A. 23 May 2008: Sorry you're in such a relationship. The guy is cheap and money-pinching. He's just using you, and you're letting him.
However, I don't agree with your attempts to get revenge. You don't really have a right to expect any more, given the nature o... (read in full...)
I'm finding it extremely hard fullfilling his pissing fetishes!!
Q. I told my b/f I'd do every single one of his fantasies at least once, but it's hard. He has a urine fetish, and I'm finding it really hard to go through with! He wanted me to drink it, to pee myself, to let him pee inside me...basically lots of stuf...
A. 23 May 2008: I don't think pee fetishes are quite as rare as you think.
I'm quite happy with some milder forms of it. For instance, to have the girl pee on my genitals and body, and maybe a mildly masochistic desire to move up to the mouth (I've never carried ... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 23 May 2008: I posted my analysis after the husband posted his, so I didn't have the benefit of his riposte. My analysis of "passive resistance" therefore seems off the mark.... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 23 May 2008: I don't approve of his actions, but I can understand where he's coming from.
He's uptight because you didn't agree with him that the milk might be off. He felt infuriated that instead of just coming out and telling him that the milk is fine, or... (read in full...)
She is amazing but her past puts me off...
Q. Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...
A. 23 May 2008: The original poster hasn't replied since 20 May.
I think I'd modify my earlier reply like this:
* As you said, she's an amazing woman and you love her and want to be with her.
* She's amazing because she loves sex. She's experimented a bit... (read in full...)
My husband caught me having sex with my cousin
Q. Im married with kids but not long ago my husband caught me having sex with me cousin. I realise that i love my cousin, an that i have tried to ignore my feelings an so as he, but we can't. We love each other, i'm older than he is (by 14yrs)an family ...
A. 23 May 2008: Sorry if my original reply sounded dismissive. My feeling was that your current situation is so complex in so many ways (husband's jealousy, family's reaction, age difference, the fact that he's your cousin) that a complete break -- either the ... (read in full...)
I felt bad for not indulging his anal fantasies and that he also has erection problems
Q. Okay, here's the thing...he has NO problems getting it up the first time. Actually, it's great sex. The second time, a while later...it's really hard to get him...well, hard. The only things that seem to turn him on is 69 or the idea of him doin...
A. 21 May 2008: Good to see things turning out OK. And sorry for suggesting problems in the tightness department!... (read in full...)
She is amazing but her past puts me off...
Q. Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...
A. 21 May 2008: The word "slut" is a great putdown. From what I can see, she is a woman with a keen interest in sex and she's experimented with a few partners. If that makes her a "slut", then I guess she's a slut. The opposite of a slut is what... a prude? Someone ... (read in full...)
I'm stringing him along before I end it, is this wrong?
Q. I've figured out I am being strung along and I think I will just string him along. I've stopped the sex and have become unpredictable and unavailable. He doesn't seem to like that much. Am I wrong for doing this for a few weeks before I end it?...
A. 19 May 2008: Well, I think it may be rather empowering for you. You're putting yourself in the driver's seat and making it clear that YOU are calling the shots. Playing with the mouse before you kill it sounds like fun.
But don't make a habit of this kind of ... (read in full...)
Is it nature or is it nurture that make us pefer different types?
Q. i am not sexually attracted to blue eyed blond women. It seems that there is hardly anything but blue eyed blond women on tv, in movies and i really find them boring. Let a black woman, latino or asian appear on the screen and i pay rapt attention. ...
A. 19 May 2008: One word: Enjoy!... (read in full...)
Should I just accept him making new beautiful female friends?
Q. I have been with my Boyfriend for just under 6 months. We are very much in love and are planning on marriage and children. He is a beautiful person and everything I have ever wanted. We have been in a long distance relationship from the ...
A. 19 May 2008: So he specialises in finding beautiful young female friends? Doesn't he ever make any ugly new female friends? Or male friends?
At the moment, where you are both in love and planning on marriage and children, this habit of meeting and contacti... (read in full...)
Age Gap!-It is so hard dating him without friendship support
Q. Okay. I am dating a guy who is 20. I am 15. I know we should not be dating but we are in love. Some are my friends are telling me to leave him but I can't. It is so hard dating him without friendship support. I don't know what to do. I wanna be with ...
A. 19 May 2008: I'm not sure how important this age gap is in this particular relationship. If you were a few years older (maybe even just two years older) it wouldn't matter that much. 17 with 22? Probably no big deal.
But the point is that you're still very you... (read in full...)
My husband caught me having sex with my cousin
Q. Im married with kids but not long ago my husband caught me having sex with me cousin. I realise that i love my cousin, an that i have tried to ignore my feelings an so as he, but we can't. We love each other, i'm older than he is (by 14yrs)an family ...
A. 19 May 2008: I'm not sure if I can take this post seriously. With the full knowledge of your husband, you're having a sexual and emotional relationship with a cousin who's 14 years younger than you?
My advice would be: If you love your cousin that much and... (read in full...)
Sex with 67 men in the past, is that high or low in your opinion?
Q. My wife had sex with 67 men before me...is that number too high or low for a woman?...
A. 19 May 2008: Compared to most women, it probably is rather a lot. If you calculate it, it means a different man every month for five-and-a-half years.
I'm not sure what the point of your question is. Are you boasting about how many men your wife has had? Or ... (read in full...)
I felt bad for not indulging his anal fantasies and that he also has erection problems
Q. Okay, here's the thing...he has NO problems getting it up the first time. Actually, it's great sex. The second time, a while later...it's really hard to get him...well, hard. The only things that seem to turn him on is 69 or the idea of him doin...
A. 19 May 2008: Excuse me for being blunt, but if he says he's looking for the tightness of anal sex, is it possible that he's finding vaginal sex less than satisfactory?
In order to change that -- and in my experience it's possible to change -- you perhaps ... (read in full...)
I lied about my past, now he's dumped me, I cant get over him, help me
Q. Help me please, I'm feeling awful here...! I had a great first relationship. We lasted a year and 8 months. We had everything in common. but he disliked my past, and i lied repeatedly about it (like 4 times) I was always scared to be honest becaus...
A. 19 May 2008: I can't figure this one out. You lost your virginity to him and you have a "past"?
I don't know what truths you were hiding. The thing is, it's not a good idea to ladle the truth out in small doses. Every time you hit him with something new he h... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's past bothers me!
Q. I have a problem with my GF's past! I am 24 years old and have slept with about 10 people, she is 20 and has slept with 12 people before me! Should this be bothering me so much, is that alot? She told me that everyone she has slept with wasnt...
A. 17 May 2008: Bothered about your girlfriend's past? Welcome to the club! It's a big issue for so many guys and it comes up again and again.
The funny thing, it has all these variations. Some guys obsess because their girlfriend was seriously into drugs an... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my husband get turned on unless he touches himself? He doesn't respond normally to sex!
Q. After the initial honeymoon first six months of sex, my husband of 2 years has never been hungry for sex or had a high sex drive. It has bothered me hugely as I love sex and believed he did at first. As time has progressed, it has got fewer and ...
A. 16 May 2008: I am 54, and although I'm perhaps set in my ways, too, I simply cannot understand how anyone can have such an appallingly low sex drive!
You never told us anything about his sexual history (maybe you don't know anything about it), but I wonder i... (read in full...)
I'd like to go out with her but I'm afraid what people will think!
Q. hey I have a question concerning one of my friends. WE have known each other for quite some time. but just recently have become interested in each other. Like at the moment we are just friends with benefits. But she wants to go out with me. i'd love ...
A. 16 May 2008: So the day before you get married, you're going to ring round to all your friends and check that they approve of your choice? They're not the ones who are planning to live with her or go to bed with her. What business is it of theirs?
And w... (read in full...)
Is it just me, or is anybody else disturbed by 10-13 year olds giving out blow jobs?
Q. I've been watching this board for a couple of days now, and I have to admit that I am shocked at the number of 10-15 year old girls that are asking questions about boyfriends, sex and blowjobs. Is this the norm these days that children start this ...
A. 16 May 2008: I am so out of touch. Has it really come to the point where 13-year-olds giving blow-jobs has become the norm? Or is it just this website?
To be honest, I can't imagine a 13-year-old giving a particularly good blow-job. Is this some kind of new c... (read in full...)
I gave my virginity to him. How should I take revenge on him?
Q. I'm single and fell in love with a married guy. He is 10 years older than me. His wife was pregnant and got a baby daughter on my b'day. I gave my virginity to him, but after he got his wife back in his bed. He started acting weird, like ignoring ...
A. 16 May 2008: You lost your virginity, which you appear to value greatly. The problem is, you didn't value it greatly enough. You gave it away just like that to a smooth-talking married man who bought you lunch and made you some easy promises. Well, that's a ... (read in full...)
I am really scared that this might be the end of our relationship as it has gone so stale
Q. Hi if anyone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it. I am so confused at the moment. I have been with my fiance for 4 years, i am 22, he is 28 and we have a beautiful 18 month old baby boy together, and have bought a flat together. ...
A. 16 May 2008: Sorry, second postscript. I keep referring to "your husband" and "your marriage". Although you're only engaged at the moment, the fact that you have a flat and a child together is almost the same as being married. Not being married makes it easier ... (read in full...)
I am really scared that this might be the end of our relationship as it has gone so stale
Q. Hi if anyone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it. I am so confused at the moment. I have been with my fiance for 4 years, i am 22, he is 28 and we have a beautiful 18 month old baby boy together, and have bought a flat together. ...
A. 16 May 2008: Sorry, if you've got a baby the ideas about charity work and going out and studying are not very realistic. My bad! But there are still ways that you can plan ahead to a more interesting future as your kids get older. Don't just think in terms of ... (read in full...)
I am really scared that this might be the end of our relationship as it has gone so stale
Q. Hi if anyone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it. I am so confused at the moment. I have been with my fiance for 4 years, i am 22, he is 28 and we have a beautiful 18 month old baby boy together, and have bought a flat together. ...
A. 16 May 2008: There are a couple of issues here.
One is that you are still very young and tied down in a life of husband, baby, and flat. You're only 22; the future has already arrived and it stretches out before you without any prospect of change or exciteme... (read in full...)
All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?
Q. Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one nigh...
A. 16 May 2008: Reading your reply, it seems to me you'd be better moving on from her.
The problem is partly in your head, the fact that you can't get over her past. But the signs she's showing are only feeding your feelings. It's pretty clear that she can't be... (read in full...)
Hurt, confused and broken....help.
Q. i got married last year. me and my husband had a fairytale relationship before we got married. now we have spells of really highs or really lows. I got raped at fifteen, and his beginning to bring it up alot recently. we go through periods where we ...
A. 15 May 2008: The "ignore behaviour that you can't accept" approach might even work. Without any feedback to send him ballistic, he might actually calm down a bit.
Hope it all goes OK for the both of you. He sounds like he's been through a lot and you should b... (read in full...)
My Poem
Q. I don't know how to tell you How I really feel. I'm not sure that I even know that it's really real. I can't breath and my heart is in pain. My legs are weak and I'm crying again. You'd never know, because I'd never say. You'll never k...
A. 15 May 2008: Girls who write poetry are sexy!... (read in full...)
My wife cheated. Now she writes stories and poems about other men.
Q. My wife cheated on me while we were dating. I forgaveand forgot and we got married two years later. After we were married about 3 years she did it again with someone else (about a year ago). She came forward and appologised and asked for one last ...
A. 15 May 2008: Anonymous, one thing I don't understand is how you found these poems and stories. Did your wife give them to you voluntarily? Did you find them stowed away in a secret place? Did she publish them and a friend brought them to your attention? What is ... (read in full...)
Hurt, confused and broken....help.
Q. i got married last year. me and my husband had a fairytale relationship before we got married. now we have spells of really highs or really lows. I got raped at fifteen, and his beginning to bring it up alot recently. we go through periods where we ...
A. 15 May 2008: I can only guess what's going through his brain, but irrational as it may seem, it sounds like your past is preying on his mind. As Anonymous said, he's insecure and immature. The rape at 15 and his suspicion about your having an affair are not ... (read in full...)
All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?
Q. Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one nigh...
A. 15 May 2008: Anonymous, I think we've got two issues here:
1. The old "I can't forgive her for what she did in the past" thing. Do a search of Dear Cupid on "her past" or "her history" and you'll pull up screeds and screeds of threads of guys agonisin... (read in full...)
My wife cheated. Now she writes stories and poems about other men.
Q. My wife cheated on me while we were dating. I forgaveand forgot and we got married two years later. After we were married about 3 years she did it again with someone else (about a year ago). She came forward and appologised and asked for one last ...
A. 14 May 2008: OK, eyeswideopen, I understand your point!
I was merely trying to present the matter in a different light. I understand that anonymous is feeling extremely upset by these poems and stories. My point was that he could look at them from a complete... (read in full...)
My wife cheated. Now she writes stories and poems about other men.
Q. My wife cheated on me while we were dating. I forgaveand forgot and we got married two years later. After we were married about 3 years she did it again with someone else (about a year ago). She came forward and appologised and asked for one last ...
A. 14 May 2008: I don't know how good her poetry and stories are, but people who are driven to write use their own experience as raw material.
For her, these relationships may be valuable emotional raw material. It doesn't necessarily mean she loves the men, but... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is the least popular in the class and I have to face nasty comments for dating him! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is the least popular kid in the class and everybody is like,"ur really going out with him?!" and I don't know what to do because it's really bugging me and I dont want to dump him. What should I do?...
A. 12 May 2008: To hell with the rest of the class!
You must see something in the guy that they can't. Have a bit of courage and stick to your choice. What would they know about him, anyway?
It's just a mob mentality. As you grow older, you'll find more and mo... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my husband get turned on unless he touches himself? He doesn't respond normally to sex!
Q. After the initial honeymoon first six months of sex, my husband of 2 years has never been hungry for sex or had a high sex drive. It has bothered me hugely as I love sex and believed he did at first. As time has progressed, it has got fewer and ...
A. 29 April 2008: I don't know whether he's gay or not, but It sounds like he finds physical contact with women distasteful. That's why he prefers them "ladylike", which means clean, prim, proper, and totally lacking in bodily functions.
What concerns me more, ho... (read in full...)
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