Is my son going to be tall?
Q. Hi, i have a child growth question for anybody who knows what they are talking about. I have a son who just turned 15 and he is around 5'7 or 5'8. I wondering if he will be fairly tall. Im only 5'9 and my wife is 4'10 but he seems tall to be our ...
A. 26 February 2009: Thats awsome. Is he in any height flattering sports? Track? Basketball? ... (read in full...)
I just want to be happy but I don't want to make the wrong decision.
Q. I need advice. I am married, I have two kids and I am 9 weeks pregnant. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. I love my husband but I still love my ex. My ex still loves me. I want to be with my ex but I don't want to ruin the ...
A. 22 February 2009: The wrong decision would to be to get back with your ex (which is an ex for a reason), without putting your all into your marriage (which is a marriage for a reason) first. Try to remember, you are in a phase in your pregnancy where your hormones ... (read in full...)
Is this guy just keeping his options open talking to me?
Q. I've been talking to a guy online since November, we would go 2 weeks without talking and then talk... I started it. We haven't met in person. Lately he's been onlilne more so we talk. They say if a guy isn't interested he'll just not talk to ...
A. 22 February 2009: It's the internet, and most guys I know have a plethera of lady friends. You can never have too many. It's the subjects in which you two talk about that mae all the difference. It is hard to tell if someone is flirting with you by reading what they ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my BF to tone it down in the bedroom?
Q. My boyfriend and I have a different relationship than most you could say. i am 16 and he is 27 but we are in love with each other and we dont see ourselves with anyone else. My boyfriend has like a fetish of spanking me and pulling on my hair when ...
A. 22 February 2009: Oh, damn, just realized your age...well, no sex shop for you for a couple of years. Sorry hon:( Well then, maybe you ought to simply confront him with this issue. I am worried that you fall pregnant and not know who the daddy is if threesomes are ... (read in full...)
Is my son going to be tall?
Q. Hi, i have a child growth question for anybody who knows what they are talking about. I have a son who just turned 15 and he is around 5'7 or 5'8. I wondering if he will be fairly tall. Im only 5'9 and my wife is 4'10 but he seems tall to be our ...
A. 22 February 2009: He is almost done growing, and yes, genetics don't stop at the mother and father. I am 5'4", and my sons dad is 6'11", and I only weigh 92 lbs (when I am not pregnant). My son was born 8lbs, 11oz, and was a long little guy. He is not 6 and is the ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my BF to tone it down in the bedroom?
Q. My boyfriend and I have a different relationship than most you could say. i am 16 and he is 27 but we are in love with each other and we dont see ourselves with anyone else. My boyfriend has like a fetish of spanking me and pulling on my hair when ...
A. 22 February 2009: So, he likes to control in bed, huh? Maybe take this a step ahead of him and be more controlling to him, see what happens. Go to your local sex shop, purchase some outragious dominatriks (sp?) outfit for yourself, along with a whip, some cuffs, and ... (read in full...)
Why do children want to have children? It's so wrong and disturbing.
Q. Why are there so many children who want and crave to have a baby?! I find it really disturbing that a 13 year old wants to have a baby. They have no clue about how to look after themselves, let alone a baby. Also why should tax payers pay for t...
A. 20 February 2009: To Killadavill- hon, I have deep concern for you. Just by reading your post, I can tell you need more schooling-not to be rude here, however, the reason some of us older aunts come off as judgemantal is because we have been in our teens and we are ... (read in full...)
Are my ex-fiances credit card debts my responsibility??
Q. hello, i am 22 years old. I had been in a relationshp with who is now my ex-fiance for 5 years; the problem is i got her pregnant and she is in a lot of credit card debt. I$ had explicitly warned her starting 2 years ago that she shouldn't incur mu...
A. 20 February 2009: Hey, my baby boy is due April 3rd! Congrats man, it is the most amazing thing you will ever do! 1st, be sure to be at the hospital when baby is born, SIGN THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE!!! That automaticlly gives you rights There really is no such thing as ... (read in full...)
My mum just hinted to me that I was born a mistake...
Q. My mum just hinted to me that I was born a mistake and she never even denied it. It really hurts knowing that. I love my mum and everything but when something goes wrong she blames me never anyone else just cause I'm the youngest in the family. They ...
A. 20 February 2009:
Well, you'll be happy to know that many families are this way behind closed doors. I am the youngest of 5 kids, all boys except me. I am now 26, and I learned that the more I kept distracted with school work, focused on my future (which I plan... (read in full...)
Why do children want to have children? It's so wrong and disturbing.
Q. Why are there so many children who want and crave to have a baby?! I find it really disturbing that a 13 year old wants to have a baby. They have no clue about how to look after themselves, let alone a baby. Also why should tax payers pay for t...
A. 19 February 2009: I have always believed that young ladies want babies because they are not feeling enough love at home. These girls think that by having a baby, they will feel loved. The whole logic (which is pretty much non-existing at 13) of actually having to ... (read in full...)
My b/f seems to be pulling away and I'm not sure what to do about it!
Q. Any help and advice anyone can give I would really appreciate it. My boyfriend and I are both in our 20's and have been dating for 4 years. I love him very much but lately (as in the past few months) he seems to be pulling away from me. He is ...
A. 19 February 2009: I always suggest opening up to a partner who is backing down from a partnership. It wasnt very considerste of him to tell you he DIDNT miss you, especially because he has other people to hang out with. Those words tell me that he has lost intrest ... (read in full...)
Are my ex-fiances credit card debts my responsibility??
Q. hello, i am 22 years old. I had been in a relationshp with who is now my ex-fiance for 5 years; the problem is i got her pregnant and she is in a lot of credit card debt. I$ had explicitly warned her starting 2 years ago that she shouldn't incur mu...
A. 19 February 2009: If you feel like you should help pay for anything that you spent against her credit card, it would be a very moral thing to do. Get a credit card statement, highlight all your expenses, and pay that off, however, don't give her money for the damages ... (read in full...)
Are my ex-fiances credit card debts my responsibility??
Q. hello, i am 22 years old. I had been in a relationshp with who is now my ex-fiance for 5 years; the problem is i got her pregnant and she is in a lot of credit card debt. I$ had explicitly warned her starting 2 years ago that she shouldn't incur mu...
A. 19 February 2009: Wow, heavy. If yu are sending $350 a month for the child, that is sufficient. I have a child by a dead beat and I would be thrilled for my son if he recieved $350 a month! Your obligation is to your child, not her. If she were to call you and ... (read in full...)
I'm freaking out after my horrible sex experience with my BF, can you help me?
Q. So i'm seventeen and my boyfriend and i had sex last night as a late valentines day present and now i'm freaking out. Well my boyfriend kind of pressured me into having sex at this camping trip and he didnt stop when i told him to stop being so ...
A. 18 February 2009: Sounds like you are a very intuitive young lady! It is disrespectful to pressure anyone into having sex, and to ignore the wishes of how it is done when it is being done. It is my opinion that he took advantage of you, and violated you. Have you ... (read in full...)
Where's the love when I have the flu? After two years he "hasn't decided" how he feels about me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We lived together at one time but he asked me to move out because he was too stressed out and claimed he didnt love me anymore. Well a few months later, like a sucker, I went back to him beca...
A. 12 February 2009: Is he aware that marriage means in sickness and in health? Simple. He hasnt decided because he is very into himself, there may not be room for you. I'm sure you want a man that cares deeply about you, perhaps he is not it. If this is true, would you ... (read in full...)
I can't believe that today I cheated on my GF, what do I do now?
Q. i cheated. I cheated. I f***ing cheated! I feel like shit. I hate myself so f***ing much right now. I swore ide never cheat on my gf, I did today. I cheated on her with my ex, who cheated on me! my girlfriend has never done anything like that at ...
A. 4 February 2009: A guy that sounds as remorseful as you do should know that the best thing to do is tell your girlfriend. You owe her the truth, and it is not fair for her to not have a choice as to who she is with because she dosnt know the truth. If you don't like ... (read in full...)
My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!
Q. I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...
A. 4 February 2009: Ooooooohhh, dear. You see, you really should have left a long time ago, and as a result of you staying this long, the abuse has caused so much stress it has become a serious medical issue for you. These symptoms are in fact serious, and you NEED to ... (read in full...)
A birthday threesome, good idea?
Q. I am a 27 year old female that has been in a relationship with a male for two and a half years. He is the man I have seen in my dreams and I adore him and he the same (at least I hope..lol) Seriously, his birthday is coming up and he made a joke ...
A. 23 January 2009: It takes a very unique type of relationship to be able to partake in a threesome and continue to have a perfect, healthy relationship. Trust me, I've been there. For the most part, it is a very easy way to make waves in your relationship, when there ... (read in full...)
I need some (non-abusive) abortion advice, please.
Q. I guess i am remaining anon because i am ashamed... Im 16 soon 17 in my first year of college studing for my A levels live a life with good people in it such as my friends and a very lovely boyfriend. Ive been with my boyfriend for a few months now...
A. 22 January 2009: I think you feel guilty because this is (or was) a life in your hands. I wasnt clear on wether or not you actually went through with the abortion or not, I think not, right? Anyway, You do know that this isnt your only option, right? There are so ... (read in full...)
Ready to live with my boyfriend and become estranged to my parents... HELP!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm so desperate I've resorted to asking over the internet. My parents told me they are never going to accept my boyfriend. He is 36 and I am 20. We've been dating for 2 years. He is a nightclub promoter and has been having money pro...
A. 22 January 2009: Awsome! That is a perfect plan! You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, don't let anything distract you!!! :))... (read in full...)
Is he for real or not?
Q. I really like this guy, we both DJ and we're are both Aquarius's. When we lay in bed it feels like were one and the world could end around us but we would never notice. He brings me over to his friends house and when we are together he makes me feel ...
A. 22 January 2009: "This is the dawning of the age of aqua......" oh, sorry, right......advice. Well, sometimes, after a long night (or day) of spinning kick ass tunes, you feel pretty tired. However, for a whole lot of guys, even the most sleepy ones, there is always ... (read in full...)
Advice on her to let her see I can be responsible to raise her baby with her.
Q. Here is my situation. I was dating this girl for about a month now she was pregnant already from a guy she was with before me which I am fine with and am ready to raise a kid. By the way this guy beat on her all the time. So a couple days ago ...
A. 22 January 2009: I am super stoked that an awsome person like you is being set free for a better lady out there! All too often good guys get taken by chicks that are screwed up, and all thats left are crappy guys for the stand up girls out there that deserve better! ... (read in full...)
Ready to live with my boyfriend and become estranged to my parents... HELP!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm so desperate I've resorted to asking over the internet. My parents told me they are never going to accept my boyfriend. He is 36 and I am 20. We've been dating for 2 years. He is a nightclub promoter and has been having money pro...
A. 22 January 2009: Sounds to me like you are trying to convince yourself that this relationship is okay. I was your age when I got pregnant with a man your boyfriends age, he seemed to be so much fun, took care of me and all that. Suddenly, when I was barefoot and ... (read in full...)
I'm a 17 year old girl and he's 21... Is that too much of an age gap?
Q. So there is this guy that I've known for a few years, and my mom and everyone on her side of the family seems to like him, so you can call him a famiyl friend, if you will. I feel that there is something between us, but I'm nervous to go on because ...
A. 20 January 2009: I don't think so. I made a child with someone 10 years older than me when I was 20, turns out, I ended up being the more mature one:) 4 years is not so bad once you have reached the 17 to 18 year old mark. Ask your love intrest. His opinion will ... (read in full...)
I am not getting the consistency or solidarity that healthy relatinoships NEED to survive.
Q. I'm not sure what to do or think. My boyfriend of almost a year is coming out of a state of depression and he is unemployed and keeps getting rejected despite his high qualifications (3 law degrees and 3 languages) because of the crisis. He has ...
A. 20 January 2009: This is not a "consistancy" problem, it is a "controlling" problem, completely different. This is abuse. Do you know why you feel like you are losing your sanity? It's cause you are, which is the common result of long term mental abuse. This type of ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as body language...
Q. I really need to know. I don't know why but a lot of girls these days are really superficial and shallow so I want to know what girls really want in a guy, and what qualities they look for. Be honest!! And is there such thing as body language...
A. 20 January 2009: This depends on what kind of girl you are trying to attract. True, most girls (especially in your age bracket) are shallow, but not all are. Yes, there is a such thing as body language. When you see someone fidget a lot when you speak to them, this ... (read in full...)
My cousin...
Q. Hello I have this cousin and I love her and before you say anything don't say anything because we're family ok? Anyways we don't see each other that much but when we do we talk a lot and I want to have my first time with her (and don't say I'm too ...
A. 20 January 2009: Huh. Well, first off, are you sure she is interested in you like that? I mean, my brother and I are super close, to the point where he tells everyone he wants to marry someone just like me, but this, in NO way, means he wants to marry ME. Secondly, ... (read in full...)
Advice on her to let her see I can be responsible to raise her baby with her.
Q. Here is my situation. I was dating this girl for about a month now she was pregnant already from a guy she was with before me which I am fine with and am ready to raise a kid. By the way this guy beat on her all the time. So a couple days ago ...
A. 20 January 2009: Hehehe, yeah, I hear you there. We are not rich people, but we both work hard to make sure our kids have everything they need, and sometimes what they want. My husband stayed away from the "sex, drugs, rock and roll" lifestyle too, and instead ... (read in full...)
Advice on her to let her see I can be responsible to raise her baby with her.
Q. Here is my situation. I was dating this girl for about a month now she was pregnant already from a guy she was with before me which I am fine with and am ready to raise a kid. By the way this guy beat on her all the time. So a couple days ago ...
A. 20 January 2009: Well, you see my point then. I can't possibly see what she means by "too immature". My husband enjoys a few beers here and there too, plays with the kids' toys more than they do, and often blows money on stupid things, but he absolutely loves our ... (read in full...)
Advice on her to let her see I can be responsible to raise her baby with her.
Q. Here is my situation. I was dating this girl for about a month now she was pregnant already from a guy she was with before me which I am fine with and am ready to raise a kid. By the way this guy beat on her all the time. So a couple days ago ...
A. 20 January 2009: I think you are a very noble person to want to share this responsabilitly, and it is my opinion that it takes someone to WANT to have this resposability to be a good parent (wether or not they actually are). Mature or not. My husband is my biggest ... (read in full...)
Sex as a weapon?
Q. Just to let the ladies know, this DOES NOT AMOUNT TO ANYTHING POSITIVE! Yes, women and men can enjoy sex just as much as the other, but men in general 'do' want it more than women and our feelings towards it are different. Men view sex as 'ess...
A. 17 January 2009: Hahahahaeee. Got it all figured out do ya? I agree with you on most of your point here, as a female, I can't possibly begin to try to discribe the male mind and the wants and needs of a man, like you should not try to do vise versa. I always saw ... (read in full...)
5 months pregnant and in a crisis!!!
Q. First of all im writing in to just ask for help because everyone I speak to says I need to sort it myself but I seriously don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 12 months, I am 5 months pregnant and he treats me like I...
A. 15 January 2009: I have been helping a very good friend of mine deal with the same sort of situation here. She just had her baby a week ago, but trough her entire pregnancy, her partner has treated her very poorly. He mentally abused her to no end, and cheated on ... (read in full...)
Hopefully you have time "Insecurity and Paranoia"
Q. This is a long story in a question hopefully somebody has the time.. My girl friend and me have been together on and off since I was 15 and im now 19 ..she has seen me in past relationships and stood by as a friend, and vice versa...when we hooked ...
A. 15 January 2009: Aloha! Sooo, we have all heard the same old saying "a working relationship is based on love and trust", and it sounds to me as if this particular relationship has lost it's trust foundation completely, and whats worse is physical damage has been ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt the boy to have sex for the first time?
Q. ok i have a few questions about sex does it hurt a boy when they hav sex for the 1st time and does it really really hurt for a girl?? my second question is when you bleed when you have sex for the first time would it be embarrasing because ...
A. 25 November 2008: Well, most normal boys are experienced in masterbating, and it dosnt hurt them to have sex. As for the female, it depends on her body type. Every girl is different. Some girls hurt really bad, others dont. Some bleed a lot, others don't. Because you ... (read in full...)
At what point in a relationship do you reveal your past?
Q. At what point in a relationship do you reveal your past? I'm 20 yrs. old and this is really my first attempt at a serious relationship. I was a troubled teen. I used drugs and alcohol. I became sexually active at 14 and had literally dozens of ...
A. 20 November 2008: A person with nothing to hide, hides nothing. I am always very open with my past to individuals who are important to me. I have no pride in what I have done, however, I am aware that without the stupid decisions I made then, I wouldnt be the ... (read in full...)
Help please, I just found out I'm pregnant.
Q. Hi there, Here is my situation. I am 20 married to a great guy, (but we have had a lot of troubles in the past) I have just been accepted into medical school, and a hall of residence which I am really excited about. It is also 3 hours away from m...
A. 20 November 2008: Fathers don't typically become "daddies", mentaly, emotionally, until the baby has arrived. Besides, having babies is what married people do, right? My husband was scared, and 23 when I was pregnant with my daughter, but supported me, went to all my ... (read in full...)
His daughter calls another man "daddy".
Q. Hey I’m Jon 18 years old. This questions actually about my older brother he had a baby girl "Chloe" with his ex wife 2 years ago and broke up with her about a year ago (I'm not sure of the details my brother normally goes to his friends not family ...
A. 19 November 2008: I love your concern for your brother. Sounds like a tightly knit family. Have you gone to your brother and told him that you are always available to talk to if he is feeling down? Does your brother have his daughter a good portion of the time? ... (read in full...)
Does "never date your best friends guy" apply to this situation?
Q. I have been friends with my current best friend for 5 years. We are completely inseparable, and have a pretty good relationship. She has had a crush on this guy for about 2 years and a year ago, they hooked up. They never turned into anything li...
A. 19 November 2008: Discuss it with the friend, because 5 years invested in a friendship will be wasted if you disrespect her over a guy. Good friends are hard to find, guys are not. Tell her he has been asking you out, and out of respect for her you have been turning ... (read in full...)
She thinks I'm over sensitive to a lot of things...
Q. So I was with this girl for 2 years, we broke up for 4 months and have just recently started talking and being intimate, possibly getting back together. However there are some things coming up that bother me a lot. She thinks I'm over sensitive to a ...
A. 16 October 2008: I don't think it's a matter of sensativity. It's a matter of you wanting a certain type of relationship and her wanting a different kind. You two hardley see eachother, so it makes it that much harder when her drive to connect with you is not as ... (read in full...)
Pleeeeease say he isn't gay!!!
Q. dear people, I need help - me and by boyfriend have been going out for 5 years, I never used to wonder if he was gay until recently, I mean he has a friend who acts so strange and seeing them both together makes me wonder what kind of relationship ...
A. 15 October 2008: I am assuming he is gay. My brother had a girlfriend in Canada for about 6 years, ad I had see them together. It seemed at first he was straight, but when he turned around 19, 20 years old, he came out and told everyone he was gay. Anyway, this is ... (read in full...)
I feel confused and alone...
Q. I am completly in love with my husband who recently blind-sided me (at 5 weeks pregnant) by telling me that he does not love me anymore. We have been married for almost 3 years, but in a relationship for 6. All along he has wanted kids and was (or ...
A. 7 October 2008: Simple. Ask him if he wants you to keep the baby. (It is absolutely your choice but this way, you will have a good idea as to what to do next). Obviously, if he wants you to keep it, he is willing to make things work. If he says he'd rather you not ... (read in full...)
He has a big problem! Is my husband cheating on me?
Q. I have been married for just over a year but in the same relationship for 16 years. This sounds crazy but my husband and I have just stopped having sex - initially I just put it down to stressful jobs (investment banking)and the associated fatigue ...
A. 7 October 2008: I caught my hubby masterbating a numerous of times to girls on line, and he aditted to doing so very frequently. We wernt having a "dry" spell, but I know he isnt cheating (otherwise he wouldnt be masterbating, lol). However, getting text from other ... (read in full...)
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