I am feeling overwhelmed, trying to be a good mom, but I really need help, how do I get it?
Q. ok so im a mum of three 6,5,2 and married i feel like i cant cope my husband works long hours so i have to get up early and get the kids dressed then do all the housework dinner is always ready then he will go out to football training or casino and ...
A. 3 July 2008: *sigh* Isnt parenting the hardest job we love? The thing is, you ARE overwhelmed, and it isn't abnormal. This is a symptom of you needing your husbands time more often. Can you look at your daily life and say "yes, this is balanced"? I don't ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex, but my nervousness is interfering, with my performance, any suggestions?
Q. So I'm an 18 yo guy, and still a virgin. I've had the opprotunity to have sex twice. Both times I was nervous as hell. Like beyond nervous if you can imagine. There was very little to no forplay going on before we tried, and both times I went limp. ...
A. 3 July 2008: Yes, nervousness can totally hinder things sexually. How long have you and your lady been together? You need to be very comfertable with her in order to relax. I'm not a guy, but I know that most guys that are regular masterbaters typically have ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!
Q. Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...
A. 2 July 2008: We're just one BIG happy family here, no suprise others are attracted ti it! Fantastic, Andrew! Aloha and MANY Mahalos!!!!!... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of my emotional attachment to my ex?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a few months--he is WONDERFUL. I mean I don't even have to ask for anything, he just does it. He's like a prince charming. Everyone in my family loves him and so do my friends. There is only one problem....I don't think ...
A. 30 June 2008: Please, let this wonderful guy go if you don't really love him. Give him a chance to find love while he is young. If you still have feelings for your ex, then your current boyfriend is a rebound, and it will hurt him worse if you hang onto him for ... (read in full...)
Do his actions show that he fancies me? What do you think?
Q. Does he fancy me? I have known this guy for 4 years and over the past couple of years we have become good friends, especially in the last 6 months. He has always had mostly female friends and so is comfortable around us all and the more he se...
A. 30 June 2008: First, have you ever known him to have a girlfriend? Or maybe too many? Just trying to eliminate any possability that he may be gay, or a player. I always tell people who arnt sure if their crush feels the same way about them that the best way to ... (read in full...)
He doesn't like initiating anything! What should I do??
Q. Hello everyone. So I have recently entered my first relationship with a guy who's going through this his first time too. He is very adorable, funny, nice..and very shy and awkward. Personally I have no problem with his being shy---prolly jus...
A. 29 June 2008: It wouldnt be a huge issue if at least one of you were the "out going" type, but because you both seem too shy, it is kind of hard to get things rolling. At this stage in your relationship, you guys are excited, nervous, and pleasantly uncomfertable ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am trapped I want to leave but don't know how to go about it....
Q. Sorry for this being long but you need to know the story beforehand- I have been with my partner for about 4 years and brought a house together about 3 years ago. We were happy for about 2 of these years. We always argue, he likes to order me...
A. 29 June 2008: The best thing to do is leave. I know you have done it before, but you also took the path of least resistance and moved back with him. Instead of worrying about him and his needs, focus on you, stay occupied and make YOUR life better. Cut off ties ... (read in full...)
I miss my ex girlfriend, I miss my kids' mom and feel terrible. My boys have never seen me cry and I fear they might hear me at night...
Q. Hello. This is somewhat difficult for me to talk about but here it goes. I am a 36yr old single father of twins. I have raised them since they were born. Their mother is in prison and is out of the picture. I have no regrets about raising my ...
A. 28 June 2008: Dude! Please cry. Cry for the kids, it's important to vent. Even guys. I know your pain quite well. IT'S HARD!!!! It seems like you don't miss the previous ladies in your life, you miss being complete. God (or whatever powers that be) intended for 2 ... (read in full...)
I have NO facial hair! Is that a turn off to the girls??
Q. Ok, I'm 16 years old, and basically my problem is that I currently have no facial hair!... I know i was a little behind my mates when it came to pubity, but now I'm pretty much the same as them; I have a reasonable amount of pubic hair,...
A. 28 June 2008: I am a young lady who isnt attracted to facial hair. Never really have been. I know many girls that don't like it. Especially the mustache. It makes my upper lip raw when I get kissed. Ouch! I rather have my man shave. Dont stress on it. One more ... (read in full...)
Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 27 June 2008: Yeah, I've ran into some rediculous kissers before. If it's not the bird pecking at my lips repeatedly, it's the guy who tries to taste my stomach from the inside! Eek. I believe that the way a person kisses is a sign of wether or not he/she is ... (read in full...)
I'm in a very critical situation! Please help me to solve this problem.
Q. i am a 22 years old girl and i need your help and suggestion regarding the relationship between my real brother (27 years) and me. Actually my brother has very good personality (i also) and many girls like him. my brother has sexual rela...
A. 27 June 2008: Critical situation is an understatment!!! Shame on you for behaving that way towards your brother.
Now that I got that clear, I dont suggest you keep this baby. I am very against abortion, however, in situationslike this, the odds are, this baby... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but disrespects me and my home..why is he like this?
Q. my boyfriend and i live together, he says he loves me, but shows me no respect for my house or things, and gets upset over the smallest things. i don't understand, can anyone help me to understand why he is like this?...
A. 27 June 2008: If you let this continue, he will get worse, and he will control you with this attitude. There is no reason you should feel like you are walking on egg shells. Tell him, if he doesnt change, you will change things for him.Honestly, do you want to be ... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend want to have sex, but we're unsure about some things.
Q. I am 12 and me and my girlfriend want to have sex but we don't know were or when....
A. 27 June 2008: You are 12 and want to have sex, but are you 12 and want to have a baby? Remember, in many cases: sex=baby. When you get old enough to say to yourself "yeah, I can handle a big responsability", then, yeah, you are old enough. But, now? No.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and need to know..where can me and my bf have sex??? And are we too young to have sex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months.I'm 13 and he's almost 16. I think were ready to have sex...we've hooked up before but Ive always stopped him. Whoever awnsers this question could you please tell me *where we could have sex...
A. 26 June 2008: He kind of isn't too young, but you are....yuck, I know, not the answer you were looking for. But because his hormones are raging and he will kind of put the pressure on you, you need to be strong, put him to the test. If he really cares, he will ... (read in full...)
I don't want to wait to have a baby!
Q. I am 16 year's old going on 17 and my boyfriend, that's 18 and we've been together for about a year in a half, we want to have a baby or babies. People say that were to young and crazy because we both love kids so much.. we watch my neice and neph...
A. 26 June 2008: The reason they want you to wait untill after college is that once you have a child, you have very little time to go to school, and do homework. It will effect you in some way, wether it be stress, or lack of time. I had my first at 19 and was ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but disrespects me and my home..why is he like this?
Q. my boyfriend and i live together, he says he loves me, but shows me no respect for my house or things, and gets upset over the smallest things. i don't understand, can anyone help me to understand why he is like this?...
A. 26 June 2008: Sometimes people behave badly because they are holding negetive feelings and need an outlet. Have you tried asking him if there is anything he wants to talk to you about? Be a calm person that he can talk to. He might be hanging on to some issues ... (read in full...)
I want what's best for my son. Is he too young to choose who he wants to live with?
Q. Hey family! My issue is concerning my son and his father (who I am no longer with because of abusive behavior). For the first 4 years of my son's life, I raised him by myself, emotionally and financially. His father did nothing to show effort in ...
A. 26 June 2008: Hey Lazyguy, in some ways you are absolutly right. My assumption that he would be a decent father after my experience with him is crazy, however, my son and I would have never known this without giving him the chance. My son is very out spoken and ... (read in full...)
I want what's best for my son. Is he too young to choose who he wants to live with?
Q. Hey family! My issue is concerning my son and his father (who I am no longer with because of abusive behavior). For the first 4 years of my son's life, I raised him by myself, emotionally and financially. His father did nothing to show effort in ...
A. 26 June 2008: See, the thing is, his dad and I are friends. We don't bad mouth eachother, especially around the boy. I have made so much effort to making my son comfertable, and he still isn't, which makes me believe that it is out of my power. I do, however, ... (read in full...)
Why do women scream during sex?
Q. does sex hurt or do woman scream because it feels good??(growing teen looking for info)...
A. 26 June 2008: Yes. It isnt painful after the first couple of times, so screaming is for the pleasure of it.... (read in full...)
Broken up 2 nights ago. Is it too soon to text her friend?
Q. I just broke up with my girlfriend about 2 nights ago. Would it be bad form to start texting her friend and meet up with her?...
A. 25 June 2008: Yes. You could possibly break up a friendship. Would you be okay if your girlfriend broke up with you and 2 days later hooked up with your friend? It is important to treat people the way you want to be treated.... (read in full...)
Should I isolate myself in order to make a decision about who I want to be with?
Q. For the last 4 months or so I have been dating a guy. its been a really cool relationship, completely laid back and just fun really and also hes helped me through a lot and been completely supportive without putting pressure on me. However, i dont r...
A. 25 June 2008: In my opinion, long distant relationships almost never work out. If you have a vehicle, however, an hour isnt that far. The quicker you make a decision, the better. You wouldnt want to keep a nice guy hanging if you dont want to be with him. You ... (read in full...)
My penis and scrotum are 'shedding'! What is this and can I treat it at home?
Q. Ok, this is a bit emberassing, but my penis and (for lack of a better term) 'ball sack," are both having the same problem:they're "shedding." They're covered in dry skin, and some of it keeps coming off. what could this mean? Is it seri...
A. 25 June 2008: Sounds like egsima (sp?) Dry flacky skin. Does it itch? Go buy some emu oil, apply 3 times a day, will help it. If you are worried though, you should visit your docter.... (read in full...)
He doesn't know what he wants, will he ever grow up?
Q. Hi, I have been seeing this guy for over 2 months now and it's been pretty intense. We have fantastic times together. We've had our ups and downs lately because of his actions. He says: he says he wants to be with me and we are in a "relatio...
A. 25 June 2008: Damn, thats rediculous! One thing I havelearned is that when a person acts confused and goes from one end of an idea to the whole other end, there is an alternative motive. There is something going on, he doesnt want you to know about, and it is ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck between two lads - What can I do?
Q. hey i just wanted to see if any 1 cud help me? well the thing is there is these 2 lads i av likd 1 for 17 months and the other for bout 10 months. well i went out with the 1 i have 4 17 months for about 5 weeks then i finished with him and now i am...
A. 25 June 2008: Personally, I would try to not be so selfish. They don't deserve to be strung along and thats what you are doing. They both seem like great guys, so why not let some great girl have one of them. It's not only unfair for the lads, but unfair to all ... (read in full...)
I have been vomiting and with a lot of nause but just had my period... could I be pregnant?
Q. am i pregnant? i have been vomiting i always have a nausea feeling late at night and early morning and earlier in the month i was having bad cramps and my breast are getting bigger by the day!!! but one thing my period has just came on and im still ...
A. 24 June 2008: It is totally possible to have a period after conception. Follow the advice of eyeswideopen, smart man!... (read in full...)
I've not had a period for 2 months! What can I do?
Q. hi im nearly 16 and ive already lost my vaginity to a older lad, he's 18 and we've known each other since i was 3, his mam and my mam are really good friends too. i've now had sex with him over 5 times and the last time was 2 months ago and ive not ...
A. 24 June 2008: The only person that can truly help is a OBGYN. Please go visit your docter and tell him/her your concerns. Good luck!... (read in full...)
How can I ask my boyfriend to perform oral on me?
Q. What is the best way to get my boyfriend to perform oral on me? I'm not sure if he doesn't want to or if he's shy about it?? I just don't know! I preform oral on him and don't get it in return... and i really want him to do this. Any advice on ...
A. 24 June 2008: First, we must talk about you..uh, unmentionable. Now, I'm not saying yours is not perfect, I don't know really, however, lets cover the basics: Is the smell mild to non-existing? Very important. Secondly, is it trimmed? Some guys can't handle a ... (read in full...)
Is he going to cheat and will it stop??
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and i have been on and off for about six years. Last March we decided we really loved eachother and were trying to make it work this time. He grew up where his mom had a different man about everynight and had a very ruff ...
A. 23 June 2008: If someone wants to cheat, he/she will no matter what their partner does to try and make it stop. And of course, for you, therein lies a problem! You say he hasnt cheated since the last time he did it...are you SURE? And you guys have been fighting ... (read in full...)
I've got feelings for my girlfriend's friend....more so than for my gf!!
Q. How can i find out how my girlfriend's friend truly likes me without her telling my girlfriend?? I think she has a thing for me but keeps her mouth shut because of my current status with her friend....
A. 23 June 2008: Well sweetie, if you dont have feelings for your girlfriend (crush on friend or not) you should let her go. It isnt fair to keep her from finding quality love, you know. One thing I must say, is a relationship with her friend would probably not be ... (read in full...)
I love boys, so why can't I get my best friend out of my system?
Q. Hello, i'm a girl and i have a serious problem... I think i may be in love with my best friend who is also a girl. I'm not attracted to girls in general just her...after two drunken kisses on two different occassions i can't get her out of my head!...
A. 23 June 2008: Hi, I'm bisexual. I first found out when I fell in love with my best friend when I was 16. She was bisexual and proud, but I wasnt sure about myself, untill we made love. I'm 25 now, married with 2 kids, and she is the same age, married with 3 ... (read in full...)
I like this guy and suddenly all my ex's are getting in touch... what is going on?
Q. what is going on, i really like this guy im seeing- we r taking it slowly and all of the sudden a couple of my exs have been in touch wanting to see me. why now? I don't get it....
A. 23 June 2008: "You never know what you have untill you've lost it". As long as you are no longer available, the ex's will now notice that they miss you, and wish they still had you, and this new guy didnt. Crazy, huh? Not uncommon though. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends ex gf is always around!! Should I ask him to cut ties with her or tell her to back off??
Q. i need help!! please! my bf's ex gf is constantly in my life. we tried to be friends but she then decided twice to go after him. she always talks about him telling everyone she loves him and soon he will be back with her. we have mutual friends who ...
A. 22 June 2008: Not wrong at all, in fact quite necessary! This girl will keep trying harder and harder to get back with him if he dosnt stop feeding her need to see and talk to him. It's up to him, if he is serious about you, he needs to draw the line. Tell him to ... (read in full...)
My ex is single again and said he loves me, I am committed but want him back, your advice?
Q. I recently found out my ex and his girlfriend broke up. I really want him back and it was because of her that we broke up. I still love him and he said he loves me but I'm in a relationship. What do I do?...
A. 22 June 2008: Well, we can all agree that is wouldnt be fair for your current boyfriend if you wasted anymore of his time, and perhaps the best thing to do is break it off with him ASAP. I'm sure you like him as a friend, and don't want to hurt him, so do it ... (read in full...)
My relationship is completely wonderful except...there are location differences! Help!
Q. My relationship is completely wonderful. Everything is totally right between us, and we are filled with love for each other. It would be perfect except for this one REALLY BIG THING. Location. How the hell do you figure this stuff out? I met...
A. 21 June 2008: Research!!! If the reason he doesnt want to leave the west coast (which is where I am originally from) is because of work, research it on-line. "Graphic designers in NY". Help him feel comfertable with it. Howevr, I must say, because thats where I ... (read in full...)
Wll she be interested if I talked to her about my ex??
Q. im talking to a girl whos a lil younger.. she knows my ex-gf whos really popular... do u think it'll make her more interested if i talked to her about my ex... but i like this new girl.. or dont bring her up at all ......
A. 21 June 2008: Ex-girlfriends are a touchy subject. If you talk highly about the ex, it will crush the ego of the new one, and thats not good. The new girl will think she has a lot to live up to, instead of getting more interested in you. It will make her feel ... (read in full...)
Why do women like to tease men about sex??
Q. Why do women like to tease men about sex? Why not just be open to their needs instead of making it such a big deal!!!...
A. 21 June 2008: Nah, I'm talking about the same kind of tease, but seperating myself from the ladies who don't give a rats behind about the consiquences. I understand, therefore, tease ONLY when I want reaction. Many ladies don't. They like to tease and walk away ... (read in full...)
Why do women like to tease men about sex??
Q. Why do women like to tease men about sex? Why not just be open to their needs instead of making it such a big deal!!!...
A. 20 June 2008: Of course I tease! But I also understand the consiquences. If I shake my booty in my sweeties face, he will attack it. I think teasing is more sexy than saying "Honey, I think I'm ready for some intercourse now", lol. Hey, maybe THATS why we tease. ... (read in full...)
17 weeks pregnant and we are over the moon! But I don't want to make love any more...but we are having big arguments over this...
Q. i am 17 weeks pregnant with my firt baby and me and my partner are over the moon ablout it, the only thing is i dont want to make love any more,its not that i dont love my partner because i do very much, but were starting to have really big ...
A. 20 June 2008: I found that the best way to communicate my hormonal feelings with my partner during pregnancy was to educate him. Let the books explain it. Some ladies lose their sex drive during pregnancy. This doesnt mean it's gone forever. I must tell you ... (read in full...)
Why do women like to tease men about sex??
Q. Why do women like to tease men about sex? Why not just be open to their needs instead of making it such a big deal!!!...
A. 20 June 2008: I dont know what kind of ladies you're dealing with, but most of the females I know are open about everything. If you are going to generalize, then I will say that most men don't pick up on ladies being open, so they resort to a different means of ... (read in full...)
My partner has a split personality, will he ever change?? What should I do??
Q. My partner of 5 years has a split personality. He is a paranoid, possessive boozer. I love him to bits when he is Hyde. He is the most kind, loveable, generous, entertaining, knowledgeable man. Whan he is Jeckel I hate him with a vengence. If he ...
A. 20 June 2008: Is he a gemini? Does he do drugs? Those are the top, non-medical reasons one would have split personalities. He probably wont change, unless he is a drug user, in which case, an intervention would be a good idea. Othewise, because he wont change, ... (read in full...)
Dating my bf out of sympathy but like another guy. How do I deal with this?
Q. I met this guy a few months ago and he really likes me I ended dating him out of sympathy and well I met his friend a week ago. My mom doesn't want me with him and she has met his friend she likes his friend and so do I but he is in love with my ...
A. 20 June 2008: First, you need to break it off with currant bf. Never date someone out of sympathy. It may seem like you are a good person at first, but you actually seem like a worse person when you have to break it off. However, your currant bf has a right to ... (read in full...)
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