Doggy style...did I lose my virginity?
Q. My boyfriend and I, are/were both virgins. I'm 13 and He's 15. We did "doggy style" tonight for the very first time, No protection was used. So did I actually..lose my virginity? That's the thing I'm confused about....
A. 27 March 2009: Sorry hon, I hope I wasnt coming off as rude. I'm just concerned. Perhaps I shouldnt be so much, guess it's a weakness of mine; an over concern for others. My intention was to answer your question and inform you on some other very important factors ... (read in full...)
Doggy style...did I lose my virginity?
Q. My boyfriend and I, are/were both virgins. I'm 13 and He's 15. We did "doggy style" tonight for the very first time, No protection was used. So did I actually..lose my virginity? That's the thing I'm confused about....
A. 22 March 2009: Crash corse, then. He most likely did cum, and if he didnt, there is a such thing as precum, which every male does. It is a small amount of ejaculate that occurs just before he orgasms. Pre cum has more sperm count than an ejaculation (which is why ... (read in full...)
We both want a baby..but we know we're young!
Q. I'm 14, and My boyfriend(16) and I are sure that We want a future together....but the only thing is, We are in a long-distance Relationship. We talk about this all the time and I'm having such a hard time deciding what to do. My Boyfriend is most ...
A. 22 March 2009: Babies don't bring a girl and a boy together forever. A commitment does. You guys are not ready to produce a baby. I am 9 months pregnant with my 3rd child, absolutely miserable, pain everywhere, feel like a fat cow, and my poor husband has to stand ... (read in full...)
Relationship is falling apart I feel like I am putting more into than him
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now... it seems like the relationship is falling apart... we don't hang out as much. we are always arguing...i am more into the relationship than he is...how can i get him back into it...do i play ...
A. 22 March 2009: Try asking him he he needs a little space, and if he does, pay attention to how he uses it. Mind games suck, men don't react well to them, and they tend to make matters worse. Simply tell him that you have noticed an emotional distance between you ... (read in full...)
I can't open up to people
Q. I'm 16 years old and I've recently discovered that I don't open up to people. I hear everyone say "I love you" to other people all the time. It seems so easy to say but I feel weird and awkward when I say it. I can say it to my parents and other ...
A. 22 March 2009: Well you have best friends, so I don't think it's a matter of opening up to people, I think you are wise, and realistic. You see love as something else, something permanent, something more meaningful. People throw those words around like it's ... (read in full...)
Penis curves to the right..is this normal?
Q. I am 22 years old and i am just wondering why when i have an erection my penis curves to the right. From the view of me looking down at it. i was just wondering is this normal and is there any way to fix it to be strait or is this just the way it is ...
A. 22 March 2009: Yeah, it's normal. I was serious with a guy who had a penis that curved downward in a "c" shape when he was erect. I am not sure if there is a non surgical way to straighten it, but babe, I wouldnt bother. Most ladies will find your penis to be a ... (read in full...)
Doggy style...did I lose my virginity?
Q. My boyfriend and I, are/were both virgins. I'm 13 and He's 15. We did "doggy style" tonight for the very first time, No protection was used. So did I actually..lose my virginity? That's the thing I'm confused about....
A. 22 March 2009: If he was inside of you, yes, you lost your virginity, no matter how it was put in there, your virginity is gone. Not only that but you may be an expecting mommy! Thats right, no protection=baby. Havnt they taught sex ed in school at your age? If ... (read in full...)
Don't know if I wanna still be with my fiancee
Q. hey all. this ones kinda complicated for me. i am currently engaged to my girlfriend. but lately have been feeling like is this the person i really wanna be with!! see i give her everything i can to make her happy. but back in november i found...
A. 21 March 2009: Yeah, herb is one thing (she may get too lazy to be mischievious, lol) but coke is a whole other thing. No one on a drug like that can be trusted. Good luck:)... (read in full...)
Girls! I broke her trust - Can you tell me if there is hope?
Q. Hello all... I've been dating the girl of my dreams since late 07. She and I had a struggle last summer, but we worked through it and we got together again, and got even closer and more intimate. We are a long-distance relationship, so o...
A. 20 March 2009: Phew, I tought you were gonna say you had cheated or something. Those kinds of lost trust issues take hard work and time to work through. What I see happening here is the same thing I see in 90% of long didtant relationships. You love eachother sooo ... (read in full...)
I keep wanting more sex!
Q. hi i am 17 and i have a 1 yr. old baby and dont get the time to do anything alone i have a high sex drive and its driving me crazy not being able to just play with my self or something towrad that manner im not sure what i can do and wanted to s...
A. 20 March 2009: You need to understand that a sex addict is usually that way because they are really seeking emotion and closeness to someone. They are lonely. It isn't wise to sleep around to fulfill an addiction, it puts your health in danger, which puts your ... (read in full...)
Don't know if I wanna still be with my fiancee
Q. hey all. this ones kinda complicated for me. i am currently engaged to my girlfriend. but lately have been feeling like is this the person i really wanna be with!! see i give her everything i can to make her happy. but back in november i found...
A. 20 March 2009: This was in November so there has been some time in between. She may have realized that it isn't cool. As long as she is snorting, however, she can't REALLY be trusted. (believe me, I know! Seen it all too many times.) Has she quit? Do you do it ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend refuses to wear condoms!
Q. my boyfriend refuses to wear condoms and I'm afraid i might get pregnant if he doesn't my friend told me about different woman condoms would you suggest woman condoms if not what can i do...
A. 20 March 2009: Beware of a guy that refuses to wear condoms. Ask yourself, how many other ladies did he refuse to wear condoms with? How many of them had STD's? Ooo, scarey. Tell him if he won't wear one, he needs to go get tested with you present. If he's clean, ... (read in full...)
I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female.
Q. Ok, the short end of the story is that I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female. I didn't realise she was 14 when I met her, I honestly thought she was 18 because she could easily have passed for a university stu...
A. 20 March 2009: Wow, I am impressed with your openess and willingness to hear some constructive critisism (which is what this site, in my eyes, is all about). Any girl of any age would be lucky to be adored by you:) Good luck hon, I hope we have all helped.... (read in full...)
I'm gagging when I brush my teeth..pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone, for the past month, i gag when i brush my teeth, its so bad i have 2 spit out then start again, its begining to bother me, Ive looked it up,and says signs of pregnency, but ive not had sex since jan, and ive had periods since then, do...
A. 19 March 2009: It may be the shape/size of your toothbrush, or an infection on one of your teeth. I am not a dentist or a docter, so I couldnt say for sure. I have 2 kids and am 9 months preggy, never had a teeth brushing issue, however, every female is different. ... (read in full...)
I have a very overprotective father!
Q. I 19 years old, and a daddys girl. My mom died when I was 6 years old and my dad became very over protective. He acts lile Im a child, He calls my cell a million times a day and if I dont answer is will just keep calling. HE literally gets my uncle ...
A. 19 March 2009: My dad is the opposite and I often wish he were a little moreprotective and involved with me and my life. Guess we always want what we don't have. I don't find anything wrong with criminal checks, in fact I used to do it for myself when I met ... (read in full...)
I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female.
Q. Ok, the short end of the story is that I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female. I didn't realise she was 14 when I met her, I honestly thought she was 18 because she could easily have passed for a university stu...
A. 19 March 2009: Hi there! I am giggling because it seems as though you have done a fantastic job of convincing yourself that this is all okay (and I am not saying it isnt). However, there is a lot of logic left out in this situation. 1st and far most, in America, ... (read in full...)
My mother is dating my ex-boyfriend...what do I do?
Q. My mother is dating my ex-boyfriend, who I was on and off with for five years. I am still in love with him and she knows it... well I'm not any more. They are actually trying to have a relationship. My kids loved him. She was never a great mo...
A. 19 March 2009: Ooo, how Jerry Springer! Let them be, and don't subject your kids to it if you feel it is a bad example. Are your kids also his kids? If thats the case, he has rights, but you are definetly not obligated to have your kids around that. I am sorry, it ... (read in full...)
Second thoughts about marriage...
Q. I am 37, he is 38. We have been together for a little over a year, living together for 7 months. We are discussing getting engaged, and I am currently at a point where I am not sure about that. I have had a difficult time with this relationship ...
A. 19 March 2009: I don't think people should get married if they have even a shread of doubt. Sounds like you are not happy with certain things about him that he wouldnt, shouldnt and couldnt change. If you marry him, you spend your entire marriage trying to fix or ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for fiancee to look for nude pics on craigslist?
Q. I thought I was hot but fiancee is bringing me down! seems like he likes to look for random (and free) places to view naked pics of chicks. seems to happen daily to some degree and I also thinks he looks on his phone at work. he seems to especial...
A. 12 March 2009: Wether or not it is normal, it's bringing you down. Was this something he was up front and honest about, or did you stumble on this information by accident or curiosity? Guys are guys, and if sex hasnt been an event in the bedroom, they will find ... (read in full...)
I slept naked with him and now I'm worried
Q. I slept naked with my boyfriend..How ever he was clothed..He kissed me all over.. After this I'm really guilty for what i did:(:(I am not even talking to him properly.. what do i do in this situation???I'm having sleepless nights cuz of this.He a...
A. 10 March 2009: I take ityou are a virgin, no? This would be the reason you had bleeding. That would be normal. What exactly are you worried about? You can't get pregnant by doing what the pair of you did. In fact, you can't really catch an STD doing what you guys ... (read in full...)
Whats she implying? What should I do?
Q. Ok, so heres the deal. I was with my ex for nearly 5 years and we have a child together. The relationship ended because of me, and Im willing to admit this. We went almost a year after the break-up without talking (unless ablsolutely neccessary). ...
A. 10 March 2009: Interesting. First, I don't know what you have done to disable your relationship, nor do I need to know, however, the people in her life that love and care about her and are aware of your wrong doing are and always have been influencing her ... (read in full...)
I love my b/f but I don't want his family. What to do??
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, his parents dont like me, end of, case closed. I stayed over his house one evening and we were talking on the stairs the next day and all his dad said to me was 'move im trying to get upstairs'. ...
A. 10 March 2009: Baggage dosnt go away, and no one should be with another with the idea that they will change, or their lives will change because they are with them. You understand, right? It is one thing to express that you are having a hard time with the family ... (read in full...)
What do you think of dating your step brother/sister?
Q. What do you think of dating your step brother/sister? I'm not doing it or anyone else that I know of, I've just been thinking about it for a while and wanted to see what other people thought. I do and don't approve of it. ...
A. 10 March 2009: I knew a couple that were almost married who were STEP brother and sister (not half, thats just crazy). They began dating when their parents got married, and they were teenagers. Kinda strange, and funny to me, they stayed together in one room, ... (read in full...)
I just want some respect and romance.
Q. My husband and I have some serious issues. The problem is the only one that thinks they're issues is me. Long story short we have been together for 8 years and married for four of those. There have been serious problems including infidelity, a sick ...
A. 6 March 2009: After my husband tried my trust, I had a hard time being turned on by his approaches as well. Seems our husbands read the same "How to get the wife in bed" book! I just tell him, straight up (which is the only way I communicate with him, it works ... (read in full...)
What is this awful smell?
Q. Every time I open my legs there is a smell. It's coming from my vagina. It somtimes smells really bad and I have no idea what it is. What could it be?...
A. 5 March 2009: Yep, yeast infection. Welcome to the wonderful world of womanhood. We all get them. Eat less sugar, wear cotton underpants, don't use strong perfumed soaps or detergents, and eat LOTS of yogurt. The acidopholis in yogurt will make a yeast infection ... (read in full...)
Will my boobs go back to the way they were before after I'm done breast feeding?
Q. Okay this may seem weird (because I know most girls would prefer their boobs to be larger not smaller). Anyway, I'm 5 months pregnant and my breasts have grown by two cup sizes. I used to always want bigger boobs, but now I realize how much they get ...
A. 5 March 2009: Every female is different. If you plan to breastfeed, you will probably get even bigger breasts. I know, hard to imagine, but once they produce milk and they get engorged, they get bigger and harder, and more sensitive. I have always had a small ... (read in full...)
Should I give the green light to my friend to have sex with my mom?
Q. Hello… My friend wants to have sex with my mum. They are both single. i care for them both and want them to be happy. I know my mum thinks my friend is cute. My friend said that he has liked her since we both were in high school. She is in her 4...
A. 27 February 2009: If the sex is good, I doubt it will be a one time thing. They could possibly start having a serious relationship. You might see your friend move into your mum's room as the "man of the house". I'm not saying you should say yes or no, I am saying, it ... (read in full...)
What do I do? Where do I go from here?
Q. Hey guys. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 and a half years now. I love this guy to pieces and he is the best. He is my first true love and we even lost our virginity to each other. We have created a really special bond that I ...
A. 27 February 2009: I am going through a similar situation with my 6 year old son. No, really, sounds crazy but the kid is too honest, which I think you are too. He will tell me every time he picks his nose, or does something gross that really, I don't want to know ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex at 13, what do you advise?
Q. im am 13 and i really want to have sex i just dont have anyone to do it with! who can i go to?...
A. 26 February 2009: MASTERBATE! I advise AGAINST having sex at such a age. PLEASE wait honey, your body is sacred, special. You only get one. Thats why it's important to share it with somone you have known for along time that loves you and that you love in return. ... (read in full...)
Cheated on b/f now I'm 7 months pregnant
Q. I cheated on my b/f back in september and now im 7 months preg. well my b/f found out about it and left me. it is killing me not bein with him or talkin to him all the time he said he might take me back if the baby is his but thats not good enough i ...
A. 26 February 2009: Perfect example of cause and reaction. My closest friend did the same thing. I love her to death, but I had no idea what to say to her on a positive note. Love does not have the word "cheat" next to it in the dictionary. There is nothingyou can do ... (read in full...)
Is my son going to be tall?
Q. Hi, i have a child growth question for anybody who knows what they are talking about. I have a son who just turned 15 and he is around 5'7 or 5'8. I wondering if he will be fairly tall. Im only 5'9 and my wife is 4'10 but he seems tall to be our ...
A. 26 February 2009: Thats awsome. Is he in any height flattering sports? Track? Basketball? ... (read in full...)
Pregnant with his child, but suspect he's gay... I'm so confused!
Q. Me and my partner are about to have our first child, although he's very manly ie:- sports, beer, sex, the usual, I've seen a few times now that he has been on gay porn for straight guys and shemales websites. It makes me feel sick but I don't wa...
A. 25 February 2009: A lot of guys are typically curious. However, I know what it is like to be pregnant and doubtful of my partner. This issue needs to be confronted, in a calm, gental way. Tell him you would pass no judgement if he was, and it would mean a lot to you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend leeches off me. What should I do?
Q. so my boyfriend and i have been together a long time. he still has no job. hes not really making much of an effort to find another one. I supply alot of our entertainment money. He never has a problem using my money. Sometimes he shells out a ...
A. 25 February 2009: I think he has just gotten way too comfetable with letting you flip the bill. Tell him you want to start saving for the future, you might want to do some traveling or perhaps one day you would like to consider having kids, or maybe opening a ... (read in full...)
How long before I can date again?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 2 years but things got sour and we broke up the other day. This was because first my mother wasn't supporting the relationship and she had banned me from seeing my boyfriend. The last time I saw him was in May last ...
A. 25 February 2009: Date whenever you please. Long distant relationships rarely work anyway. I don't tink there is a time limit to how long you need to grieve over a break up. A strong person may not need to hang about listening to depressing music, sobbing over a ... (read in full...)
Do you think he just doesn't like sex.... with me!
Q. My other half keeps telling me he has no sex drive yet he can watch porn for at least 3 hours a day. Do you think that it's possible he just doesnt like sex? Dumb question I know!...
A. 25 February 2009: If he watches porn, he likes sex. Have you tried watching it with him? 3 hours a day, wow, where do people find this kind of time? Hehehe. Are you worried he has lost his sex drive with you? Maybe changing the style of bedroom behavior is in order. ... (read in full...)
Female to male anal
Q. In general do women tend to like or dislike the thought of a straight male liking Anal sex and do/would they like to give it?...
A. 25 February 2009: Try to kep in mind, everyone is different. Some females really like the idea of their partner liking anal sex, some relate it to much to sexual preference. When it comes to this topic, there is no general right or wrong, it all has to do with what ... (read in full...)
Help! The condom broke and period still not here!
Q. My fiance and I had sex about 11 days after the first day of my last period. The condom broke and it's been almost a month and I still haven't recieved my next period. I took a pregnancy test two times, the first only one line showed up and the ...
A. 25 February 2009: Don't be afraid of the OB. Any female sexually active especially should be seen. All 3 of my kids were super faded pink lines. They have preggy test that say "pregnant", which I had to use because my husband just wasnt sure about the faded line. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists I'm always picking on his 13 year old daughter...
Q. My boyfriend of 5 years insists I'm always picking on his 13 year old daughter. Am I crazy? I have three kids of my own ages 10, 9, and 5. My girls adore him ages 9 and 5. My 10 year old son is neutral my boyfriend does nothing with him. On t...
A. 24 February 2009: I think as much as we hate to admit it, other people's kids are just not like our kids. You know when you baby sit, or have sleep overs, and you just can't wait for their parents to pick them up because you're just not used to a kid like that? It's ... (read in full...)
Why has my ex started calling me again?
Q. My ex has been calling me lately. What does he want? We dated for 4 years and broke up a year ago. I caught him with another woman in his bedroom on New Years day 2008. What a way to bring in the New Years right? (Hahaha I can at least laugh about ...
A. 24 February 2009: Have you tried asking him tis question. Only he really has the answer. And does it matter to you what he wants? I mean, sounds like you're cool with being his friend, but thats it, so does it matter if he wants to be your boyfriend? It shouldnt if ... (read in full...)
How do you know when love is meant to be?
Q. how do you know when a love is meant to be?...
A. 23 February 2009: You just know. It's different for everyone. It takes a little faith, too. Many people don't believe in "the one". I think if you know someone well enough to know that there is absolutely nothing you would change about them, not even little things, ... (read in full...)
In love with someone I cannot have
Q. what is there to do when you love someone like you've never loved anyone before and that person does not correspond you and is with someone else and you feel like you got no chance and you've done all you can?...
A. 22 February 2009: I agree with Starfish. Just be stoked she is happy. Be her friend, be the guy that she can talk to about anything without making her feel uncomfertable. It's rare these days. Who knows what the future holds....May I ask why she is so "untouchable"?... (read in full...)
I like him but he only calls when he wants to have sex!
Q. I've been "hooking" up with this guy for a little over a year now, and before I never really thought a relationship would work between us and just enjoyed merely having sex with him. Lately he hasn't been returning my usual late night calls and ...
A. 22 February 2009: I had a thing for a guy that treated me like that. It was awful. Tell him how you feel, see what happens. In my situation, I found out that I wasnt the only girl he was doing that to, and I was so upset that he put me in danger for catching an STD, ... (read in full...)
I just want to be happy but I don't want to make the wrong decision.
Q. I need advice. I am married, I have two kids and I am 9 weeks pregnant. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. I love my husband but I still love my ex. My ex still loves me. I want to be with my ex but I don't want to ruin the ...
A. 22 February 2009: The wrong decision would to be to get back with your ex (which is an ex for a reason), without putting your all into your marriage (which is a marriage for a reason) first. Try to remember, you are in a phase in your pregnancy where your hormones ... (read in full...)
Is my son going to be tall?
Q. Hi, i have a child growth question for anybody who knows what they are talking about. I have a son who just turned 15 and he is around 5'7 or 5'8. I wondering if he will be fairly tall. Im only 5'9 and my wife is 4'10 but he seems tall to be our ...
A. 22 February 2009: He is almost done growing, and yes, genetics don't stop at the mother and father. I am 5'4", and my sons dad is 6'11", and I only weigh 92 lbs (when I am not pregnant). My son was born 8lbs, 11oz, and was a long little guy. He is not 6 and is the ... (read in full...)
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