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I finally feel ready to start dating, any advice on how to go about it?

Q.   I'm a 25 years-old male who've never went anywhere with a female. I've also never been shown explicit interest by one, save 2-3 times when I was a young teenager. For nearly all my life I've been passive and secluded as I was excessively fat. Now ...

A.   20 May 2008:  Sounds like you are on the right track. Try to remember that materialistic things don't make a person, experiences do, with that being said, travel. Even if it's to the next big city, it's important to check out the scene other than where you are ... (read in full...)

Sex with cousin, we used the withdrawal method. What are the risks?

Q.   i had sex with my cousin. we are 2nd cousins, and he did not use protection, but he pulled out before he came. Is there a chance i might be pregnant???...

A.   20 May 2008: Just before a guy has an orgasm, and ejaculates, he has a pre- ejaculation, or "pre-cum". It contains more sperm than his ejaculation. Most guys dont even know they "pre-came". If you give ahand job to a guy, you will notice that he does it, but he ... (read in full...)

Its my first time, I'm 13! help!

Q.   hey, my name is maria. im 13 years old, and my boyfriend is 15. weve been together for a year, and im ready to have sex for my first time. im not scared or anything, but i am nervous! its not his first time, so i dont know what he expects out of m...

A.   20 May 2008: UGH! Is this some kind of joke? Probably not, huh? OK, here's a true story of a girl named Allie, was my best friends sister. She was 13 once. Had sex with a guy she "loved", whatever that means to kids anymore...Got pregnant. She had the baby boy ... (read in full...)

I had sex for the first time on the weekend...and I'm still bleeding...is this normal?

Q.   hey!! ok well i lost my virginity on the w.e and me and my boyfriend had sex like 4 times! anyway...there was blood but 2 days later there is still a little bit of blood!! whats going on?? also...im really dry when we have sex..how can we mak...

A.   20 May 2008: Yeah, a little bleeding (spotting) is normal, as there might have been a lot of taring. Are you due for a period? If it is someting you are concerned about, visit your OBGYN, like I answered another young girl, you should visit the OBGYN to discuss ... (read in full...)

I'm having fantasy of a threesome. Am I normal?

Q.   Ok I'm bi I don't tell many people this because I'm afraid of what they will say but thats not the point of this message. Today in 5th period I had both people I like together in one class . Boy and a girl. I don't why but I started having thi...

A.   19 May 2008: No, it's normal. I had a threesome with 2 people I knew from one class, but it was after we got out of high school-HONEST. It was cool, we were good friends because we knew eachother from "back in the day" (high school). You are not strange, just ... (read in full...)

I had sex a couple of days ago and I'm still bleeding, why??

Q.   i'm 15 years old and i just had sex a couple days ago. i'm still bleeding from this. i can't figure out if it is because he scratched me or if it i "you know what"!! please help me!!...

A.   19 May 2008: If it's just spotting, chances are, there was slight taring, seeing as it was your first time. It's not unusual, and common in girls for their first time, HOWEVER, if you feel concerned about it, you MUST see an OBGYN. While you're there, let that ... (read in full...)

I need immediate help.. please! I'm being blackmailed!

Q.   I need immediate help, please. Before I explain my situation, I just want the people to know that I'm not really.. 'this' kind of a person. I don't know why I acted this way, and now I'm paying the price for my stupidity. I've always been independ...

A.   19 May 2008: okay aunts and uncles, I live in Hawaii, 3 hours behind California. and still have heard nothing from this girl. I'm worried. Hope all is well with you, elusive eyes. ... (read in full...)

I felt bad for not indulging his anal fantasies and that he also has erection problems

Q.   Okay, here's the thing...he has NO problems getting it up the first time. Actually, it's great sex. The second time, a while later...it's really hard to get him...well, hard. The only things that seem to turn him on is 69 or the idea of him doin...

A.   19 May 2008:  Well now hearing it from the hung-like-a-horses mouth, lol, I kinda have a different view of my hubbies obsession with it. My only question is, why, if he knows it dosnt hurt me, does he still obsess over it? It wasnt too much trouble, I just had ... (read in full...)

I felt bad for not indulging his anal fantasies and that he also has erection problems

Q.   Okay, here's the thing...he has NO problems getting it up the first time. Actually, it's great sex. The second time, a while later...it's really hard to get him...well, hard. The only things that seem to turn him on is 69 or the idea of him doin...

A.   17 May 2008: My husbands is retractable. Gravity plays no role in a mans erection, as far as I know. I was terrified of anal sex, and have a gay brother. I just couldnt understand how they...DO THAT! It hurt me like crazy. But I kept trying. Finally I realized ... (read in full...)

I finally feel ready to start dating, any advice on how to go about it?

Q.   I'm a 25 years-old male who've never went anywhere with a female. I've also never been shown explicit interest by one, save 2-3 times when I was a young teenager. For nearly all my life I've been passive and secluded as I was excessively fat. Now ...

A.   17 May 2008: I am your complete opposite. Super outgoing, socially over experienced (for my age) and have a great ability to click with most people. However, I am cynical, and dont put up with any kind of fake energy. Because I am your age, I can say, that the ... (read in full...)

I need immediate help.. please! I'm being blackmailed!

Q.   I need immediate help, please. Before I explain my situation, I just want the people to know that I'm not really.. 'this' kind of a person. I don't know why I acted this way, and now I'm paying the price for my stupidity. I've always been independ...

A.   16 May 2008: Girl, Looks like your stuck between a rock and a hard place. I cant tell you what this freak is thinking, but as for your parents, you have options. You NEVER need to put up with that kind of abuse from them. Here in America, parents go to jail for ... (read in full...)

Is it just me, or is anybody else disturbed by 10-13 year olds giving out blow jobs?

Q.   I've been watching this board for a couple of days now, and I have to admit that I am shocked at the number of 10-15 year old girls that are asking questions about boyfriends, sex and blowjobs. Is this the norm these days that children start this ...

A.   16 May 2008: I dunno about all of you, but being a parent of 2 kids puts me in a position where I can say, this needs to change! My kids are too young to even think about that stuff right now, but maybe I'm wrong. With the age of sexual activity dropping ... (read in full...)

Is it just me, or is anybody else disturbed by 10-13 year olds giving out blow jobs?

Q.   I've been watching this board for a couple of days now, and I have to admit that I am shocked at the number of 10-15 year old girls that are asking questions about boyfriends, sex and blowjobs. Is this the norm these days that children start this ...

A.   15 May 2008: To the anon 13 year old, WHATS THE BIG DEAL??? Diseases, distraction from what you should be doing, like going to school, studying to be a bright, smart young lady that can grow up, get a good job and support herself instead of asking for mom and ... (read in full...)

Embarassing question, I seem to have lost a vibrator...

Q.   okay, this is embarrassing. About 2 weeks ago, I came home from a night out (yes, alcohol was involved). I fell asleep with my cordless "bullett" (a small vibrator) and have not been able to find it since. Is it possible that it is lost inside of ...

A.   15 May 2008: Oh my word;) Sooo, you think its still there. I assume, being a female, you'd feel it. After a week or so, youd start cramping pretty badly. I say this because I, too, had a bad tampon experience. Was anyone in the room with you, or in the house ... (read in full...)

Will regular masturbation affect my sex life with a partner?

Q.   I am not married and have been mustarbating for almost ten years,could this might bring problems in my life when i get married?please advice o that i can avoid or continue...

A.   15 May 2008: I dont think so. Masterbation is natural, healthy, and pretty much expected from guys. The only way would effect your marriage, when it happens, is if you do it while looking and thinking of other ladies and hide it from her. Most people would say ... (read in full...)

Does her eating disorder have anything to do with her lack of response to fingering?

Q.   ok so i've asked this before but it's a little different i think now.. ok well tonight i went down on my gf for the the like second time and she got off to it.. but um fingering her she says still gets her no where and she even said it kinda made ...

A.   15 May 2008: Her eating disorter has nothing to do with it, but I can see why you'd ask, as it would effect her menstration. But thats it as far as "down there". Some girls are just not in to certain foreplay. Fingering does very little for me, but clitoral play ... (read in full...)

I'm not a big fan of going on top, am I doing something wrong

Q.   I never found the girl on top position to be all that great. I constantly hear how satisfying it feels for women, but I never get much out of it. Could I be doing it wrong?...

A.   15 May 2008: Hey, girl, I've never liked being on top either, and I dont think I'm doing it wrong. I found a particular position where I am on top, turned to the side and bent down, with my knees down, if you can picture that-lol. I'm more or less particular ... (read in full...)

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