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writes: Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you? By that, I mean from the time penetration starts till he comes...so excluding foreplay and stuff. If you like it long, do you expect him to get it up again soon? For those who like minutemen, do you expect him to "perform" several times?Please answer from the standpoint of what you would PREFER, not what you're getting...unless what you're getting is ideal.I guess I'm asking because I'm with a girl now who I think has been with 1 minute wonders her whole life, and seems to prefer quick, hard sex with a few repeats. I'm curious if this is more typical, or if it just tends to be the norm because guys tend to cum faster. I am coming from several longer relationships which varied from 10 to 45 minutes for sex. I personally prefer to go a while and have some fun with different positions, make her orgasm several times, etc. I generally like to cum once over multiple times. My recovery isn't what it used to be, but even when it was fast, I still felt like once was OK most of the time.
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 Different positions, slow and soft; hard and fast. It really depends on the mood you two are in. For me an hour and a half is a quickie. The longest I've ever gone with my fiance is six hours, that was the first time we ever had sex with each other and we were exploring. It really depends on the woman. My sister thinks fifteen to twenty minutes is good. A lot of different factors to consider, I don't think there is any certain set of time you have to have sex, like a minimum, lol.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (1 November 2010):
 Depends. Sometimes 3 minutes seems like enough. Sometimes two hours isn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): perfect sex for me is a weekend from Friday night until Sunday night, with some pre-prepared platters of easy finger food that can be used for meals if we find ourselves peckish. No television, no phones. At a weekend cottage in the country or a beach shack where there are no neighbors so we can be vocal, or lay on the beach and watch the stars under a rug. Or come inside if it gets chilly. And stop and start at will with nothing scheduled and no interuptions. when my man is really rocking (four hours of hardness) and i am amazed he can last so long, then i find when i wake again i can still feel the last orgasm. Never have i been dry and never have i had to use lubricant. But thats because we put a lot of focus on foreplay, so we are well primed before any thrusting starts. I honestly cannot ever imagine i would get bored with sex. When we are driving to the destination i get tingly all over just thinking about our whole weekend (it's a treat, does not happen every weekend) devoted to sex. When we drive back on the Sunday night we feel so good all over. I would call 60 to 90 minutes including foreplay a 'quickie'. But life would be boring if it was all quickies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question4 hours? Holy jeez. THat's a LOT non stop...unless you are counting the usual breaks, cuddling and foreplay.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (31 October 2010):
I'm 21 and been with my current boyfriend for almost two years and the first time we had sex was six hours and 43 orgasms later. Not I like about 4 hours, enough time to explore and have some fun while we make love. I honestly think it depends on the woman how long she likes to go. Most girls I know think four hours is ridiculous and an hour for me is a quickie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): i think the more foreplay the less i ant introurse cas then id get off quicker ad be exhausted. but if i dont get foreplay, then ill be jus getting horney by the time my bf gets off and i wont have mine yet. 20 min forplay= 8 min. sex ??
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 October 2010):
 Late teens to early 20s I could go all night long, multiple times even..
Now, that I'm married and 25..I like it anywhere from 15-40 minutes max. Any longer and my legs cramp up or I find myself going dry to the point where my husband gets chaffed. Ouch. I like to orgasm first multiple times, and when he finishes then I'm ready to relax and that's enough for the day. Can honestly say I'm not as sexually energized as I used to be, but that's because I'm at the age of where I want to start trying for my first child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): I use to be like her because that was what I was accustomed to. But, the man I am with now slowed me down and I appreciate that, it is more passionate now and it last for quite a while and I prefer it that way. So, talk to her about it, it will take time but I think the change will benifit her in the long run for sure. I guess about 45 min.
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