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anonymous
writes:I did really like this girl. But she rejected me before I asked her out. Her words were: "I don't like him, he don't like me and that will never happen." I tried to shrug it off but it didnt work and I cried..but not in front of her. I wish she knew how I felt..but I think I annoyed her or got her mad. I used to call her "Sweetie" to play around, and also hug her everyday and say hi, but I think I went too far, to even send her a facebook message saying Hey Sweetie. What do I do?
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (31 October 2010):
 She said, "He don't like me." Maybe because she thinks you don't like her, she won't admit that she does like you. you will never know unless you ask and if she doesn't like you, then so what. There are three women to every man on this planet, you will find someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): Age 13-15, man you move on. Way too much ahead of you to let one female you barely know stress you out this much.
If her liking you is possible and you would like to see it through then my advice is, play hard to get. Be around her without talking to her or even acknowledging her. Let her get accustomed to seeing you around and hopefully she will want to see more of you, then she will talk to you to say hi or whatever. Be nice but nonchalant, and move on, as if you have better things to do, but make sure she knows you were happy to see her. Continue this pattern and let her decide if she likes you or not. Chasing her after she has already made it apparent she isn't interested is only going to push her further away. Meanwhile, you don't look so desperate for someone that doesn't want you, leaving the door open for girls who do want to get to know you better.
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reader, GodLovesForever +, writes (31 October 2010):
 Well buddy, I have been here several times...my advice would be to ask her if you can start over and be friends, build trust within the friendship then when you 2 have a strong trust ask her to go with you somewhere, such as a beach or somewhere that is lovely. Don't take her out to eat, or to a movie on a 1st date...that's to expected. Show her something out of the ordinary. Unfortunately for me I don't live near a beach so it's not that easy for me to do. If you don't live near a beach, take her to a park or a field full of flowers. If you live in the city, see about going to a nearby lake or larger pond. There is hope for you, just follow your heart and build slowly, if you know her very well then you can build on that, make sure she knows you well before you go getting really close to her like hugging a lot, mainly show her that you are there foe her and give her attention and compliment on things you see about her, but don't make too many at once, you wont have anything to compliment on later in the day, lol. If you still have some questions I'll see about giving you my email somehow without it being public on here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): Okay simple... she's just not worth your time. Either make sure she knows you like her, or just move on without that bitch. She's been horrible to you, and you just don't deserve that. You could still be friends with her, if you're okay with that. But I think that you should tell her how she made you feel. There are other girls out there, I promise! 333333
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): If she cant even give you a chance shes not the girl for you. What a b****
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