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Is he justified in making my life hell because he 'loves' me?
Q. Well theres this guy I work with hes 30, I'm 19, was 18 at the time. He kinda manipulated me into a 'relationship', making me feel sorry for him, etc. He used to accuse me of sleeping with guys, having AIDs,go through my bag and my phone, he was ...
A. 7 January 2009: Well done!! :)... (read in full...)
Fallen for my math teacher?
Q. Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...
A. 26 December 2008: Your not immature love can strike at any age. You just have to let it pass you by try the tricks I explained in my earlier post. Eventually it will pass.
This type of love is the equivalent of falling for someone who does not love you back lik... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not demonstrative, should I cool it?
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been dating for two years now. I love him very much, but he does not show that he reciprocates that love. My boyfriend claims not to be very "verbal." I, on the other hand, like to call him and send him...
A. 23 December 2008: Just be who you are, take it easy thats all dont get cought up in any games and think too much it will distroy it all.
If thats the way you are then thats the way you are,in the example when he was with his ex in your follow up post.
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Does acne make me too ugly to get a girlfriend?
Q. I got two questions. One,wot are da qualities that girls look for in a guy? I am 19 . Still single. So pls,help me out. Two,i had lots of acne.so i have some spots on my face,not that much visible .but is it way too much ugly to have spots on face?...
A. 23 December 2008: Always dress smart, speak at the best manner, don't always try to talk gangsterish around a girl, there not one of the boys, there a lady, they have class! you wanna look your best and by just trying, it shows that you take pride in your self and ... (read in full...)
Fallen for my math teacher?
Q. Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...
A. 23 December 2008: Yes I understand... Are there any other math clases you can transfer to? If yes go to that class and get your mind off him. If not consider leaving that school and go to a new one. The new school will have new guys... c'mon isnt there one guy... (read in full...)
What if you can't be together because of circumstance? What are the options?
Q. If you can't be with someone for the moment due to circumstance, what can you do? Give up? I don't want to go on with life always wondering "what if." But if you're both going your separate ways in just a year, what else can you do? Make a vow to ...
A. 23 December 2008: I'd just tell him you wanna be with him so be honest. Im in the same circumstances too but i got a nooooooo! lol.
If your with him see if he wants to make a life with you after school, find aout about his career, what college if he's going co... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I thought I was pregnant just to upset him
Q. I found out this guy was totally using me. He said all the right things. i believed him. He was my FIRST. he knew this. yet he did it anyway. He only wanted sex - even tho he told me he didn't. I also know that he is chatting with other girls - wi...
A. 23 December 2008: No, he might like it. and you'll look like a dork when nothing happens... Some blokes change at the instant of a life changing event. For the worst or for the best.... (read in full...)
What would guys rather have--babe or library type girl?
Q. are guys attracted to nice ,quiet ,shy ,innocent ,genuine ,safe,plain looking girls? would guys find girls like this boring because i am like this i am passed over for the babes who are loud,dress sexy and who are party girls. i want...
A. 23 December 2008: Library type any day, there super hot! they know the sensuality pleasure and fun. Most babes just want to be there for the ride. I usually don't like girls that are too hot, plastic hot, its boring and there just a pain in the butt all the time its ... (read in full...)
Is he justified in making my life hell because he 'loves' me?
Q. Well theres this guy I work with hes 30, I'm 19, was 18 at the time. He kinda manipulated me into a 'relationship', making me feel sorry for him, etc. He used to accuse me of sleeping with guys, having AIDs,go through my bag and my phone, he was ...
A. 23 December 2008: No, its all cool. Get the restraining order today. Circumstances have changed dramatically and because you loved him you've just tried to be there for him... its time to look after yourself and move on. Be strong and focused.
Look forward to the f... (read in full...)
Fallen for my math teacher?
Q. Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...
A. 22 December 2008: Unfortunaltey theres really nothing you can do... Ive been there done that when i was 14 i loved this beautiful French teacher i fell in love with her.
If you genuily love him then maybe its best if you walk away and if you can, don't go to his c... (read in full...)
He is always talking about sex, is that all he wants?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and all he ever talks about is sex. Am 15 and he is 17. Yes I know its a pretty large age gap. On msn he always says to me Shona .... would you ever do anal n am like no n he always asks me ...
A. 22 December 2008: Both... Blokes at that age are sex machines, women usually have it in early 30's and men start loosing it then, that's one reason why there are so many age gaps in relationships as you become older.
He just wants to feel good with you thats al... (read in full...)
Is she real or not?
Q. hey, as you see i`m 14, i`v met a girl she also 14, i`v never had this in my life before, i added her on a chat program on my cell an we would chat for 7 hours stright! till 3am,an yeah i really like her, when i`m around her i bite my nails, an s...
A. 22 December 2008: Well you like each other... ask her on a date be sweet to her and have fun. don't tell your friends about her because when your in a proper relationship you wont have much time for them anyway she will become your best friend. on the other hand s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not demonstrative, should I cool it?
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been dating for two years now. I love him very much, but he does not show that he reciprocates that love. My boyfriend claims not to be very "verbal." I, on the other hand, like to call him and send him...
A. 22 December 2008: To cut a long story short. its only human nature to keep the chase alive. This is a form of you chasing him and he's keeping the chase alive by not replying. Basicly it seems as though he knows how to keep a woman on the chase but is poor at the ... (read in full...)
Do men just view women as sex on legs?
Q. Question for the guys, well i live on a main road and cant even cross the road with out being told to show my tits or being tooted at. Im 18 and i get 30 to 50 year olds doing it not just young guys and it makes me sick. I feel like all guys think ...
A. 22 December 2008: Well this is my opinion at first yes we do we want to have sex with you it's in our nature to feel good. Who wouldn't want that. Then It's your unique things your mannmerisms, personality your care after we get to know you that makes us fall in love ... (read in full...)
Can you tell me if he likes me based on this?
Q. Can anyone give me thier opinion if the guy i like, likes me back or not. I've worked with him for about a year now. We are the youngest people in our department and hes always joking around with everyone else but when he sees me or talks to me he ...
A. 22 December 2008: Yeah he likes you. It starts with the eyes both of you are flirting with your eyes. I have a girl really love that does it with me too but its much
Much slower. He probably wants to make love with you or kiss you if he gets you to his pad be prep... (read in full...)
Threesome Question: will he fall for her?
Q. My boyfriend wants to have a threesome, and I am completely for the idea- it sounds like fun, and I've always been down for it. I love him, he loves me, and we both want this. The problem is who to have it with. He wants to get a friend of his ...
A. 22 December 2008: To cut a long story short suggest doing it with a guy as well see what he says if he's not up for that then it might be a problem later if you wanna experiment with that and be fair on the pleasure. Look at all aspects first.... (read in full...)
How can I get him to do things without revealing that I snooped?
Q. Hi! I need some friendly advice. I've been married for 5 years to a wonderful man. He is, however, a very shy and private man. He isn't aware of it but I know he looks at porn online. I'm ok with it really. He's discreet about it and I'm not the ...
A. 22 December 2008: Buy him a porno for chrissy start with soft porn so it looks innocent and then tell him you'd like to try somthing a little different try to stay confident in what your doing and lead him into the fun. Get him to do some of the thing in the porno ... (read in full...)
How can I get my mind right and not mess this up? He's the most handsome, charismatic man!
Q. I just started dating, I believe, the most handsome, charismatic and fun loving guy I've ever met. I think he's wonderful and he says the same thing about myself also. Up until very recently upon realizing what may actually come of us (which is the ...
A. 22 December 2008: Let loose have fun don't worry and just enjoy it. Become good friends first.... (read in full...)
Is he justified in making my life hell because he 'loves' me?
Q. Well theres this guy I work with hes 30, I'm 19, was 18 at the time. He kinda manipulated me into a 'relationship', making me feel sorry for him, etc. He used to accuse me of sleeping with guys, having AIDs,go through my bag and my phone, he was ...
A. 22 December 2008: No. Lose him asap. He needs serious help.... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I love her or should I just keep my feelings sealed away?
Q. Hi I really need some help. Im 17, male from newcastle, and for the past year and a half I have been playing online gaming. About a year ago I started talking to a girl online, we immediately clicked and became good friends, recently though I think ...
A. 21 December 2008: Casually ask her why she hasn't got a bf? That will get things started.... (read in full...)
Guys, what body...?
Q. What body type do guys prefer? Short? Tall? Long torso? Long legs? Thighs? Chest? What's your ideal type? Just curous. ;0...
A. 19 December 2008: I like girls around the same height as me or a little taller or a little shorter. This could be the same for most guys im guessing but with these questions you ask, unfortunatley you will never really know because every guy has a different liking to ... (read in full...)
I just want to feel happiness and it seems I can't
Q. I have been having so many thoughts go through my head its unbelievable. The thing that has been the worst is my mood swings. One minute I'm happy and the next I just want to cry I'm so upset. Growing up I always had someone putting me down. And now ...
A. 1 December 2008: To both of you. Your battle is within your self. Pills do not work it's all mind over matter. A good trick is to find somthing. A passion, somthing you love, somthing that represents everything you are and want to be and do with your life. This ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend barely talks to me...
Q. Me and my boyfriend barely talk, we're supposed to be going out. Although we are complete opposites (he loves sport, im not really a fan of swimming but he loves it) we should at least be able to say hi, how are you, but not just wave. I really like ...
A. 1 December 2008: Don't worry about things in common. It's not having anything in common that allows you both to adapt.
But to cut a long story short. He likes you but is just shy. Maybe your his first girlfriend.??? Just give it time and enjoy the friendsh... (read in full...)
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