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Should I give up on the love of my life?

Q.   Aiight, check it... I'm 20, two years ago ago I was with this girl, she's 18.. knowing how she was.. she was scared of letting her parents find out, so we were in a private love affair... Things got really heated and we almost had sex on many occ...

A.   27 July 2009: your right there though, the heart wants what the heart wants :)... (read in full...)

Should I give up on the love of my life?

Q.   Aiight, check it... I'm 20, two years ago ago I was with this girl, she's 18.. knowing how she was.. she was scared of letting her parents find out, so we were in a private love affair... Things got really heated and we almost had sex on many occ...

A.   22 July 2009: i think this girl is messing with your head. you need a serious chat with her. dont let any of you leave until you have sorted it x... (read in full...)

I think I want to break up with my boyfriend!

Q.   Ok so here's the problem...after a long time of thinking i have decided that i want to break up with my boyfriend. Because i get so nervous talking to him about serious things (which leaves me forgetting what i was meant to say) i decided it was b...

A.   22 July 2009: hey, this is tricky, first make sure this is what you realy want and i mean really, no regrets afterwards. Then if you are living with him or something arrange a place to stay and just general things to make it easier so he doesnt have to be arou... (read in full...)

My best friend claims my boyfriend tried it on with her but my boyfriend says she's lying. Who do I believe?

Q.   Okay, heres the thing, My old best friend claimed that my boyfriend tried it on with her, she had been a really pants friend and been getting around a hell of a lot! i didnt know what to do, he denied it but said he might have said things to her o...

A.   20 July 2009: hey thank you all for your answers but the thing is she likes him, she told me this herself about 3months before this all came out. im so confused i do really believe him i just want to understand why she said it ... (read in full...)

Do I have an elastic hymen or something?

Q.   ok actually this is my first time 2 talk about it.the first time i had sex i didn't bleed at all and then the secoond and so on. ahy is that? is it that i have an elastic hymen or what? plz tell me how can i know that without going to the doctor?...

A.   19 July 2009: nothing is wrong with you, i have never bled when i have had sex! its perfectly normal :)... (read in full...)

He criticized my breast size now I can't get over it!

Q.   hello my ex has made many mitigating statements of how small my breasts are. He had his new girlfriend mock me. She told me how he laughed with her about me for having small breast. She compared herself to me and made me feel so insecured. Eversinc...

A.   19 July 2009: they will be jealous because you were with him before her and she feels she needs to attack you where it hurts and he plays along! your so much better than them! x... (read in full...)

Will this approach help me lose weight?

Q.   hey :D I realy want to lose weight but quite fast and i was wondering if i ate like 500 caleries a day and excersized a lot how much weight could i lose ? please no nasty comments i just want help ! thanks x...

A.   19 July 2009: yeh i agree with that, honestly sweety starving yourself makes it worse, you will only bloat yourself. just healthy eating lots of water, gentle exercise etc just see how it goes. crash dieting is very dangerous good luck! xx... (read in full...)

Can you take the morning after pill during your period?

Q.   i just had sex 4am this morning it is 12pm rite now, im currently on my period, i started friday 7/17/09 the date rite now is 7/19/09 but anyway i had sex during my period and the condom broke meaning he ejaculated inside me, he is advising me to ...

A.   19 July 2009: i think you should go to your doc or chemist to get the pill and just tell them your on your period and see what they advise, after all they are the experts :) Good luck dont worry too much x... (read in full...)

Addicted to my promiscuous ex girlfriend

Q.   I'd really be glad of your thoughts to my situation, although I'm honestly not sure there is a solution... I'm 32 and I started seeing a girl just over 3 years ago. The relationship only lasted about a couple of months. It was highly charged s...

A.   19 July 2009: i can totally relate to this! you hate her for what she did to you but you still want to see her to either have sex with her and just leave it or for her to just get out of your life altogeher. well i would get away for a bit, you need closure.... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity to a guy who I'm only going to spend another month and a half with?

Q.   I'm 18 and a virgin. My boyfriend of the same age is not a virgin. We started going out a month ago, and we were friends before that. I'm leaving in September for university, and we agreed at the beginning that we would not do long distance. We've ...

A.   19 July 2009: the way i look at it is, you know him you trust him your body feels ready, you might go to uni and completely regret not having sex with him. you dont want to lose it at uni to someone you dont know, trust. do what you thinks best, if your rea... (read in full...)

My indiscretion caused my gay partner pain, he said he forgave me, but randomly gets angry, what should I do?

Q.   we're a gay male couple (18 and 19) and we've been dating nearly 8 months, recently i had a sexual thing with another guy who i'd been friends with for a while, we didn't have sex, we didn't even kiss, we were sleeping in the same bed, i was abso...

A.   19 July 2009: i can sort of relate to this, on some levals, but i think it is worth the fight. take you boyfriend out show him how much you love him, need him and especially want him more than anyone else. reassure him thats all he needs. give him space and let ... (read in full...)

I wonder what would have happened?

Q.   I'm starting to really miss my ex boyfriend. We broke up about a week ago, and I missed him but not as much as I do today. He cheated on me.. and when I went to give him his stuff back, he came out and stood there.. and watched me walk away, now I...

A.   19 July 2009: nobody wants to be cheated on and nobody deserves it. you need to move on, find someone who appreciates you. by you walking away it shows your the stronger person. you dont need him!... (read in full...)

I wonder what would have happened?

Q.   I'm starting to really miss my ex boyfriend. We broke up about a week ago, and I missed him but not as much as I do today. He cheated on me.. and when I went to give him his stuff back, he came out and stood there.. and watched me walk away, now I...

A.   19 July 2009: nobody wants to be cheated on and nobody deserves it. you need to move on, find someone who appreciates you. by you walking away it shows your the stronger person. you dont need him!... (read in full...)

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