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Why is it so difficult to find a really nice and honest man?
Q. I'm a 39 year old single mom with 2 kids. I've been single for almost 4 years now. Of course my kids mean the whole world to me, but at times I do need someone for intimate moments, to share the good and bad times together, to talk about everything ...
A. 4 November 2010: I wasn't saying you are a fussy person. I was simply asking you what qualities you are liking for in a man. That's not being fussy.
When you know the answers to these questions and understand them, then youll know the right man for you. You won'... (read in full...)
How do guys feel about pointy noses?
Q. Do guys love it when girls have pointed nose? or they simply hate it. am a girl. my nose is very pointed just like the indian hero ''saif ali khan'' i really don't like the way it is. Especially when i looked myself on the side, i feel disgusting. i ...
A. 3 November 2010: A you have to do is find out a fashion style the suits.... (read in full...)
How do guys feel about pointy noses?
Q. Do guys love it when girls have pointed nose? or they simply hate it. am a girl. my nose is very pointed just like the indian hero ''saif ali khan'' i really don't like the way it is. Especially when i looked myself on the side, i feel disgusting. i ...
A. 3 November 2010: Dont worry about your nose. Some of the most beautiful women in the world has them ... Most top models have them. The most beautiful woman I've ever seen has one. ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help with the issues I am having in my relationship?
Q. I am a 24 year old woman who has been in relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. We live together, share finances, pets everything! But over the past year we have had sex less than 5 times, don't even kiss apart from on the cheek and hug ...
A. 3 November 2010: Yeah, he's about to leave. I would talk to him and ask him about his feelings toward you.myth not to get too upset or argumentative it will become a mess if you do. Be rational.
It is common for somebody to fall out of love. So you must be stron... (read in full...)
How can I speak to my dad about writing a will?
Q. My Dad is 75 and has not made a will. How can I speak to him about this? He goes all weazilly when I mention it, but I feel really sad. I know that if he dies without one not only will his kids be left broken hearted but we will have a hell of a ...
A. 3 November 2010: You need to see a lawyer. If he is becoming unable to take care of himself or loosing the ability to communicate you can be granted "power of attorney" for special cases like these, where the next of kin will have the legal ability to write his will ... (read in full...)
I think he rejected me by ignoring the bit about dinner, was he ever interested in me or was it just a bit of fun?
Q. 3 months ago I started a new job. I never go into work situations thinking I'll meet anyone who might be boyfriend material, so I never expected this... I start work late, a guy in my team starts early, so he's always there when I walk into work...
A. 3 November 2010: No I didn't say that the game playing is only in Australia, what i said is it's alot heavier there than any other place I've been in the world. I dont know why but it's really pathetic.
I wish you the best.... (read in full...)
How can I feel confident when guys clearly want something I'm not?
Q. I find it very hard to feel confident in myself. I can't help but notice that most guys my age (and even older, who you'd think would be more mature) think that plastic, fake looking women are "perfect". I see it countless times on Facebook, blogs, ...
A. 3 November 2010: I wouldn't worry about breast size too much. I prefer women with smaller ones they always seem to have better bodies. But blokes have different opinions on what they do and don't like. Some like a nice butt, some like nice eyes, some like a nice ... (read in full...)
How can I feel confident when guys clearly want something I'm not?
Q. I find it very hard to feel confident in myself. I can't help but notice that most guys my age (and even older, who you'd think would be more mature) think that plastic, fake looking women are "perfect". I see it countless times on Facebook, blogs, ...
A. 2 November 2010: The most beautiful woman I have ever seen was very natural looking. And of all the magazines, advertisements, billboards, tv shows, even travelling the entire world, I still have not seen another so beautiful. I only wish she love me too. But that's ... (read in full...)
Tall and short women hate short guys equally
Q. Why do taller women have so much hate for the shorter guys who approach them only to complain themselves about being single and the lack of quality available men? Is it so wrong for a short guy to be attracted to a woman more than a couple of...
A. 2 November 2010: Again, that's BS. I have a few mates at your height yet they still pull the birds, taller, no worries. 1) it's attraction. 2) clearly, it's your attitude.
If you are questioning your sexuality then mabey that's something you should explore,... (read in full...)
Is thing going anywhere or should I let go? If it is going somewhere, then what?
Q. What are my feelings? What are hers? Did I upset her by mentioning the other girl when we had dinner? Is she having feelings for me or concern? A few weeks back I was visiting my very close friend for the day before she left to go abroad for a yea...
A. 1 November 2010: Don't worry girls do those things for some reason. They like to show interest and give romantic gestures but not too much incase something else comes along. This confuses them a lot and of course men. Us men also do the same thing to them.
Just ... (read in full...)
Will my prayers work so we can be together? And does he even like me if he has not shown any interest in 10 years?
Q. dear readers, im madly in love with this guy for the past 10 years. we used to speak to each other as kids when i was as young as 9 yrs old, but we stopped now as we grew up. The thing is i have been praying continuously for the past so many yea...
A. 1 November 2010: You need to make a move. The myth where men do everything is not true it takes two to tango so make a move.
I wish you the best.... (read in full...)
B/f wants a hand job but won't show me how to do it!
Q. i need help my bf wants be to give him a hand job but idk how!! he wont show me eather help mee please....
A. 1 November 2010: Do a search on. The Internet to see how it's done. You might see some porn but if you wanna learn watch a video of someone doing it.... (read in full...)
Where did my macho guy go and who is this wimp?
Q. hey i need advice, my fiance has turned into a right wimp. when i first met him, he was this matcho man, very confident and could handle himself, he used to do MMA, now hes a right pussy. i touch him and he says ouch and hes always hurting himself. ...
A. 1 November 2010: Buy him a book called "Body for life" I give this to a lot of people who are in question of themselves and their lives. In his case it will give him something to keep his mind on in a strong positive way.
Body for life is a fitness program.... (read in full...)
Tall and short women hate short guys equally
Q. Why do taller women have so much hate for the shorter guys who approach them only to complain themselves about being single and the lack of quality available men? Is it so wrong for a short guy to be attracted to a woman more than a couple of...
A. 1 November 2010: I think that's BS mate. I've only ever been with taller women. I always wondered why do I always get the taller ones! especially when your question is brought up ... So figure that one out. I'm 5'10.
I think it has a lot more to do with attracti... (read in full...)
How can I get over a break-up when there wasn't one?
Q. I feel so pathetic for writing this but I'd really appreciate the advice. My boyfriend of four years just left me. Told me three days ago that he was coming over the next day to break up with me. Well, he never showed up, and I kept trying to call ...
A. 1 November 2010: Consider his actions as the breakup. Consider it finished move on and find someone new. If he comes back just tell him you've moved on.... (read in full...)
Why is it so difficult to find a really nice and honest man?
Q. I'm a 39 year old single mom with 2 kids. I've been single for almost 4 years now. Of course my kids mean the whole world to me, but at times I do need someone for intimate moments, to share the good and bad times together, to talk about everything ...
A. 1 November 2010: Forget dating sites they don't work.
What are the main things your looking for in a man other than being honest and nice?... (read in full...)
By the hair of my chinny chin chin...
Q. hi my question is a quick one, im dating a smart beautiful girl whos been great so far and i have nothing bad to say about her, theres just one thing that bugs me - every time im with her, she has a few hairs on her chin and i just dont have to ...
A. 1 November 2010: Yeah dont say anything to her mate. If you do your in trouble. Your just going to have to stick with her. But if you dump her for that shit then it says alot about who you are.... (read in full...)
She seems to prefer to lose me completely than even giving anything a try.
Q. I've had a VERY close female friend for the last 10 months, in the past we've admitted we both like each other more than friends but never really did anything about it, she even went as far as to tell me I have all the qualities she's looked for in ...
A. 1 November 2010: Sounds to me that she is more confused than you are. You see if you want to be with someone you have to be friends first and by being friends you figure out all the qualities of each other. Some get very close others don't but it takes friends to ... (read in full...)
Basically I'm in love with my best friend.
Q. Basically I'm in love with my best friend. And I need some help getting over it, because if i don't I'm in danger of sabotaging our friendship. I should say straight up that this guy is totally decent - I'm not trying to rant about how I've b...
A. 1 November 2010: No, I think you should tell him. Because if you don't, someday you might regret not even trying. And that's way worse! If you try, at least you can say you did and if it's not reciprocated then leave it at that, respect his decision and just ... (read in full...)
How do you get somebody OFF your mind?
Q. I understand this might be a bit of a strange question and hard to answer so any types of responses will be appreciated :) I was just wondering how you stop thinking about someone. I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and we don't have an...
A. 30 October 2010: You never really will. It's more about accepting the fact that you once loved someone or still do and/or always will. And that the love between you both cannot continue anymore (for now). Therefore, the only thing you can do is move on and take it ... (read in full...)
Why does he ignore me and stare at other girls? I cant take much more of this but he keeps begging for a second chance....
Q. Why would my boyfriend do that? am really hurt:(? my boyfriend claims he loves me very much but i dont feel his love..he doesn't make me feel special, he doesn't give me the attention i need.. me on the other hand gives him all the love and a...
A. 29 October 2010: He's just playing mind games. And does this by ignoring you and checking out other girls. One, to make you feel like you should try to get his attention more, and two, so you become jealous and want him more. Or he's simply not interested in you ... (read in full...)
The only woman I have ever loved doesn't want me to contact her anymore
Q. I AM A FN EMOTIONAL DISASTER! I am still in love with The Only Woman I Have Ever Loved, and while she informed me that she did not feel the same for me I accepted it and have tried with all my strength and know-how to respect and honor her demand ...
A. 29 October 2010: Turn this all into a positive. You can do that by realising that you have met someone so wonderful in your life and felt something that only few of us will ever feel in a lifetime. Its already taken you half your life to experience it and now you ... (read in full...)
How can I repay my mom for her kindness?
Q. Hi guys, this isn't a relationship question, but i'm sure you will do your best to help me out. Ok, here goes. My mum is the most amazing person I've ever known, we have been best friends ever since Dad (her husband) died in 2001. She has always d...
A. 28 October 2010: You are already giving her the best gift she has ever had and ever will. And you are doing this by being her best friend and her loving daughter.... (read in full...)
Should I do something with my hair to get this guy to notice me?
Q. i really like this boy at school but i dont know how to get him to notice me. should i do something with my hair or face? what do i do to get with him!!! he is so cute help asap thanks!...
A. 28 October 2010: It's not absolutely. No. Very subtle makeup is nice, put some on if it makes only you feel better about who you are, not to het his attention. The less the better. I would speak to him (communicate).... (read in full...)
I think she likes me, despite the boyfriend and her telling me she just wants to be friends, how do I not mess this up?
Q. she told me she just wants to be friends am really heart broken she has a boyfriend but i dont think shes that happy and i know its wrong to case somebody with a boyfriend but we get on so well she comes out with me most lunch times at work...
A. 28 October 2010: She likes you too, but she has a boyfriend, and you should respect that she has a boyfriend. The best thing you can do now is be her friend because it's better being that than nothing at all. And if someday she breaks with her boyfriend, then maybe ... (read in full...)
What date is the first kiss usually initiated on?
Q. Dear Cupid, Im 18. He's 20. We've been dating for about a month. Met up three times during the month, two of them which were dates. He hasnt made any move other than putting his arm around me on the bus journey home, feeding me icecream in the...
A. 27 October 2010: For me, usually second or third. If it dosent happen soon it may never happen. Or it could be that he's shy or even you giving the shy signal without even knowing. Next time you see him give him a kiss on the cheek when you first meet and then again ... (read in full...)
In the heat of the argument I told him he has a tiny penis! I know I have screwed up, so how do I fix this?
Q. Ok so ive been seeing this guy for a while now almost a year. He told me before that he always thought he had a small penis (he had been drinking, in fact i dont know if he remembers telling me that) but hes not small hes like 6.5 in. Ive been told ...
A. 27 October 2010: Do a search on penis size and you will see that he is average so he has nothing to worry about. He needs to get over it.... (read in full...)
Should I do something with my hair to get this guy to notice me?
Q. i really like this boy at school but i dont know how to get him to notice me. should i do something with my hair or face? what do i do to get with him!!! he is so cute help asap thanks!...
A. 27 October 2010: Don't do anything with your face or hair, just be natural, that is far more sexy that going out drastic. This is simple: just say hi when you see him, smile at him and let him come to you.... (read in full...)
Husband bullies teen daughter from previous marriage how do I get him to stop?
Q. i met my husband when my daughter was 1 he was great with her till she hit puberty now he hates her. He blames her for everything expects perfection from her and hardly acknowledges the things she does he calls her lazy, putrid and a spazz. I have 2 ...
A. 27 October 2010: It's sad to see how a man expresses his anger and hate toward someone who is very well a minature much vulnerable version of yourself. you need to seek local cancellor advice, especially that you've made the decision to leave but need to figure out ... (read in full...)
I think he rejected me by ignoring the bit about dinner, was he ever interested in me or was it just a bit of fun?
Q. 3 months ago I started a new job. I never go into work situations thinking I'll meet anyone who might be boyfriend material, so I never expected this... I start work late, a guy in my team starts early, so he's always there when I walk into work...
A. 27 October 2010: Reply back and say: "I made the play too. But you still haven't won; have you?" It brings you back on the play, and he will feel outsmarted. After this ignore him and make him feel he's lost and then maybe he will realise what a jerk he has really ... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with making everything about "us"! How can we get past this?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together a year now. i am his first serious relationship and sexual partner, however i have had a handful of serious relationships before him. we have a great relationship except for his problem dealing with my past. i...
A. 26 October 2010: With respect here I wouldn't take what Almasdp says to too seriously, that is a misconception of a type of conditional marketing aimed at young people.
There is nothing wrong with what he does in fact the only underlying problem I see is that you... (read in full...)
Threesome lead to wife giving something that I had always wanted
Q. Awhile back, my wife and I got drunk and lost our inhibitions and did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a threesome, with a complete stranger. We picked a stranger, because we thought the chances of a...
A. 26 October 2010: It could be that she just reserves that place for him and the virgina for you. Although that's what you want it could also be that she knows that, so teases you by creating a bit of a chase, women are very good at that even if that don't know that ... (read in full...)
How to find the value of an item?
Q. this is not a relationship or love q. i found a 1983 limited edition ziggy collectors plate. i was just wondering if anyone on here might know where or which website i could look to find out the value of it. ...
A. 26 October 2010: You could call Christies. They are a world famous rare items and antiquities auction dealer they will defiantly put you in the right direction or give advice. Search them don't google them. Lol.... (read in full...)
I have never felt the massive butterflies in a relationship
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2years (with a 1 year break between) He is my first boyfriend and i do love him. However I sometimes get doubts about our relationship. Its nothing he has done as he is wonderful to me and always puts 100% ...
A. 26 October 2010: If you've broken up before then you need to look at the real reasons why that happened break or no brake. Usually if it didn't work out before it's bound to repeat itself again until you realise he's not REALLY the one for you. Unfortunatly for ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when your boyfriend calls you sexy?
Q. My boyfriend says that i am sexy and he love my eyes....i want him to call me beautiful,cute why doesn't he? my friends say that when a boyfriend calls you sexy its because he just want you to get in your pants and he don't love you?..is it true? ...
A. 26 October 2010: Sorry, when I said in the below response that "he only wants to have sex with her" I meant "he only wants to have sex with you" not your friend.
I wish we could edit our response on here.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when your boyfriend calls you sexy?
Q. My boyfriend says that i am sexy and he love my eyes....i want him to call me beautiful,cute why doesn't he? my friends say that when a boyfriend calls you sexy its because he just want you to get in your pants and he don't love you?..is it true? ...
A. 26 October 2010: It's good to be cautious but not too overly cautious about this, otherwise it will effect your judgement on every man you meet and men find that incredibly unattractive and boring. Only he will know why he calls you sexy but I would not be too ... (read in full...)
Should I trust the guy I met on a cruise?
Q. I met a guy on cruise that I was on. He worked on the cruise itself. If anyone knew that he was even speaking to me that much he would get fired immediately. Every night we would meet in secret and just talk / hang out. He was never disrespectful to ...
A. 25 October 2010: Just take it a little easy and try not jump too far in the deep end yet. The good news is most shipping crew jobs/contracts only last from three to six months and there's no guarantee of the employment continuing. It sounds he may be travelling. ... (read in full...)
He did something that disgusted me! Should I call this all off?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about seven months. He doesn't want to call it a 'relationship', saying he likes 'the way we are'. So I'm already a little put off... The other night though, we'd been having a lot of fun in bed (we have GREAT sex), af...
A. 25 October 2010: Sounds like an immature little turd boy who's been watching too much of daddy's porno videos.
Some women do like it, some don't, but in your case you didn't/don't and he has disrespected you. Sex is meant to be respectful of one and others sexu... (read in full...)
I need sex asap! Sleep with a prostitute?
Q. Sorry for the long question, I need to set the background. And I really need help (I thought about going to a shrink, but I can't afford it). I'm a foreign PhD in the US. My English language is good but not great. I go along pretty well. I e...
A. 25 October 2010: I personally wouldnt do this but you'd be surprised how respected that profession is in other parts of the world. Amsterdam for example has legalised it, however, the women who do it undergo lots of health testing and they will ask for your personal ... (read in full...)
I didn't treat my friend well, now she won't have anything to do with me!
Q. if anybody will help, do you think all problems have a solution?? i have a problem that is just making me so depresed i had a friend who i didnt treat well sometimes shes mad at me or feels she needs a time apart.But it has been months already and ...
A. 25 October 2010: Some people believe that if you treat someone mean it keeps them keen ... in reality, that's not the case. Sooner or later you will lose that person wether be it a lover, friend or even a family member. It's just not the way life is meant to be. We ... (read in full...)
Is this love or just an illusion?
Q. Earlier this year I split with my husband after 10 years, 8 of which were not very good, he was shut down. I tried everything and then decided it best I leave him to himself. So, I left town and went back to my hometown. Within two months saw a gu...
A. 24 October 2010: You haven't made it all up. It's simple, you and he have an attraction and it's simply developing. You see, that's the best thing about love. The anticipation and the romance that builds up to the climax. Although the climax may take a lifetime. ... (read in full...)
Is something hand made for your boyfriend seen by them as being too mushy?
Q. Is it a good idea to make a hand made gift for your boyfriend? I mean... do guys appreciate stuff like hand made cards/poems/a home made dinner etc for them or is it considered to be too mushy? -_-...
A. 23 October 2010: If you are having a home dinner, wear a nice dress as though you are going out. It helps to make the moment more special and it's not often that we do this anymore, a tradition almost forgotten.
You may both make the dinner together or you can surp... (read in full...)
Is something hand made for your boyfriend seen by them as being too mushy?
Q. Is it a good idea to make a hand made gift for your boyfriend? I mean... do guys appreciate stuff like hand made cards/poems/a home made dinner etc for them or is it considered to be too mushy? -_-...
A. 19 October 2010: I think a home made dinner is very sexy. But cards and flowers are usually things that men would give to a woman. I think if you do things that are sexy you may get a better response. For most, women are more emotional beings and men are more ... (read in full...)
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