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Am I right to be concerned about my boyfriend's strange behaviour???
Q. Do you guys think im over reacting an should just forget it or do I have cause for concern? My boyfriend of 6 months is very loving but a few things are really worrying me. 1- he hsa no problem with looking at my phone but snatches his off me if I ...
A. 20 February 2009: 1- he hsa no problem with looking at my phone but snatches his off me if I so much as pick it up to move it.
A) Well if he's just playing games then no this: Games are now known to cause a hole waist of time, so my simple answer is to him he shoul... (read in full...)
Should I dump my boyfriend today?
Q. Its been 6 months and my boyfriend still hasn't told me he loves me. Being valentines day I thought that it might happen today but its 5 pm here and still nothing. Im getting sick of not knowing if im important to him or not. Dont get me wrong he...
A. 19 February 2009: Look most guys will fall for you within a few weeks itsbjustbthatvtheu don't tell you so soon. It's very similarvto when a guy chases a girl to be his gf the girl often gives mixed signals without realizing what's happening.... (read in full...)
I'm always the single girl
Q. hey im almost 15 years old, and ive like this guy who is going out with one of my sort of friends. (we arent really close or anything, but we are friends) i dont often feel this strongly about guys and now i finally find a guy i could see myself ...
A. 18 February 2009: Hi its really quite simple. You just need to put it out there a little more what i mean by that is by being firty, its all fun then one guy will notice you and he will start to hang out with you.
You could also ask one of your guy friends to hang ... (read in full...)
How to handle being screwed over 4 times? Please read and help me.
Q. First of all I have way bigger problems than this one but maybe I can do somthing about this... so backround info then... the problem then the question. I have had an on and off thing with this guy for about 5 months now and he tells me he likes me ...
A. 17 February 2009: Hey again, just be a little more reserved towards him. don't give him all your attention and mabey give more to someone else. he will likely become jealous of this. Does he go to church for you or for religion? ... (read in full...)
Is he gay or bi or straight?
Q. My brother wants to play truth or dare and he dares me to do gay stuff to him and he always does it when there are no girls. Is he gay or bi or straight?...
A. 14 February 2009: So... is he older or younger?????
He's probably just curious.... (read in full...)
Should I dump my boyfriend today?
Q. Its been 6 months and my boyfriend still hasn't told me he loves me. Being valentines day I thought that it might happen today but its 5 pm here and still nothing. Im getting sick of not knowing if im important to him or not. Dont get me wrong he...
A. 14 February 2009: Id be inclined to aske him what valentines day means and what he thinks of it, remind him you've been together for over six months and then see if he can say it.
If he can't say it does he at least show it with some sort of signs like holding ... (read in full...)
Smack talking
Q. There's these two friends that are very close. They both talk smack about each other behind their backs and tells me everything. And they don't want me to tell anyone anything. If I tell them to confront one another they'll say "she'll take it the ...
A. 13 February 2009: No way!!!! Id take them both out at the same time and then id sit in a cafe and tell them both the shit they say to each other... id tell them both to wake up and realise theres more bullshit in this world to worry about than you two pickerninnies ... (read in full...)
Does this make a good gift?
Q. I want to get my boyfriend of 3 months a card,some chocalote,and a letter saying why I love him for valentines day does this make a good gift?...
A. 13 February 2009: Yes it is, but have you guys already said you love each other yet? has he said it to you? if yes then go for it if not then just let the gift and the actions do the talking.
Although three months is a good time to really declare you love for each... (read in full...)
Heartbroken and lonely
Q. I have a difficult question! I have been living with my roommate for almost two years now. We recently hooked up, had sex however he has a girlfriend and he made an effort to try and make me a friend of this girl. He has acted like nothing...
A. 13 February 2009: If its your house kick him out and tell him a bullshit story that your new boyfriend from out of town is moving in soon and is pissed at the way he's treated you.
I find it really enoying how he has taken advantage of you and I know if this hap... (read in full...)
How to handle being screwed over 4 times? Please read and help me.
Q. First of all I have way bigger problems than this one but maybe I can do somthing about this... so backround info then... the problem then the question. I have had an on and off thing with this guy for about 5 months now and he tells me he likes me ...
A. 13 February 2009: Firstly for lack of a better word, this bloke you like is full of shit - for him, who said there was commitment from you anyway it's only a chat right???
I think he's a confused little boy who needs to wake up smell the roses and either date you... (read in full...)
What was this wet spot on his pants?
Q. While my boyfriend and I were messing around the other night; like heavy petting and stuff; he got wet down there. It was after he'd been rubbing my boobs for a while, he stopped and just grabbed his dick. All our clothes were still on, he had just ...
A. 10 February 2009: Somtimes, yes it comes that much, it is often called "premature ejeculation" but he must be very into you both physically and emotionally. it is also a psychological problem if it persists too much. He is highly sensitive to you. As you both become ... (read in full...)
Do I have any rights?
Q. Can you remarry after divorce? Is your contract with God or the government? My wife had two affairs and it blew my mind literally. I had a mental breakdown and developed Bi polar. Anyway i'm back and have finally recovered after 7 years and realis...
A. 5 February 2009: Well to quite simply put it you as a person deserve to be happy, and that includes being with somone again. You already know the rules of government but to shead some light on the faith aspect, my own opinion is god put us here and "gave us life" ... (read in full...)
She is sending me mixed signals
Q. me n this girl just went on a date sorta thin to da movies and we held hands n stuff durin it but like thru the whle movie she was textin other guys coz and fliritng and i told i dont like it wen u flirt wiv other dudes and she said she wasentr ...
A. 1 February 2009: I wouldn't completly blow her off just keep hangin with her, she could just be shy or something just try to enjoy her company.
Some girls like it to happen with no words or formality. They simply like it to grow within you. so you just being th... (read in full...)
I still love him sooooo much...
Q. My ex and i have been broken up for nearly 5 months now and i still really love him and miss him sooo much .. i still think about him alot and it just hurts soo much because i dont have contact or seee him often ...we were togther a year and a half ...
A. 1 February 2009: Hello,
Could you tell me exactly why he broke up with you? Do you know exactly why?
Usually If you haven't seen him for a while after the breakup things should be cooled down, for you I see that it hasent quite yet, which is ok. However he h... (read in full...)
She is sending me mixed signals
Q. me n this girl just went on a date sorta thin to da movies and we held hands n stuff durin it but like thru the whle movie she was textin other guys coz and fliritng and i told i dont like it wen u flirt wiv other dudes and she said she wasentr ...
A. 1 February 2009: Firstly, a good hint is never tell a girl what to do especially if it has somthing to do with other guys, she will thing your too controlling. Major turn off!!!
I'd just keep hangin with her she's spending time with you because she is more com... (read in full...)
My neighbor thinks I still like her and I don't
Q. About a month ago my neighbor found out that I liked her. I have moved on and an completely over her by now. But sadly she still has this crazy notion that I still like her. She has a boyfriend that lives with her, and they constantly talk rea...
A. 28 January 2009: It sounds your borderlining the last resort as it is mate, do you think she hasent told her bf about you? What if she's just playing you and he and her are just walking all over you having a good laugh. The longer you leave it the worse it gets. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her how I feel, even though we live in different cities, or just let it go?
Q. During my last summer job (in another city), I met a nice girl who I ended up being friends with. After the job I moved back for school and still talk to her to her occasionally online. But I've also had a crush on her but never told her how I feel ...
A. 28 January 2009: I'd make a really good attempt to go see her in person. spend the day with her and near the end of the day see how you feel about there then. If you sense that it's strong from her as well I'd so one of these:
1) just take a moment look in her e... (read in full...)
My neighbor thinks I still like her and I don't
Q. About a month ago my neighbor found out that I liked her. I have moved on and an completely over her by now. But sadly she still has this crazy notion that I still like her. She has a boyfriend that lives with her, and they constantly talk rea...
A. 27 January 2009: Yes, simply tell her to her face. It's really that simple dude. Just say "hey I know what your thinking but it's not the case, I'm only interested in you as a friend. So get over it okay" that should wake her up a fair bit!
BIG mistake if you igno... (read in full...)
I think I'm falling for my partner's mate!
Q. I have been with my partner for 7 years, I love him but for at least 6 of those years I have had really strong feelings for his best mate, I've tried to get over these feelings as I never thought I had a chance with my partner's mate, but I have ...
A. 23 January 2009: I agree with the annonomus poster below.
But also know you will completley distroy their mateship forever. I promise you they will never be able to be be mates again, you will likley see a physical fight and one or both will be seriously hurt - a... (read in full...)
I'm really mad at him and I rather not talk to him. What do I do?
Q. My husband and me had this horrible fight about our money issues (which is the only thing we ever fight about). It got so bad he call me a stupid cow. He got me all upset and I slept at a friend's house. He's calling me nonstop (and it's getting ...
A. 23 January 2009: Sorry my computer clicked the enter key, lol.
Anyway, try it because it will force you both to monitor every aspect of your spending, it actually gets really fun.
I hop this helps.... (read in full...)
I'm really mad at him and I rather not talk to him. What do I do?
Q. My husband and me had this horrible fight about our money issues (which is the only thing we ever fight about). It got so bad he call me a stupid cow. He got me all upset and I slept at a friend's house. He's calling me nonstop (and it's getting ...
A. 23 January 2009: Communication is the key to all relationship, if you cut it off you kill the relationship especially if you are married or in a serious relationship already. just answe the calls and tell him you need some space for a moment.
Also to be construc... (read in full...)
I'm really mad at him and I rather not talk to him. What do I do?
Q. My husband and me had this horrible fight about our money issues (which is the only thing we ever fight about). It got so bad he call me a stupid cow. He got me all upset and I slept at a friend's house. He's calling me nonstop (and it's getting ...
A. 23 January 2009: Communication is the key to all relationship, if you cut it off you kill the relationship especially if you are married or in a serious relationship already. just answe the calls and tell him you need some space for a moment.
Also to be construc... (read in full...)
I want to have a relationship and it be sexual but I have problems
Q. Hello I'm 30, male, divorced and I have a dilemma. I want to have a girlfriend, and I would like the relationship to be sexual. The problem is that I also don't want to upset any girl if I like her enough to be interested in her. I have n...
A. 22 January 2009: Too Sensitive, I agree all the way, that was very well said! ;)... (read in full...)
I want to have a relationship and it be sexual but I have problems
Q. Hello I'm 30, male, divorced and I have a dilemma. I want to have a girlfriend, and I would like the relationship to be sexual. The problem is that I also don't want to upset any girl if I like her enough to be interested in her. I have n...
A. 22 January 2009: If you get a chance there is a doco called "What the Bleep Do We Know" I reccomend seeing that film. And you being an intelligent person who has knowledge of biomedical physics and other scientific theroes will understand this new practically and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mates are teasing him and it's spacing him out...
Q. Hello Again. Well, My boyfriend and I are still going out. Just to re-cap he and I have been going out for a little over half a year. He was a player and I had not dated many people. Well, this is the longest relationship either of us has be...
A. 22 January 2009: Firstly, is he playing you or IS he your BF? if hes playing he'll be worried about the whipped thing if he's your BF he wont give a crap what they think! on the other hand hes just doing it to impress his mates, so dont worry h'll come back ;)
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Do I get him something for Valentine's Day?
Q. I know its really early but I have been dateing a guy for about 2 months and I've known him for about 5 months should i get him anything for valentines day? if so, what should i get him, something small for sure but what? ...
A. 22 January 2009: Hey,
Does he like fitness being healthy? I think an annual subscription to "Mens Health" magazine is one of the most simplest but best presents you gan get.
Also a Hip flask is a real masculine thing to give a guy, they are cool, you can en... (read in full...)
I want to have a relationship and it be sexual but I have problems
Q. Hello I'm 30, male, divorced and I have a dilemma. I want to have a girlfriend, and I would like the relationship to be sexual. The problem is that I also don't want to upset any girl if I like her enough to be interested in her. I have n...
A. 22 January 2009: Hi,
Id like to let you know that I can see the problem blazing like the sun. You see the problem is that you believe all these things that you are, are in fact true. Well they are not! Even if those women you ask out are shocked its because ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never wants to see me, but always has time for his XBox!
Q. My boyfriend never wants to see me. We only ever see each other at school. I ask him if he wants to meet up on a weekend but he always says he's busy, and half of the time I know he's not busy because he'll be on his Xbox all day. I feel like he ...
A. 21 January 2009: Often computer games, the internet and computers are highly addictive devices. It is becoming more recognised that it is like a drug. It seems to be he could be addicted to his xbox. This has nothing to do with you, don't worry.
But i would be... (read in full...)
When guys flirt like this does it mean they're interested?
Q. just wonderin wat does it mean wen a guy coms wit his friends behind u kinda pokes u then keeps walkin but hangs next to ya and him and his friends r lookin at u then the next day they come to the same place and look at u wen u pass by? basically ...
A. 21 January 2009: Do you get the feeling he likes you? if so, yes its more than likley he likes you...
Flirt back!
Cheers.... (read in full...)
Is this finally my chance with her?
Q. There is this woman who has been a friend of mine for 10 years. I'm not sure why she told me about a good sex dream she had with me a while back. Today she planted a very nice kiss on my lips. Todays kiss was way more than the usual quick hug and ...
A. 21 January 2009: I agree with both the anonymous poser and huneygirl.
The chase usually consists of three distinctive behaviors:
1. She/He does not like you at all.
2. She/He is playing hard to get (wants you to chase her/him).
3. She's/He's simply busy. ... (read in full...)
I cannot bear the thought of another man looking at me, never mind touching me...
Q. Twelve months ago I had a disastrous encounter with a guy I considered a friend who I really fell in love with and thought he felt the same. I trusted him implicitly. Never ever found out why but he cut me dead and was extremely weird and nasty. I ...
A. 20 January 2009: Your very welcome :)
Well, we all know the saying: "What goes around comes around." Either way, something WILL eventually effect him equally in time in some way or another.
If you can id also recomend seeing a coucellor even for one session ... (read in full...)
How do I extinguish the flame and still be friends with my ex?
Q. Hello everyone. I was in a long relationship with this woman. 10 years. For a time, we were planning on getting married. It has been 3 years since it ended. We still see, and talk to each other. At times,it feels alright. Other times, it hurts, ...
A. 20 January 2009: P.S If you do attempt to reignite everything (the love) when you meet back up as discussed below. You will be back at square one and likely waisted all that time for nothing so please be careful.
Be friends and 'mean' it :)... (read in full...)
How do I extinguish the flame and still be friends with my ex?
Q. Hello everyone. I was in a long relationship with this woman. 10 years. For a time, we were planning on getting married. It has been 3 years since it ended. We still see, and talk to each other. At times,it feels alright. Other times, it hurts, ...
A. 20 January 2009: Hi pdherb,
I believe it is possible but you cannot do it right after you break up. You will be stuck in an endless loop of wonder if you'll ever get back with that person.
The only real way you can do it is by giving you both space and time a... (read in full...)
I want to know how I can trust her again and forget about this.
Q. Ok... I'm back again, I have forgave her for sleeping with my friends who are not around any more. I want to know how I can trust her again and forget about this. We might not have been together when she done this, but if your not together then ...
A. 20 January 2009: Ok, if your not living with her I think its best to have a little space for a while. write to her, email her phone her or see her in person. Either way do it once so you know she'll read it or hear it. Ask her if she still wants to be with you (make ... (read in full...)
I cannot bear the thought of another man looking at me, never mind touching me...
Q. Twelve months ago I had a disastrous encounter with a guy I considered a friend who I really fell in love with and thought he felt the same. I trusted him implicitly. Never ever found out why but he cut me dead and was extremely weird and nasty. I ...
A. 19 January 2009: Firstly, it is certianly NOT your fault in any way. You seemed to have done the right thing all the way. But what I can definatley tell you is that he is a foolish man that does not deserve someone like you ever. And here's why:
I believe he liked... (read in full...)
I cannot bear the thought of another man looking at me, never mind touching me...
Q. Twelve months ago I had a disastrous encounter with a guy I considered a friend who I really fell in love with and thought he felt the same. I trusted him implicitly. Never ever found out why but he cut me dead and was extremely weird and nasty. I ...
A. 19 January 2009: What exactly did he do that was so bad?
We need more info from you to provide optimal help.
If he cut you off for no reason it was likely due to a number of factors, im guessing it was sexual based? (please elaborate on what exactly happened... (read in full...)
People are telling me my girlfriend has been making out with her ex!
Q. I have been dating this girl for like 5 months and she hangs out with a lot of other guys and she flirts with them all. Most of the teenagers go to this teen town thing on Friday and Saturday's, well I went on Friday but she couldn't go because she ...
A. 19 January 2009: You should have been tough on her the 1st time and not let it go. What ever you did it sort of gave her permission to keep doing it. If she's done it to you that many times already, id seriously think about moving on and leaving her (if she's not ... (read in full...)
Wet dreams a lot...
Q. Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy and I masturbate a lot about lesbians and my sexy science teacher mrs Sugiama and one night I didn't masturbate and I had a wet dream about her giving me a blowjob and the next night it was lesbian porn please help dear ...
A. 19 January 2009: This is totally normal at your age mate. If the twisted dreams are freaking you out then flog more so they go away.
Cheers.... (read in full...)
Do you think maybe he likes me?
Q. I am 20 years old and there is this guy who works at the same place as me but in a different department, who is 22 years old. I always catch him staring at me, and when we talk he looks right into my eyes. Whenever I walk past him, his eyes fo...
A. 19 January 2009: Yes, he certainly likes you! Ask him out for a coffee or for lunch. After one or two lunches/breaks, ask if he wants to hang out one weekend. by then he may already have asked you, this will show him you like him too. Don't let it pass you by.
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His penis was twitching violently!!!!!
Q. OK, so this is probably going to sound very stupid to everyone reading this, I'm a little embarrassed about it myself. Basically, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a few weeks and when we were in bed together and things got pretty heated, I ...
A. 19 January 2009: We can also control it. Lol, he's probably doing it on purpose!... (read in full...)
I want her back but she won't hardly look at me
Q. Me and my gf had been going out foe 5 months before we broke up one week ago. We were each other's first make out partner all the way to oral sex in this time. All of the people in school said we were a beautiful couple and we were perfect for each ...
A. 19 January 2009: If you want to be your friend and not her lover. then you need to give it some time and space. But speak to her about this, say to her you want to still be friends and mean it, then agree to meet up in six months time and it should be fine. However ... (read in full...)
I want to know how I can trust her again and forget about this.
Q. Ok... I'm back again, I have forgave her for sleeping with my friends who are not around any more. I want to know how I can trust her again and forget about this. We might not have been together when she done this, but if your not together then ...
A. 14 January 2009: The best thing is to just love her, as you are, and do new things to build the relationship back up again. Take her somwhere special, a place that is your own, tell her you love her.
You need to get it out of your head, don't ever use it againsed... (read in full...)
What was this wet spot on his pants?
Q. While my boyfriend and I were messing around the other night; like heavy petting and stuff; he got wet down there. It was after he'd been rubbing my boobs for a while, he stopped and just grabbed his dick. All our clothes were still on, he had just ...
A. 12 January 2009: Wow you must have really turned him on! Well done!... (read in full...)
Should I tell her how I feel, even though we live in different cities, or just let it go?
Q. During my last summer job (in another city), I met a nice girl who I ended up being friends with. After the job I moved back for school and still talk to her to her occasionally online. But I've also had a crush on her but never told her how I feel ...
A. 11 January 2009: If you've built a good solid friendship with her and you really like her a lot take the next step and tell her you like her and your feelings (try to tell her in person). If you really like her, its worth knowing that you gave it a try otherwise you ... (read in full...)
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