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What if you can't be together because of circumstance? What are the options?

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Question - (22 December 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *itty_3 writes:

If you can't be with someone for the moment due to circumstance, what can you do? Give up? I don't want to go on with life always wondering "what if." But if you're both going your separate ways in just a year, what else can you do? Make a vow to meet up later in life? I doubt those work.

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A female reader, kitty_3 United States +, writes (24 December 2008):

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kitty_3 agony auntthat's the problem: i'm going to college; he's taking a gap-year and staying at home. when he goes, we prob wouldn't end up at the same place anyway.

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (23 December 2008):

Griffo agony auntI'd just tell him you wanna be with him so be honest. Im in the same circumstances too but i got a nooooooo! lol.

If your with him see if he wants to make a life with you after school, find aout about his career, what college if he's going college and go to the same one. or if he's not going to college/uni just ask him about after school and see if he wants to stay with you. just try to be near him wherever he goes... and he should be doing the same.

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A male reader, ForbiddenHELL United States +, writes (22 December 2008):

Engage him in conversation about after high school, and then ask weather you can tell him a secret, then look him in the eye and say "i don't want to loose you after high school."

or just say it flat out if he doesn't know you like him.

That's what I'd do.

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A female reader, kitty_3 United States +, writes (22 December 2008):

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kitty_3 agony auntNo, no! Not married.

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A male reader, Ed1337 United Kingdom +, writes (22 December 2008):

Ed1337 agony auntWith todays technology you can keep in touch with anyone in the world at any time, so why not keep in touch with him and see how things go?

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