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Im only 20 but ive been through alot of nasty hard times in my life and as ive seen many counsellors and spent many nights with friends crying on my shoulder i always seem to offer them good advice so have a reputation of being a great listener and a good adviser among my friends. I have a fantastic boyfriend who i love dearly but he is away alot as he is in the army so i have plenty of nights where im able to come on here and help others.

Im a friendly girl with alot of love and support to give and also am a memember of a forum for all sorts of problems, including self harming,depression and eating disorders so if you ever feel you need some extra advice from people who have those ghosts just ask.

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I can't tell him that I'm unsure of our relationship b/c his best friend just died - I can't hurt him anymore!

Q. Im so unsure what to do i have been seeing my current boyfriend for a month and its very long distance and ive only seen him a few times in that time. And im going through alot of things this year including the sudden passing of my grandad and i ...

A. 18 September 2007: Wll my first serious relationship was with a man 7 years older then me it seemed great he moved down to be with me then i moved in with him he lost his job and i had 3 to pay rent he then accused me of cheating and kicked me out and then posted ... (read in full...)

She laughed of my body as we were getting intimate. What should I do?

Q. Me and my girlfriend were "getting in the mood", but when I dropped my pants she laughed and said I was small. What should I do?...

A. 16 September 2007: That was really cruel and nasty you need to get rid of her and find someone better who isnt so immature after all size doesnt matter its what you can do for her that matters.... (read in full...)

I can't tell him that I'm unsure of our relationship b/c his best friend just died - I can't hurt him anymore!

A. 16 September 2007: Thank you for all your replies ive just kept things the same as they were before he is one of the few people who know about my past and my rape/drugs/ self harming and sexual and physical abuse and actualy didnt run a mile when i told him, and ive ... (read in full...)

Thought I was over her. but I'm not! Any tips?

Q. i thought i was over this girl i was with, but i just looked at her myspace. it said "in a relationship" and it really hurt me, so obviously im not over her. i was with her for 7 months, and split 7 months ago, why is it taking me so long to get ...

A. 14 September 2007: It always hurts when someone you care for finds someone new but its life people fall in and out of love/lust all the time, but moving on is the only way to stop hurting. Ex's are ex's for a reason. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is demanding about sex and caused me serious pain last time. I love him, but I don't know what to do.

Q. i have this problem, my bf treats me like a sex toy, every time we see each other he demands a god 3 hour sex sesson. though i allow him to have sex with me, i feel that it is just to satisfy him and not for our relationship. we have been together ...

A. 14 September 2007: This really doesnt sound like much of a relationship it sounds like your really being used by a complete jerk it doesnt seem like he respects you, dump him and move onto someone who will treat you how you deserve to be treated and who wont use your ... (read in full...)

I'm new to sex and having trouble with premature ejaculation. Any advice??

Q. Hi, I'm a 19 yr old male and I have just recently began my sex life. My problem is, sex is very short. I believe this is because foreplay lasts too long. By the time we get around to sex, I'm not as hard as I could be, and I ejaculate really...

A. 14 September 2007: My ex had the same problem but we took a friends advice and when he got closer he would pull out or stop till the urge passed and it seemed to work. Once your more experienced im sure you will be fine so dont worry think it happens to most guys ... (read in full...)

I had sex, but the condom broke and he came ouside me and onto my stomach, should I be worried?

Q. Last Friday I had sex, but the condom broke and he came ouside me and onto my stomach, should I be worried? I'm not experienced with sex and I didn't think anything of it until my boyfriend said he was kind of freaked out. I was at my most fertile ...

A. 14 September 2007: It could be possible but sounds unlikely but if you are really worried get a pregnancy test just to put your mind at rest. ... (read in full...)

I left my bf of over 7 years after finding out he was member of a sex chat and hsi net profiles were stated single. Overreacting?

Q. Im 23. I left my boyfriend of 7 years just 3 weeks ago, because i found out he was looking at porn, was a member of a sex chat site (1 that i know of), and he was chatting to many girls and his profiles were stated SINGLE. I only found out due to...

A. 14 September 2007: When someone puts single on there profile on a sex site there only looking for one thing, you didnt over react at all you did what most people would do dont regret your decision, you dont need him in your life you will find someone better. ... (read in full...)

Embarassed about online dating

Q. Embarassed about online dating Hi everyone, This may sound really silly, but I find myself feeling embarassed about using an online dating site. Only one of my friends knows I am on Agematch.com and that is because we both joined together!...

A. 14 September 2007: Looking online to meet someone is how loads of people meet dont be embarressed about it and dont lie about how you met and if you dont want to admit you met through an online dating site just say you met in a chatroom. I met my best friend online ... (read in full...)